Alright, tonight I go out with Quincy and Sonic. We first hit up Grand Central, and go up to a group of girls but logistically, the set was tough plus they were visiting.
Quincy and me then proceeded to dance with these 3 girls.
We then head to Tom Tom's.
I'm dancing with this curly black haired brunette. Her blonde hot friend was a cockblock at first but then started to be more friendly and nice lol. Just danced, sat down, danced again. She then proceeds to ask me for my number. The good thing I did was set the sexual frame. I even told her, "You got no idea of things i plan on doing with you". I couldn't hear of what she said after.
Then was gaming this hispanic woman who i found sexy. What I learned here was that I just kept plowing, teasing and she was starting to show more interest, brought up the BF thing to which i dismissed it/didn't acknowledge it.
Gamed this asian girl with her friends. Her friends were on the watch out with her. They were in protector mode, but that's ok...she was not bad BUT i noticed she wanted to be picked up. But i didn't care so much of what would go on with her. These situations I'm not going try to hard for recovery. I'm not going to invest so much. Friday at Mothers in Federal Hill, the brunette girl group logistics were ideal and didnt have to worry. The truth with her was that i believe she knew where i was coming from, knew if she came with me...something would happen. her objection was "I don't know you".
Saw two girls from Radford again. The one DZ chick with girly hair I found hot and the ASA Latina girl whom i found sexy as well. The first girl said i was vagely familiar while the latina girl didn't remember me, but they reacted the same when they saw me spit game with the other girls as back then.
Spit my game with a few black chicks, but they weren't hooking much.
I felt a bit discouraged plus seeing Sonic leave with a girl(He didn't fuck her) but i thought he did at the time, to where im sitting with Quincy after approaching this black chick dancing. Quincy then tells me that he's learned alot from what I been doing, he's been saying im grabby and that I keep going till girls hook to where he felt he had a bit to think about. Then that raised my spirits to where I then go back to that same black girl with more energy and more assurance to where she talks about how her crazy ex-bf is around, i then tell her we can be more discreet...but then i take it she was playing games to where then i moved on to latina girl to where she was hooked and attracted but was ADD after and shit but i learned of looking at her body, not words and we kissed. I also found out she was carpooling to where that was out.
Only issue with DC is that alot of girls carpool and shit. Its not like New York where the girls can take a cab home themselves. But all in all, i felt disappointed at the end of the night but felt better when i remembered the curly haired girl and how you still had two girls who hooked.
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Places This Summer
Federal Hill College Bar Scene, if I'm going to do it again...i stay in the lower key bar area. Earlier in the night was good but later on, it was bleh.
Bourbon Street(Baltimore)-Did the rave there, but haven't done much bars yet.
Fells Point(Baltimore)-Seems like a promising spot from what I hear.
Canton(Baltimore)-I plan to do this area again at some point.
Old Town Alexandria-Prasant told me about it, we'll see!
Clarendon Ballroom-Going to do more Arlington.
Annapolis-Nutz said it was pretty good, will see!
Reston Town Center-Cougarville, got to do it on a Friday again.
Adams Morgan-Seems like a great pickup spot, will check it out.
Weekend Bar Schedule:
Adams Morgan, tonight...if its great...i'll be doing it once a week on a Saturday.
Reston Town Center. 6/11
Fells Point. 6/12
Annapolis.6/18
Canton.6/25
I'm probably going to do Current Night Club and Lima on the weekdays. Weekend is also reserved for Day 2's.
Bourbon Street(Baltimore)-Did the rave there, but haven't done much bars yet.
Fells Point(Baltimore)-Seems like a promising spot from what I hear.
Canton(Baltimore)-I plan to do this area again at some point.
Old Town Alexandria-Prasant told me about it, we'll see!
Clarendon Ballroom-Going to do more Arlington.
Annapolis-Nutz said it was pretty good, will see!
Reston Town Center-Cougarville, got to do it on a Friday again.
Adams Morgan-Seems like a great pickup spot, will check it out.
Weekend Bar Schedule:
Adams Morgan, tonight...if its great...i'll be doing it once a week on a Saturday.
Reston Town Center. 6/11
Fells Point. 6/12
Annapolis.6/18
Canton.6/25
I'm probably going to do Current Night Club and Lima on the weekdays. Weekend is also reserved for Day 2's.
Leading to the Bedroom break down
1. Manage Logistics
When taking a girl home the same night, your biggest hurdle is going to be logistics. This is something you need to consider BEFORE you even step out of your door.
I've noticed that. Typically MisterB and others have great logistics. Some of the sets i run, the logistics to leave with the girl are tough as nails.
Where are you staying?
Your place:
Is it close to the bars? Do you have easy transportation to your place?
Friend’s Place:
Do you have a key? How are you going to get there? Do you have a room/couch for isolation?
Hotel:
Don’t forget multiple room keys. How do you plan to isolate her if there isn’t a separate room? Make sure your bed is made ;)
These 3 I don't have although a hotel is an option but i dont want to have to do a hotel each time.
2. Have the right mindset
The most CONSISTENT approach is to determine RIGHT OFF THE BAT what your goal is for the night.
For one night stands, a more assertive, “go for broke” style works best. You want to set the frame of “This is going down tonight!” with every girl you meet.
I need to do this a bit more even though I do it quite a bit.
Screen right off the bat to see if it is even possible. Go into every interaction with a hard core screening frame.
For me that means these golden words within the first five minutes…
“So, what are you up to later?”
Bad Responses:
-“Ahh… Well… I’m the designated driver, so I’m just hanging with my friends for a bit then heading home with them.”
-“I’m staying with my brother, just visiting my family for the weekend.”
-“I am showing my friends a good time, then we are all crashing at my place 30 minutes away.”
Yea, typically i've been doing more of this lately. Most girls will say they're going to go home BUT its also good motivation for venue/car pulls.
It doesn’t matter how attractive she is, or how much she loves you. These situations are going to be very hard to work through, so I’ll usually just try and find another girl.
Abundance Mindset!
So very true or what i can do is text her and what not using Quick Kill's texting stategies.
The anomaly to these situations is getting creative and trying to isolate her in a bathroom or a back alley. These make for great stories, but again, aren’t usually the easiest logistically to pull, and we are going for consistency here…
Its funny because I have had a much easier time pulling in a bathroom or a car, than leaving with her.
Good Responses:
-“Looking for a party!”
-“Whatever, what are your plans?”
-“Who knows, we’ll see where the night leads me…”
Obviously these are great answers. Look to lead in these situations and push the interaction as quickly as you can.
Yea, typically...these answers are awesome and almost every time the girl has said it..she was looking for something.
For example. The girl at local 16. Another example, the drunk girl at halloween. Another example, the girl at esl but i was incongruent at the time.
3. Convey yourself as the “sex-worthy” guy
You want to convey PHYSICALLY that you are a man that TAKES WHAT HE WANTS and isn’t held back by social constraints.
Get physical right off the bat and KEEP ESCALATING. Do this until it leads to a SHORT makeout.
WARNING: Don’t become the tacky makeout guy!
Yes! I definitely do this! Girls even note that I am touchy but you just keep going with it and do not stop.
You want to break the makeout first, don’t release the sexual tension!
You need to lead her conversationally also. To lead things in a sexual direction I like using the tried and trusted “push-pull” technique.
“What are you doing to me?! I was just trying to have a good night out with my friends, and you got me all hot and bothered!”
I do this too, but its true...at times where its not a sexual vibe...create it. Talk about sexual things and even if it feels awkward, touch her sensually.
As the night progresses and it looks more and more like she is down to hookup, I’ll escalate to even bolder statements. Here’s an example:
“You don’t even want to know what I’m thinking of doing to you right now.”
I use to do this, but i will again.
This gives you an opportunity to see how receptive she is towards going home with you. Based on her response, you will be able to see if she is ready to leave, or if you need to build more trust and comfort first.
60 Years of Challenge and Badboy say the same thing. Sure, after doing M1 I was afraid of losing girls if i did this but ABUNDANCE! Honestly, you know officially, a girl who wants dick won't dismiss the idea full out, she may resist a little bit or try to act like she hates that stuff but is looking at you with hungry or longing eyes.
4. Prepare for Paydirt
To help mitigate resistance later on, I found it helpful to qualify the girl after we have had a strong connection. Give her reasons for why you like her besides what’s between her legs. Just find three things that you really appreciate about her. Something like:
“You know, you are the first girl tonight that I have actually been able to have a decent conversation with. I’m glad we met.”
I’ll usually say two statements that are specific to the situation, and then the third is always…
“And to tell you the truth, I really want to have sex with you right now.”
I somewhat do this naturally.
Just make sure to reserve anything related to sex to the third qualifier, never the first.
Next, it just comes down to putting your balls on the line and LEADING.
LEADING is key. The circumstances are tenuous, and you can’t show any signs of uncertainty. So it is important to be assertive and decisive.
Absolutely. LiveForever was very spot on with this....not looking back lol.
There are two different techniques for when you leave the venue.
Have a reason for taking her to your house.
“Oh, I have to show you these cool fish/DVDs/youTUBE videos!”
The key here is to OVERSELL IT! “You have to come see the COOLEST FISHTANK IN THE WORLD!! C’mon, it is going to be SO FUN!!!”
The other choice is not to give a reason at all.
“C’mon. Sko’ sko’ sko’. Right now. We are leaving NOW!”
I actually prefer the second option because it is usually obvious that we are going to hookup.
Yessir. Good thing though is that some girls live on their own. I'll be working more on this no doubt!
5. Closing the deal
The last hurdle is getting from the club to the isolation location. It is important to keep the energy UP during this part of the interaction. Again, it’s a tenuous situation where too much lag time will dissipate the sexual tension to a point where neither of you are in the mood. So keep flirting, joking around, messing with the cab driver if in a taxi, and so on. Just keep the energy up until you get to your place.
Great advice! I just have to get to that point first.
Once back at your place, be chill and “cobra-like” walking in the door. Once inside, it’s time for the makeout wall slam of glory. Pin her against the wall and dive into a serious makeout. Then it’s just a matter of picking her up and carrying her to bed.
If you do things right it should lead to a Win/Win situation where both parties are happy. You took all the right steps to prevent any mishaps and resistance, ending in glory. Congratulate yourself… and the girl. :)
It shall happen sometime this year!
When taking a girl home the same night, your biggest hurdle is going to be logistics. This is something you need to consider BEFORE you even step out of your door.
I've noticed that. Typically MisterB and others have great logistics. Some of the sets i run, the logistics to leave with the girl are tough as nails.
Where are you staying?
Your place:
Is it close to the bars? Do you have easy transportation to your place?
Friend’s Place:
Do you have a key? How are you going to get there? Do you have a room/couch for isolation?
Hotel:
Don’t forget multiple room keys. How do you plan to isolate her if there isn’t a separate room? Make sure your bed is made ;)
These 3 I don't have although a hotel is an option but i dont want to have to do a hotel each time.
2. Have the right mindset
The most CONSISTENT approach is to determine RIGHT OFF THE BAT what your goal is for the night.
For one night stands, a more assertive, “go for broke” style works best. You want to set the frame of “This is going down tonight!” with every girl you meet.
I need to do this a bit more even though I do it quite a bit.
Screen right off the bat to see if it is even possible. Go into every interaction with a hard core screening frame.
For me that means these golden words within the first five minutes…
“So, what are you up to later?”
Bad Responses:
-“Ahh… Well… I’m the designated driver, so I’m just hanging with my friends for a bit then heading home with them.”
-“I’m staying with my brother, just visiting my family for the weekend.”
-“I am showing my friends a good time, then we are all crashing at my place 30 minutes away.”
Yea, typically i've been doing more of this lately. Most girls will say they're going to go home BUT its also good motivation for venue/car pulls.
It doesn’t matter how attractive she is, or how much she loves you. These situations are going to be very hard to work through, so I’ll usually just try and find another girl.
Abundance Mindset!
So very true or what i can do is text her and what not using Quick Kill's texting stategies.
The anomaly to these situations is getting creative and trying to isolate her in a bathroom or a back alley. These make for great stories, but again, aren’t usually the easiest logistically to pull, and we are going for consistency here…
Its funny because I have had a much easier time pulling in a bathroom or a car, than leaving with her.
Good Responses:
-“Looking for a party!”
-“Whatever, what are your plans?”
-“Who knows, we’ll see where the night leads me…”
Obviously these are great answers. Look to lead in these situations and push the interaction as quickly as you can.
Yea, typically...these answers are awesome and almost every time the girl has said it..she was looking for something.
For example. The girl at local 16. Another example, the drunk girl at halloween. Another example, the girl at esl but i was incongruent at the time.
3. Convey yourself as the “sex-worthy” guy
You want to convey PHYSICALLY that you are a man that TAKES WHAT HE WANTS and isn’t held back by social constraints.
Get physical right off the bat and KEEP ESCALATING. Do this until it leads to a SHORT makeout.
WARNING: Don’t become the tacky makeout guy!
Yes! I definitely do this! Girls even note that I am touchy but you just keep going with it and do not stop.
You want to break the makeout first, don’t release the sexual tension!
You need to lead her conversationally also. To lead things in a sexual direction I like using the tried and trusted “push-pull” technique.
“What are you doing to me?! I was just trying to have a good night out with my friends, and you got me all hot and bothered!”
I do this too, but its true...at times where its not a sexual vibe...create it. Talk about sexual things and even if it feels awkward, touch her sensually.
As the night progresses and it looks more and more like she is down to hookup, I’ll escalate to even bolder statements. Here’s an example:
“You don’t even want to know what I’m thinking of doing to you right now.”
I use to do this, but i will again.
This gives you an opportunity to see how receptive she is towards going home with you. Based on her response, you will be able to see if she is ready to leave, or if you need to build more trust and comfort first.
60 Years of Challenge and Badboy say the same thing. Sure, after doing M1 I was afraid of losing girls if i did this but ABUNDANCE! Honestly, you know officially, a girl who wants dick won't dismiss the idea full out, she may resist a little bit or try to act like she hates that stuff but is looking at you with hungry or longing eyes.
4. Prepare for Paydirt
To help mitigate resistance later on, I found it helpful to qualify the girl after we have had a strong connection. Give her reasons for why you like her besides what’s between her legs. Just find three things that you really appreciate about her. Something like:
“You know, you are the first girl tonight that I have actually been able to have a decent conversation with. I’m glad we met.”
I’ll usually say two statements that are specific to the situation, and then the third is always…
“And to tell you the truth, I really want to have sex with you right now.”
I somewhat do this naturally.
Just make sure to reserve anything related to sex to the third qualifier, never the first.
Next, it just comes down to putting your balls on the line and LEADING.
LEADING is key. The circumstances are tenuous, and you can’t show any signs of uncertainty. So it is important to be assertive and decisive.
Absolutely. LiveForever was very spot on with this....not looking back lol.
There are two different techniques for when you leave the venue.
Have a reason for taking her to your house.
“Oh, I have to show you these cool fish/DVDs/youTUBE videos!”
The key here is to OVERSELL IT! “You have to come see the COOLEST FISHTANK IN THE WORLD!! C’mon, it is going to be SO FUN!!!”
The other choice is not to give a reason at all.
“C’mon. Sko’ sko’ sko’. Right now. We are leaving NOW!”
I actually prefer the second option because it is usually obvious that we are going to hookup.
Yessir. Good thing though is that some girls live on their own. I'll be working more on this no doubt!
5. Closing the deal
The last hurdle is getting from the club to the isolation location. It is important to keep the energy UP during this part of the interaction. Again, it’s a tenuous situation where too much lag time will dissipate the sexual tension to a point where neither of you are in the mood. So keep flirting, joking around, messing with the cab driver if in a taxi, and so on. Just keep the energy up until you get to your place.
Great advice! I just have to get to that point first.
Once back at your place, be chill and “cobra-like” walking in the door. Once inside, it’s time for the makeout wall slam of glory. Pin her against the wall and dive into a serious makeout. Then it’s just a matter of picking her up and carrying her to bed.
If you do things right it should lead to a Win/Win situation where both parties are happy. You took all the right steps to prevent any mishaps and resistance, ending in glory. Congratulate yourself… and the girl. :)
It shall happen sometime this year!
How to Lead the Girl from the Bar to the Bedroom
Here is an old article by Brad P from RSD. In the next post, im going to break it down.
1. Manage Logistics
When taking a girl home the same night, your biggest hurdle is going to be logistics. This is something you need to consider BEFORE you even step out of your door.
Where are you staying?
Your place:
Is it close to the bars? Do you have easy transportation to your place?
Friend’s Place:
Do you have a key? How are you going to get there? Do you have a room/couch for isolation?
Hotel:
Don’t forget multiple room keys. How do you plan to isolate her if there isn’t a separate room? Make sure your bed is made ;)
2. Have the right mindset
The most CONSISTENT approach is to determine RIGHT OFF THE BAT what your goal is for the night.
For one night stands, a more assertive, “go for broke” style works best. You want to set the frame of “This is going down tonight!” with every girl you meet.
Screen right off the bat to see if it is even possible. Go into every interaction with a hard core screening frame.
For me that means these golden words within the first five minutes…
“So, what are you up to later?”
Bad Responses:
-“Ahh… Well… I’m the designated driver, so I’m just hanging with my friends for a bit then heading home with them.”
-“I’m staying with my brother, just visiting my family for the weekend.”
-“I am showing my friends a good time, then we are all crashing at my place 30 minutes away.”
It doesn’t matter how attractive she is, or how much she loves you. These situations are going to be very hard to work through, so I’ll usually just try and find another girl.
Abundance Mindset!
The anomaly to these situations is getting creative and trying to isolate her in a bathroom or a back alley. These make for great stories, but again, aren’t usually the easiest logistically to pull, and we are going for consistency here…
Good Responses:
-“Looking for a party!”
-“Whatever, what are your plans?”
-“Who knows, we’ll see where the night leads me…”
Obviously these are great answers. Look to lead in these situations and push the interaction as quickly as you can.
3. Convey yourself as the “sex-worthy” guy
You want to convey PHYSICALLY that you are a man that TAKES WHAT HE WANTS and isn’t held back by social constraints.
Get physical right off the bat and KEEP ESCALATING. Do this until it leads to a SHORT makeout.
WARNING: Don’t become the tacky makeout guy!
You want to break the makeout first, don’t release the sexual tension!
You need to lead her conversationally also. To lead things in a sexual direction I like using the tried and trusted “push-pull” technique.
“What are you doing to me?! I was just trying to have a good night out with my friends, and you got me all hot and bothered!”
As the night progresses and it looks more and more like she is down to hookup, I’ll escalate to even bolder statements. Here’s an example:
“You don’t even want to know what I’m thinking of doing to you right now.”
This gives you an opportunity to see how receptive she is towards going home with you. Based on her response, you will be able to see if she is ready to leave, or if you need to build more trust and comfort first.
4. Prepare for Paydirt
To help mitigate resistance later on, I found it helpful to qualify the girl after we have had a strong connection. Give her reasons for why you like her besides what’s between her legs. Just find three things that you really appreciate about her. Something like:
“You know, you are the first girl tonight that I have actually been able to have a decent conversation with. I’m glad we met.”
I’ll usually say two statements that are specific to the situation, and then the third is always…
“And to tell you the truth, I really want to have sex with you right now.”
Just make sure to reserve anything related to sex to the third qualifier, never the first.
Next, it just comes down to putting your balls on the line and LEADING.
LEADING is key. The circumstances are tenuous, and you can’t show any signs of uncertainty. So it is important to be assertive and decisive.
There are two different techniques for when you leave the venue.
Have a reason for taking her to your house.
“Oh, I have to show you these cool fish/DVDs/youTUBE videos!”
The key here is to OVERSELL IT! “You have to come see the COOLEST FISHTANK IN THE WORLD!! C’mon, it is going to be SO FUN!!!”
The other choice is not to give a reason at all.
“C’mon. Sko’ sko’ sko’. Right now. We are leaving NOW!”
I actually prefer the second option because it is usually obvious that we are going to hookup.
5. Closing the deal
The last hurdle is getting from the club to the isolation location. It is important to keep the energy UP during this part of the interaction. Again, it’s a tenuous situation where too much lag time will dissipate the sexual tension to a point where neither of you are in the mood. So keep flirting, joking around, messing with the cab driver if in a taxi, and so on. Just keep the energy up until you get to your place.
Once back at your place, be chill and “cobra-like” walking in the door. Once inside, it’s time for the makeout wall slam of glory. Pin her against the wall and dive into a serious makeout. Then it’s just a matter of picking her up and carrying her to bed.
If you do things right it should lead to a Win/Win situation where both parties are happy. You took all the right steps to prevent any mishaps and resistance, ending in glory. Congratulate yourself… and the girl. :)
1. Manage Logistics
When taking a girl home the same night, your biggest hurdle is going to be logistics. This is something you need to consider BEFORE you even step out of your door.
Where are you staying?
Your place:
Is it close to the bars? Do you have easy transportation to your place?
Friend’s Place:
Do you have a key? How are you going to get there? Do you have a room/couch for isolation?
Hotel:
Don’t forget multiple room keys. How do you plan to isolate her if there isn’t a separate room? Make sure your bed is made ;)
2. Have the right mindset
The most CONSISTENT approach is to determine RIGHT OFF THE BAT what your goal is for the night.
For one night stands, a more assertive, “go for broke” style works best. You want to set the frame of “This is going down tonight!” with every girl you meet.
Screen right off the bat to see if it is even possible. Go into every interaction with a hard core screening frame.
For me that means these golden words within the first five minutes…
“So, what are you up to later?”
Bad Responses:
-“Ahh… Well… I’m the designated driver, so I’m just hanging with my friends for a bit then heading home with them.”
-“I’m staying with my brother, just visiting my family for the weekend.”
-“I am showing my friends a good time, then we are all crashing at my place 30 minutes away.”
It doesn’t matter how attractive she is, or how much she loves you. These situations are going to be very hard to work through, so I’ll usually just try and find another girl.
Abundance Mindset!
The anomaly to these situations is getting creative and trying to isolate her in a bathroom or a back alley. These make for great stories, but again, aren’t usually the easiest logistically to pull, and we are going for consistency here…
Good Responses:
-“Looking for a party!”
-“Whatever, what are your plans?”
-“Who knows, we’ll see where the night leads me…”
Obviously these are great answers. Look to lead in these situations and push the interaction as quickly as you can.
3. Convey yourself as the “sex-worthy” guy
You want to convey PHYSICALLY that you are a man that TAKES WHAT HE WANTS and isn’t held back by social constraints.
Get physical right off the bat and KEEP ESCALATING. Do this until it leads to a SHORT makeout.
WARNING: Don’t become the tacky makeout guy!
You want to break the makeout first, don’t release the sexual tension!
You need to lead her conversationally also. To lead things in a sexual direction I like using the tried and trusted “push-pull” technique.
“What are you doing to me?! I was just trying to have a good night out with my friends, and you got me all hot and bothered!”
As the night progresses and it looks more and more like she is down to hookup, I’ll escalate to even bolder statements. Here’s an example:
“You don’t even want to know what I’m thinking of doing to you right now.”
This gives you an opportunity to see how receptive she is towards going home with you. Based on her response, you will be able to see if she is ready to leave, or if you need to build more trust and comfort first.
4. Prepare for Paydirt
To help mitigate resistance later on, I found it helpful to qualify the girl after we have had a strong connection. Give her reasons for why you like her besides what’s between her legs. Just find three things that you really appreciate about her. Something like:
“You know, you are the first girl tonight that I have actually been able to have a decent conversation with. I’m glad we met.”
I’ll usually say two statements that are specific to the situation, and then the third is always…
“And to tell you the truth, I really want to have sex with you right now.”
Just make sure to reserve anything related to sex to the third qualifier, never the first.
Next, it just comes down to putting your balls on the line and LEADING.
LEADING is key. The circumstances are tenuous, and you can’t show any signs of uncertainty. So it is important to be assertive and decisive.
There are two different techniques for when you leave the venue.
Have a reason for taking her to your house.
“Oh, I have to show you these cool fish/DVDs/youTUBE videos!”
The key here is to OVERSELL IT! “You have to come see the COOLEST FISHTANK IN THE WORLD!! C’mon, it is going to be SO FUN!!!”
The other choice is not to give a reason at all.
“C’mon. Sko’ sko’ sko’. Right now. We are leaving NOW!”
I actually prefer the second option because it is usually obvious that we are going to hookup.
5. Closing the deal
The last hurdle is getting from the club to the isolation location. It is important to keep the energy UP during this part of the interaction. Again, it’s a tenuous situation where too much lag time will dissipate the sexual tension to a point where neither of you are in the mood. So keep flirting, joking around, messing with the cab driver if in a taxi, and so on. Just keep the energy up until you get to your place.
Once back at your place, be chill and “cobra-like” walking in the door. Once inside, it’s time for the makeout wall slam of glory. Pin her against the wall and dive into a serious makeout. Then it’s just a matter of picking her up and carrying her to bed.
If you do things right it should lead to a Win/Win situation where both parties are happy. You took all the right steps to prevent any mishaps and resistance, ending in glory. Congratulate yourself… and the girl. :)
5/28 Federal Hill
Tonight I went to federal hill and it had the same vibe as college park. My best set was the first. She was quite cute and I was doing well but the logistics of it all hit me plus there wasn't an its on moment. Once you get the it's on moment...proceed further. I could've gotten the number close and tried quickkill's shit but she was gone. I did well with the seeding, I just add more sexual tension by touching her more. That's ok though since I didn't care for numbers. The other bars were just tough and that's why I avoid college bars....too logistically hard cuz of groups. I will try felt's point, canton once more and then bourbon st.
Adams morgan is tomorrow night. I'm taking a break from dupont. Arlington ill try again too.
For situations like these in the future:
+Attempt to be more sexual:
HOW? Touch her a bit more, whisper in her ear, look at her sexually in the eyes, caress her legs, caress her hand.
+Make sure to get the number when isolated and when she mentions the friends, mention discretion. But check logistics, considering she was leaving with her roommate, that would've been tough.
+Remember, the car pull idea was great...but it wasn't "On" yet. She was attracted to you, but it wasn't to the point where she was feeling horny. Remember, do this when you can obviously feel the sexual tension. I didn't feel it with her yet. Plus she was still a little closed off.
+Federal Hill wasn't too good in my opinion. Too much stimuli.
Adams morgan is tomorrow night. I'm taking a break from dupont. Arlington ill try again too.
For situations like these in the future:
+Attempt to be more sexual:
HOW? Touch her a bit more, whisper in her ear, look at her sexually in the eyes, caress her legs, caress her hand.
+Make sure to get the number when isolated and when she mentions the friends, mention discretion. But check logistics, considering she was leaving with her roommate, that would've been tough.
+Remember, the car pull idea was great...but it wasn't "On" yet. She was attracted to you, but it wasn't to the point where she was feeling horny. Remember, do this when you can obviously feel the sexual tension. I didn't feel it with her yet. Plus she was still a little closed off.
+Federal Hill wasn't too good in my opinion. Too much stimuli.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
5/26/10 QuickKill Seminar + Street Game and Adams Morgan
Alright, I went to Quick Kill's Seminar and took a good deal of notes. Here they are:
(COMING SOON)
At the end of the program, I asked him about withholding that part for day 2s and he told me not to. That was the answer I needed. Although I'm still hesitant, only because I guess you could say I'm a bit afraid to lose potential meet ups.
Before the seminar I went up to a married woman at dupont, a cute brunette girl in green going to a Stevie Wonder concert, a good looking brunette in a stoplight(she opened up more than the others), a thick girl with big tits, and then a cute black chick.
We went all over Adams Morgan after and spotted a thick black girl dancing behind her friend, there was a tar black dude with a tupe'...thought it maybe the bf but in reality...it was just a random guy. This set went well, eventhough she walked away after I tried to kiss her, before she left...i got her number and texted her after. Going to do my best and see what I can get.
Did some street game, some girls sticked but others didn't. One sexy chick was still walking but that's ok. I just have to have approach a bit stronger. Faz commented on the black dressed woman that the approach I did was weak...but i guess was because subconsciously I was trying to get her to stay. I only did that because I held back since it was quite dark out. One girl in street game that hooked was a tall slim black girl with yellow shoes. She replied to my text and seemed interested. :)
Adams Morgan seems pretty good :). This Saturday I'm going. I'm going to take a break from Dupont for a bit. Tomorrow I'm doing Reston Town Center. Sunday is Baltimore baby!
(COMING SOON)
At the end of the program, I asked him about withholding that part for day 2s and he told me not to. That was the answer I needed. Although I'm still hesitant, only because I guess you could say I'm a bit afraid to lose potential meet ups.
Before the seminar I went up to a married woman at dupont, a cute brunette girl in green going to a Stevie Wonder concert, a good looking brunette in a stoplight(she opened up more than the others), a thick girl with big tits, and then a cute black chick.
We went all over Adams Morgan after and spotted a thick black girl dancing behind her friend, there was a tar black dude with a tupe'...thought it maybe the bf but in reality...it was just a random guy. This set went well, eventhough she walked away after I tried to kiss her, before she left...i got her number and texted her after. Going to do my best and see what I can get.
Did some street game, some girls sticked but others didn't. One sexy chick was still walking but that's ok. I just have to have approach a bit stronger. Faz commented on the black dressed woman that the approach I did was weak...but i guess was because subconsciously I was trying to get her to stay. I only did that because I held back since it was quite dark out. One girl in street game that hooked was a tall slim black girl with yellow shoes. She replied to my text and seemed interested. :)
Adams Morgan seems pretty good :). This Saturday I'm going. I'm going to take a break from Dupont for a bit. Tomorrow I'm doing Reston Town Center. Sunday is Baltimore baby!
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Badboy Notes
How to make a woman go wild.
by Badboy
HI,
This post is my Christmas gift for you.
What I am about to share you here , is one of Secret DNA tools we only teach on our DNA events.
This one small piece of DNA and if its done correctly can improve your success with girls significantly!
Its designed primary for getting One-Night-Stands , and I do not recommend it it if you are looking for a girlfriend.
In DNA everything is spinning around 2 Main components.
TCC - Trust-Comfort-Connection
SE - Sexual energy/tension ( escalation)
Every girl you talk to is going to be different, and each one will have different needs for amount of connection / Se. tension she has to have to sleep with a guy.
Your job is to find right balance between 2 elements and deliver it. You going to do that, by looping between those 2 elements.
In each new loop you have to increase Connection she feels with you ( TCC ) and Se. tension.
For example, if you approach girl with powerful Badboy direct opening and you say :
“You are so Damn Sexy and I am going to get to know you, tell me something about yourself.. who are you” ?
You just entered loop from SE Tension side, and by saying “ I am going to get to know you” you are moving to TCC component ( Connection).
And then you spend several minutes building TCC ( creating connection with her), and then you move back to SE. tension, and escalate no new level.
“Baby... you smell so nice ( while smelling her neck), and shift back to TCC (“what type of music do you listen”?)
The rule of thumb is that with normal girls you going to spend 2-5minutes in TCC and 10-20 sec building SE Tension.
You will continue loop by talking more about other topics ( changing topics and going deeper ) while at same time being more and more dirtier building SE Tension.
“If you only know what I am thinking about, you would blush”--Back to TCC
“ You know what you are going to be my new girlfriend”
To achieve desired effect deliver SE escalation lines by whispering to her ear. While in TCC you talk normal voice from normal distance.
“You know what, you have such a nice body..yummy”
“Baby you are so turning me on”
“You know what, I am resisting myself not to kiss you right now”
each new SE loop has to be 20% stronger, 20% dirtier then pervious loop. You can see in this newsletter from top how much I am escalating each SE.
“I so want to take you home”
With girls that came to club to get laid, you can skip TCC part and just loop SE element.
From time to time I get asked, so when does this loop stops? HOnestly : Never. The moment you stop this loop you are losing her. How many times happened to you that you were talking to girl and there was that moment when you had to kiss her, you waited too long to Kiss her, to Escalate, and you lost the girl. Same thing happens in a relationship. The moment you stop escalating, you get sucked into boring routine, and relationship slowly dies.
In a relationship loop is more then obvious. you sleep with a girl, and then you pillow talk, have a breakfast . SE - TCC.
So how to you keep loop in a relationship? you have to regularly introduce new things, such as new positions, new people, toys..
--------------------
Jad's Bathroom pull
his happened yesterday. I have done this two times before. TO pull a girl to the bathroom is more right timing and preperation.
KNOW YOUR LOGISTICS!!!
I always tip the security at the bathroom door and get him some drinks (i also know the owner of the club). Guess what??? There is a hidden room in the bathroom to put stuff cleaning stuff. Still you can use the bathroom seat bur Angry DISGUSTING!!.
SO i know my logisitcs.
Now i need the right girl. The right girl always APPEAR to me. When i look at her i feel this instants spark of sexual tension. Take into account girls who are at the club after 2 am are there to fuck.
Last have a CONDOMS . This is key . I can't tell you how many times that shit stopped me!
So we went out at 1:30 am. I was dressed like shit. But i just knew on a GUT LEVEL there is a girl for me now. So i chilled and enjoyed the music. Some asks me for a lighter and my buddy fucks the situation up. God they have to learn NICE doesn't means ATTRACTIVE NICE IS EARNED!!
Anyways at about 2:30 am iam at the club door and a very sexy girl works throught the door. I have saw her before with her 2 girl friends.
hbmetice: Smiley
jad87:" Grin"
hbmetice:" What is your name"
jad87:" SHHHHHHHHH"(Putting my finger on her lip)
Rule: Create tension by being UNLOGICAL and Horny.
...Crazy EC small kiss than makeout.....start eating her neck and ear until she is moaning.....take her by hand ...
hbmetice:" Where are we going?"
jad87:"TO heaven">
KEY: DON"T ever be logical when she is in the horny state just stay playful LET THE TENSION UP!! YEs a logical answer can fuck things up it happened many times with me
SO i lead her next to bathroom. Begin making out and let my hand kind of move her breasts . AS we are making out the Guy at the door knows what to do. I am moving her as we are kissing in to the bathroom then I pull out my dick.
hbmetice:" Not here!! ...blabla"
jad87:(Tkae her hand and put it on it)(She strokes it)
Rule: Girls talk shit get them to act. WHo gives a fuck what she says
So then iam like :" We need some privacy"...she is like "YA"..I open that small room and she had a skirt so it was easy to go for her pussy. We fucked and after that I GOT HER NAME lol!!
I invited her for a drink is this supplication Grin and i met her friends. My friends were like were did you disappear and why s your face sooo red ahaha.
Bathroom pull!!
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Jad's DNA Tips
Well I didn't get any product related to this but this has been my style for a long time. The key to do it well is to truly NOT GIVE A SHIT. I mean it is like a frame of mind where you are in ACTION MODE. You do what you want to do and you do it TOTALLY. You must be out of your head.
The approach in itself should be an escalation and how RECEPTIVE she is to you escalation is her COMFORT ZONE.
I approach a girl i like in the club i immediately go for her ear while touching her face i let my hand pass on her neck . Now i say my opener usually " You are so fucking sexy" (and breath slow air in her ear)...Her Body language will tell me everything (It is best to get a FEELING for it then to logically search for it ..this comes with experience)
Then if she enjoys it I immediately take her hand and isolate (" i want to tell you something crazy...its too loud ") ...When isolation (She accepting isolation from such an approach in itself shows she WANT IT) ...We are walking i may push her on a wall to make out ..or get really close to her and go for it....Ofcours along the process she may TEST a lot..The key is not to even be affected..Would you fight a baby whore(that is your frame)...Now after she gets turned on (Make out should be short coz you don't wnat to give her everything) take her to an isolated place using some lame excuse or even better TAKE her and just GO...
note: There is no rules in this game but GUIDELINES
---------------
Jad's Screening Tips
Well lovesong and biggun I will try to clarify some stuff. Not all girls are up to such an approach . I usually select the girl that i TRULY WANT. Like she makes me feel something special. You can FEEL it when you look her in her eyes or at her like some sort of energy. I like to think of it like my instincts are guiding. Badboy was on point when he said " You feel like kissing then KISS".
Now for the girl the way she is dressed and behaving and when she is at the clube will tell you everything. so it is a why/how/when but i urge you not TO THINK it will come with experiance. But a fast guideline:
1. Who is she with?
2. Is she dressed slutty?
3. Is she drinking more than usual? (An excuse to fuck)
4. What is the time at the club? (If it is 2 in the morening she is there for reasons other than dancing)
When in convo with her:
1. Is she touching me? (After such an approach any touch from her is a huge good sign)
2. Is she logically trying to fuck my game? (If this is happening at the same time of her touching you she is HORNY...like one time a girl touched my cock while at the same time saying she hates me"(post fr soon)
3. Is she telling you how much she HATES her boyfried/husbad? (this is a sign she wants to cheat with you)
4. Does she give you an isolation window (This could be simple as she telling you she love guitar music after you say "I have a guitar home..Be aware of this"
I add some stuff also...
----------
Enio's Stuff
I did like marius said... I'm working on my inner game... and i'm trying to change word "need" to "want"
i went to the pub yesterday... noting special just have a beer and relax... I wasn't looking for any girls....
Ok so i sit at the bar drinking johny black talking to bartender... When i finish my first glass of johny I had to go to restroom. I told bartender to pour me another one... While going to restroom I saw this brunette... Big eyes, nice lips, nice tits... we had an EC... Yap its going I think...
So when i came back from restroom I went to grab my Johny and went straight to this girl....
- You are so damn sexy and I want to get to know you... who are you?
She told me her name
- I din;t ask you for your name... I want to know who u r as a person...
She started talking about her life... what kind of person she is... what se doesn;'t like in ppl etc fluffy talk...
- I was like: Shhhhh your talking making me horny (hehe I love this phrase badboy... she was stuned)
.... I put my hand in her hair and I pulled it a little... and KC
- She was like: WTF is happening. I could see that from her expression...
I was trying to pull her out from the pub but she said that she is waiting for her friend and she cannot go...
I told her to call her friends that something came up and she have to change her plans....
No go....
So i sat there with her for few minutes talking, and I took her number...
I'm thinking about calling her tonight or tomorrow and ask her out.... maybe i will call her tomorrow during lunch time....
It looks like she wasn't the girl who wanted to get fucked this night... Well anyway I wasn't NEEDing to fuck her.... I go to pubs alone to work on my inner game and don't relay on going to pubs/clubs with friends....
by Badboy
HI,
This post is my Christmas gift for you.
What I am about to share you here , is one of Secret DNA tools we only teach on our DNA events.
This one small piece of DNA and if its done correctly can improve your success with girls significantly!
Its designed primary for getting One-Night-Stands , and I do not recommend it it if you are looking for a girlfriend.
In DNA everything is spinning around 2 Main components.
TCC - Trust-Comfort-Connection
SE - Sexual energy/tension ( escalation)
Every girl you talk to is going to be different, and each one will have different needs for amount of connection / Se. tension she has to have to sleep with a guy.
Your job is to find right balance between 2 elements and deliver it. You going to do that, by looping between those 2 elements.
In each new loop you have to increase Connection she feels with you ( TCC ) and Se. tension.
For example, if you approach girl with powerful Badboy direct opening and you say :
“You are so Damn Sexy and I am going to get to know you, tell me something about yourself.. who are you” ?
You just entered loop from SE Tension side, and by saying “ I am going to get to know you” you are moving to TCC component ( Connection).
And then you spend several minutes building TCC ( creating connection with her), and then you move back to SE. tension, and escalate no new level.
“Baby... you smell so nice ( while smelling her neck), and shift back to TCC (“what type of music do you listen”?)
The rule of thumb is that with normal girls you going to spend 2-5minutes in TCC and 10-20 sec building SE Tension.
You will continue loop by talking more about other topics ( changing topics and going deeper ) while at same time being more and more dirtier building SE Tension.
“If you only know what I am thinking about, you would blush”--Back to TCC
“ You know what you are going to be my new girlfriend”
To achieve desired effect deliver SE escalation lines by whispering to her ear. While in TCC you talk normal voice from normal distance.
“You know what, you have such a nice body..yummy”
“Baby you are so turning me on”
“You know what, I am resisting myself not to kiss you right now”
each new SE loop has to be 20% stronger, 20% dirtier then pervious loop. You can see in this newsletter from top how much I am escalating each SE.
“I so want to take you home”
With girls that came to club to get laid, you can skip TCC part and just loop SE element.
From time to time I get asked, so when does this loop stops? HOnestly : Never. The moment you stop this loop you are losing her. How many times happened to you that you were talking to girl and there was that moment when you had to kiss her, you waited too long to Kiss her, to Escalate, and you lost the girl. Same thing happens in a relationship. The moment you stop escalating, you get sucked into boring routine, and relationship slowly dies.
In a relationship loop is more then obvious. you sleep with a girl, and then you pillow talk, have a breakfast . SE - TCC.
So how to you keep loop in a relationship? you have to regularly introduce new things, such as new positions, new people, toys..
--------------------
Jad's Bathroom pull
his happened yesterday. I have done this two times before. TO pull a girl to the bathroom is more right timing and preperation.
KNOW YOUR LOGISTICS!!!
I always tip the security at the bathroom door and get him some drinks (i also know the owner of the club). Guess what??? There is a hidden room in the bathroom to put stuff cleaning stuff. Still you can use the bathroom seat bur Angry DISGUSTING!!.
SO i know my logisitcs.
Now i need the right girl. The right girl always APPEAR to me. When i look at her i feel this instants spark of sexual tension. Take into account girls who are at the club after 2 am are there to fuck.
Last have a CONDOMS . This is key . I can't tell you how many times that shit stopped me!
So we went out at 1:30 am. I was dressed like shit. But i just knew on a GUT LEVEL there is a girl for me now. So i chilled and enjoyed the music. Some asks me for a lighter and my buddy fucks the situation up. God they have to learn NICE doesn't means ATTRACTIVE NICE IS EARNED!!
Anyways at about 2:30 am iam at the club door and a very sexy girl works throught the door. I have saw her before with her 2 girl friends.
hbmetice: Smiley
jad87:" Grin"
hbmetice:" What is your name"
jad87:" SHHHHHHHHH"(Putting my finger on her lip)
Rule: Create tension by being UNLOGICAL and Horny.
...Crazy EC small kiss than makeout.....start eating her neck and ear until she is moaning.....take her by hand ...
hbmetice:" Where are we going?"
jad87:"TO heaven">
KEY: DON"T ever be logical when she is in the horny state just stay playful LET THE TENSION UP!! YEs a logical answer can fuck things up it happened many times with me
SO i lead her next to bathroom. Begin making out and let my hand kind of move her breasts . AS we are making out the Guy at the door knows what to do. I am moving her as we are kissing in to the bathroom then I pull out my dick.
hbmetice:" Not here!! ...blabla"
jad87:(Tkae her hand and put it on it)(She strokes it)
Rule: Girls talk shit get them to act. WHo gives a fuck what she says
So then iam like :" We need some privacy"...she is like "YA"..I open that small room and she had a skirt so it was easy to go for her pussy. We fucked and after that I GOT HER NAME lol!!
I invited her for a drink is this supplication Grin and i met her friends. My friends were like were did you disappear and why s your face sooo red ahaha.
Bathroom pull!!
------------------
Jad's DNA Tips
Well I didn't get any product related to this but this has been my style for a long time. The key to do it well is to truly NOT GIVE A SHIT. I mean it is like a frame of mind where you are in ACTION MODE. You do what you want to do and you do it TOTALLY. You must be out of your head.
The approach in itself should be an escalation and how RECEPTIVE she is to you escalation is her COMFORT ZONE.
I approach a girl i like in the club i immediately go for her ear while touching her face i let my hand pass on her neck . Now i say my opener usually " You are so fucking sexy" (and breath slow air in her ear)...Her Body language will tell me everything (It is best to get a FEELING for it then to logically search for it ..this comes with experience)
Then if she enjoys it I immediately take her hand and isolate (" i want to tell you something crazy...its too loud ") ...When isolation (She accepting isolation from such an approach in itself shows she WANT IT) ...We are walking i may push her on a wall to make out ..or get really close to her and go for it....Ofcours along the process she may TEST a lot..The key is not to even be affected..Would you fight a baby whore(that is your frame)...Now after she gets turned on (Make out should be short coz you don't wnat to give her everything) take her to an isolated place using some lame excuse or even better TAKE her and just GO...
note: There is no rules in this game but GUIDELINES
---------------
Jad's Screening Tips
Well lovesong and biggun I will try to clarify some stuff. Not all girls are up to such an approach . I usually select the girl that i TRULY WANT. Like she makes me feel something special. You can FEEL it when you look her in her eyes or at her like some sort of energy. I like to think of it like my instincts are guiding. Badboy was on point when he said " You feel like kissing then KISS".
Now for the girl the way she is dressed and behaving and when she is at the clube will tell you everything. so it is a why/how/when but i urge you not TO THINK it will come with experiance. But a fast guideline:
1. Who is she with?
2. Is she dressed slutty?
3. Is she drinking more than usual? (An excuse to fuck)
4. What is the time at the club? (If it is 2 in the morening she is there for reasons other than dancing)
When in convo with her:
1. Is she touching me? (After such an approach any touch from her is a huge good sign)
2. Is she logically trying to fuck my game? (If this is happening at the same time of her touching you she is HORNY...like one time a girl touched my cock while at the same time saying she hates me"(post fr soon)
3. Is she telling you how much she HATES her boyfried/husbad? (this is a sign she wants to cheat with you)
4. Does she give you an isolation window (This could be simple as she telling you she love guitar music after you say "I have a guitar home..Be aware of this"
I add some stuff also...
----------
Enio's Stuff
I did like marius said... I'm working on my inner game... and i'm trying to change word "need" to "want"
i went to the pub yesterday... noting special just have a beer and relax... I wasn't looking for any girls....
Ok so i sit at the bar drinking johny black talking to bartender... When i finish my first glass of johny I had to go to restroom. I told bartender to pour me another one... While going to restroom I saw this brunette... Big eyes, nice lips, nice tits... we had an EC... Yap its going I think...
So when i came back from restroom I went to grab my Johny and went straight to this girl....
- You are so damn sexy and I want to get to know you... who are you?
She told me her name
- I din;t ask you for your name... I want to know who u r as a person...
She started talking about her life... what kind of person she is... what se doesn;'t like in ppl etc fluffy talk...
- I was like: Shhhhh your talking making me horny (hehe I love this phrase badboy... she was stuned)
.... I put my hand in her hair and I pulled it a little... and KC
- She was like: WTF is happening. I could see that from her expression...
I was trying to pull her out from the pub but she said that she is waiting for her friend and she cannot go...
I told her to call her friends that something came up and she have to change her plans....
No go....
So i sat there with her for few minutes talking, and I took her number...
I'm thinking about calling her tonight or tomorrow and ask her out.... maybe i will call her tomorrow during lunch time....
It looks like she wasn't the girl who wanted to get fucked this night... Well anyway I wasn't NEEDing to fuck her.... I go to pubs alone to work on my inner game and don't relay on going to pubs/clubs with friends....
Random Shit
I'm now even more determined than ever!
-Go for the car pulls for each girl that its on if its earlier in the night when its on! If there's a bathroom that's good logistically...then wait till she's very horny!
Response to Enio's approach:
Respect for trying but she was on fuck me tomorrow and you at fuck her now...
this was more free styling next time now exactly what you want when you go out (to get lay,get girlfriend or fuck buddy) and apply the right strategy...and screening for the right girl is important
-Going to buy Same Night Sex System book by Vince Kelvin. Also going to a seminar of is.
-Quick Kill's seminar tomorrow should help me keeping the tension for day 2s.
-Go for the car pulls for each girl that its on if its earlier in the night when its on! If there's a bathroom that's good logistically...then wait till she's very horny!
Response to Enio's approach:
Respect for trying but she was on fuck me tomorrow and you at fuck her now...
this was more free styling next time now exactly what you want when you go out (to get lay,get girlfriend or fuck buddy) and apply the right strategy...and screening for the right girl is important
-Going to buy Same Night Sex System book by Vince Kelvin. Also going to a seminar of is.
-Quick Kill's seminar tomorrow should help me keeping the tension for day 2s.
Monday, May 24, 2010
Upcoming Plans and Sky's Thoughts
Alright, lets first start with Sky's Thoughts.
After going out this weekend, I learned vital information.
#1 Each girl you approach, your screening for the one you'll take home.
60 Years of Challenge, Month 1: Escalating the Vibe
#2 Seed for SNLs to where you have the eatery place or a hookah/Carpulls with the CD you have in your car. Then once there's an it's on moment, then proceed to have her come with you. If she makes an objection but hasn't gone anywhere, wait a little bit...then try again.
#3 For setting up Day 2s, initiate a sexual frame from the beginning and keep that up with texts. Hopefully Quick kill's seminar is on to where then I can learn how to do this. Live Forever mentioned being aggressive in Day 2's, so that the frame doesn't shift to being slow. I'm not looking to make these girls my girlfriends, so why should I meet up so many times? This is for girls I've pecked on the lips, for ones i had no physical contact...i am in close proximity and proceed to escalate.
#4 For girls that keep wanting to stay with their friends, don't even try too much. Just hang out with them for a bit, then get her alone. If worst come to worst, just get a number or re-approach her later. Seed. Remember, your looking for the one who wants to fuck.
Remember, if the girl doesn't have enough compliance to where she wants to be alone with you for a while, move on.
Events This Week
Wednesday: Quick Kill's Seminar
Thursday: Possibly The International DC Happy Hour
Friday: Federal Hill(Baltimore)
Saturday: ??????
Sunday: ???????
After going out this weekend, I learned vital information.
#1 Each girl you approach, your screening for the one you'll take home.
60 Years of Challenge, Month 1: Escalating the Vibe
#2 Seed for SNLs to where you have the eatery place or a hookah/Carpulls with the CD you have in your car. Then once there's an it's on moment, then proceed to have her come with you. If she makes an objection but hasn't gone anywhere, wait a little bit...then try again.
#3 For setting up Day 2s, initiate a sexual frame from the beginning and keep that up with texts. Hopefully Quick kill's seminar is on to where then I can learn how to do this. Live Forever mentioned being aggressive in Day 2's, so that the frame doesn't shift to being slow. I'm not looking to make these girls my girlfriends, so why should I meet up so many times? This is for girls I've pecked on the lips, for ones i had no physical contact...i am in close proximity and proceed to escalate.
#4 For girls that keep wanting to stay with their friends, don't even try too much. Just hang out with them for a bit, then get her alone. If worst come to worst, just get a number or re-approach her later. Seed. Remember, your looking for the one who wants to fuck.
Remember, if the girl doesn't have enough compliance to where she wants to be alone with you for a while, move on.
Events This Week
Wednesday: Quick Kill's Seminar
Thursday: Possibly The International DC Happy Hour
Friday: Federal Hill(Baltimore)
Saturday: ??????
Sunday: ???????
Sunday, May 23, 2010
5/22 Lucky Bar
Lucky Bar tonight was good, only issue was too many social groups.
#1 Brunette girl who was on her way to the bathroom. She was smiling and directly facing me. I felt an "its on" moment with her. I kissed her and she kept smiling but then felt obligated to go back to her friends. So I meet them and turns out they've all lived in the New England area. Things are good except then its just her and her female friend. Only issue is, the female friend goes from being on being chill to then being a cock block. Don't you hate it that the friends cock block their own friends? Its too bad girls sometimes don't have wills of their own.
#2 British Black Chick. She was interested but acted funny around her co-workers. I think she held back for that reason. I isolated her to my friends but then she wanted to go back. Situations like these were tough. LiveForever gave me good advice.
He told me in these cases, just go for the number and when the Day 2 starts, be aggressive and all up on her. Thats the way to go about it, if the sexual frame isn't there...then things can be troublesome. I'm looking to get laid that same date, not take my time. If a girl is willing to meet up with you later in the night, she wants some dick lol.
#3 Director Girl. I was winging with Raven and his girl was cute. So then I proceeded to wing with him. But you know how girls are in this area, they rarely leave by themselves. But we just danced, kissed, danced, kissed...
Things I improved on:
1) When she kept saying she had to go, I proceeded to not acknowledge it and just talked about random stuff
2) I teased her on her objection, keeping this illogical still
NOTE: Was a mistake I made in the past back in Radford with that Big rugby girl whom kept saying she just wanted to play beer pong. You couldn't blame me for how I acted at the time. But its purpose was to teach me a huge ass lesson and thank god because I haven't made the same mistake before.
It was good seeding the Day 2.
#4 Tall thick drunk girl. This was awesome. The dude who was with his gf tried to set me up with her, even to the point of attempting to leave, but then the tall girl's alert signal flashed in her mind to where she would leave with them. I did forget her name sadly. Don't you hate that though? The friends tell the girl they are leaving BUT then the girl herself won't stay while other situations the girl would like to stay but the friends are deadset on having her go with them. Its like friends of girls ruin what the girl wants. The only down side was that when she said she was going to leave, I said "No" cuz subconsciously I didn't want to lose a golden opportunity like this. lol.
Did some street game with JSC and his friend. BUT, I was too wet to where I didn't go for some sets. If it wasn't raining, I would've no question. The girl whatshisface was with, the brazilian, i found her sexy...she reminded me of Monqiue Fuentes.
#1 Brunette girl who was on her way to the bathroom. She was smiling and directly facing me. I felt an "its on" moment with her. I kissed her and she kept smiling but then felt obligated to go back to her friends. So I meet them and turns out they've all lived in the New England area. Things are good except then its just her and her female friend. Only issue is, the female friend goes from being on being chill to then being a cock block. Don't you hate it that the friends cock block their own friends? Its too bad girls sometimes don't have wills of their own.
#2 British Black Chick. She was interested but acted funny around her co-workers. I think she held back for that reason. I isolated her to my friends but then she wanted to go back. Situations like these were tough. LiveForever gave me good advice.
He told me in these cases, just go for the number and when the Day 2 starts, be aggressive and all up on her. Thats the way to go about it, if the sexual frame isn't there...then things can be troublesome. I'm looking to get laid that same date, not take my time. If a girl is willing to meet up with you later in the night, she wants some dick lol.
#3 Director Girl. I was winging with Raven and his girl was cute. So then I proceeded to wing with him. But you know how girls are in this area, they rarely leave by themselves. But we just danced, kissed, danced, kissed...
Things I improved on:
1) When she kept saying she had to go, I proceeded to not acknowledge it and just talked about random stuff
2) I teased her on her objection, keeping this illogical still
NOTE: Was a mistake I made in the past back in Radford with that Big rugby girl whom kept saying she just wanted to play beer pong. You couldn't blame me for how I acted at the time. But its purpose was to teach me a huge ass lesson and thank god because I haven't made the same mistake before.
It was good seeding the Day 2.
#4 Tall thick drunk girl. This was awesome. The dude who was with his gf tried to set me up with her, even to the point of attempting to leave, but then the tall girl's alert signal flashed in her mind to where she would leave with them. I did forget her name sadly. Don't you hate that though? The friends tell the girl they are leaving BUT then the girl herself won't stay while other situations the girl would like to stay but the friends are deadset on having her go with them. Its like friends of girls ruin what the girl wants. The only down side was that when she said she was going to leave, I said "No" cuz subconsciously I didn't want to lose a golden opportunity like this. lol.
Did some street game with JSC and his friend. BUT, I was too wet to where I didn't go for some sets. If it wasn't raining, I would've no question. The girl whatshisface was with, the brazilian, i found her sexy...she reminded me of Monqiue Fuentes.
Saturday, May 22, 2010
5/21 Clarendon
Alright, tonight I went to Clarendon Ballroom. It was quite good in terms of hot girls. Sets that had good logistics, there were some but many were tough because of so many social groups.
Tall Danish hottie
Color was winging this set, but then introduced me to the hot Danish blonde who was late 20s.
+Set ran smoothly
+Had no problems isolated
+Did the 60 years of challenge screen shit
+After kissing her, she didn't want to go anywhere
-She wanted to go back to the friends
-Didn't seem to fully open up 100%.
Redhead at Mr. Days
+Friends wanted her to go
+Went for the kiss when I felt it necessary, eventho the spark might not had been there.
-To me it felt a little awkward to touch her
Two latina girls at Hardrock Cafe
+The hotter one seemed to be more chill and nice
+Good idea for bouncing, she was thinking about it while her friend was kinda aloof/not being that friendly lol
-Tough to close her because of her friend who was dead weight lol.
Tall Danish hottie
Color was winging this set, but then introduced me to the hot Danish blonde who was late 20s.
+Set ran smoothly
+Had no problems isolated
+Did the 60 years of challenge screen shit
+After kissing her, she didn't want to go anywhere
-She wanted to go back to the friends
-Didn't seem to fully open up 100%.
Redhead at Mr. Days
+Friends wanted her to go
+Went for the kiss when I felt it necessary, eventho the spark might not had been there.
-To me it felt a little awkward to touch her
Two latina girls at Hardrock Cafe
+The hotter one seemed to be more chill and nice
+Good idea for bouncing, she was thinking about it while her friend was kinda aloof/not being that friendly lol
-Tough to close her because of her friend who was dead weight lol.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
5/16 Night Game National Harbor
I was at the National Harbor. Here is some approaches I can learn from, I did other ones but logistics weren't too good with them.
Brunette who was getting married in two weeks
Blonde and Dark haired brunette.
Older Indian woman who tried to act as if she was too intelligent for this stuff, she should be happy she was being hit on at her age.
Brunette who was getting married in two weeks
Blonde and Dark haired brunette.
Older Indian woman who tried to act as if she was too intelligent for this stuff, she should be happy she was being hit on at her age.
5/16 Saturday Day Game
Here's a list of the good approaches I did and i will update with what I could've done with them.
The Tall Slim Black Haired Hottie who was with a friend
Things I did right:
+Had it to where i walked with her.
+One of the hottest I approached, was funny how she stopped...while the other women didn't.
Things I could've done:
-Tell the friend that she'll be right there
Mixed chick who had a flapper hair style
-Not much I could've done here
Indian/Latina woman who was in Barnes and Nobles
Woman in fitness attire, 29.
The Tall Slim Black Haired Hottie who was with a friend
Things I did right:
+Had it to where i walked with her.
+One of the hottest I approached, was funny how she stopped...while the other women didn't.
Things I could've done:
-Tell the friend that she'll be right there
Mixed chick who had a flapper hair style
-Not much I could've done here
Indian/Latina woman who was in Barnes and Nobles
Woman in fitness attire, 29.
Friday, May 14, 2010
Current Progress and Blog Update Notices
I've decided to post in this thing again and update with certain approaches i've done and what not.
My current progress(since September 2009):
4 Day 2's
4 Online Dates
3 Bathroom Pulls
Many more kisses
More Makeouts
1 Close(non-pickup)
I want these results to be better.
The Kazakstani woman was the only Day 2 i completely enjoyed. The rest were bleh.
This can't be my limit. I know i'm more capable than this. To which I'll make that happen.
My current progress(since September 2009):
4 Day 2's
4 Online Dates
3 Bathroom Pulls
Many more kisses
More Makeouts
1 Close(non-pickup)
I want these results to be better.
The Kazakstani woman was the only Day 2 i completely enjoyed. The rest were bleh.
This can't be my limit. I know i'm more capable than this. To which I'll make that happen.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
I'm Back
I haven't updated this blasted thing in a very long time lol.
On around March 24th, I finally relieved my 5 and a half year curse with a girl i met online, who was big. At first I did want to bone her and ate her out, but the fact that she refused to give me head...killed my mood. i thought it was getting limp with a condom, but its just i didn't get enough stimulation. How are you going to enjoy sex when only one party is stimulated, while the other isn't? But during that time, i had trouble getting hard, although I put it inside for a few seconds...but couldn't keep it in there. Didn't really feel much :(
But after that, from that day to now...I haven't gotten "true" results. I don't really count that toward progress in my pickup life. Sex life, course cuz that frustration of the curse is over, now its more or less this.
But here's a list of what I did:
August-September: End of M1, reverting to PG-13 M1
October: Started back up with regular direct.
November: Car pull at ESL, Met Arie. Did Horizon's coaching
December: Almost screwed the Kazak milf but at the last second, she bailed. Online date with black girl.
January: Coaching with TerminateHer, and PrettyBoy
February - March: Fingered a girl my brother knew, did a bathroom pull with Big Girl at the Park, An online date or two
March: 2 online dates and had libido problems with 1.
April: A Couple Day 2s.
The Phases:
The Cub(TouchinTheNightSky)-Before I did M1 but first stepped in the real world.
Upfront Steven-When I did M1.
Final Style(TheWolfHowls)-After I did M1, but returned to doing direct but picked up on experience.
Wolf Steven-Once i did TerminateHer's coaching, i found some of my flaws but after a few months, i still had some.
My Current Pros:
+Opening-Can Still Open just fine
+Kino-Fine
+Leading-Fine
+Energy-Fine
+Escalation-Definitely fine
+AMOG-Bothers me less. Hard for a guy to tool me.
+Limited logistics, i've functioned.
My Current Cons:
-Can't successfully fuck a girl for the night
-Some of my sets don't last long enough
-Day 2s have been BLEH. Girls who came out weren't looking to fuck that night.
-Can't seem to be aware of girls wanting to leave/logistics i have issues with.
-More aggressive AMOGs
So then, I've decided that it is time for me to step things up. My goal in this is to have ONS's and to pull from Day Game as well.
the Breakthrough moments:
1) To Do Something about it(Beginning of taking action)
Trigger-
Quadfest 2006
ZTA Girl in my class
Jean and her friend in their dorms, when i visited them.
2) I want to quit!(Beginning of Consistency)
Trigger-
Unable to bed Yasi
Unable to screw a girl at my frat parties
Couldn't get Danielle Reynolds when she wanted it
When I couldn't seal the deal with Martha
3) I aint going anywhere, I need help(Beginning of M1)
Trigger-
Was having trouble doing stuff
Regular style i felt hindered me
4) Do I really care to be upfront?(Returning to Direct)
Trigger-
Seeing Z with a 32 year old woman and them talking. She was hot.
Only caring for results
Right now I'm at #5
"Right now, I'm not getting results that I at least feel are making enough progress."
This can't be my limit. Others are doing fine, this can't be it. Will I forever struggle pulling? If the guy at SDB got 4 girls in 6 weeks...I can do it too! That's where I should be. Even 1 girl a month would be fine for me. LiveForever also has been doing quite well. Eric has been doing quite well. 12 girls in a couple years is fine. But me, i don't count the girl online in terms of pickup but only for me getting rid of the curse. If i want to get solid results, I have to do better than this. TerminateHer's coaching helped me with some things, but it still isn't enough. I looked up 60 years of challenge stuff and after reading and listening to it, it seems to be quite good. I'm recognizing more of my mistakes.
What Zengame told me about those two MILFs has haunted me, because its like "How would I had known? She wasn't complying with moving away from her friend and now all of a sudden...she's jealous because I'm talking to a different girl". But that, plus the group situation of the hot indian girl with her indian friend and the fatty...i then realized what I can improve on.
Starbuck's advise was pretty spot on too as well the advice on Badboy's forum. For a bit, I didn't press for the close much and stayed aloof but with that, nothing changed. Its like "Sure...im getting alot more kisses and some makeouts but is this it? Am I doing this for TerminateHer and PrettyBoy's satisfaction? or my own?"
I then realized at Radford, the past where I couldn't do anything, i figured nothing would've happened even if i tried with the knowledge I have now. I thought that at first but in reality, we'll never know. The Martha situation i would've boned her. My freshman and especially sophmore year, I wanted to do something about it...but couldn't at that time. Ever since then, I've been on this road.
It is satisfying to know that I am doing something about all this. I believe once it happens the first three times, things will skyrocket.
My Gameplan:
Alright now. My gameplan is to find the girl who seems to want to go home. I remember at Cafe Citron and that hot as hell 24 year old latina girl...she wanted to get fucked that night. All I had to do in that situation was stick with her...dance with her...taking in account her mentioning the husband is just resistence and can be overpowered. I didn't stick because I was afraid I was seen as a needy follower, which wasn't the case at all. Her older sister, looked at me in the manner of "Wow...this guy seems to be good with women." Another situation was the swedish blonde girl. I did get kicked out of that place, but then it hit me that if i did things right, i might've been able to leave with her. Her male friend with glasses didn't give a rats ass what i was doing with her.
Looking back by those scenarios, those are the girls I definitely want to pull. And to get there, my gameplan needs to change.
My overall game is fine. My style and everything. But my awareness was lacking. So now I believe I have the full out tools and awareness to carry this out. I need to stick with what I know but also add what I don't know. Its like trying to find a fighter to defeat Floyd Mayweather. Nazim Richardson had the perfect game plan but Mosley wasn't the best fighter to carry it out. I'm the opposite, I am the perfect guy to carry it out, but my trainer isn't the best. That trainer I have is the experience i've collected.
Its time i have the closer mentality full out. Course I remain aloof to the results BUT i still go for it more often. The only way I'm going to get it is to screen more women i talk to.
My Gameplan:
ONLY DO PLACES THAT HAVE A BATHROOM OR YOUR CAR IS ACCESSIBLE WITHIN A BLOCK OR TWO. LOCAL 16 IS FINE SINCE THERE IS A PARKING GARAGE A BLOCK AND A HALF AWAY.
10pm - 12am: Do my thing, do what i can...find out if they're going anywhere else. Get the number i guess...keep sexual tension alive. If they are gonna be distracted, go up to them later.
12am: Really look out for girls who aren't going anywhere. Go for bathroom or car pulls if the venue is good for that.
Day time, do Georgetown and Dupont for now.
If i'm not able to isolate the girl for the time being but she's still attracted...do the 60 years of challenge stuff.
Here is my shout out to the world!
I WILL SUCCEED! I WILL PULL! I WILL CLOSE! WATCH ME! THE TIME IS NOW!!!!
On around March 24th, I finally relieved my 5 and a half year curse with a girl i met online, who was big. At first I did want to bone her and ate her out, but the fact that she refused to give me head...killed my mood. i thought it was getting limp with a condom, but its just i didn't get enough stimulation. How are you going to enjoy sex when only one party is stimulated, while the other isn't? But during that time, i had trouble getting hard, although I put it inside for a few seconds...but couldn't keep it in there. Didn't really feel much :(
But after that, from that day to now...I haven't gotten "true" results. I don't really count that toward progress in my pickup life. Sex life, course cuz that frustration of the curse is over, now its more or less this.
But here's a list of what I did:
August-September: End of M1, reverting to PG-13 M1
October: Started back up with regular direct.
November: Car pull at ESL, Met Arie. Did Horizon's coaching
December: Almost screwed the Kazak milf but at the last second, she bailed. Online date with black girl.
January: Coaching with TerminateHer, and PrettyBoy
February - March: Fingered a girl my brother knew, did a bathroom pull with Big Girl at the Park, An online date or two
March: 2 online dates and had libido problems with 1.
April: A Couple Day 2s.
The Phases:
The Cub(TouchinTheNightSky)-Before I did M1 but first stepped in the real world.
Upfront Steven-When I did M1.
Final Style(TheWolfHowls)-After I did M1, but returned to doing direct but picked up on experience.
Wolf Steven-Once i did TerminateHer's coaching, i found some of my flaws but after a few months, i still had some.
My Current Pros:
+Opening-Can Still Open just fine
+Kino-Fine
+Leading-Fine
+Energy-Fine
+Escalation-Definitely fine
+AMOG-Bothers me less. Hard for a guy to tool me.
+Limited logistics, i've functioned.
My Current Cons:
-Can't successfully fuck a girl for the night
-Some of my sets don't last long enough
-Day 2s have been BLEH. Girls who came out weren't looking to fuck that night.
-Can't seem to be aware of girls wanting to leave/logistics i have issues with.
-More aggressive AMOGs
So then, I've decided that it is time for me to step things up. My goal in this is to have ONS's and to pull from Day Game as well.
the Breakthrough moments:
1) To Do Something about it(Beginning of taking action)
Trigger-
Quadfest 2006
ZTA Girl in my class
Jean and her friend in their dorms, when i visited them.
2) I want to quit!(Beginning of Consistency)
Trigger-
Unable to bed Yasi
Unable to screw a girl at my frat parties
Couldn't get Danielle Reynolds when she wanted it
When I couldn't seal the deal with Martha
3) I aint going anywhere, I need help(Beginning of M1)
Trigger-
Was having trouble doing stuff
Regular style i felt hindered me
4) Do I really care to be upfront?(Returning to Direct)
Trigger-
Seeing Z with a 32 year old woman and them talking. She was hot.
Only caring for results
Right now I'm at #5
"Right now, I'm not getting results that I at least feel are making enough progress."
This can't be my limit. Others are doing fine, this can't be it. Will I forever struggle pulling? If the guy at SDB got 4 girls in 6 weeks...I can do it too! That's where I should be. Even 1 girl a month would be fine for me. LiveForever also has been doing quite well. Eric has been doing quite well. 12 girls in a couple years is fine. But me, i don't count the girl online in terms of pickup but only for me getting rid of the curse. If i want to get solid results, I have to do better than this. TerminateHer's coaching helped me with some things, but it still isn't enough. I looked up 60 years of challenge stuff and after reading and listening to it, it seems to be quite good. I'm recognizing more of my mistakes.
What Zengame told me about those two MILFs has haunted me, because its like "How would I had known? She wasn't complying with moving away from her friend and now all of a sudden...she's jealous because I'm talking to a different girl". But that, plus the group situation of the hot indian girl with her indian friend and the fatty...i then realized what I can improve on.
Starbuck's advise was pretty spot on too as well the advice on Badboy's forum. For a bit, I didn't press for the close much and stayed aloof but with that, nothing changed. Its like "Sure...im getting alot more kisses and some makeouts but is this it? Am I doing this for TerminateHer and PrettyBoy's satisfaction? or my own?"
I then realized at Radford, the past where I couldn't do anything, i figured nothing would've happened even if i tried with the knowledge I have now. I thought that at first but in reality, we'll never know. The Martha situation i would've boned her. My freshman and especially sophmore year, I wanted to do something about it...but couldn't at that time. Ever since then, I've been on this road.
It is satisfying to know that I am doing something about all this. I believe once it happens the first three times, things will skyrocket.
My Gameplan:
Alright now. My gameplan is to find the girl who seems to want to go home. I remember at Cafe Citron and that hot as hell 24 year old latina girl...she wanted to get fucked that night. All I had to do in that situation was stick with her...dance with her...taking in account her mentioning the husband is just resistence and can be overpowered. I didn't stick because I was afraid I was seen as a needy follower, which wasn't the case at all. Her older sister, looked at me in the manner of "Wow...this guy seems to be good with women." Another situation was the swedish blonde girl. I did get kicked out of that place, but then it hit me that if i did things right, i might've been able to leave with her. Her male friend with glasses didn't give a rats ass what i was doing with her.
Looking back by those scenarios, those are the girls I definitely want to pull. And to get there, my gameplan needs to change.
My overall game is fine. My style and everything. But my awareness was lacking. So now I believe I have the full out tools and awareness to carry this out. I need to stick with what I know but also add what I don't know. Its like trying to find a fighter to defeat Floyd Mayweather. Nazim Richardson had the perfect game plan but Mosley wasn't the best fighter to carry it out. I'm the opposite, I am the perfect guy to carry it out, but my trainer isn't the best. That trainer I have is the experience i've collected.
Its time i have the closer mentality full out. Course I remain aloof to the results BUT i still go for it more often. The only way I'm going to get it is to screen more women i talk to.
My Gameplan:
ONLY DO PLACES THAT HAVE A BATHROOM OR YOUR CAR IS ACCESSIBLE WITHIN A BLOCK OR TWO. LOCAL 16 IS FINE SINCE THERE IS A PARKING GARAGE A BLOCK AND A HALF AWAY.
10pm - 12am: Do my thing, do what i can...find out if they're going anywhere else. Get the number i guess...keep sexual tension alive. If they are gonna be distracted, go up to them later.
12am: Really look out for girls who aren't going anywhere. Go for bathroom or car pulls if the venue is good for that.
Day time, do Georgetown and Dupont for now.
If i'm not able to isolate the girl for the time being but she's still attracted...do the 60 years of challenge stuff.
Here is my shout out to the world!
I WILL SUCCEED! I WILL PULL! I WILL CLOSE! WATCH ME! THE TIME IS NOW!!!!
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