Aright everyone, looks like day game at Radford University is indeed will be over, since im graduating college in a week. There were many good times i had. I remember back when i was in freshman year of college, wanting to approach...but didnt' had the balls. All it took was what Anthony Robbins calls, "The Breaking Point"...to where i couldn't take it anymore and wanted to do something about it.
Since Summer of 2006, i've been at it...pursuing my dream of becoming a Playboy. I remember the first time i ever flat out approached in the day time. I was so scared, it was hilarious. I asked a girl to help me out with getting a box of chocolates for my sister(Indirect opener) She responded neutral, i was so nervous. Was funny. But i was so proud i did it. That day i felt like i sucked...BUT it was eyeopening. I was more motivated to get this shit handled.
Then that fall, I found myself again and decided to start anew again...working from Social Anxiety up. Sure i still had a good deal of limiting beliefs and managed to get a few day2s, i ultimately was less afraid to approach girls.
The Next Year, I started to approach directly and was shocked that girls responded real well to it but then as i joined a frat, i got lazy.
Then this year of 2008, been consistent with day game on campus for 8 months. Lets just say...its been one hell of a journey. I've met atleast 200 girls by now...and was able to meet up with 17 of them in the form of an insta-date or day 2. That isn't that bad so far i'd say lol.
Being able to go up to a woman u really fancy was what i wanted in life, and i finally am able to do it. My forever goal of laying girls from day game is still my bread and butter dream in this whole thing and I believe it will happen. Just will take more time and experience.
Today in the cafeteria, i decided to do one more approach with this hot big tit and ass brunette girl who was wearing sweatpants...was sitting with a friend. She responded well and was pretty receptive. Meeting was pointless since finals are this week. I only needed that for a farewell...nothing more. I've left my mark here at Radford University. I am proud i decided to game the way i wanted to, rather than feel i could only do it via social circle. Knowing that i no longer am afraid and can go for what i want has given me enlightment, peace and acceptance.
BUT, College Day Game is just starting. I have three other colleges to go for that. Mary Washington, George Mason and University of Maryland. The new chapter of this journey will begin in January. I still got malls in the real world to do as well, i just won't have as much time but i'll practice there as well.
But i have to say that me being able to meet up with girls in a more socially pressured environment whom i randomly went up to is a testament that im on the right track. Sure maybe many of the hotties have flaked on me, BUT i'm def gonna lay quite a few hotties in the future...u can count on that! I'm gonna keep doing what i'm doing. I won't stop till I succeed with this. You can count on that!
Radford might be over with, but not gaming. That will never stop, even when i am settled down someday. This blog will still probably be around by then.
I wonder what awaits in 2009 for Strictly Mall Game, and the Other Uni's? :-)
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Sunday, December 14, 2008
12/4 PART II...The Ringing is Gone...
My thoughts at 2:07 AM....
4 YEARS LATER...
The Present I:
It was bout 6 PM at the cafeteria...im sitting by myself...go in a line and see a really hot blonde. I stop her directly, but she was on a rush and wanted to sit down. I'm glad that i no longer had to have things ring in my mind...
The Present II:
Saw these two hot girls sitting down. Was my junior year....had rapport with them....the brunette at first didn't like me, while the blonde did. Got the blonde's number. Could've met up with her if i didn't give up after i couldn't meet up with her the first time. A year later, the brunette is happy to see me...knows that i hit on lots of girls in the cafeteria but it attracts her :-). Im glad it no longer had to ring in my mind...
The Present III:
Never really went to another tutor session, but lets just say i gave it a shot at the computer lab with hot girls, even if nothing came out of it....atleast it no longer rang in my mind...
The Present IV:
Was a party senior year...this cute brunette is smiling at me. I go over to her, talk to her and stuff, kinda mess things up....BUT...I'm glad it no longer has to ring in my mind...
The Present V:
Yesterday night, Was at Attitudes, was by myself...saw these two hot girls...one of them was a redhead with nice cleaveage ;-)....i lead her and she liked it. Eventho she was engaged, i knew i was gaming game :-)
The Present VI:
If only i could go back in time with this one, BUT i know if the situation happened again...things would be rolling! :-D
The Prsent VII:
Drank Coffee with this girl with nice tits and really was good looking when she dolled up. Had a nice conversation, almost had her come over. It no longer had to ring in my mind...
The Present VIII:
The girl who was in that class from Past VIII, i gave it a shot with her. She smiled at when she saw me walking. When i went up to her, she acted polite/aloof when her sorority sisters were around. Turns out that she was just feeling social pressure...it no longer had to ring in my mind....
IT NO LONGER DOES! I FULFILLED MY GOAL! GOING FOR THE SHOTS!
4 YEARS LATER...
The Present I:
It was bout 6 PM at the cafeteria...im sitting by myself...go in a line and see a really hot blonde. I stop her directly, but she was on a rush and wanted to sit down. I'm glad that i no longer had to have things ring in my mind...
The Present II:
Saw these two hot girls sitting down. Was my junior year....had rapport with them....the brunette at first didn't like me, while the blonde did. Got the blonde's number. Could've met up with her if i didn't give up after i couldn't meet up with her the first time. A year later, the brunette is happy to see me...knows that i hit on lots of girls in the cafeteria but it attracts her :-). Im glad it no longer had to ring in my mind...
The Present III:
Never really went to another tutor session, but lets just say i gave it a shot at the computer lab with hot girls, even if nothing came out of it....atleast it no longer rang in my mind...
The Present IV:
Was a party senior year...this cute brunette is smiling at me. I go over to her, talk to her and stuff, kinda mess things up....BUT...I'm glad it no longer has to ring in my mind...
The Present V:
Yesterday night, Was at Attitudes, was by myself...saw these two hot girls...one of them was a redhead with nice cleaveage ;-)....i lead her and she liked it. Eventho she was engaged, i knew i was gaming game :-)
The Present VI:
If only i could go back in time with this one, BUT i know if the situation happened again...things would be rolling! :-D
The Prsent VII:
Drank Coffee with this girl with nice tits and really was good looking when she dolled up. Had a nice conversation, almost had her come over. It no longer had to ring in my mind...
The Present VIII:
The girl who was in that class from Past VIII, i gave it a shot with her. She smiled at when she saw me walking. When i went up to her, she acted polite/aloof when her sorority sisters were around. Turns out that she was just feeling social pressure...it no longer had to ring in my mind....
IT NO LONGER DOES! I FULFILLED MY GOAL! GOING FOR THE SHOTS!
12/14 PART I: Rang in my mind....
My thoughts at 1:52 AM....
The Past I:
It was 12:00PM My freshman year, 1st semester. I'm with about 6 other of my dormmates sitting down and eating. I then notice...a hot black haired girl tap one of my friends in the shoulder smiling(He was a rugby player and was cambodian), he continued talking. In my mind i was like, "Wow...he's so lucky" I told myself, "If only i could stand a chance...i'd be able to get a girl like that"
The Past II:
It was my semester semester and i sit with two of my dormmates, two black guys. We notice these two HOT blondes sitting down. One of them was atleast a 9. She was hot as hell. My black friend said to one of them, "She's prolly stuck up" I was shocked at how hot she was. "Wow...she's so hot...if only i stood a chance"
The Past III:
Was my sophmore year, was in a tutor session with this HOT blonde with glasses with such NICE tits, blonde hair and red shirt. My god...this girl was super hot. I still get crazy thinking about her. Wats funny is she was nice. After the tutor session was done, She talked to me a minute joking about the class. I laughed with her. "If only i stood a chance" rang in my mind
The Past IV:
Was a party sophmore year. This hot blonde was smiling at me. I wanted to go up to her and talk to her. But i was afraid to. "I don't know what to say to her"" rang in my mind
The Past V:
Was at Attitudes, went with my friend who got some good game. I danced with this curly haired girl who danced fast. I wanted to hook up with her. Didn't know how. My friend, he danced with this girl, hit her up so her and her friend could come over. We went to joe's diner. The girl i liked was on the phone, while he and his girl talked with each other. I tried to talk to her, but she was occupied. "I wish i had game" Rang in my mind...
The Past VI:
Was the Quadfest/Mardy Gras weekend at the uni. Was at a nearby house. This Slim, VERY HOT BIG TIT girl with a cap was drunk and was standing there. She was waiting to be talked to. I couldn't do anything. I couldn't do a damn thing. I didn't know what to say. "If only...." Rang in my mind
The Past VII:
Went to drink coffee with this really cute tall lanky Blonde girl with a panther like face ;-). She was nice and everything, but i couldn't do things. I tried to meet up with her again but she didn't want to. "If only i had game..." Rang in my mind.
The Past VIII:
Was in class for my final exam, saw this brunette cutie sorority girl looking at me....i look back and do a peace hand sign...but was def shy lol..."If only i could game her" rang in my mind....
All of this rang in my mind....would i be doomed forever? Would I forever always regret and always feel like i could never get the success I wanted?
The Past I:
It was 12:00PM My freshman year, 1st semester. I'm with about 6 other of my dormmates sitting down and eating. I then notice...a hot black haired girl tap one of my friends in the shoulder smiling(He was a rugby player and was cambodian), he continued talking. In my mind i was like, "Wow...he's so lucky" I told myself, "If only i could stand a chance...i'd be able to get a girl like that"
The Past II:
It was my semester semester and i sit with two of my dormmates, two black guys. We notice these two HOT blondes sitting down. One of them was atleast a 9. She was hot as hell. My black friend said to one of them, "She's prolly stuck up" I was shocked at how hot she was. "Wow...she's so hot...if only i stood a chance"
The Past III:
Was my sophmore year, was in a tutor session with this HOT blonde with glasses with such NICE tits, blonde hair and red shirt. My god...this girl was super hot. I still get crazy thinking about her. Wats funny is she was nice. After the tutor session was done, She talked to me a minute joking about the class. I laughed with her. "If only i stood a chance" rang in my mind
The Past IV:
Was a party sophmore year. This hot blonde was smiling at me. I wanted to go up to her and talk to her. But i was afraid to. "I don't know what to say to her"" rang in my mind
The Past V:
Was at Attitudes, went with my friend who got some good game. I danced with this curly haired girl who danced fast. I wanted to hook up with her. Didn't know how. My friend, he danced with this girl, hit her up so her and her friend could come over. We went to joe's diner. The girl i liked was on the phone, while he and his girl talked with each other. I tried to talk to her, but she was occupied. "I wish i had game" Rang in my mind...
The Past VI:
Was the Quadfest/Mardy Gras weekend at the uni. Was at a nearby house. This Slim, VERY HOT BIG TIT girl with a cap was drunk and was standing there. She was waiting to be talked to. I couldn't do anything. I couldn't do a damn thing. I didn't know what to say. "If only...." Rang in my mind
The Past VII:
Went to drink coffee with this really cute tall lanky Blonde girl with a panther like face ;-). She was nice and everything, but i couldn't do things. I tried to meet up with her again but she didn't want to. "If only i had game..." Rang in my mind.
The Past VIII:
Was in class for my final exam, saw this brunette cutie sorority girl looking at me....i look back and do a peace hand sign...but was def shy lol..."If only i could game her" rang in my mind....
All of this rang in my mind....would i be doomed forever? Would I forever always regret and always feel like i could never get the success I wanted?
12/13 The Makeout Trials at Attitudes: Bar with a dancefloor
Aright everyone, i haven't really done much FRs...as i usually post them in my blog put i'll put some down here for now on....
Aright tonight was pretty funny....one of my acquaintences tells me on campus that in Blacksburg, a.k.a VATEch, Attitudes, a college bar, was gonna be poppin.
When i get there....it sucked. No one was dancing, not that many girls to choose from it blew.
But then when it got better, things started rolling.
#1 Three set of a fatty, an aright looking chick and a short cute southern belle late 20s blonde. I introduce myself going direct, the fatty cockblocks me off the bat, but ignore...the other friend doesn't say anything...while the target girl isn't feeling me much. After a bit, i tell the blonde girl to tell me about herself, to where she says, "I don't want to" I then leave. There were too many other girls to worry about.
#2 Was a 4 set, a pretty faced cute blonde, a cute dark haired brunette, a pretty cute brunette and a dude. I open them by saying, "I find you all cute and i wanted to meet you all :-)"
They're receptive and i introduce myself to all of them. Talk to them for a minute asking them when its usually popping and stuff and they tell me. The one i wanted to, a 7.8 brunette who was slim, midlengthed hair, skinny nose, nice cleavage i gave her more attention. I didn't get cockblocked or anything. I talked to the dude for a few seconds, he was friendly. I asked them all how they know each other. The target girl says that they're all best friends(I knew things were fine now since the dude wasn't dating the brunette girl). So then its just me and her. I tell her, "Tell me about herself'
She tells me she goes to so and so uni, and she had 3 kids. I ask her, "Where's the hubby at?" She tells me, "What are u talking about? He cheated on me and stuff" I was like "ohhh....wait...how old are u?" She tells me, "29 :-)" I say, "shut up :-)"...and give a very exaggeratedly shocked demeanor..."There's no way in HELL ur 29...Shoot me now!" She laughs a bit.
Then i tell her, "Well...we're gonna have some fun tonight...and thats all matters." She says yea. Also tells me she likes American Eagle stuff and says she doesn't like Express when i tell her what i like. I tease her and tell, "What?! U hate express...oh c'mon now...i thought we were cool....well too bad...since we both don't like each others brands...its more meant to be :-P" she giggles again.
after that i try to isolate her to sit down. She doesn't want. I try to persuade her a lil, no go but she there still seems to be some interest. I'd say my kino was good. I touching necklace, ask where it is, touch her arms and stuff, slide my hands down. She wasn't resisting or anything. Then i play with her hair asking about it, she telling me she likes it long......i then tell her, "Oh u shouldn't had cut it....its so not gonna work out :-p" She knew i was flirting and seemed to not mind it. After that i then go for the kiss. She turns her face, with a funny face asking, "Were u trying to smell my hair? =-p"
I tell her, "No :-) I was trying to kiss you" She has a shocked laugh in her face, she was laughing a bit. I tell her, "I so want to kiss those nice lips of urs ;-)" She laughs again. I could tell that she was intrigued a little. But then i talk with her somemore, take her hand...try to take her with me to go dance, but she tells me she's got to be drunk. I tell her, "thats the same excuse all girls have :-p" After that, i can see her attention is waning, so i part ways, try to kiss her again, but then she shakes her saying no.
Lesson learned: More Sexual Tension. I think it was good i attempted to isolate and her stuff, since if a girl isn't willing to just sit down with u, how do u expect her to take her home?
#3 Was another 3 set. Were two sisters, a blonde, a redhead and a dude with a deep guage ear piercing. I go direct on them. They're pretty receptive. I didn't get to see the redhead but my god...she was def hot. She had REALLY NICE cleave, great sized tits. Was funny. They were nice and receptive. The best looking girls i went up to the entire night. The dude is pretty tight, i ask him about his ear piercings and shit and how its cool. He's chill, i talk wiht the girls for a few minutes, playing the guessing game with them. tell the redhead she reminded me of my first ever girlfriend, her being jewish, redhead, and having the name Erica.
They all crack up and tell me that she's irish and not Jewish. then I tell her, "oh thats it....ur coming with me...to dance..." So then i take her hand and pull her with me and we walk to the dance floor. She laughs, looks at her sister with a shocked face. The dude and the blonde come with us and we all dance. It was funny. Me and the redhead are getting into it. After 2 minutes while dancing, i go try to make out with her, but then she shows me her wedding ring. I sensed genuineness...so then i decided to let things go but we part ways in a good note.
#4 Curly haired thick girl on the dance floor with a tatoo on her back. While she's dancing with her friends, i take her hand and pull her toward me. She's pretty excited, we introduce each other. I see a blonde milf, put my hand out for her to shake, she shakes her head no, was funny. I think she was thinking i wanted her to dance with me and stuff, but that wasn't my intention. So then the curly haired girl told me she was guy just so i would know, i smile...tell her..."Lets find out :-)" I then touch both sides of her face, holding her face and go try to make out, but she pulls away...shocked....grabs her friends hands and storm out of the dance foor...everyone saw me...it was pretty hilarous.
Rest of the night just danced the night away really. Made out with a big girl but thats all. Met a thick girl with big tits and glasses. She was a lesbian and the girl she was dating didn't want me to dance with her(the glasses girl told me that her gf gets jealous easy)....oh yea, saw another girl with glasses with nice cleavage on the top of the stage of the dance floor. I was a bit intimidated to go for it at first cuz i thought i would get blown out, but i said, "Fuck it" and go up to them, take her hand, she looks back at me and is like "no hahah" then the fatty and afew other friends get mad and cockblock me, the fatty tells me "that girl and guy over there will punch u in the face" I laugh my ass off so bad. Dance with a couple more girls and call it quits.
Lesson Learned:
-Bring out a bit more sexual tension
-Don't have to try to persuade a girl so much, do it by actions not words :-)
-After i try for the kiss or get the kiss...keep the energy good...act as if it isn't a big deal or that it didn't matter much( A makeout or a kiss is only a preview for whats to come later in the night and to have that sexual tension in her mind)
-I've improved Kiss closing attempts majorily
-I did this all without any alcohol period.
-As always, Direct Style suits me.
Aright tonight was pretty funny....one of my acquaintences tells me on campus that in Blacksburg, a.k.a VATEch, Attitudes, a college bar, was gonna be poppin.
When i get there....it sucked. No one was dancing, not that many girls to choose from it blew.
But then when it got better, things started rolling.
#1 Three set of a fatty, an aright looking chick and a short cute southern belle late 20s blonde. I introduce myself going direct, the fatty cockblocks me off the bat, but ignore...the other friend doesn't say anything...while the target girl isn't feeling me much. After a bit, i tell the blonde girl to tell me about herself, to where she says, "I don't want to" I then leave. There were too many other girls to worry about.
#2 Was a 4 set, a pretty faced cute blonde, a cute dark haired brunette, a pretty cute brunette and a dude. I open them by saying, "I find you all cute and i wanted to meet you all :-)"
They're receptive and i introduce myself to all of them. Talk to them for a minute asking them when its usually popping and stuff and they tell me. The one i wanted to, a 7.8 brunette who was slim, midlengthed hair, skinny nose, nice cleavage i gave her more attention. I didn't get cockblocked or anything. I talked to the dude for a few seconds, he was friendly. I asked them all how they know each other. The target girl says that they're all best friends(I knew things were fine now since the dude wasn't dating the brunette girl). So then its just me and her. I tell her, "Tell me about herself'
She tells me she goes to so and so uni, and she had 3 kids. I ask her, "Where's the hubby at?" She tells me, "What are u talking about? He cheated on me and stuff" I was like "ohhh....wait...how old are u?" She tells me, "29 :-)" I say, "shut up :-)"...and give a very exaggeratedly shocked demeanor..."There's no way in HELL ur 29...Shoot me now!" She laughs a bit.
Then i tell her, "Well...we're gonna have some fun tonight...and thats all matters." She says yea. Also tells me she likes American Eagle stuff and says she doesn't like Express when i tell her what i like. I tease her and tell, "What?! U hate express...oh c'mon now...i thought we were cool....well too bad...since we both don't like each others brands...its more meant to be :-P" she giggles again.
after that i try to isolate her to sit down. She doesn't want. I try to persuade her a lil, no go but she there still seems to be some interest. I'd say my kino was good. I touching necklace, ask where it is, touch her arms and stuff, slide my hands down. She wasn't resisting or anything. Then i play with her hair asking about it, she telling me she likes it long......i then tell her, "Oh u shouldn't had cut it....its so not gonna work out :-p" She knew i was flirting and seemed to not mind it. After that i then go for the kiss. She turns her face, with a funny face asking, "Were u trying to smell my hair? =-p"
I tell her, "No :-) I was trying to kiss you" She has a shocked laugh in her face, she was laughing a bit. I tell her, "I so want to kiss those nice lips of urs ;-)" She laughs again. I could tell that she was intrigued a little. But then i talk with her somemore, take her hand...try to take her with me to go dance, but she tells me she's got to be drunk. I tell her, "thats the same excuse all girls have :-p" After that, i can see her attention is waning, so i part ways, try to kiss her again, but then she shakes her saying no.
Lesson learned: More Sexual Tension. I think it was good i attempted to isolate and her stuff, since if a girl isn't willing to just sit down with u, how do u expect her to take her home?
#3 Was another 3 set. Were two sisters, a blonde, a redhead and a dude with a deep guage ear piercing. I go direct on them. They're pretty receptive. I didn't get to see the redhead but my god...she was def hot. She had REALLY NICE cleave, great sized tits. Was funny. They were nice and receptive. The best looking girls i went up to the entire night. The dude is pretty tight, i ask him about his ear piercings and shit and how its cool. He's chill, i talk wiht the girls for a few minutes, playing the guessing game with them. tell the redhead she reminded me of my first ever girlfriend, her being jewish, redhead, and having the name Erica.
They all crack up and tell me that she's irish and not Jewish. then I tell her, "oh thats it....ur coming with me...to dance..." So then i take her hand and pull her with me and we walk to the dance floor. She laughs, looks at her sister with a shocked face. The dude and the blonde come with us and we all dance. It was funny. Me and the redhead are getting into it. After 2 minutes while dancing, i go try to make out with her, but then she shows me her wedding ring. I sensed genuineness...so then i decided to let things go but we part ways in a good note.
#4 Curly haired thick girl on the dance floor with a tatoo on her back. While she's dancing with her friends, i take her hand and pull her toward me. She's pretty excited, we introduce each other. I see a blonde milf, put my hand out for her to shake, she shakes her head no, was funny. I think she was thinking i wanted her to dance with me and stuff, but that wasn't my intention. So then the curly haired girl told me she was guy just so i would know, i smile...tell her..."Lets find out :-)" I then touch both sides of her face, holding her face and go try to make out, but she pulls away...shocked....grabs her friends hands and storm out of the dance foor...everyone saw me...it was pretty hilarous.
Rest of the night just danced the night away really. Made out with a big girl but thats all. Met a thick girl with big tits and glasses. She was a lesbian and the girl she was dating didn't want me to dance with her(the glasses girl told me that her gf gets jealous easy)....oh yea, saw another girl with glasses with nice cleavage on the top of the stage of the dance floor. I was a bit intimidated to go for it at first cuz i thought i would get blown out, but i said, "Fuck it" and go up to them, take her hand, she looks back at me and is like "no hahah" then the fatty and afew other friends get mad and cockblock me, the fatty tells me "that girl and guy over there will punch u in the face" I laugh my ass off so bad. Dance with a couple more girls and call it quits.
Lesson Learned:
-Bring out a bit more sexual tension
-Don't have to try to persuade a girl so much, do it by actions not words :-)
-After i try for the kiss or get the kiss...keep the energy good...act as if it isn't a big deal or that it didn't matter much( A makeout or a kiss is only a preview for whats to come later in the night and to have that sexual tension in her mind)
-I've improved Kiss closing attempts majorily
-I did this all without any alcohol period.
-As always, Direct Style suits me.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
12/5-12/7 Realizations and Sky's Thoughts
12/5
Aright, Friday Night i went to game at my friends' apartment as they were having another party. This night was meh. Only some girls to choose from. Most of the girls weren't interested/quite a bit of shields. I could've persisted, which was definitely what i should've did...but i guess i found no point in it. After not encountering them for a while, u tend to sometimes forget to go through shields. I guess a certain fear of mine while im not at my normal state in the game is when they say, "Go away" in a pissed off manner, plus i would've felt embarrased. But even if it happens, i know that i wouldn't take that shit.
I then heard one of my friends that was with the blonde girl, he and her hooked up with each other. I felt down, because if only i told the guy that i wanted to talk to her tonight and didn't give it up, i could've had some sex with her. BUT, thats ok. It happens. The rest of the night, was meh...the girls weren't feeling me...while a couple kept looking back at me and shit...as they remember me going up to them. Hell, one kept checking my reaction when she was making out with a guy. Was on the funny side.haha.
But it was an ok night, some nights are meh while others are good. This night just wasn't it.
12/6
Didn't really game today at all. Went to the same apt haha.
12/7
Cafeteria, went up to this cute black chick with nice tits who we shared eye contact and she broke away first, raised both my eye brows before hand. Went up to her and her friendly. She was pretty receptive. Had the look of shock when i went to get both of their numbers, invited them to come with me to a dance floor/bar this upcoming saturday night.lol.
Sky's Thoughts
Oh yea, here's a good quote i found that is testatement to what i believe in the abundance principle.
"Girls who give me harsh rejections...1st don't want to fuck and 2nd dont like confident masculine men because they know that they cant manipulate them for having sex with them, so i can weed all those chicks out."
A good quote to live by gentlman!
Also i found that even though girls flake on me or reject me, still show interest, because im not so easily manipulated and i didn't chase after them...like other guys do. They see me in a different light. Plus that in the back of their minds, since i was confident, masculine and had a good vibe, it triggered something in them that they remember me for.
Also i've heard a few guys that afew girls on campus have said i've been creepy. And why is that? BECAUSE...I APPROACH LOTS OF GIRLS. Thats all. :-) And you know what's funny? When they've been asked how doing that is creepy, they can't respond to that. Thats where the real answer lies. They deep down aren't creeped out by it, they just feel that they aren't allowed to like a guy who has options and goes for what he wants. Remember...we need to look at these girls' actions not the words by themselves. These are young 18-20 yr. old girls whom aren't use to this and don't know how to handle it or react to his. hell one girl i had an insta-date with, i texted her of me and her having alone time, "mode one" style...she said she had a bf, and stuff which i def found hard to believe.
A random guy uses her phone saying, "that im prolly a nice guy but i creeped her out", leaving a voice mail. Its funny, i see her around the cafeteria months later...she keeps looking at me but not the "creeped out" look but more of the previous girls who do. I'm glad to hear that some girl might find me creepy, because its such a useless word and im doing something right if there are people who don't like what i'm doing and that they are weeded out.
There is definitely a risk that u'll be seen that way, cold approaching on campus. But its all been worth it. I wouldn't change that at all.
Also i ultimately realized me not getting laid this year of 2008 was not because of my pure lack of ability(Course something i had to improve on overtime) but more on the lines of it just wasn't the right place. Too hard of logistics, so many social pressures in the girl's mind, the girls being so insecure with each other, etc...all i had to encounter just to fuck, oh yea and missing out the opportunities that were right there. But its all been worth it to where it'll give me huge success in the future.
Atleast me being able to go up to the girls i wanted, meeting up with a few of them atleast took some form of ability.
I think the real world and the other colleges will suit me better, because everything works to my favor. There are less social circles, everyone is more on an equal playing field, the logistics are easier, the very hotties respond better to my game rather than the ones i feel i have to game because im more of a masculine man, more opportunities, and more to do. After i graduate, the real adventures start and things will become much more interesting. Hell, i have a few wings i'm definitely going to meet up with, named Alex. We're going to really do well in DC this year. I can't wait, this will be hella fun!
Aright, Friday Night i went to game at my friends' apartment as they were having another party. This night was meh. Only some girls to choose from. Most of the girls weren't interested/quite a bit of shields. I could've persisted, which was definitely what i should've did...but i guess i found no point in it. After not encountering them for a while, u tend to sometimes forget to go through shields. I guess a certain fear of mine while im not at my normal state in the game is when they say, "Go away" in a pissed off manner, plus i would've felt embarrased. But even if it happens, i know that i wouldn't take that shit.
I then heard one of my friends that was with the blonde girl, he and her hooked up with each other. I felt down, because if only i told the guy that i wanted to talk to her tonight and didn't give it up, i could've had some sex with her. BUT, thats ok. It happens. The rest of the night, was meh...the girls weren't feeling me...while a couple kept looking back at me and shit...as they remember me going up to them. Hell, one kept checking my reaction when she was making out with a guy. Was on the funny side.haha.
But it was an ok night, some nights are meh while others are good. This night just wasn't it.
12/6
Didn't really game today at all. Went to the same apt haha.
12/7
Cafeteria, went up to this cute black chick with nice tits who we shared eye contact and she broke away first, raised both my eye brows before hand. Went up to her and her friendly. She was pretty receptive. Had the look of shock when i went to get both of their numbers, invited them to come with me to a dance floor/bar this upcoming saturday night.lol.
Sky's Thoughts
Oh yea, here's a good quote i found that is testatement to what i believe in the abundance principle.
"Girls who give me harsh rejections...1st don't want to fuck and 2nd dont like confident masculine men because they know that they cant manipulate them for having sex with them, so i can weed all those chicks out."
A good quote to live by gentlman!
Also i found that even though girls flake on me or reject me, still show interest, because im not so easily manipulated and i didn't chase after them...like other guys do. They see me in a different light. Plus that in the back of their minds, since i was confident, masculine and had a good vibe, it triggered something in them that they remember me for.
Also i've heard a few guys that afew girls on campus have said i've been creepy. And why is that? BECAUSE...I APPROACH LOTS OF GIRLS. Thats all. :-) And you know what's funny? When they've been asked how doing that is creepy, they can't respond to that. Thats where the real answer lies. They deep down aren't creeped out by it, they just feel that they aren't allowed to like a guy who has options and goes for what he wants. Remember...we need to look at these girls' actions not the words by themselves. These are young 18-20 yr. old girls whom aren't use to this and don't know how to handle it or react to his. hell one girl i had an insta-date with, i texted her of me and her having alone time, "mode one" style...she said she had a bf, and stuff which i def found hard to believe.
A random guy uses her phone saying, "that im prolly a nice guy but i creeped her out", leaving a voice mail. Its funny, i see her around the cafeteria months later...she keeps looking at me but not the "creeped out" look but more of the previous girls who do. I'm glad to hear that some girl might find me creepy, because its such a useless word and im doing something right if there are people who don't like what i'm doing and that they are weeded out.
There is definitely a risk that u'll be seen that way, cold approaching on campus. But its all been worth it. I wouldn't change that at all.
Also i ultimately realized me not getting laid this year of 2008 was not because of my pure lack of ability(Course something i had to improve on overtime) but more on the lines of it just wasn't the right place. Too hard of logistics, so many social pressures in the girl's mind, the girls being so insecure with each other, etc...all i had to encounter just to fuck, oh yea and missing out the opportunities that were right there. But its all been worth it to where it'll give me huge success in the future.
Atleast me being able to go up to the girls i wanted, meeting up with a few of them atleast took some form of ability.
I think the real world and the other colleges will suit me better, because everything works to my favor. There are less social circles, everyone is more on an equal playing field, the logistics are easier, the very hotties respond better to my game rather than the ones i feel i have to game because im more of a masculine man, more opportunities, and more to do. After i graduate, the real adventures start and things will become much more interesting. Hell, i have a few wings i'm definitely going to meet up with, named Alex. We're going to really do well in DC this year. I can't wait, this will be hella fun!
Friday, December 5, 2008
11/26 - 12/04 Winding Down
Aright, from Tuesday to Thursday Last week...no gaming.
Friday i went to a small party that was a sausage fest, only 4 girls. Was drunk, tried to kiss all 4...but no go.
Saturday and Sunday, no gaming.
Monday went up to two girls, one of them was a girl i messaged on facebook...she was hot...was def attracted to her. She react well/receptive when i went up to her(She never replied back to my message). She said it was charming and all that. We talked for a bit. Tried to do an insta-date but she already ate, so i sat down next to her(she was sitting in a corner at the student book store killing time for class). So then i get to know her a litle, she's friendly but im not sensing "Genuine Interest" from her. I do get her #, and call hers so she got mine. She calls it sneaky ;-). She is down to earth which was great. :-)
We part ways. I text her a day later, no response, another one claiming she was hard to get, no response. She did say she had texting, as i suspected, my intuition was indeed right.
Tuesday i didn't really game, was tired as hell.
Wednesday, no real gaming except for at night where i gathered the courage to game one of the girls who goes to the place i usually drink at, a certain group of people. I was afraid to game her, because i thought she would react bad and that i would be a loser if she acted weird to when i flat out seduce her, plus i was afraid that everyone else would fit me in the "Hopeless romantic" category. But then i said, "Fuck So and So" and went for it. I grinded with her and she was into it for a few seconds. Then i decided to talk to her for a minute and stuff, tried to isolate her to the couch but she didn't want to but she was nice. I felt proud of myself for giving it a shot. Was funny.
Thursday, was too tired to game. Have lots of school work. couldn't game much this week :-(. I'lll update The wednesday party with a lil more.
Friday i went to a small party that was a sausage fest, only 4 girls. Was drunk, tried to kiss all 4...but no go.
Saturday and Sunday, no gaming.
Monday went up to two girls, one of them was a girl i messaged on facebook...she was hot...was def attracted to her. She react well/receptive when i went up to her(She never replied back to my message). She said it was charming and all that. We talked for a bit. Tried to do an insta-date but she already ate, so i sat down next to her(she was sitting in a corner at the student book store killing time for class). So then i get to know her a litle, she's friendly but im not sensing "Genuine Interest" from her. I do get her #, and call hers so she got mine. She calls it sneaky ;-). She is down to earth which was great. :-)
We part ways. I text her a day later, no response, another one claiming she was hard to get, no response. She did say she had texting, as i suspected, my intuition was indeed right.
Tuesday i didn't really game, was tired as hell.
Wednesday, no real gaming except for at night where i gathered the courage to game one of the girls who goes to the place i usually drink at, a certain group of people. I was afraid to game her, because i thought she would react bad and that i would be a loser if she acted weird to when i flat out seduce her, plus i was afraid that everyone else would fit me in the "Hopeless romantic" category. But then i said, "Fuck So and So" and went for it. I grinded with her and she was into it for a few seconds. Then i decided to talk to her for a minute and stuff, tried to isolate her to the couch but she didn't want to but she was nice. I felt proud of myself for giving it a shot. Was funny.
Thursday, was too tired to game. Have lots of school work. couldn't game much this week :-(. I'lll update The wednesday party with a lil more.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
11/25 Meeting my first ever wing after 2 1/2 years and GMU gaming
Hey everyone, today i visited one of the first two wings i ever had, Alex.
Couldn't recognize him but it seemed like things seem so familiar talking to the guy again. We got along as great as usual. We ate and discussed about game. He was still under the indirect style BUT he's getting day 2s and every thing. I told him about direct, he tried it, didn't do half bad and was liking it. He said that it was eye opening. I was glad :-). He saw me do a few and he noticed how some of the girls reacted as a result, how they really showed interested...even some things i didn't quite see :-). We tried to wing one group but it did ok...lol....
But me and him will absolutely wing in the future.lol.
Oh yea, met this Russian girl outside. She was cute, def attracted to her. Was pretty. We walked around, and i sat with her for 10 minutes....wanted to get her ice cream but she just ate and didn't want any haha....so we just sat down. It was funny she kept stating reasons for her to leave, but she never did. She followed my lead. Was great. But she didn't really have any time for us to meet up...she was always watching kids and every thing. Was thinking of going to GMU to attend, etc. was interesting talking to her. We connected in some levels. It was still good meeting her. I believe i made her day
Couldn't recognize him but it seemed like things seem so familiar talking to the guy again. We got along as great as usual. We ate and discussed about game. He was still under the indirect style BUT he's getting day 2s and every thing. I told him about direct, he tried it, didn't do half bad and was liking it. He said that it was eye opening. I was glad :-). He saw me do a few and he noticed how some of the girls reacted as a result, how they really showed interested...even some things i didn't quite see :-). We tried to wing one group but it did ok...lol....
But me and him will absolutely wing in the future.lol.
Oh yea, met this Russian girl outside. She was cute, def attracted to her. Was pretty. We walked around, and i sat with her for 10 minutes....wanted to get her ice cream but she just ate and didn't want any haha....so we just sat down. It was funny she kept stating reasons for her to leave, but she never did. She followed my lead. Was great. But she didn't really have any time for us to meet up...she was always watching kids and every thing. Was thinking of going to GMU to attend, etc. was interesting talking to her. We connected in some levels. It was still good meeting her. I believe i made her day
11/23: More Gaming at UMW
Aright people, today i did some game at the cafeteria of UMW with Arnaud.
I pretty much went up to four girls, the first seemed caught off guard/shy...had braces...was cute but nothing too special. The second was a cute girl with glasses and black girl, wat i was naturally attracted to...another was a tall brunette with nice cleavage...definitely cute. But thats all for now there.
Def hot girls there, they just a little bit harder to find haha.
I pretty much went up to four girls, the first seemed caught off guard/shy...had braces...was cute but nothing too special. The second was a cute girl with glasses and black girl, wat i was naturally attracted to...another was a tall brunette with nice cleavage...definitely cute. But thats all for now there.
Def hot girls there, they just a little bit harder to find haha.
Sunday, November 23, 2008
11/19-11/21
Aright people, on Wednesday I started to do more 2 set approaches, but I still rusty with that. The big tit girl at the lab from yesterday texted me saying how she would be busy and stuff, which i told her i was glad that she let me know ahead of time. I still think she's def flattered of the idea of meeting up. Called the numbers i had gotten earlier in the week but none of them returned my texts.
Thursday, I stood up all day and got lots of rest. Thursday Night, Went to Rileys again(Haven't gone in a month and was rusty) was an aright night. I had fun, but the rest of the approaches were ok. The problem was that there quite a few girls whom i didn't recognize but that i had gamed already. I've met so many people so its justified.lol. This hot girl i know while i kept dancing and gaming different girls tried to get my attention in obvious ways(covered her hand on my face/tap me on the arm)..(I kinda didn't pay attention, because she was the attention whore/hang around with guys...kind of girl)...but that was it for the night. I think cuz i had alcohol in me, that i didn't give a rats ass about talking much, i just wanted to dance and that was it.
Friday, nothing much happened except i gamed this small hot blonde girl. She was flattered but was taken.
Thats all thus far.
Thursday, I stood up all day and got lots of rest. Thursday Night, Went to Rileys again(Haven't gone in a month and was rusty) was an aright night. I had fun, but the rest of the approaches were ok. The problem was that there quite a few girls whom i didn't recognize but that i had gamed already. I've met so many people so its justified.lol. This hot girl i know while i kept dancing and gaming different girls tried to get my attention in obvious ways(covered her hand on my face/tap me on the arm)..(I kinda didn't pay attention, because she was the attention whore/hang around with guys...kind of girl)...but that was it for the night. I think cuz i had alcohol in me, that i didn't give a rats ass about talking much, i just wanted to dance and that was it.
Friday, nothing much happened except i gamed this small hot blonde girl. She was flattered but was taken.
Thats all thus far.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
11/18 Just Another Day
Aright everyone, today i approached like usual. Took about 30 seconds to approach this girl at starbucks since there were other girls next to her, plus when she looked at me for a sec...i knew i had to go over there. Had a good convo, its 50-50 if anything would even happen, eventho she seemed to have some interest. At work, saw this cute redhead/strawberry blonde think girl. I work at the help desk, helping students with their computers...and once she left the room where my other co-workers were sitting down at(some dudes, a few girls...are college students too)...i then gamed her and got her number, we'll see :-). At the cafeteria, decided to sit next to two girls again for the hell of it, as i know in the last few weeks...im gonna prolly do it a bit more. Also talk to this big tit thick brunette whom is at the lab each week im there...decided to talk to her...she was receptive...setting things up. We'll see :-). Gonna call the numbers i got tomorrow night, and tomorrow...gonna sit with one of the girls in my class. Hopefully...no one will be sitting already there when i arrive 5 min before class starts :-)
Monday, November 17, 2008
My Upcoming Plans: 24 Days Left of Gaming At Radford University
Aright everyone, there is only 24 days left of gaming at Radford University(excluding some days for finals and Thanksgiving Week)...i might be gaming at a club during then, not too sure. But there afew girls in two of my lecture hall classes that i want to give it a shot yet with. I got nothing to lose. Mine as well do my best, ya know?
For the next few weeks, i'll do my best. Not give myself too many headaches but at the same time....not be super lazy with not meeting some of the girls i fancy or see. Day Game i'll keep with what i'm doing since its all experience and night game here at this college....i'll use the advice given to me to propel myself further
For the next few weeks, i'll do my best. Not give myself too many headaches but at the same time....not be super lazy with not meeting some of the girls i fancy or see. Day Game i'll keep with what i'm doing since its all experience and night game here at this college....i'll use the advice given to me to propel myself further
11/17 The Rustiness is Dying and Insta-Date
Aright today I woke up not feeling 100%. After i leave a lab, go up to this hot redhead, get her number but i doubt she was genuinely interested. These days i can sense if a girl is interested or is just being polite. She was the latter. I stop another girl who's blonde, she thinks she did something wrong, but then realizes the situation. She then decides to walk with me as im off to walker, but then i decide we eat together first and she accepts. We go and talk for about 15 minutes and get to know each other. I find out she's not looking into dating anyone right now(Perfect, considering i don't want anything serious)...but i hope that she knew i was into her, but she must've considering she said, "Im not use to situations like these" She was cute, had nice sized tits, looked similar to a girl that i remember afew years ago. Was pretty great talking to her. Got her number. We'll see how it goes.
Missed an opportunity with this chick who i def wanted to fuck on first site, she was had a really nice body. But since i was wearing a crappy overlarged shirt and i was eating by myself that i'd be perceived as lower value. But u know what? Fuck all that! That does not matter. I sit by myself and eat because i don't give a shit of trying to contact people to meet up, i just care about going to cafeteria to eat and thats it.lol. So why in the hell should i not go for it? I rest my case. Tomorrow I will step it up. I have to these days.
Missed an opportunity with this chick who i def wanted to fuck on first site, she was had a really nice body. But since i was wearing a crappy overlarged shirt and i was eating by myself that i'd be perceived as lower value. But u know what? Fuck all that! That does not matter. I sit by myself and eat because i don't give a shit of trying to contact people to meet up, i just care about going to cafeteria to eat and thats it.lol. So why in the hell should i not go for it? I rest my case. Tomorrow I will step it up. I have to these days.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
More From Van Damme PART II
yea you'll notice when its "Go Time" when the couples are getting "lovey dovey", people are making out around you without caring about social pressure from others, etc. I think they call it "creepy times" or something on bootcamps, read it in the reviews.
1. I think I wouldn't make out that early in 10-15 min, but everyone is different. I think the only reason to makeout would be to be on the safe side and make sure the girl knows what is going to happen if she leaves with me, god forbid she thinks you're just friends leaving together, makeout erases that. instead of getting a makeout, work on keeping constant kino, claw on and off if its really makeoutworthy.
2. I thought the same thing man, like I'd leave and I'd think it was done. It can't be more backwards. The girl will think that you blew HER off because you wanted a way out of the conversation. Thats why you shouldnt make much creepy eye contact when you leave her to talk to others (you can leave her for your friends u dont gotta go straight to others girls).
Tyler talks about how no matter how much a girl likes you, she will refuse to reiniate contact (they are very uptight about this shit, like ur the "guy" she doenst wanna have to do nething), andit seems like she doesn't want to talk again. (social conditioning) The solution is to go back with and get back RIGHT where you left off. Don't make it like you're coming up to her and standing there, waiting for her validation to start laughing and having fun like she was last time. Just have the energy, "Heyyy u guys hows it goin so far" and just watch, they will snap RIGHT BACK into the nice giggly/whatever they were when you first talk to them. Try it you'll see, they truly beleive that you left either because you "ran away" or you don't like them anymore and were being nice and left. Leave absolutley NO room for the "awkwardness eye contact" and stuff that is drawing you the conclusion they want nothing to do with you. They're thinking "well wtf hes the one that left, wtf I am supposed to do when he looks over here again, wave at him???: (breaks eye contact, seems cold w/e)
All in all, don't make it seem like you ejected because you burned out, thats why I personally try to avoid eye contact until I re-initiate because I feel looking at each seriosuly and looking away without saying anything or waving/smiling will make it seem like your whole first ineraction was "fake" and you are moving on to other people. So make it appear genuine that you truly are having fun and like talking to lots of people. O yea, DO NOT value scan when you eject to talk to buddies, that makes it like game over because then she realizes you didn't leave because you wanted to talk to your buddies, but because you pussied out and want to find your "next target".
3. Yea man with more time, I realize its like the main thing and im workin on this shit every weekend too, gettin used to the rhythm of the night. If I fuck up and the girls leave alone, w/e but if they leave with another guy I am SUPER pissed cus what did he do better you know? so I always make sure to know the reason why it went with him /not me and analyze why things went right/wrong.
1. I think I wouldn't make out that early in 10-15 min, but everyone is different. I think the only reason to makeout would be to be on the safe side and make sure the girl knows what is going to happen if she leaves with me, god forbid she thinks you're just friends leaving together, makeout erases that. instead of getting a makeout, work on keeping constant kino, claw on and off if its really makeoutworthy.
2. I thought the same thing man, like I'd leave and I'd think it was done. It can't be more backwards. The girl will think that you blew HER off because you wanted a way out of the conversation. Thats why you shouldnt make much creepy eye contact when you leave her to talk to others (you can leave her for your friends u dont gotta go straight to others girls).
Tyler talks about how no matter how much a girl likes you, she will refuse to reiniate contact (they are very uptight about this shit, like ur the "guy" she doenst wanna have to do nething), andit seems like she doesn't want to talk again. (social conditioning) The solution is to go back with and get back RIGHT where you left off. Don't make it like you're coming up to her and standing there, waiting for her validation to start laughing and having fun like she was last time. Just have the energy, "Heyyy u guys hows it goin so far" and just watch, they will snap RIGHT BACK into the nice giggly/whatever they were when you first talk to them. Try it you'll see, they truly beleive that you left either because you "ran away" or you don't like them anymore and were being nice and left. Leave absolutley NO room for the "awkwardness eye contact" and stuff that is drawing you the conclusion they want nothing to do with you. They're thinking "well wtf hes the one that left, wtf I am supposed to do when he looks over here again, wave at him???: (breaks eye contact, seems cold w/e)
All in all, don't make it seem like you ejected because you burned out, thats why I personally try to avoid eye contact until I re-initiate because I feel looking at each seriosuly and looking away without saying anything or waving/smiling will make it seem like your whole first ineraction was "fake" and you are moving on to other people. So make it appear genuine that you truly are having fun and like talking to lots of people. O yea, DO NOT value scan when you eject to talk to buddies, that makes it like game over because then she realizes you didn't leave because you wanted to talk to your buddies, but because you pussied out and want to find your "next target".
3. Yea man with more time, I realize its like the main thing and im workin on this shit every weekend too, gettin used to the rhythm of the night. If I fuck up and the girls leave alone, w/e but if they leave with another guy I am SUPER pissed cus what did he do better you know? so I always make sure to know the reason why it went with him /not me and analyze why things went right/wrong.
More from Van Damme PART I
(beforehand, this is my experience in my first quarter of college, I dunno how other parties are with you, here a lot of them are free walkins with a lot of people)
Dude, 30 minutes of talking? thats a LOT, you got the kiss too? the "game" aspect should be in the bag man, I found that the less you talk the better. Look at all the chodes around you leaving with hot girls, all of this is like 90% logistics, if they see that you're a normal guy who they know is confident enough to approach anyone at that party, the game aspect is done with.
Like girls want it to feel "right" and "natural" with the guy, which in other words means the logistics go smoothly (they're not screening like crazy, girls hook up with LOTS of guys, the easier it is for her to go somewhere else with you, o well she chose you for the night and you're good)
So I was kinda buzzed last night, I'll be a little clearer on the 10-2 thing
1. The optimum time (I'll call it Go Time) is around 30 minutes before everyone leaves. Everyone has a little alcohol, and it is possible to just show up at the party at this time, find the girls that aren't talking to any guys and are value scanning/wondering why the fuck theres no chodes talking to them this late at night, and try to leave with them. This is the time that you go for leaving with them, and do all that shit. EVERYTHING goes down to this time window at the end of the night, where logistics have to go right and every girl is happy with her guy, cus if one girl isnt happy, well they might be kinda drunk and one tug of the arm and they are going home alone.
2. Now all the time before this (from the beginning of the party to now) where everyone is getting settled in, I'll call (Pre Time).
(im making these words up btw http://www.flawlessnaturalvideoblog.com/ watch the video on rhythm 10-2, it is so important and applicable)
The point here is to make yourself as much socially proofed, talking to a lot of people, looking as social as possible. Since girls notice this stuff at this time, later on during Go Time girls are too drunk or are so in the moment they do not notice the high value guys this late).
So just talking like a stupid normal conversation without even appearing to be hitting on them (its ok you can leave the escalating for Go Time, this time is just to look social and expose yourself to the girls)
All in all, it is to make yourself stand out in the girl's minds for when its Go Time at the end of the party.
Because a girl at the end of the night will rather leave with a guy that she was talking to sober early in the evening and made the mental switch thats hes a good guy shed fuck, then try to make a decision on fuckin a guy when she has drank and its the end of the night.
The interaction DOESNT go from start to finish nonstop, unless you do it dueing Go Time and are trying to get a really quick pull which is unreliable and is last resort.
You talk for a bit, say you'll talk to them later you gotta go to your friends, keep an eye out for other guys, to go in and cut them out w/e, then when its Go Time, those girls will be looking for the guy to leave with, and they will want you rather than the guy she hasnt seen before trying to pick her up in 5 minutes.
Like, the "pretime" conversation should be so casual, that you can easily drop in and out, like you go talk to your friends....and then 15 minutes later all you ahve to do is go "hey whatsup!" and they're like "oh hey" and you talk like you're old friends. I go in and reinitiate the chat when theres a guy getting all creepy for example.
man, talking to a girl for 30 minutes straight??? Getting a MAKEOUT???(or kiss w/e) Hell no man thats hard work, if you find the convo going stale get out of there and reiniate later (I guess the term is, do not overescalate so fast in the beginning of the night, keep it chill till it's go time, pretime you're just socialising and having fun with all your friends)
Then go time is when you make sure every girl has a buddy of yours, this is the window where you make the logistics go smoothly, blow out any faggots taht try to ruin your set with the girls, and all that stuff to leave. They have to leave sooner or later, just make sure its YOU thats the one leaving with them.
This will all depend on how they saw you in Pretime, because girls dont judge value that well when they are drunk so they will be going into their heads to remeber who were the cool guys that they had a great conversation with in the very beginning of the night. Oh and girls KNOW that guys have fake confidence from alcohol and are all trying to pull during Go Time, so thats why they are more apt towards the guys they have spoken to very early in the night
I wrote a lot, but so to RECAP
A.Go time is when you go and make things happen however you can (WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY/LOGISTICS $$$). You can get a quick pull here even if u just got there, for me this is from 11:45-12:15
B. Pre-time not "required", but is when you "prime" the girls and leave yourself on their minds, to make it as easy as possible to pull.
(you show what a cool guy you are, bouncin in and out of sets, etc.) for me this is like 9:30 to 11:30, thats plenty of time to talk to as many people asyou want
The girls would rather stay on the safe side and go leave with the guys they judged to be sexworthy when sober, and trust them to pull them at the end of the night.
Oh and no, you woul'nt have a "party" at your place, have some drinks there (even though they won't be used most likey, pop in a movie, have each guy isolate to different rooms "i gotta show you somthing" or "i wanna talk to you") and take them there. Be like "yea me and my buddies are gonna chill and drink at my place " that kind of vibe ,(u can call it an after party who cares)
This is what I've seen so far make sure u watch that flawless natural video its money for college parties, this is basically what ive made of the parties at my school so far, tried to explain it the best i could, I gotta write this shit out neway to internalize it well myself and keep going over it.
Dude, 30 minutes of talking? thats a LOT, you got the kiss too? the "game" aspect should be in the bag man, I found that the less you talk the better. Look at all the chodes around you leaving with hot girls, all of this is like 90% logistics, if they see that you're a normal guy who they know is confident enough to approach anyone at that party, the game aspect is done with.
Like girls want it to feel "right" and "natural" with the guy, which in other words means the logistics go smoothly (they're not screening like crazy, girls hook up with LOTS of guys, the easier it is for her to go somewhere else with you, o well she chose you for the night and you're good)
So I was kinda buzzed last night, I'll be a little clearer on the 10-2 thing
1. The optimum time (I'll call it Go Time) is around 30 minutes before everyone leaves. Everyone has a little alcohol, and it is possible to just show up at the party at this time, find the girls that aren't talking to any guys and are value scanning/wondering why the fuck theres no chodes talking to them this late at night, and try to leave with them. This is the time that you go for leaving with them, and do all that shit. EVERYTHING goes down to this time window at the end of the night, where logistics have to go right and every girl is happy with her guy, cus if one girl isnt happy, well they might be kinda drunk and one tug of the arm and they are going home alone.
2. Now all the time before this (from the beginning of the party to now) where everyone is getting settled in, I'll call (Pre Time).
(im making these words up btw http://www.flawlessnaturalvideoblog.com/ watch the video on rhythm 10-2, it is so important and applicable)
The point here is to make yourself as much socially proofed, talking to a lot of people, looking as social as possible. Since girls notice this stuff at this time, later on during Go Time girls are too drunk or are so in the moment they do not notice the high value guys this late).
So just talking like a stupid normal conversation without even appearing to be hitting on them (its ok you can leave the escalating for Go Time, this time is just to look social and expose yourself to the girls)
All in all, it is to make yourself stand out in the girl's minds for when its Go Time at the end of the party.
Because a girl at the end of the night will rather leave with a guy that she was talking to sober early in the evening and made the mental switch thats hes a good guy shed fuck, then try to make a decision on fuckin a guy when she has drank and its the end of the night.
The interaction DOESNT go from start to finish nonstop, unless you do it dueing Go Time and are trying to get a really quick pull which is unreliable and is last resort.
You talk for a bit, say you'll talk to them later you gotta go to your friends, keep an eye out for other guys, to go in and cut them out w/e, then when its Go Time, those girls will be looking for the guy to leave with, and they will want you rather than the guy she hasnt seen before trying to pick her up in 5 minutes.
Like, the "pretime" conversation should be so casual, that you can easily drop in and out, like you go talk to your friends....and then 15 minutes later all you ahve to do is go "hey whatsup!" and they're like "oh hey" and you talk like you're old friends. I go in and reinitiate the chat when theres a guy getting all creepy for example.
man, talking to a girl for 30 minutes straight??? Getting a MAKEOUT???(or kiss w/e) Hell no man thats hard work, if you find the convo going stale get out of there and reiniate later (I guess the term is, do not overescalate so fast in the beginning of the night, keep it chill till it's go time, pretime you're just socialising and having fun with all your friends)
Then go time is when you make sure every girl has a buddy of yours, this is the window where you make the logistics go smoothly, blow out any faggots taht try to ruin your set with the girls, and all that stuff to leave. They have to leave sooner or later, just make sure its YOU thats the one leaving with them.
This will all depend on how they saw you in Pretime, because girls dont judge value that well when they are drunk so they will be going into their heads to remeber who were the cool guys that they had a great conversation with in the very beginning of the night. Oh and girls KNOW that guys have fake confidence from alcohol and are all trying to pull during Go Time, so thats why they are more apt towards the guys they have spoken to very early in the night
I wrote a lot, but so to RECAP
A.Go time is when you go and make things happen however you can (WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY/LOGISTICS $$$). You can get a quick pull here even if u just got there, for me this is from 11:45-12:15
B. Pre-time not "required", but is when you "prime" the girls and leave yourself on their minds, to make it as easy as possible to pull.
(you show what a cool guy you are, bouncin in and out of sets, etc.) for me this is like 9:30 to 11:30, thats plenty of time to talk to as many people asyou want
The girls would rather stay on the safe side and go leave with the guys they judged to be sexworthy when sober, and trust them to pull them at the end of the night.
Oh and no, you woul'nt have a "party" at your place, have some drinks there (even though they won't be used most likey, pop in a movie, have each guy isolate to different rooms "i gotta show you somthing" or "i wanna talk to you") and take them there. Be like "yea me and my buddies are gonna chill and drink at my place " that kind of vibe ,(u can call it an after party who cares)
This is what I've seen so far make sure u watch that flawless natural video its money for college parties, this is basically what ive made of the parties at my school so far, tried to explain it the best i could, I gotta write this shit out neway to internalize it well myself and keep going over it.
11/14-11/15 and Sky's Thoughts
The Weekend
Aright, on Friday i went up to this tall pretty hot blonde that i've wanted to go up to for a while at the cafeteria. She seemed like she was on a rush to get back to her friends, but as i walked through the cafeteria she looked at me. I will continue gaming her coming up next time i see her.
Friday Night i met up with my good friend Arnaud who came by staying with his roommate. We couldn't find good parties, but we went to a few "ok" ones. The first one was ok, was a apartment party of frat guys, and some of the groupies. I asked some of the brothers who was off-limits to talk to girls wise, and they were like "U can talk to anyone dude :-D" I told them my story of the past times i got kicked out of parties and they're like "Have fun dude! None of that stupid shit will go on here" I was very happy they supported me hitting on girls. I met a few new ones and stuff but we decided to leave.
Saturday Night went to a chill frat house with a chill vibe. There were some girls and stuff, saw one whom def stuck my eye QUITE a bit. She was nice and friendly. Got me horny, but we decided to leave. Found another frat party but it was in a basement and lots of dancing. Was fun, met LOTS of girls...made out with two of them while dancing....but thats it mainly.
Sky's Thoughts
Recently, it hit just hit me that my tenure here at Radford University ends in 4 weeks from now. That's all i got. My last goal is to atleast get laid one more time before i leave, in 4 years. I have to stop being afraid of trying to have that be a goal(When at the end of the night at parties...i got upset, cried and was angry that i wasn't good enough). I was just afraid that my frustrations would come back and affect me...but i underestimate myself. I'm more emotionally strong than i use to be. I got only a month left to do my best so i mine as well stop being afraid to ask some girls i know out and to start meeting more girls from class that i fancy. I'm glad my rustiness is over.
What i noticed these days is how girls do act differently around me. Its funny how when some reject me at first, when they see me with other girls...they all talk to their female friends and stuff about me hitting on them and lots of other girls(Jealousy streak). Pretty funny. They try to act like hot shit as if they got all the power in the world, but they can't take away my power. There is a million of other girls like them, but only a small amount of guys like me. Im really glad i have to ability to flirt with girls. Its a power that im happy to have acquired. Laying one of them is definitely my final goal before leaving and of course graduating smoothly.
I'm so damn glad i decided to do something about acquiring game. Seeing all these hot girls gets me pretty excited. Im glad im able to do something about it. Right now, i don't know what will happen. I'm glad i made my own choice of sticking with the cold approach method. Sure, Social Circle Game is what gets u laid easier and faster in college....but i don't care about that. Sure, if i truly embraced social circle game too, i prolly could get laid more...but deep down i don't care for it. I don't want to have to go through even more effort for something i don't give many shits for. Plus when im in a social circle situation, i tend to hold on to the belief i overestimate the outcome(Im part of this circle, it shoudl be hella easy), cutting my ability in 1/2 compared to if i don't have that in the back of my mind. I still believe that i can do it based on my game solely, and it seems that im getting further and further in my ability without it. What's next?!
Aright, on Friday i went up to this tall pretty hot blonde that i've wanted to go up to for a while at the cafeteria. She seemed like she was on a rush to get back to her friends, but as i walked through the cafeteria she looked at me. I will continue gaming her coming up next time i see her.
Friday Night i met up with my good friend Arnaud who came by staying with his roommate. We couldn't find good parties, but we went to a few "ok" ones. The first one was ok, was a apartment party of frat guys, and some of the groupies. I asked some of the brothers who was off-limits to talk to girls wise, and they were like "U can talk to anyone dude :-D" I told them my story of the past times i got kicked out of parties and they're like "Have fun dude! None of that stupid shit will go on here" I was very happy they supported me hitting on girls. I met a few new ones and stuff but we decided to leave.
Saturday Night went to a chill frat house with a chill vibe. There were some girls and stuff, saw one whom def stuck my eye QUITE a bit. She was nice and friendly. Got me horny, but we decided to leave. Found another frat party but it was in a basement and lots of dancing. Was fun, met LOTS of girls...made out with two of them while dancing....but thats it mainly.
Sky's Thoughts
Recently, it hit just hit me that my tenure here at Radford University ends in 4 weeks from now. That's all i got. My last goal is to atleast get laid one more time before i leave, in 4 years. I have to stop being afraid of trying to have that be a goal(When at the end of the night at parties...i got upset, cried and was angry that i wasn't good enough). I was just afraid that my frustrations would come back and affect me...but i underestimate myself. I'm more emotionally strong than i use to be. I got only a month left to do my best so i mine as well stop being afraid to ask some girls i know out and to start meeting more girls from class that i fancy. I'm glad my rustiness is over.
What i noticed these days is how girls do act differently around me. Its funny how when some reject me at first, when they see me with other girls...they all talk to their female friends and stuff about me hitting on them and lots of other girls(Jealousy streak). Pretty funny. They try to act like hot shit as if they got all the power in the world, but they can't take away my power. There is a million of other girls like them, but only a small amount of guys like me. Im really glad i have to ability to flirt with girls. Its a power that im happy to have acquired. Laying one of them is definitely my final goal before leaving and of course graduating smoothly.
I'm so damn glad i decided to do something about acquiring game. Seeing all these hot girls gets me pretty excited. Im glad im able to do something about it. Right now, i don't know what will happen. I'm glad i made my own choice of sticking with the cold approach method. Sure, Social Circle Game is what gets u laid easier and faster in college....but i don't care about that. Sure, if i truly embraced social circle game too, i prolly could get laid more...but deep down i don't care for it. I don't want to have to go through even more effort for something i don't give many shits for. Plus when im in a social circle situation, i tend to hold on to the belief i overestimate the outcome(Im part of this circle, it shoudl be hella easy), cutting my ability in 1/2 compared to if i don't have that in the back of my mind. I still believe that i can do it based on my game solely, and it seems that im getting further and further in my ability without it. What's next?!
Friday, November 14, 2008
11/12-11/13
Aright people, on Wednesday started to approach again today to stay consistent, didnt' seem half bad. Actually managed to go up to one of the girls whom i was very attracted to, whom i saw on facebook. I ejected quickly, eventho she responded well to it.haha. Don't worry...when i get back in the swing of things, it'll all be good.haha. Things are coming back to me atleast.
Thursday, i approached a big tit short haired brunnete. She was pretty receptive, just talked to her for a minute. Still getting back in the swing of things.
Aright, for Thursday Night...i went to Mi Puerto, which is a restaurant...turned dance floor, bar and hookah lounge. When i went in there, mostly black students...which i was shocked. Wasn't bad. I went up to a few numbers of girls, ones i have seen, ones i haven't seen, one i tried to dance who flaked on me, etc. Was funny, i just tried to dance with girls for the most part. Saw a cute white dark brunette girl, whom had nice cleavage. She was pretty cute. She told me she was french. I isolated her from a group i knew. We danced prior and stuff. After 2 minutes, i notice she has her hands clasped to mine. I hold them, turn her around, then go for the kiss. She moves her face...telling me that she aint that kind of girl. I tell her that all girls say that, and continue talking to her. After a few minutes of dancing and some rapport, i then hint in about kissing her again.
Oh yea, at one point she was telling me how i should fine another girl to have fun with, but then i told her that it wasn't her choice to make of the girls "I" wanted to have fun with. She laughed quite a bit. I then tell her, "I wonder if European Girls kiss differently" She says she doesn't think so and that i can find out sometime...we then make out for a minute or so. She then asks me what she thinks, i tell her that it was different, that we started with the lips passionately...then the tongue. Was funny. Afew black girls said "Ewww" who were dancing around us. Was pretty funny. After that she kinda tried to go off somewhere else....so nothing developed further.
Overall in teh night, i got almost drunk...but before then...just buzzed. Was a fun night. :-)
Thursday, i approached a big tit short haired brunnete. She was pretty receptive, just talked to her for a minute. Still getting back in the swing of things.
Aright, for Thursday Night...i went to Mi Puerto, which is a restaurant...turned dance floor, bar and hookah lounge. When i went in there, mostly black students...which i was shocked. Wasn't bad. I went up to a few numbers of girls, ones i have seen, ones i haven't seen, one i tried to dance who flaked on me, etc. Was funny, i just tried to dance with girls for the most part. Saw a cute white dark brunette girl, whom had nice cleavage. She was pretty cute. She told me she was french. I isolated her from a group i knew. We danced prior and stuff. After 2 minutes, i notice she has her hands clasped to mine. I hold them, turn her around, then go for the kiss. She moves her face...telling me that she aint that kind of girl. I tell her that all girls say that, and continue talking to her. After a few minutes of dancing and some rapport, i then hint in about kissing her again.
Oh yea, at one point she was telling me how i should fine another girl to have fun with, but then i told her that it wasn't her choice to make of the girls "I" wanted to have fun with. She laughed quite a bit. I then tell her, "I wonder if European Girls kiss differently" She says she doesn't think so and that i can find out sometime...we then make out for a minute or so. She then asks me what she thinks, i tell her that it was different, that we started with the lips passionately...then the tongue. Was funny. Afew black girls said "Ewww" who were dancing around us. Was pretty funny. After that she kinda tried to go off somewhere else....so nothing developed further.
Overall in teh night, i got almost drunk...but before then...just buzzed. Was a fun night. :-)
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
11/11 The Platonic Day 3 :-(
Aright, i watched a movie with one of the girls i sat and ate with her roommate. But unfortunately...her roommate and cousin were there...plus i was afraid if she rejected me by me laying down next to her...that i'd feel shame in front of her roomates(Pretty much the i feel inferior feeling that i usually get when i feel bad). She was studying for her test, not really paying attention to the movie. I just lost motivation to even game her at that point, plus in a text she said she didn't like getting hit on(Which i find BS as most girls will say that)...so i dunno wat im gonna do with this. Maybe i'll just be right to the point with her, i got nothing to lose and i don't care if i get her or not. Maybe then she'll get the picture by that time.
11/9-11/10 Rustiness
Day Game
Been rusty these few days approaching. I just aint in tune with it these days, but now and then when i see a super easy opportunity, i can do it...but when its crowds of people walking around or approaching at a more difficult situation(Crowded lab) then i gotta return to that.
Night Game
Aright, for night game...haven't done it much except on Monday Night i went to a party, really only gamed a few girls. Wasn't much going on there. Saw one of the girls i day game approached at starbucks(Cute blonde)....isolated her to the couch...but considering i was still feeling rusty, that feeling of assurance wasn't really there. I didn't touch her that much, and when i tried to go dance with her, she wanted to talk with her friends and she left after a few minutes with them. So its all graavy.
Been rusty these few days approaching. I just aint in tune with it these days, but now and then when i see a super easy opportunity, i can do it...but when its crowds of people walking around or approaching at a more difficult situation(Crowded lab) then i gotta return to that.
Night Game
Aright, for night game...haven't done it much except on Monday Night i went to a party, really only gamed a few girls. Wasn't much going on there. Saw one of the girls i day game approached at starbucks(Cute blonde)....isolated her to the couch...but considering i was still feeling rusty, that feeling of assurance wasn't really there. I didn't touch her that much, and when i tried to go dance with her, she wanted to talk with her friends and she left after a few minutes with them. So its all graavy.
Sunday, November 9, 2008
More Q & A From DonSuave
I make my approach. She's not receptive, at least not verbally. I see lots of guy turning around her. Most guys would have been thrown off at the 1rst " iod" she gave me but I stay in there. I stay in there because I know I will get the chicks. I know even if she have 20 guys surrounding her they can't game her and fuck her like I can. So she talks to 2 or 3 guys. She tells me stuff ' he''s just a friend ' without me asking for explanaitions.
I give her game in between. I'm patient for now lol At one point I grab her by the arm and tell her ' I don't like you talking to too many guys."
I pull her gently give her intense eye contact and give her some game. She's a waitress at another rich nightclub.
She keeps talking to me like I am some client. I am firm and make her understand that I don't give a fuck about where she works but give a fuck about her. She gave me her # right at that moment.
Now my frame is I can get her if I want to, I don't care what's on her mind, I care about what's in mine and I affect her with my thoughts. I scan her the instant I see her and I calibrate my approach. Depending on how she reacts I will be sweet or rough or whatever. It all depends.
It's okay if some guys have 1 way of gaming I just don't believe it's the most effective way. For me the most effective is being natural, adaptable and sudden with your moves, flow. Nothing prepared just you being quick and smart.
This way I can game many women, I have no limits
I give her game in between. I'm patient for now lol At one point I grab her by the arm and tell her ' I don't like you talking to too many guys."
I pull her gently give her intense eye contact and give her some game. She's a waitress at another rich nightclub.
She keeps talking to me like I am some client. I am firm and make her understand that I don't give a fuck about where she works but give a fuck about her. She gave me her # right at that moment.
Now my frame is I can get her if I want to, I don't care what's on her mind, I care about what's in mine and I affect her with my thoughts. I scan her the instant I see her and I calibrate my approach. Depending on how she reacts I will be sweet or rough or whatever. It all depends.
It's okay if some guys have 1 way of gaming I just don't believe it's the most effective way. For me the most effective is being natural, adaptable and sudden with your moves, flow. Nothing prepared just you being quick and smart.
This way I can game many women, I have no limits
Friday, November 7, 2008
10/23 - 11/8 Last Two Weeks and the Last 6 weeks at Uni
Aright everyone afew days after my previous post...i hung out with the tatoo girl. Smoked some ganja with her, but then she didn't want to kiss me. But i did lead her to sit on her bed(was afraid to do that before), but then i tried to kiss her one more time and she was like "Nah...u got to quit doing that" When she said that, it hit but i wasn't mad at her. It was like "This sucks" I felt a lil down afterward, sicne i felt like i failed...but i didn't fail. Getting that far after all i've done is progress...good progress :-)
After that, i haven't really hung out with any girls the next week. I've just been bombarded with school work, which yet again has caused me to be rusty. I did a few approaches but they were easy ones. Haven't really called the numbers i gotten either. Oh yea, i went out halloween night as Waldo yet again...had fun...nothing much happened...except got drunk...did my normal thing for night game...not too shabby. thas all for now
After that, i haven't really hung out with any girls the next week. I've just been bombarded with school work, which yet again has caused me to be rusty. I did a few approaches but they were easy ones. Haven't really called the numbers i gotten either. Oh yea, i went out halloween night as Waldo yet again...had fun...nothing much happened...except got drunk...did my normal thing for night game...not too shabby. thas all for now
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