Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Last Two Weeks of Night Game

Thursday: Bar with Dance Floor
Aright went to a bar with a dance floor. Got a bit tipsy here. Tonight i went up to some girls.

One was a sexy brunette. I mean her cleavage was "God Damn" She was a sorority girl. I stop her as she's walking. I just say hi, my name is Stephan. She's looking off to the side. I"m holding her hand as she looks like she's bored and trying to leave. Turns out that she showed some IOIs when i was grinding with another girl. Tonight i was in state. I grinded with quite a few girls. Took the lead. Some were standing there, i took their hand, drew them closer and dacned. I talked to some. Danced with a redhead. Kissed her twice. She was like "Aright :-p" haha. It was more of a peck on the lips tho. Was a fun night.

Another i was dancing with, I turned her around. While she was talking tried to kiss her.haha. Was funny. She was still pretty receptive tho.

Friday: Regular College Bar

Tonight i was feeling a bit sick and out of breathe at the start. Took me twenty minutes to be fine. One blonde opened me as i was walking through the bar. Turns out i gave her a ride home when i was DD as she was very drunk. I talked to her for a few minutes but i ran out of things to say

Afraid to isolate her

Throughout the night i was nervous and was just concerned about talking to girls foremost. I remember going up to one more girl in particular. She was a long haired gorgeous short brunette. She looked just like another girl that im into. I opened with "I find you gorgeous, i want to meet you" She's receptive and i tell her, "Oh man...ur so cute. Look at u :-p" It was my playful side taking course, and i decided to introduce myself to the group sitting down she was with. I was talking to her for afew minutes. But then yep, it was time to move her away but i didn't. She said it was good meeting me and i to her as well, BUT it was good as i'd see her again in the next week :-).

Saturday: Regular College Bar

Aright tonight, there were less girls than before. Turns out the gorgeous blond i went up to the previous week on Friday, she had kidney problems after leaving the bar, why she was not in a good mood after. She was very receptive to me. We did cheers. Talked for a minute, but her friend came along(Who i knew). I told her, "I only need one more minute with her" at first, but then i let them go.

While i was talking to the blonde, the brunette tapped me on the shoulder as she was getting a drink(Indirect way of her trying to get my attention). And man, was she fucking sexy tonight. She was talking to another guy later on but Damn!

Had some AA for about ten minutes throughout the night. Go up to a tall thick woman. She gave me e/c earlier. I eventually go up to her. She's receptive. We have a few minutes of good convo. Its on and off talking to her u could say. She says, "I be right back. I"m not blowing you off :-)" It was true, she wasn't. I try to isolate her five feet away from her friend who's talking to a guy. I tell her, "Don't worry...u can still keep an eye on her. We'll be over there" She says, "Thats ok :-)" So it all good.

Talk to another cute girl, i know her from class, she's not with anyone. I try to isolate her too, but she's like she can't. BUT, she didn't leave. I'm playing along with feeling bad. i"m like, "Ah! This sucks! I so wanted to talk to you over there!" She was showing interest still and there actually was no need to isolate her. lol. She said she had a bf.

Kiss Close Her in this situation

Saw a hot blonde girl with glasses(What i love, hot girls with glasses). She was pretty receptive. Here i just talked to her and her friend. Lets say i was drawn to the friend, even more. She was a redhead :-)

Tonight pretty much was just to see where i was. I figured it out. It was time to take a backtrack. From the previous semester i was so concerned about closing, it screwed my gaming up. Now i've decided to do it the right way, work it one step at a time.

The Next Thursday

Aright, tonight i went to the club/bar for my uni. The night went good so far. Saw some of the same hot girls from the previous week. I got a bit drunk too early. But one thing i do remember was the fact that i doubted my ability of game that night.

Why? Because all i wanted to do was grind and dance and not talk. The way i use to be before taking an active effort with night game.

To start, was a girl i tried dancing with. I took her hand and tried to pull her to the dance floor she declined but she was still pretty chill though. I try grinding with her but she's too shy. She then introduces me to what she said was her bf. I was a bit fed up with the bullshit and didn't believe her, i walked away midsentence and she was like "But it is my bf! :-)" But then i was like, "Thats ok".

Also, a girl went up to me, touched my shoulders. She was just asking to be closed. I thought she only wanted to dance and she left. Can't believe it took me a minute after to realize what happened.

Could've kissed another girl i was grinding with. Hell, she even complimented on me by saying "ur one of the only few guys who can grind face to face".

Could've kissed another girl yet again, i knew her 2 years ago. She told me she likes me. I thought she was just being friendly...but man...i didn't realize till later. But i learn the next day she was very drunk.

I did some approaches but still i was having trouble. Some girls i was trying to grind with, were friends of other girls i know. They had a weirded out look and took them away from me. Deep down i was pissed. Not mainly at the girls but more myself for lack of gaming. Afew girls i wanted to game, were occupied with other guys, so didn't get a chance.

All i can say about the night was:

I want to redeem this night!

The night taught me a very valuable lesson: You got ur good nights and ur bad nights. The bad nights teach you lessons!

Friday: The Isolater

Tonight i used Machismo and ozzie's advice on leading. Literally pull the girl away, go to where u will both be 1 on 1. Before i was just say "Lets go over there" but this time i would actually literally take their hand and have them come with me. That was the plan.

Firstly was a hot blonde with glasses that i met a week before who was with the redhead. She was sitting down with her two friends. I just had a regular conversation. After 5 minutes, i took her and told her "Lets go over there" She said "Oh my dress will get messed up, its why im sitting down" I told her, "ur dress will be fine" She's standing up and i literally take her hand again and am like "Aright...lets go" haha. She declines again but in a friendly way. I took it she wasn't really interested. But the redhead was showing more next time i see gonna game her.

Second was a short haired blonde. She was cute. Was in her late 20s. I just introduced myself. She was with two guys. I had chit chat with her for a few minutes, i forgot what it was about, but then i flat out isolate her to a sitting area. While we're walking there, she's like "Who put u up to this?" I'm like, "Me, myself and I. Why u ask?" She tells me, "Oh...just a couple of guys asked me who i was talking to" While we're at the table, she tries a couple of times to leave. She's like "I'm 29 and its a good reason why we shouldn't be talking" Meaning, "I Feel like i'll be judged if i talk to a guy 8 years younger than me" I then tell her, "Fine wine tastes greater with age :-)" She laughs quite a bit there. She then tells me she works with cosmetics. I tell her its great that she can match make up with her skin naturally like that. She then tells me she's got to leave, her bf is in the pool room(This was def bullshit as if her bf was in the room, i wouldnt' had been able to isolate her). But then after her 3rd attempt to leave, i then let it go. I was just very happy i was able to flat out isolate a new girl. I felt very happy.

Third was a girl i've met and knew. I try isolating her but she wanted to go back to her friends.

Fourth was the sexy blonde from two weeks ago. Her friend was talking to another guy. After afew minutes of talking to her, i try to isolate her, but she says she'll gonna stay and listen to what the other guy had to say. I knew she wasn't really interested otherwise i would've persisted more. But turns out after her friend was talking to the other guy, seems like she showed some subtle IOIs to me and the good thing is, that she's just about as good looking.

Saturday: Meh Night

Saturday not much was going on. Saw the bf of a girl i texted about having alone time with her(hooking up)...she didn't take it well...but i could tell deep down she was attracted by the boldness...even if at first she was mad. I thought there was the possibility she told him. I was mad cool with this guy, and if there was ever to be a fight. I prolly wouldn't have the heart to fight him. But in reality, she never told him(Why would she anyone? She doesn't even know that i know him). He was happy to see me, i relaxed and was drinking a beer with him and his buddies.

Saw the gorgeous brunette girl again as she was leaving. She was pretty happy to see me. Next Thursday when i see her. Gonna game her flat out.

Saw a hot blonde girl. Gave e/c beforehand. She was very happy when i approached her directly as she was at the bar getting a drink. Was laughing and giggling when i said she was fucking sexy, told her that its what she needed to hear. She was with a group of 10 people. A guy who brung her was gaming her. I was trying to isolate her but she said she had to go back to the group.

Did a bit of gaming, approached two girls i forgot i approached before. They were trying to put my approaching in a negative light.

One of them was like "You went up to me already" I'm like, "Oh silly me...i didn't recognize u" in a ironic manner. She asked me, "Do you go up to alot of girls?" I told her, "honestly...yes" She says, "That shows character(negative light)". I tell her, "I shows good character...there's the risk of people not liking it....but if there's a girl i see that i wanted to gonna go up to her." She couldn't say anything else and stood there w/o anything else. I talked to her in a funny manner for a minute more. She's like "Well u can't get me" I tell her, "See? Thats the risk i told ya about ;-)"

Another girl was like, "You were the guy who congratulated me on my grinding!" in a negative light. I told her, "People should be praised for doing something good. U were great at it. Why? U want me to do the same old boring routine of grinding, and looking up at the sky like a idiot? :-P" She then smiles but can't say anything against that.

Girls are funny. They are egotistically frustrated with guys getting game, its hysterical.

Oh yea, at the end of the night. I vowed to go for a kclose with this one cute redheaded girl i met before. I pussied out the first time, but tried the 2nd time. I was dead afraid to go for the kiss w/o a signal. She rejected it, but i was happy i tried.

Monday, May 26, 2008

Day Game, The Past Two Weeks

#1 Was a curly haired brunette on a bench. I said hi and told her she was cute. I asked her to take off her sunglasses, was kinda cute girl. We have whatever conversation(i forget what its about). I talk with her for like 10 min. I try to go for her number. She's like, "oh so thats how it is" I tell her, "Its just a number. Wats the big deal? Its just contact information" She gives it to me.

I text her 6 hours later telling her that its just to make sure i remember her name by saying it over and over.haha. She doesn't respond, text her again afew days later. No response. I call her, she answers, i say something, she hangs up.

#2 Was a blonde girl with a dress. As she's ahead of me. I tell her stop. She smiles but is still walking. I then decide to continue to talk by telling her i find her cute and i want to meet her. She says like, "oh my name is so and so" I then tell her my name. I decide to walk with her to the library. I just talk about how the summer is, how old she is, if she's going out this weekend, etc. But from what i'm judging, she doesn't seem really interested.

Last week in one of the nights going out, she notices me from like 30 feet away and whispers to her friend. I think she was saying to her, "Over there...its a guy who was hitting on me/went up to me yesterday. If he goes up to you, don't talk to him" or something like that.

#3 Blonde girl who was in the library. She was working on stuff. I got e/c from her. She smiled. I went up to her just asking her what she was working on the computer. But she looked pretty busy, so i didn't press further. Was more like she was being polite.

There's been a black girl i've seen around. I think their attraction between us. I told her i wanted to see a movie back at my place but she told me genuinely that she's super busy each day, but when there's a break between summer session 1 and 2, she'll def be free. She gave me her number so i can hit her up then. She sees me the next day while im working and she's happy to see me. Man, if things work gonna bang the living shit doggy style with her and gonna grip her braids tight while doing it. Got a really nice ass

This week i was pretty frustrated with Day Game. For some approaches, the girls were resisting trying to give out their number. They'd give things like "My bf wouldn't like that" or "How about facebook?". For here, i wasn't too happy. So i was like "i guess i could just do facebook :-\"

#4 Was a sexy fine blonde girl who i've seen throughout the year but never got to approach. I finally do while doing a run during work. She's walking ahead of me, i do stop. Tell her, "I find you so goregous...i have to meet you :-)" She says, "Really?! :-)" I say yea. She is excited. Asks me my name. I tell her that i saw her around repeatedly, but never got the chance. Turns out she lived in my apartment complex and told me of the cookout i missed they were having. She told me to hit her up on facebook. And i gave her a hug.

I hit her up on facebook, add her as a friend. I message her with,
"Next week whatever ur plans are, free up Tuesday or Wednesday :-).We're gonna be having drinks together" Waited 7 days, no response. I decide to write on her wall " ur pretty good at the art of playing hard to get now are we?" Haven't gotten a response yet. So prolly "next".

#5 Was a dyed redhaired girl who i've seen before but never went up to. I do the stop hand motion as she's walking toward my direction. She says, that she thought i was one of the bible peope who are out on campus trying to recruit people. I tell her, nah...that she's cute and i want to meet her. Im talking with her about her dyed hair, wat colors she likes. That kind of thing. She receptive but im not sure if she's interested tho to be honest. WE are walking together for about 3 minutes. So then i ask her, "Is there way to contact you?" She says, "Oh yea...u could prolly hit me up on facebook or something"

After this approach, it bothered me i didn't want to get a facebook at all. I wanted their number. If they were really interested they wouldn't mind, even if there would be a little interest.

#6 Good approach. Was a hot brunette with sunglasses. I do the stop and cute opening i usually do. She was pretty receptive. I tell her to take off her glasses(I usually do that with girls who wear *****s to see what their eyes look like). I then tell myself, "She's definitely a hot one" This girl was pretty receptive. Conversation was free flow. She tells me that if she had a straight face, its just that its just her normal face. I tell her that there's no need to worry, people with straight faces are usually in good moods...just that they're thinking on stuff. she smiles. We talk about the nightlife of her being 20 and that she uses her older sister's ID to get into bars. She says she'll prolly be at the club/bar thursday night. I then tell her, "Tell me about urself...since i want to get to know more about you :-)" She says, "But we just met :-)" I tell her, "I know :-)" I say, "U must be a Virginia Beach girl" She's like, "'d u know?" I told her, "Just a guess. I either meet northern va people or va beach people here :-P" I tell her about hte first time i went to VA Beach and stuff. It was good rapport. So then i get her facebook and tell her i'd prolly see her at the bars and what not.

I haven't added her on facebook yet, BUT when i gonna attempt to have drinks with her :-). I was still hesitant to go for numbers again since i was frustrated.

#7 Was a blonde girl with a cap on. She was pretty cute. She was pretty receptive. She was opening the library door. Told her to stop. We talked for a minute, telling her i see her around campus and stuff. I see her again in the library, she's working on a paper. Talk to her for another minute. Next time i see her, going for the digits.

#8 Was a thick blonde sorority girl wearing a white dress. She's across a street. I cross it stop her as she's walking toward my direct. She's pretty receptive. I comment on her dress telling her i noticed it and it strikes out. I asked her what hte big occassion was. She's like "Oh! Today i just wear it! Im not allowed to? :-)" I tell her, "Yep ur not :-p" haha. But then i tell her, "Its great it stands out, i wear clothes that stand out too sometimes. The polo im wearing, i go for the pastel colors. Hell...why don't i try the rainbow while im at it" She's laughing. She tells me she's too young to go out to the bars, only 20. I tell her that she's almost there, just two months. After another minute as i'm walking with her, and im going back to work. I actually try to number close her. I tell her, "It was great talking to you...give me your number and we can talk sometime :-)" She tells me, "Oh my bf wouldn't like that :-)" I tell her, "My gf wouldn't like that either..." then i try to get it from her again, but she says "Thats ok :-)" I tell her i'll see her around.

#9 Was a redheaded older woman. She had nice breasts. I stop her, tell her she's cute and want to meet her. She says her full name and i say my full name. She tells me she's a professor and about to teach a class as she's walking to her class. I tell her, "Wow...i didn't know that :-)" Man...i still drool now and then when i imagine the black top she had with those breasts :-)

By now im frustrated and i feel its a no win for day game. I feel that if i try to get the number from girls, even if their attracted, they def won't want to and if i give in and do facebook, they won't respond.

But this thread:

Got me thinking and now i feel better about how to go about it. I do what i want. Sometimes there's no need to go for the number in terms of the situation, but most of the time i do.

"I can Go up to a girl, talk to her, but i can't take this to sex!"

For the past year and a half. I had the biggest problem at parties and clubs...

I can't kiss

Thats right, my biggest fear was going for the kiss. It boggled me how guys found it much harder to cold approach a girl but much easier to kiss one at a party. It boggled me for a long time. I could go up to a girl, talked to her, laugh with her, but i couldn't kiss her. The feeling of shame and failure was so strong. Its costed me quite a few potential lays.

Then one of my friends who also has a blog. Its at
he showed me RSD Transformations and it opened my eyes. Ozzie, one of the instructors there, taught me about closing. It boggled my eyes so much to the point where i finally figured what i was doing wrong for so long.

I then decided to put that stuff to the test just two months ago. Sadly, only 1/13 girls i tried to make out with....reciprocated. I Then realized, i was having trouble isolating girls more so.

So then i've decided to back to the that. Making Sure I can isolate girls first! Once i can do that, i go for the kiss. But if a girl rejects the isolation, i still keep talking to her. I try again, if she doesn't...i still go for it.

Sunday, May 25, 2008

My Methods of Game

Day Game:

2) Be Direct with Her:
Examples: Telling her how u find her lookswise, then qualifying her with saying that you want to meet her/get to know her/talk to her

3) Talk About Her and Relate

4) Get the Number/or Try To Go for insta-date if given opportunity

Night Game:
1) Open Group with whichever way i mentioned
2) Be Friendly
3) Give More Attention To Target Girl(Claw her in)
4) Flat out isolate her from group(Litereally leading/pulling her)
5) Have Fun. Enjoy talking to her.
6) Running the train a.k.a Making Out
7) Extract
8) Fclose

Single Girl
1) Open her anyway i want to, usually direct if really sexy
2) Be sexual with her
3) Have Fun. Enjoy talking with her
4) Running the train
5) Extract
6) Fclose

Introduction of Sky's Words

Hey everybody. My name is Sky. I was formerly known as firstly:
Heyjose25points, then i moved on to DonJoseCantosie at Another name i've gone by is TheWolfHowls in the StyleLife Lair in DC.

I am an aspiring Playboy and this blog is my journey into my life of getting out there to win at the game. Pretty much this blog is of my journey from symp to pimp. I am a practicioner of Direct Game, and am following Direct Method, Badboy's Method, Real Social Dynamics, and Gunwitch.

I would say there have been some phases so far:

Pre Game Phase I: The Cocky Funny Phase. Sky is 17 years old who's never kissed a girl. He manages to find out about David DeAngelo. For half a year, he reads this book and applies it at his high school. As a result he got one date, had his first makeout, and became more confident as a person.

Pre Game Phase II: The College Hopeful! Sky is 18 years old who all he cares of is getting laid. He manages to get his first one night stand at a Fraternity Party. This improves his confidence and he was able to extract afew girls back out of parties, but didn't lay them. This phase ends when Sky gives up partying due to not having trouble doing it again.

Pre Game Phase III: The only way i'll get laid is to join fraternity! Sky is now 19 years old and is gaming mentality has now dropped. For the first few weeks of sophmore year, he tried to go up to girls and eat with them in the cafeteria but after a few weeks, he feels he's not good enough. This phase ends when Sky was unable to even still get a lay despite pledging a fraternity, and with him not being able to game some girls, he vows to gain game.

Game Phase I: In the Game. Sky comes across Mystery Method and starts to go out. Taking the game too seriously, at first he develops confidence to approach but eventually him always thinking about the game and losing who he truly is, Sky eventually develops social anxiety.

Game Phase II: I am Sky. After a month of recovering from Social Anxiety, Sky decides to do a personal seduction bootcamp to where he returns to do well in the game. He starts with Hi's, talking with strangers, approaching girls, getting numbers. As a result, Sky gets one meeting with a girl and could've fucked her but didn't realize at the time.

Game Phase IV: I am a Direct Man! After finally being able to approach for a bit, Sky still had problems attracting girls. He came off as a friend. In this phase, Sky begins using the Direct Method, 2nd semester of his junior year, 2nd half of the summer and 2nd half of senior year.

2nd Semester Junior Year:

2nd Half of Summer:

2nd Half of Senior Year:

Thats pretty much my journey so far leading up to now.

Right now, I am Touching The Night Sky

Now are the next phases i want to achieve:

Touching The Raining Sky: Gotten a lay and am starting to get success
Touching The Dusk Sky: Getting lays on a good basis
Touching The Blue Sky: Finally am a Playboy.
Touching The World: An Experienced Playboy, who can give out advice
Touching The Universe: Pass On My Legacy

Currently, It is summer time and i'm taking summer classes.

I will be doing day game and night game. My goal is just lays. In the future, i'll probably want a relationship. But for now, just getting my dick wet.

Day Game I will run direct game.
Night Game i usually do whatever comes to mind. Direct/Social/Situational/Etc.

Lets start the blog shall we?