Friday, November 26, 2010

Vegas Spots

the venetian between 2 am to 5 am
My favorite by far is Encore Beach Club. Tons of hotties and fantastic vibes.

XS was the sickest club I've ever been to. It was $30 and we got there around 9-30 and there was no line.
I pulled from Pure last month, one of my favorites. Fri/Sat: I suggest XS, Tryst, "Palms pass" for ghostbar, playboy club, moon, perfecto/rain

My advise is to plan ahead and get on the guestlist if youre not getting a table with 4 dudes, or split up and talk your way in.

If you don't like paying for the pool, Venetian pool is filled with hotties... and theres like 3 pools.

Stock your room full of alcohol and invite back for the "afterparty"
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wed: blue martini
thur: stoneys
fri: tryst
sat: XS
sun: mgm wet republic by day. maybe encore beach since it's new
mon: jet
tues: lavo

that's where the local's will be....

in vegas it doesn't matter what day or where you go... bitches will be there.
Fuck the club scene man, hit the pool party "Rehab" all day on Sunday! it's full of hot ass chicks!

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Alright, i figured out a way to deal with AMOGs whom the girl will learn toward.

1) Prevent it from happening. Ask a girl if she's with any guys and then introduce yourself to them and have a rapport for a few minutes. When doing this, don't touch the girl. OR just approach the girl when she's away from the group. This will make things much much easier. OR if there are quite a few guys, have one or two wingmen be there closer to the guys to prevent them possibly trying to cockblock.

2) Suppose he puts his arms around them
a) Ignore him-Don't even pay attention to him. Just keep talking to the two girls. But i don't know the likelihood of this.
b) Flirt with him-This will cause him to be uncomfortable.

I'll figure out more things but the thing is, sometimes that stuff happens. Shit does happen that will ruin sets. It all depends on the girl, if she feels too pressured to go with you, there is only so much you can do. That's the reality.

3) Don't give up so easily. Bring it on. Don't falter, despite what he says...don't leave. Challenge him equally and don't stand. But who knows the changes of that.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

8/3 A Thread I forgot to read

http://www.badboylife.com/forum/index.php?topic=811.0

Good info on girls who are looking to screw :)

8/3 The Vow!

After going to Dewey Beach, I almost had it! Last second logistics got in the way. If i had my own hotel, it would've been game over! I would've fucked her! I've made a vow, I am going to return to Dewey Beach in September and if i get success at Vegas...i'll then feel confident that things can also be possible there. Hell, Sunday...there were a ton of girls. I just have to be able to handle girls in a tough group logistical set. I can do it! I just focus on the girl i want. Hell, a strategy is to hit on all 4 of them and then pick the one that shows the most interest, if they're all hot!

Just 15 days till Vegas! I'll find out the truth once and for all....how i'm doing and the level i'm currently at. If i can get atleast one lay, I then feel i'm progressing pretty well. If i don't get a lay...then i believe i officially will need to develop a new style. Seriously, Vegas is the SNL Capital of the US. I mean, c'mon....if i can't get a lay in both weekends, then its obvious that to succeed consistently...i'll need to change my style. But even if Vegas doesn't work out, i still won't give up. I might need some time off...but i will still actively game.

In Adonis's next video...i'm going to get him to tell me of the good venues to try. I know there's Excess, the 2nd he mentioned and then Planet Hollywood is definitely an option and other casino bars. :) I'll possibly also hit a strip club one of the days. I think i'm going to get drunk on the strip one of the days as well!

I consider this the final answer i'm looking for. How good have I become? Vegas will be the answer. Till then...

I'm going to possibly game at Guards at Georgetown on Friday or Centreville Bars.
I'm going to just do Hard Rock Cafe on Saturday Night in Manassas.

Then the final week, I'm going to do Eden on Wednesday and Reston Town Center one more try on that Friday. I will also try Ree Ra in Clarendon one of the days as well.

The week of Vegas, i'm going to do McFaddens on Tuesday for one last prep before Vegas!

So my vow is to get one lay at Vegas and once i get it, to get more and then to return to Dewey Beach Mid September and to kill it there!

Monday, August 2, 2010

8/1 Dewey Beach Day Game

-Tall hot blonde girl...she was on a rush. Was european. Approached her too late.
-Older hot side woman who said her crying son and husband were ahead of her lol.
-Latina girl at the beach, was snobby saying how she will just walk by herself.
-Young girl who still seemed high school age...who felt social pressure becuase her friends' family was around.
-The Shark bar we decided to check out, all the hotties were there on Sunday!

7/31 Dewey Beach Night Game, Almost a Double Lay!

-Tall Brunette hottie with cleavage, stopped her but she felt social pressure so she left, i twirled her before she would go.
-Toned arms girl, was kinda neutral positive but showed more interested when i isolated her while her friend was possibly about to cockblock, when Prasant told her she can cockblock me later.
-Saw Jojo from Radford again, was gaming her but it kinda fizzled.
-A black haired hottie with a long black dress and big tits in a mixed group of 4 checked me out. Gunwitch is right, the girls who you want the most, tend to be attracted to you or sexually desire you as well. This was in the bar near Rusty Rudder
-In Nalu, gamed a girl who was with her female friend and her boyfriend. Great approach logistics, but she was a bit ADD.
-Two cougars, pras occupied one...while i occupied the older one. At first i thought it fizzled, since a guy older than me was age appropriate. But i didn't give up, reopened her...sat down. Build more sexual tension by doing the "lolly pop" kiss eventho i pecked earlier. She then was qualifying herself asking, "You really think i'm cute?" :) I then teased her by telling her...her cleavage is distracting me. I then find out her logistics are awesome(except that she lived with her children which i found out later). When we get there, you know the drill...her daughter who was a soldier and had a buzz cut saw me as i was going to the bathroom but that was it. After, the cougar is gone...and i go back to Nalu. Prasant was with his girl and attempts to leave with her but then as he's walking her, he talks sex and ASD sets in with her :). Almost had a double lay!

7/30 Clarendon

Was a hottie who looked like that girl who lived in Lynchburg and found her on the hot side. She was sitting down with three friends. I couldn't get her to isolate...while she did with a random guy....he did it later while she was standing/she was more ready to get hit on. I did fine.

Girl at my university(Sarah L)...turned out she never was interested in the first place. Pras told me she yawned when i was getting her number even when i was running solid game. She acted annoyed when i talked to her again(Winging for a newbie). She wasn't right for me and was she the sexiest girl i've talked to? No way! I find her physically attractive but she is at most a high 7.

Isolated a light brunette hottie, but she returned to her friend. Glad another guy in the community winged for me.

Clarendon, I don't like but it taught me a lesson...in terms of dealing with tough venues.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

7/24 Return to Town

#1 Curly haired milf with a curvy body. She had great sized tits. The pickup was pretty good. She said she didn't have much time, so i isolated her a few times. Decided to make out with her only to try to go for a venue pull. When she said she had to go to the bathroom...i said "I have to go to" To where then as we're walking, i take her hand and go inside with her to where we try to go to one of the stalls and go for it. If i knew there was much more time and i figured she wouldn't try to leave to go back to her friends, I would've built more sexual tension.

#2 Gay guy with abs and two girls. You learned to be friend the male. Its funny because this one was genuine conversation. The issue at hand was that the girl and her friend talked to themselves. Next time, reduce the time and involve the girl in the conversation.

#3 Gay girl with glasses. Funny set. She was going to help me out. Shame that she wasn't straight otherwise that would've been completely money. Kissed my first lesbian lol.

#4 Black girl with glasses who had big tits. Sadly...she wasn't responding as much. She was with her gay friend. What i should've done is isolate her without worrying if he'd stop me.

Did a few more, but they weren't worth mentioning. Town is better than other places, BUT its not good enough. Its easier to sexually escalate no question BUT logistics are a lot tougher.

Adonis' correlation with girls having to go back to friends and bad logistics go hand in hand. I noticed girls who's logistics were better...weren't on a rush.

But yet again, I went home without a girl or heck wasn't able to successfully fuck. BUT...at the same time, i'm glad after a long ass time...i did something like this again.

I'll come back to Town in September. Coming up, I have to do Adams Morgan and see if this time things can work out better.

Last night, after getting rejected a few times at the end...i wanted to make them jealous...i wanted to show that they shouldn't. I had that feeling...but I then realized its temporary satisfaction. Rejection hurt, to this day...at times i don't want to experience it at times but its become my strength. I have less to fear, although i did back out for some approaches but its ok. Your human :).

Saturday, July 24, 2010

7/23 Return to Town

#1 Thick girl was a great learning experience, did the run away from the friend thing. But it's funny because this girl here proved that she was a good set. Because she invested by asking me questions, going along with the isolations. Although many of her friends weren't an issue, there was one who didn't.
#2 Tall hot blonde who cockblocked me later on
#3 Group with the cockblocking asian friend, did the run away
#4 Asian girl who was curvy and my physical type but she wasn't attracted to me. Thats disheartening only because i really wanted to tap that.
#5 short glasses dyke, was a 2 faced girl.
#6 Hot girl at the very end i was like fuck it and kissed her.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

7/17 Philadelphia!

#1 Tall Ukranian girl with glasses, found her sexy at club
#2 Small brunette girl whom decided to talk to Prasant lol.
#3 2 black girls, tough logistically
#4 thick blonde who seemed DTF but her friend was all offended i was joking about the word, bitch.
#5 Toned arms girl
#6 Black girl whom i stopped randomly, she was ragging on me a little in a playful way but i plowed through it but then something in her changed lol.

7/16 Town

#1 Hot indian girl, make out
#2 Asian girl, the group were very friendly to me!
#3 Brunette club girl who wasn't convinced i was straight!
#4 Short haired blonde.
#5 middle eastern i girl i isolated but wasn't that invested yet to where things hit the fan.

7/20 Adonis's Q and A Session

http://www.ustream.tv/recorded/8407289

I ask two questions and they were related to comfort and girls in big groups. I'll update this later.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

7/18 Comfort Notes

Excellent info by Sinn. So many other gurus in the community make comfort so damn confusing. BUT, Sinn describes it really well here. Its funny, because I do some of this naturally. I just have to realize when I'm doing day game...to do it more.

I also realized that i'm not at a low level...considering I don't have my own place...things can be tough. But you are finding out logistics and pressing things as soon as you can.

NOTE
THE 5 KEYS TO CREATING MASSIVE
AMOUNTS OF COMFORT QUICKLY!


1) Building Commonalities. Commonalities can literally save an interaction. I remember
a time I was talking to a girl at a mall in Scottsdale. Nothing was working and she
kept mentioning that she had to go meet her friend. So in frustration I mentioned that
this was worse than bombing on stage at stand up. She lit up… She mentioned that
she loved stand up and we started talking eventually leading to an instant date and a
very solid phone number. It’s very important to remember the “Go First” principle
when it comes to commonalities. You want to volunteer things you are into first and
let the girl agree with you, rather than vice versa.

2) Establishing a conspiracy. Conspiracies are key to all relationships. In addition to
establishing a cooperative dynamic, conspiracies allow you to build a huge amount of
rapport. Conspiracies essentially are inside jokes between you and the girl. You want
to establish an "us against the world" dynamic. Examples of conspiracies range from
role plays and games to simply explaining how the two of you are the coolest people
in the coffee shop.

3) Demonstrating that you understand women and her specifically. Demonstrating that
you understand women is key to building an amazing amount of rapport. I even go so
far as to call it speaking Womanese. When you can convey to a girl that you
understand the way women think, and feel, you will be able to communicate with her
on an entirely different level. It’s also important to show her that you understand her
as a person. This is where cold reading and framing really comes into play. By
knowing some basic truisms about women and relationships, you can demonstrate a
deep understanding of her reality.

4) Making your intentions clear. This is where I differ from almost all major pick up
gurus. I tell girls explicitly that I am hitting on them, trying to get in their pants, etc.
The reason I do this is because it forces a woman to make a choice about how she is
interested in me. I want her to be interested in me as a woman is interested in a man.

Not as a shopping buddy, not as a friend. I want her to know that I am interested in
her in a romantic/sexual nature. To do this we use statements of intent. These can be
as simple as telling a girl you think she’s sexy to telling her you are hitting on her, or
even trying to get in her pants. In comfort you need to make your intentions known so
that the girl can know how you’re going to act around her down the line. In fact if you
can get a girl to accept enough statements of intent it is very easy to sexually escalate.

5) Demonstrating a wide range of emotions. In attraction we need to convey that we are
40 foot tall Alpha Males full of confidence and superior sperm. In comfort we need to
convey that we are a real person with a real life, friends, etc… One of the ways we do
that is by showing the girl a wide range of emotions. By demonstrating that we’re
comfortable being vulnerable or opening up about our families; or talking about
something that makes you really mad, you build comfort. One of the questions a girl
always asks herself when she’s meeting a guy she’s attracted to is “What would it be
like if he was my Boyfriend.” By showing her a wide range of emotions you build
trust.

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

7/13 The Rain...



I found out that deep down i was angry at the game. I was frustrated with women's game. I was frustrated with the night game dynamics. But after a talk with my family, I felt better. It all related to that girl friday night. I felt that I was disconnected with the world which ruined my chances and what not. But in reality, if you just want one night stands, you don't have to reveal too much about yourself. Just act the way I am. Just be naturally me. She might've felt a barrier, other women i don't think did. It was just her.

If she was so on guard with Anti-Slut Defense, thats her own issue. I'm going to keep being me. I just be aware of the comfort a girl needs. Just enough, not too much!

I also should not be so hard on myself. I'm doing the best I can and am getting better.

Las Vegas is in 4 and a half weeks! Can't wait!

Finally feel close with my family. Now I got to talk to my dad. Let him know the real me.

I didn't cry when I talked to my parents. I finally let them know that I was closing them off and the beautiful thing is they know about me of things i don't even know about myself. That made me feel relieved.

I notice the rain is pouring heavy, even knowing my family is there...I re-enacted the scene in the Shawshank redemption confirming vow and acknowledging that i did in fact get laid again after 5 and a half years. That I'm getting closer by the day to the success I wanted.

As i looked up at the sky, for that brief moment...I was at peace. I felt no care in the world. I was free. I felt 100% myself. Then after I was done, i noticed Khan's son was smoking a cigarette. He heard me but i told him that i think out loud. He laughs lol.

7/9 Reston Town Center

Reston town center.....quite a few 2 sets. I should bring a wing

Brunette with nice cleavage......pay attention to start. She gave her name. I didn't hear it at first. Things started off fine.

At some point..just have regular conversation

Solo girl. I had an opportunity and I blew it. But in reality, I didn't really blow it. She just needed extra comfort. That's it.

Guage a woman's need for comfort. Talk like you normally do.

That's the feedback I needed :)

7/7 Return to Eden

Short thick latina....good screening

Logistics weren't good...she was gonna crash at her friend's place.

Mixed set...held back.

Tall girl...kept holding onto hand

Be super dominant if males are in set

Two set I danced earlier were checking out....3 strikes! Older girl

Last girl I tried twice.....she opened fully and when she declined....I learned something that i should've just talked to her.

NewBalance pulled a girl and fucked her lol. She was by herself.

7/3 UMD Party

A few girls aren't responding much. I don't bother with them. German girl i make out with by lips. But she's ADD and goes back to friends. Nothing else here.

Go to UMD bars, just go full out wolf and go for quick makeouts and dancing and shit. Don't bother with any other form of game.

Salem argues with chick, blows smoke in her face and cusses out her friend.

Go back to party, african guy who friends of house is doing well with German Girl outside. I feel he's going to pull her. I'm jealous and deep down want him to mess up but rooting for him. But he's not calibrated enough to know he had her. I try to go for it but she's not responding to me :(.

Oh well lol. MisterB, PrettyBoy, Faz and others are there.

7/2 Annapolis

Not really that ideal. Me and Prasant had two milfs and they seemed DTF but something changed their minds. They had to wake up early in the morning. Next time, just take milf to the bathroom since she's complying with things. Alright, lets go and have fun!

7/1 Georgetown Waterfront

Good spot. Lots of social groups though.

Good stuff with milf. Her logistics weren't that good. She gave me a fake number. Tried to seed a later meetup but didn't get to happen.

Kiss a tall skinny hot blonde at the start. She was typsy. She's like "Your gay right?! :)" I tell her, "Nope :)" Her mind goes haywire and then feels like a slut now lol.

Held back approaching a hot girl in green who was near a guy. He was then gone. She was giving subtle e/c during that. What is it with girls giving e/c when she's already with a guy? Strange! She was solo after but then talked to these two guys who were having mundane convo. I then decide to go up to her but no go. Truth is, she wasn't that interested to begin with. if she was, she would've been glad i came up to her.

See that same tall blonde at Johnny Rocket's. She comes up to me after i make a funny comment :)

6/30 Eden

Has a magic touch for guys leaving with girls there.

Two black girls. Tough logistics cuz of her friend eventho the friend liked me :)

Prasant scored with this thick milf with nice cleavage, big tits....she was me and Zengame's type.

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

6/28 Vince Kelvin Call Notes

Over invest

Keep it casual-We'll see where its going to go.
Opposite problem wait too long and too casual about it...another flaw.

Find sexually equilibrium

Have fun, unattached.

How organized are you? Its going to take someone pretty organized, if you don't get your stuff together.

When your flying, airport.

We lose our sex appeal, we over invest, ease up things

Before you make requests, get responses.

Escalate too fast.

First step, agreement...then logistics.
"You know what, im having alot of fun...wouldn't it be fun to hang out again? You know what? Are you more of a week day person or weekend person?"

"im busy for schoo lately" Hmm...you do look busy and your all tense, listen...you need to take care of yourself...listen...hey...why don't we hang out for a little bit...im busy during the weekend but i can make a couple of hours.

Solidify the next meeting

When they resist, they're just being women


Before anything else, affirm ur committment to having fun with it.
Alot is going to happen, some are going to say one thing and do something else
its highly likely that most of the women your going to meet at first, won't follow through all the way.

Never confirm last minute, i invite them to places i'm going to go to...there is going to be women that i meet over there anyhow.

Connect, making sure its not too mechanical.
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Learn all we can and put it into practice
we're not responsible, their responsibility.

1) mind: make diff between can move on your side, and is she capable of feeling attractive

2) What else should i know.

autopilot...jolt them...snap them out of autopilot

Humor, silly comebacks,

core-when she's experiecing, responsibility...acting all bored lol. Thats cute

u were doing so good.

Not all of them will have what it takes...dont try...do. Selection process. Do it consistently.

Her responsibility. Don't over do it, jolt them and offer the hand(Good kino, good body language, inviting tonality)....do a little bit of the work....

training her to kindness.

its all protective mechanism.

6/26 The Bad OBC meetup

Alright, met up with a girl on Online Booty Call. She was big, blonde, 46 years old but she had a naughty picture. I drove 90 minutes near her thinking it was in the big. She invited dancing, but turned out to be uglier than the pictures and boring as hell. I'm talking, i had no phone and was miserable staying there. She even had me wait over 90 minutes and didn't even take into consideration that i arrived and didn't give a flying hell plus she came with a friend. So i walked out, deleted her as a booty call and that's it. I went to sleep this night.

Monday, June 28, 2010

6/25 Fells Point and Power Plant

Asian girl, very ideal. She was into your frame and what not. Could definitely tell she wanted to fuck based on her vibe and what she was wearing. The male in the group smoothly took her away. Next time you say what's up to him and tell him you'll give her back in a minute. If he wants to get her a drink so bad, tell him to buy it from yours and keep talking to her.

The married chick and divorced chick was ok, the male that they met...i got annoyed only cuz i was sick of always dealing with males who aren't getting any that night.

At Power Plant, most girls didn't react much to dominant approaching. Black chick, don't buy her a drink. Never. That's all i got.

Saturday, June 26, 2010

6/23 ESL one more time

Ellicit values
A girl stereotypes
Expand on yourself..talk about yourself.
Give something for the girl to latch on to.

Short haired....did fine with regular talk but wanted to do more.

Overreacted to getting blocked but felt damn good to tell him. Was tired of letting things like that slide. Was sick of guys ruining stuff. It was time I don't take it.

Two blondes....move on from them...

Blonde in large group...not needy of other guy hitting on her...good shit.

Brunette who I winged for raven....I played it safe and should've been dominant with her...and not abandon my style. The next guy had skill...he did better than I.

I'm not feeling ESL all that much anymore.

Good stuff kissing the two girls I danced with.

Andrew's new friend got laid

I am missing an identity.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Tone it Down

Paul mentioned to me what I could improve on. Here is something that will be of help to me in bars where my energy level could tone down a little bit. I do this naturally at times, its just in set at times...i try to do tests of compliance a bit rushed too much sometimes lol. Also, have some substance for her to then be able to latch on to for the next meetup or later that night. But this in some cases, other cases...stay the way you are! Don't over do it! Keep doing what your doing but also adjust based on the situation. The article does describe me well, very strong in higher/good energy environments but weak in low energy ones.



Tone It Down – Energy Level and Flake Prevention
by Ryan(RSD)

Hey Guys,

I wanna talk about a pretty simple principal that is seldom talked about and massively difficult to convert internalize as a behavior. This ability, while seemingly counter-productive and hugely challenging to integrate, can make a world of difference in your game in terms of Actually CLOSING versus just getting rapid attraction. I’m talking about Low Energy Game here, where the players play and the aspiring test their merits.

There’s a pattern in this community – it looks like this.

Stage 1.) Low Energy Beginner – This is what you see in guys with nearly 0 reference experience with girls. Their low energy level is reflective of insecurity as the guy feels stifled and possibly unworthy of animated self-expression. Or, it may simply be the guy is unused to self-expression – the challenge here is to get him to actually turn it up, SMILE, express, and essentially be fun.

Stage 2.) Entertainer Man – This is the most talked about stage, where most community guys live. The energy level is turned up as a way of maintaining interest and generating attraction. The interest and positive feedback from girls becomes addictive, so most guys never advance past this stage – they end up getting decent results doing this, a few lays here and there, lots of club makeouts, but have huge flake rates.

Stage 3.) Sex Worthy Man – The phrase is talked about a lot, along with catch phrases like “self-amusing”, “internally validated”, and “abundance mentality” – and these are actually spot on. The trouble is these are abstract concepts that can be difficult to codify into actual behaviors. I’ll leave it to The Blueprint to vivisect these principals and focus my attention here to an outer-game principal that distinguishes the good from the elite.

One of the biggest rushes when learning game comes from the discovery of Flash Game – when you realize you can enter a set, pump energy level, get attraction and escalate, all within the first 2 minutes. You think “my god I’m good…I can make out with and girl in 30 seconds...” Problem comes when you either A.) Try to extract for sex or B.) Can’t get her to meet you for a day 2. The problem here is Substance – or a lack there of. With flash game emotional spiking take the place of substance, your essence is fluid giving the girl nothing to latch onto, nothing to associate with you other than a sugar-rush like burst of energy. This can be a great skill to have, and with practice you can even sometimes convert the attraction from flash game into ONS or Day2s, but it’s also going to lead to worlds of frustration.

I used to be hugely into Brazillian Jiu Jitsu – my life revolved around it. I’ll never forget my instructor once explaining to me: “You only start learning Jiu Jitsu after you’ve gotten your black belt”. The same goes with game – the first phases are about learning the different elements of calibration, learning to read situations and developing that razor sharp field intuition, mastering the ability to pump state and generate emotional spikes. Once you’ve got all these pieces in place, all these tools at your disposal, that’s when the real learning starts, and there begins the real crystallization of yourself, your essence, your being. Here also begins the real challenge – it’s time to stop relying on energy level and flash to generate attraction, and instead use the only piece that is really YOU, that piece being your PRESENCE.

Once you’ve mastered the art of pumping energy level to generate attraction and maintain interest – it’s time to STOP relying on energy level and move on, grow up, advance. Tone it down. Think you’re good? Can you be the lowest energy guy in the room and STILL get the girl?

Learning to game at a lower energy level was one of the toughest things I’ve had to internalize. But after being driven crazy by a high flake rate, it became a clear necessary step in my advancement.

In true Alex~ fashion, a visual to really drive the point home…


Learning to game at a low energy level was tough for 2 reasons – 1.) I had years of experience gaming with high energy, it was an alien behavior to me, and 2.) I had grown addicted to the intense attraction I could build with a high energy level.

The problem is, with enough experience you realize ATTRACTION IS AN EMOTION. Nothing more. Just like you can go from sad to happy, a girl can go from attracted to not. Going further, moods are state-associated. Meaning, the moods you feel in a club are going to be associated with being IN THE CLUB, and are quick to fade once you’ve left the club environment and the club state.

This is why a girl can be clinging to your sweater desperate to not be separated from you at the end of the night, but won’t even return your texts the next day.

And to be fair, what did you expect? You cheated J You used energy level (state) to generate the attraction. She lost state when she went home, with it went her attraction.

Next time you’re out, see how far you can really push the low-energy envelope while still generating attraction. And if you can do that, enjoy the benefits when you call the next day and you’re able to pick up the interaction right where you left off J

The two key tools to help you with your new lower-energy game are Brevity and Rapport Breaking Tonality. I can and will be writing to explain both in-depth, along with some other lower energy techniques – until then I challenge you to tone it down and find out just how much attraction you’re generating with substance and presence rather than with energy level and state.

Until Next Time,
Ryan~

6/21 Yes!

FINALLY FLAT OUT FUCKED A GIRL TWO DAYS AGO from O.B.C.! Was an awesome experience! She was amazing at blow jobs and was great how I wasn't bad at sex. She worked with me and i then proceeded to get better as we did it a few more times. The truth was, her willing to do blow jobs really made the difference compared to that previous online girl. I was think what turned me on was the fact that she willing to stimulate me in ways i wanted, and I did the same with her. It was great sex because it was mutual and we had fun with it. Those are the girls I look for, its a must for me to enjoy sex with a girl who likes to give head. If a girl doesn't like them...unless she's pretty hot...my excitement might not be as high but god damn...was it a nice feeling! The final time we fucked where she took it all in...man oh man...that felt great lol.

6/19-6/20 Reston Town Center and New Dupont Venues

Saturday Night

On Saturday at Reston Town Center, Jacksons: the Pigtails girl...just timing was down. the two older milfs, next time go in between them(they were sisters) and place yourself there at the bar.

The indian girl, was shy and awkward. In these cases, give her a chance to open up a bit. If it takes too long, move on. I'm not into shy girls that much only because they take too much time and if they're not even comfortable shaking your hand, then its like "What the hell?" lol.

Good shit with Ana, she was Eastern European and a thick milf. One thing I noticed was she didn't seem comfortable me touching her but i then held off and she started to touch me. I guess in these cases, see if the girl will touch you.

Sunday Night

I have no idea with southern blonde...felt annoyed by it a lot but I accepted it. The Ukranian girl, she wasn't interested. She wasn't offering much. I understand some girls are shy but if they're not going to make any sort of effort...i'm moving on. It takes two to tango. The two iranian girls I guess were possibly gay, BUT its hard to say...could be, could be not.

The best ones don't leave when your a sexual threat...that's how it is. The best ones stay. The ones who got turned off easily were there for attention and weren't attracted. One time, just the fact a girl made a nasty face when i guessed if she was jewish, showed her true nature.

The three set sitting down, the dark haired girl was great logistically. I held back because I didn't think it'd actually be worth it but now i know that those 3 were the ones who wanted to be picked up based on their vibe and how they were just sitting there doing nothing.

Go to Fly Lounge and Steve's ballroom on Sunday.

Georgetown Venues:
Old glory
Guards
MeAndYou

Paul suggests more convo at bars and slow things down in isolation. Be confident in the fact the girl will stay to talk to you. If you can tell the girl wants to just have fun, then give her that fun.

Look for sets that the girl doesn't seem to be all that into the group too or that all 3 of them are bored and looking to get picked up. Including Friday's lesson...for sets with males, go indirect not because your afraid to go direct but only because if a male in the group is after her...his defenses will go up. Then once you transition to the girl, give her more attention and then to the point where things go as usual and then you let her know what's up. This will be fine, because just like in the Taking a girl home from the bar teleseminar with Johnny Wolfe and London Soul...after a bit, you'll gain a stronger influence because your not a threat in front of the male friends. But this isn't all cases, in some cases go do it the way you usually do it.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

6/18 Clarendon

Trying to isolate too early...use 60 years of challenge stuff.

Good shit with sexy tall brunette. Just remember, with many males....go about things indirect. Talk with them for a few minutes and then slowly move your attention to her. But that was amazing how you had so much resolve and really wanted her. What's even cooler is that she was a hot girl who was looking to meet someone. You had the balls and the courage to step over. In these situations, go indirect and then transition over to her.

Black girl. Good set, just bad logistics. The bouncer had a point about their being some guys there. But he was wrong about approaching alot of girls. He didn't have an answer if that one girl doesn't truly like you, your SOL because your holding back.

Flower brunette. Good set! Opening was good. But then she was going to go with her friends. Quick Kill told me that isolation sometimes isn't even necessary like 60 years of challenge mentioned. Etch this in your damn brain, the girls who want to leave...let them. They've screened themselves out. Move on to a woman who will invest to meet you :)

The blue dressed latina. That was some good practice, you showed more enthusiasm with the girl friend and boy friend role play. Only issue was that she was dating that guy.

Quick Kill's Note: 1/10 girls wants to leave with you

See how long you can last without making an overt move. Try this for practice and for some sets, don't have the intention to pick her up. Just keep talking to see how you can do. You can even practice with Shy asian girls.

I've decided not to go to Clarendon anymore. The approach logistics are shit.

Its true, i've been sad and cry a bit because of feeling frustration but this is ok. Your just getting your negativity out of your system.

6/16 ESL

Sexy russian girl...bad logistics
Free spirit girl...went for the kiss too early but its a time saver :) next time...be less drunk
Dance girl...awesome approach logistics...friend pulled away..that's all...very impressive with telling her friends you'll be right back.
Roleplays, connection, be convinced...have them emotionally invested and sexually invested
Girls wanting to get to know you
Your a mystery
Stunning brunette hooked at first but things died...3 set ideal
Thick girl at beginning of the night

6/15 Day 2 and Lima Lounge

Day 2

Improved no doubt.

Bored at first but opened her up. Go first principle follows.

Despite her dislike of things...found out what we clicked in.

You remained unaffected to her weird faces and continued to talk.

Found vital information about her sexually. She seems like a girl who takes things slow which is something I'm not into.

Followed Vince and 60 years of challenge's rule of not pressing the issue/convincing her....you acted cool about it even after she put out the you should find a more open minded girl...and then brought it up again. Notice how were more real with each other

Was planning on touching her but she seemed stiff with that...would've felt forced. Next time grab her hand.

First set. Good start. She said she didn't feel comfortable...but good set. Usually aright looking girls are like this. Hotter and sexier ones are more open. Bad logistics.

Latina blonde...good convo...found she was a bit on the frisky side. She was hot.
Making out with her friend when she mentioned hat showed that side. Good practice with seeding. Made things official. Sexual tension with Dress.

Girl with big ass...ADD.

Milfs....figure out the one that's not taken. Next time....game them both and stick to the one that's more interested. Also disregard.

Monday, June 14, 2010

Vince Kelvin Call Notes: EUREKA!!!!

Vince answered my question:

-Re-read the Spotting the Slut chapter and find the girls who are more logistically friendly.
-Go for adventurous women and the ones who are looking for it...not the ones who who wouldn't anyways.
-Go for logistical friendly girls
-You have to play it by the numbers

NOTE: The tall brunette, you could've found out about that stuff. But she kept trying to do ASD with it, that might not be an ideal girl. The ideal girls might resist but they'll be open a bit or won't leave.

-Sometimes girls need to catch up and go back to their friends, proceed to seed for later
-There are multiple possibilities, be aware of them
-Remember still screen.
-Be confident that you'll meet up with her later.
-Some girls won't leave with a guy cuz their friends ARE around.

Note: Think back to girl in Federal Hill

-"After you leave the bar with your friends, then come meet up with me"
-Leave the set, then just re-approach later
-Reason for this is because friends are jealous
-After isolating and them wanting to go back, be cool with it and just proceed to do whatever after. For example, if she's going to be with her friends ALL NIGHT LONG, then that's a no go. Remember, go for the girls that are logistically friendly and have good logistics. Also, see how far you can take the interaction. Still do what you usually do, just do that.
-Set frame stronly enough through verbal escalation....if she comply with all that sexual stuff
-Remember, a Same Night Lay and its options are itself solutions but not obligations
-Don't be attached to one woman
-Plant seeds, "Awww...we gotta hang out again!', even for day game approaches to seed for later that night.
-11;00-11:00 or after, prior to 11pm...most women won't act on SNL's unless they're body temperature is through the roof
-when it gets close to 2AM...women need a break

6/13 Canton

"Brother James advice was good. Don't go back too soon, shows neediness. Go back later. If she's eyefucking you, wait a little bit..then go back. Wait till things are more logistical friendly.

2 set-Dark Curly haired girl with frumpy friend:
This approach was good. Make sure to screen to see if she's the open type
When her friend wasn't going to let her approach, find out what she's doing after...play things subtle. Then mention, "Alright...after you and your friend split ways, we can meet again" But remember, have a sexual frame. Find out if the girl is open to a sexual frame...if she isn't...move on... This girl wanted to isolate with me, she was interested while her friend wasn't letting her do anything.

2 girls, 1 guy girl-Alright, with this...only so much you can do. She wasn't offering much, move on eventho there was some tension there. But here's the thing, with these women...give them a couple minutes. Even after that, move on.

Prasant's hottie-Very logistical friendly approach. She was one I should've done. She seemed to be open to the sex talk, was just there with her brother. Was she wanting to fuck? Possibly. Its tough to say, but its a possibility. But good logistics he did.

Hottie and Ug-No go and was for the better.

Hair stylist with 2 other girls and a male i think-Alright her vibe was of a girl who wanted to fuck. Something about her, I sensed it. Logistically, its tough to say but for some reason i get the vibe of her wanting dick. After the kiss, she left...in future cases, that's ok. Wait a while, then you can re-open her.

In the future, remember...re-open previous girls earlier in the night to later. If you sense things can't move forward, logistically seed for a number and then re-open them later.

Isolation is just to get the girl alone with you...be it, to up things sexually or discuss future plans.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

6/12 Local 16

Doing better with group sets

I figured it out...tonight....early is for more mingling. As the night went on...things went better.

Importance of pushing things n these environments. Try local 16 a couple more times.

Try District and Rumors next week. Possibly Annapolis.

I can't seem to get a girl's buying temperature up after staying in there with her.

SOLUTION:

Tall girl I talked about PU with-
Don't be logical with her
She only wanted to talk
When you bring up the CD...talk about you driving it to work to seed.

The sets that get interrupted...approach later if still there!

Hottie who I mentioned the foot fetish-
Tough Logistics since its 2 set.
good stuff isolating her...good screening.

Hottie who said I looked familiar-
Good shit isolating them
She didn't even want to sit down next to you.
Remember 2 sets are hard solo.
Don't be frustrated or try to convince.

Find logistics out as soon as possible.
If logistics suck...move on!
Girls do want to fuck, you just have to find them
Change venues if its not good.
Look for venues where its easier to have a girl's body temperature up.

Girls are attracted hence wanting to know your name and ask questions.

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Girls who want to go back to their friends or don't want to talk more....its a win-win...your screening...if a girl isn't going to invest with shit...better that way. Your looking for the girls that won't take too much energy. The black sisters...talk for a bit but then see if they comply....are you gona try hard to get a girl to comply with something so little?

Friday, June 11, 2010

6/10 Lima Lounge, Day 5 out of 30

Last night was a research night. I was looking to see which girls seem to want something, a couple two sets tried to dismiss me lol. The first girl I wanted, the 31 year old blonde with a sexy body(she was a hottie)....she was attracted but there wasn't that "spark". This one I improved with mother hen dynamics. The friend was still having fun, just greet the friend and be friendly with her.

Next was this sexy blonde with nice firm tits, curvaceious body, piercing all throughout her face...and tattos that turned me on. With this one, I keep the sexual tension up, feel the tension. At first I thought I was in ball busting mode, but not necessarily. I was just being playful. If they seem to be easing in, just do your think and no need to get in full ball busting mode. That time with Huong and that blonde back at RU at the PSK party, that overdid it. I won't make those same mistakes again!

Sexy sexy blonde....again...only so much you can do with a set like that(more analysis to come). It was good stuff figuring out logistics. Remember, don't be desperate in trying to have a girl not leave when she seems open at first but then seems to change her mind. Earlier in the night...the blonde european girl...i observed her and she she seemed open to leave with a guy. I just got that kind of vibe, she was planning on leaving early. In these situations, if your turned on by her and they're taking a taxi, try..."Alright...lets go then :)" Sonic tried it, your turn.

Latina girl who i thought was waving at a person behind me. In these situations, stick in there and talk to her. That way, she can open up. Don't give up too easily.

I then proceed to see a girl who looked like the girl that I made a story about and of who I made up for the Future in Steven's black book. Similar description and she responded really well. You could just feel the tension we both had. I really wanted that girl. She was in the higher 7's but there were things that turned me on.

All in all

Pros:
1) Better at identifying girls
2) Starting to sexually screen more...tattoo girl.....connect "I bet you got piercings everywhere and tattoos all over your body" with her being wild and spontaneous and connect that with the cd in the car thing.
3) Starting to sexually screen more
4) Handling cockblocks better
5) Less attached to outcome

Cons:
1) After isolation for many sets...things die down
2) Some girls don't invest
3) If girl likes you and is leaving with her friends via cab....go with them. Try it.
4) Mine not leave a sustaining spark for girls.
5) Text game could sustain sexual vibe lol.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

6/9 Quick Kill's Seminar and the 30 Day Challenge!

Alright, before I was at Quick Kill's thing, i walk with two girls during the day time. First woman was european and seemed to be going somewhere. Next time, eventually stop so they don't keep walking. Second woman, just with Faz...was funny lol.

The Seminar, I pretty much learned to pretty much screen, focus on logistics and then act accordingly. There's nothing else to learn for logistics. Oh yea, try to meetup with them later in the night. That's all more or less. Screening and logistics, the big two.

I'm on Day 3/30, the 30 day challenge is to get a Single Night Lay within 30 days by my brother's birthday. Pretty much, its my challenge. Get a single night lay within 30 days, if this does happen...then i go for for another one and so on.

During the 30 days, i motivated to take it as far as I can but not stress over it. This more about building more and more of my skills. Right now, its just screening and logistics and keeping things sexual. Once I've done this, i'm going to get pussy left and right.

1) No convincing girls
2) No jacking off for 30 days
3) Do Laundry once a week and have your clothes layed out, and ironed.
4) Have the car parked near each venue.
5) If the girl won't comply with some isolation, see if her interest is still good...get the number and then set up a meet up.
6a) If girl is Logistic #1, contact her that same night to see what she's up to and what not.
b) if girl is Logistic #2, these ones are more doable(more to say)
c) If girl is Logistic #3, fucking perfect!
7) Don't be discouraged but don't get lazy.
8) Be in the moment with the girl, realize that isolation is for a reason. Why are you isolating HER? Yes to fuck her BUT have it be for purpose and for reason rather than "I have to do it"
9) If a cockblock won't let her isolate away, use 60 years of challenge's advice to where then things will become subtle. At most, if things are hell...just get the number and text to do stuff later.
10) Its all to find the girl that same night.'
11) For day game atleast, if your walking with the woman, stop a few times to set the frame.
12) If you do sex frame, and she says she's creeped out or whatever, notice her body language, if she leaves...let her leave...your looking for a girl who may resist at first BUT she's not going anywhere. If things are already sexual, at times there's no need to be sexual.
13) If you want to screw the girl, be firm and bring on the male obstacle. Don't give him value and ignore him. If he pulls her back, play it cool.
14) Remember, its about screening and logistics!
15) Don't give up too fast on some girls. They may only do it because they made a pact with their friends.
16) You can fuck girls at the venue and/or at her place. Believe in it! Remember, there were times where it would've happened but now you know what to do!
17) Make sure the car is cleaned consistently.
18) Do Vince Kelvin's suggestion, buy 50 condoms.
19) DO NOT GET FRUSTRATED IF A GIRL DOESN'T COMPLY MUCH but at the same time, see if there is mutual interest there. If she's not complying much and doesn't seem to be investing much, then move on.
20) THIS WILL HAPPEN BY JULY 10TH! No excuses now! Each night, screen for the girls to see which one is logistically the best, commit to that the most. If a girl is attached to the friends, you can introduce yourself and hang out a little with them but stick with the goal. If she doesn't want to leave them, get the number and move on to a girl with better logistics.
21) DO NOT GET FRUSTRATED IF A GIRL DOESN'T COMPLY MUCH.
22) Look for the girl who will make things easiest. Who is sexually attracted off the bat, etc.

6/8: Brad P Seminar and Tatoo on K Street

Brad P seminar. Screen sexually. Went to tatoo. Blonde black girl....good shit. At the end of the night, her brunette friend was just sitting there. She mentioned Fly lounge or home, I should've bounced but tried to have her stay. DO NOT CONVINCE HER TO STAY. Girl with glasses...#2 girl. Isolated her but wasn't all the way hooked. Latina girls...paul didn't do his job. BFocus on gaming them both instead. Expressed disappointment...good! she opened more. Her friend was single but didn't invest much. Had it to sexual screen. Not investing much. final girl isolated her she was alright looking. She was feeling sexual but wasn't that hooked. Gave up too fast when back to friends. Befriended guy...went back to her..she went back to friend. Let her go...she is only for practice.

Limiting Beliefs and Things to Work on in field:

1) Get fustrated when a girl doesn't comply
2) I fear if a girl isn't going to isolate or comply with small stuff, that I move on.
3) for some girls, i just want to get further with them and not caring if they do or not.
4) some girls i'm not in the moment
5) When frustrated, i try to convince them to stay
6) I've been trying to diffuse objections too much.
7) Going for girls who i feel that I settle for having sex with.
8) I feel that closing is too hard and that it'll be an endless cycle and am impatient. I keep comparing to how long its taken me to where then I feel a lack of confidence in the ability to close eventho i'm working toward it and feel its possible.
9) Relying on wings too much.
10) Seed to meetup more. Some sets are impossible to close, just get the number and hit her up later in the night.
11) Too worried about the pull or progress. Just one night. Back at TerminateHer's coaching...its about working on getting to that point. The past does not matter. Where are you at right now? Whathisface got 2 SNls...its not like you could not do it.
12) Don't have the faith. You can get SNLs. Don't compare the past, you know what to do now. Its now time to fix your mistakes. You can do it. Its in your ability. Your improving constantly. Part of me feels that i got to endlessly keep getting to that poiint but right now you can pull it off. Your ready right now, its just finding the girl who is ready to go with you.

Screening but not going for the best ones of the night.



**Things i'm doing better.

1) Screening more.
2) Researching more venue logistics
3) Noticing which girls seem more looking for something.
4) Starting to frame things more sexual
(more coming soon)


30 Days of getting more in tune with the mentality of a closer. Being motivated that you will FIND that girl to leave with who you fancy. Tonight was good that you decided to not give up that set. You had motivation. Thats the motivation to keep for the woman you want home. For obstacles, deal with them! If you lust her like crazy, be firm and keep going.

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Same Night Sex Pages

As I'm typing this way past my best time, since I got to wake up at 7:45 tomorrow...

Page 33 with Information Gathering i'm working on

Page 44 with the 3 levels of compliance. I've been focusing on that too.

Page 50 hit home with me. The frame i have been taking it in is that its to get to the further step, rather than be in the moment with her...then when it feels natural for you, then proceed. BUT, here's the thing....don't get lazy and hold back. When you feel its time for you, do it...but other than that...don't feel you have to be in robot mode :). But also that page, emphasizing the "Right Now" thing, sure it feels corny as hell but still right something down anyways.

Page 53 is something to work on, sexual frames.

Page 55 The escalating Sexually chapter, with the 3 page essay...i'll do that tomorrow night.

What's his face is right, JSC's friend who had the brazilian woman who looked like Monique....in order to get with the hottest girls, go where they are at.

Page 69 is the chapter i need to read :)

6/5: Adams Morgan

Alright, tonight I went to Adams Morgan and decided to do the Reef first. The place has good potential. I need to also check out the first floor. But I first scanned for the women who looked like they wanted something. First was the blonde that was looking around. Then I saw a 2 set that NewBalance wasn't feeling. I talked to the blonde but it was too late. I then proceed to game this older woman but her compliance was too low so i proceeded to next her:

THOUGHTS: I'm wondering if I dismissed things too soon. But after a bit, i decided to move on. The older woman was by herself but from the vibe she gave out, I don't think she was looking to get fucked that night.

I then proceed to game this brunette woman who was late 20's with her blonde friend. The brunette seemed to be hooked. I improved here with using Vince Kelvin's stuff. I mentioned a sexual story and sexual seeded and found logistics. She didn't deny she has had crazy sex stories in the past. Not too bad for a first time. She didn't want to isolate which was ok. 60 years of challenge mentions the Hand Caress makes things overt and at times where the girl doesn't want to. Was she looking for something for the night? Its hard to say, I'm not that sure. One thing from the night before I saw that Sonic did was, he'll stick in there for a bit and then proceed to make the move when she's that much more comfortable. I have to say its been effective for him and he seems to do well with that.

As i was about to leave, i spot this girl by herself with another glass. At first, she's acting guarded...but as I persist...I can feel her relaxing. This girl i can feel what she was feeling, it was weird. Then the guy she was with came. I didn't care to where I keep going with it. I decided to cut things off only because right now, i don't care to pursue further with those things. But in the future, why not.

I then proceed to notice as I spot a girl quick kill is meeting up with, her and her friend decided to do Tom Tom. But she wasn't wanting to twirl, so i take that as i lose interest with that. To where then i go for other girls instead. But before that, as I'm walking, I notice this big tit, black haired girl who gave me e/c, i smiled and from her vibe...it seemed like she was looking for something. Just standing there. I could've ditched them and gamed her but didn't think of it at the time. I could've told the girls that i'll meet them there.

At Tom Tom's and Spagetti Garden, wasn't having much of a good time there and felt disappointed by night's end BUT overall...it wasn't too bad. I still have faith in Adams Morgan and will proceed to get better at this SNL thing. Reading more of Vince Kelvin's book and his stuff is improving my game like crazy.

Remember, 12AM is prime time but 2AM is perfect to try to spot girls who are looking for something. Next time, try to see which girls at 2AM look bored out of their mind and when you see it...go STRAIGHT to them. I got tired early on. But I will go there again Next Saturday. I'm going to try District next and Madams Organ. More of those places. I will also try Local 16 as well coming up this month. Dupont is for Weekdays and Adams Morgan is for every saturday for now on. I'm also going to figure out parking.

Next Friday I'm going to go to Fells Point. See if Quincy wants to go.


All in All

+Doing more seeding, afew girls said they were going to other bars...which is a better answer than home
+Do more sexual scenarios, more sexual screening
+Finding out more of logistics, most of these girls live near the bars. So they are good in terms of logistics
-For some sets, i might need to give the girl more of a chance rather than assume she's just not interested. But time is money and some women i dont want to waste too much time with.

6/4 Speed Dating and Black Finn

Went to speed dating with Quick Kill and honestly it was pretty good. Quite a few good looking women and they outnumbered the men finally. Number closed a hot persian girl. There was this one asian girl with glasses. I wasn't really that into her BUT she was fun. I should've given her a chance and number closed her.

After, I went to Black Finn to host the meetup. Honestly, i didn't like that place. Too many big groups. Dark Brunette who was looking over at Quick kill and me(Sonic made out with her) was looking for something I bet. After that, it was Sign of the Whale. Not much went on here either. I fell asleep in the car and woke up at 5AM lol.

Texted the persian girl and she seems down to meet up and talk about pua stuff. We'll see how things go lol.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

6/3 Vince Kelvin and ESL



First Attended the Vince Kelvin Seminar. About 38 guys listening in to Vince Kelvin who brought his wife. She was quite attractive I must say. Anyhow it was worth attending and I found an answer...when she objects or resists the idea, flip it back at her. For example, if she's concerned for her friends being there...you flip the script on her like "I know right? You need to go...before things get crazy" and then proceed to keep going further" or "You know what, lets go back to them...."

Proceeded to write some notes that i will write down here.

Also finally got my copy of the Same Night Seduction paperback. After reading it, it definitely went into a variety of ways to keep things sexual.

Vince Kelvin Notes(6/2/10)


Introduction:
#1 biggest issue men have are going from proactive, back to reactive/
#2 biggest issue is too many guys feel its good approach versus bad approach. The right mindset is realize that these things happen and you play with it all that you encounter.

Utilization: Objections
Most women are going to be in a bipolar place, ambivalence.

What is the Key to Attraction?

Be the man that can sustain it. Attraction will sometimes dip.

• Objections:
Situation: Protective Friends
Response: “Finally, somebody to rescue me from this crazy girl”

Situation: I have to leave early tomorrow.
Response: “How late are you? Let me help you get to the airport as soon as possible!”

• Shit Tests:
Situation: Do you always pickup girls in the subway?
Response: “Of course, that’s what I always do.”

• Silence:
Situation: ……
Response: I’m sorry if you don’t speak English and then walk away.

Give them a way back in that’s easy. After she grabs you back, you tell her
• “You didn’t talk to me the first time”
• “OMG, you have mastery over silence!”
• “Shhh…don’t spoil it….keep it the silence!” if she pulls away, then she says “We’re going to have to leave it…”

• Be sure not to stack these objection responses too much.


KEY TO SUCCESS 1: “Every single woman in that phonebook, had one thing in common at first, they all said no to start with.”

KEY TO SUCCESS 2: “The secret to getting quite a lot of success is to be able to stay with that resistance she gives”

KEY TO SUCCESS 3: Realize the mindset of some women have been after sex, “You know what, the reason I slept with you is because you didn’t get upset with my objections or resistance”

KEY TO SUCCESS 4: Let go of your attachment and have utilization



• 4 Archetypes of the Multidimensional Man
o Leader
o Teacher
o Lover
o Entertainer


• The Ultimate Mantra for shit testing:
“Perfect, exactly what I needed to move forward”
“You’ve got me figured out”


Attachment
• When you interpret a woman’s objection or shit test as personal, final and fatal

Example:
You are too old for me/too young/not tall enough

• A big problem is the attachment which is its taken person, final, and fatal.

Example:
I like you but…

• This here is not final and it’s not fatal

• Best answer is “Well of course, but that’s until you met me”

• Play along with her objections

• Its about taking her out of autopilot

• Reverse Game-Its her that’s trying to do something

• We assume that its working against us.

• Why not be dillusional for a little bit? Better than letting it get under our skin.


Example:
I didn’t wear that dress for you
“That’s ok, I’ll settle for it…”


• 3 Levels of Progression

Level 1-Open
Level 2-Keep things going from previous set
Level 3-Gives you opportunities to get things

• Vin’s 4 Assignments:

Assignment 1: Enter venues with a bit more dominance
Assignment 2: See, walk and talk to the woman
Assignment 3: Give yourself credit for at least being in the vicinity
Assignment 4: Give yourself credit for at least giving it a shot.



Escalation Stuff


Last minute Resistance
• We have to be honest at times with her
• What’s known as LMR, isn’t LMR at all. Do dual direction game: Give it, take it away.
• Avoid going in only one direction.

• Example response if you run into that scenario:
“Listen your a lot of fun, if you promise me you wont do anything crazy”

• This helps them embrace what is going on in their own mind.

Group logistics for leaving with her
• If she’s worried about the friends or she’s afraid the friends will intervene.
Response: “You know what, trying to dump your friends? BAD GIRL!”

• Reframe her restrictions
“This but not that…”
“If you promise your not ..”
“If your not the crazy type who does this or that….then we can at least text each
other. Ohhh I can tell these fingers text quite well.”

• If worst comes to worst, seed a meetup for later.

• Escalating properly:

• Get the Edge:
Example: Your lips are real close but not having kissed yet.

• Restricted Requests




Bedroom
• Problems in the bedroom is guys go linear.

• Use utilization and move forward.

• “What have you done to your friend?” if friend objections and keep moving forward.

• Once doing things, use these things to escalate. Lead her away but strongly.


Comfort

• Blunt Honesty!

• “You know what, your so nice on the outside….but bored on the inside….your just going along with it”

• Element of Expressing Disappointment.

• Attraction and Comfort both at the same time!!!!


More objections and struggles

• We take the distractions as logical

• Anything of concern, bring it up on the approach without apologizing.

I haven’t talked to my friends in a while.

o “Of course you want to have a conversation with your friend and blow it out of proportion!”

o “Lets go! Me first!”

o “I understand…but you’ve seen more of her than me. Listen, I know you want to talk to your friend, at least we’ll stay in touch.”


• Play with getting the number

• Be the man who’s free


She rolls her eyes

o “The way you shake your head/roll your eyes….we need you to get a specialist”
o “Do it one more time!”

• Get known responses.

I don’t give my number out
o “Of course its not like we’re going to move in together, and exchange information”
o “Perfect…now that I know your not gonna try to marry me, atleast lets sit down for a sec”
o If you sense resistance with this, go to the opposite way. “Is your bf ok? I’ve been to an organization with women who’ve been treated crap with men.”

Her about to leave.
“Since you have to go, lets atleast properly say good bye(kiss her)”

• Be persistent, but not stubborn




After that, went to Public Bar with Zengame. It was bleh, met up with Quincy. Then went to ESL, to where he was watching me do my thing. He was doing some approaches as well.

I feel I did fine but noticed where I could improve. Curly brunette was ideal...she had to go. Nothing I could do further. when a girl is that hesitant to give the number...she might flake. Very good persistence with the number on my part. Make the ho say no. Its to where its uncomfortable for a girl to do it. Mine as well use that to our advantage.

The Italian girl I was doing fine with it, was just the logistics of it all. But don't be afraid or hold back when she came with a male. I guess I hold back because it just seems to be energy consuming when a male is there plus deep down im a bit nervous when a male might try to stop us. The worst that he can do is pull her away. That's it. The ethiopian girl with the guy, all I had to do was stay there and be friendly. Once she seemed hooked, I isolate her and tell him we'll be back. Remember, she's not his property.


I handled the objections well. Make the ho say no. I think I overdid it a bit. Say it once and that's it. The blonde girl was crazy....just next time....say it once and continue to talk about whatever. Its fine to play off at first but don't overdo it. Keep it up. The blonde couldn't believe how you were reversing the words on her. I think in this case, no need to overdo it. I think I overdid it a bit. You remained unaffected when she was shocked that you touched her face. With the work thing, it might've came off a bit prickish but that's ok. Also, one thing is you brought about the ox habits again. Be in the zone with her, no need to feel you have to push through the end of time.

Noticed one of the girls who was there, walked home by herself after she said goodbye to her friends. Now your starting to understand logistics more Steve!

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Starbuck's Post on Seeding and Logistics

Yes this is a common problem..

Unlike men, most younger women do not plan sex. It just happens. Therefore you have to be there when it happens and when they want it.

Difficult to do when you show up at the club too early and before the women have had a chance to get warmed up. The idea of course is to let other guys buy them drinks and entertain them, but you go home with them. After most of the other guys have left, gotten drunk, become frustrated like you, etc..

So, show up to the club later, and use alcohol to your advantage. Then work your game as usual. Have your logistics worked out in advance.

Prime time to show up at a club that closes at 2am is 12 midnight.

If you're trying to take a chick home at 10pm most of the time she's not going to be willing for a variety of reasons and regardless of how tight your game is. Her friends who are still unoccupied and who are looking out for her are one reason.

And some chicks will simply not have casual sex or go home with a guy they just met at a bar. Etch this into your cranium and don't let it affect you. Go immediately to plan B which is number close, or see her next time, etc..


What happens to many guys is they take these rejections early in the night and personalize it.

This is a mistake. And affects their attitude.

Being patient can be frustrating sometimes. So I know your pain.

Just hang in there, plant the seed, nurture it and make sure you're around for the harvest. When the fruit is ripe it will fall right off the tree.

TerminateHer's Notes

TerminaterHer: Closing Mentality Workshop Notes

Here are the notes.

Thanks SUPERMAN!

Playing It Safe

* Don't wait for "The Magic Moment", make it happen
* If you're after the skill, don't play it safe

Preparation

* Know logistics around you
* Identify sketchy spots
* Know wing signals (for winging, ejecting, isolating, car pulling, etc)

Being That Risk Taker

* Hesitation is unattractive
* REGRET is your enemy, not "rejection"
* Do you want to have a conversation or escalate?
* Don't be afraid of being creepy or getting caught

Plausible Deniabilty


* Avoids triggering ASD
* Seed a reason (i.e. CD, etc) multiple times in conversation (beginning, middle, end)

Car Pulls

* Less compliance required compared to going back to your/her place
* Have a reason (i.e. CD, etc)
* Park in dark sketchy areas
* If interrupted by obstacle (cock blocking friend, dude, etc) interject and derail their conversation. Also have her tell the cock block what you're doing (i.e. you're going to show her your CD)
* FTC by saying you will probably never see each other

Kiss Closes

* Establishes sexuality
* Assume you'll never see her again
* Closing mentality
* Shows you're not a pussy
* Pushes comfort zone
* Do what the fuck you want
* Don't get blown out for NOT escalating
* Don't be the "Tacky Make Out Guy", be the first one to pull away and keep the sexual tension there

Closing Mentality


* Are you in the game or pretending? Then start to fuckin' close
* Don't stop at the number close
* Women love sex, Cosmo quote about telling girls to pull the next cute guy they're flirting with into the bathroom for some fun
* My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday, helps with limiting beliefs and inner game about women not loving sex
* Let them know that you know that they love sex

Why Have Sex In Crazy Places

* It's easy
* Living with your parents excuse (The OPPOSITE of CLOSING mentality)
* TerminateHer was staying over at parents house and setup a day 2 at Gtown mall
* He wanted to go to her house, she suggested a movie. He delayed going by stopping by the mall
* Suggests stealing candy to set mischievous frame, shows up late in movie theater has to seat in front row w/girl
* Still ends up making out w/her before the movie even starts
* Tries to bounce to "Car Bar", she doesn't comply, he persists and bounces her to another movie
* Go to different movie, end up in the back and gets girl to stroke his dill in the back. Then bounces her outside
* Leads to his car by saying parents are looking for him and they run (increases buying temperature)
* TerminateHer ends up getting BJ in back of the car
* Suggest they wear a cute skirt for day 2s, makes it easier for you to fuck
* You can fuck close in daytime!

Places To Pull

* Stairwells (go to the top, no one takes the elevator from the top floor)
* Emergency exits (most are fake and don't work, check to see if there's a small alarm box, try it, worst case alarm goes off and you can just run for it)
* Work utility closet: Met up with girl in college dorm, roommates where busy in the room, so he ends up fucking her in closet he found in the hallway
* Metro: Play game where you bounce girl from cart to cart every time train stops. Keep doing until you find an empty cart, normally the one w/the conductor and he always has to face the front, so you can fuck in the back
* Dressing Room: Setup Day 2 for window shopping, have her help you try on clothes. Tell the people you're a couple if they give you a hard time
* Place girls hands on the wall when trying to escalate and fuck while standing up, reduces their LMR, shows dominance

Daytime

* Insta-date before going for a number close
* Insta-date can be anywhere
* That night!
* False time constraint (FTC), you're busy will probably never see each other
* No Day 3s, assume you will never see each other
* Kiss close

Pulling Out of The Venue

* Seed the pull (i.e. show her a CD, etc)
* Give plausible deniability
* Move her around the venue before you go for the pull (Compliance)
* Pump her BT w/makeout
* Talk sexual (Mystery's Questions Game)

Learning Closing Mentality

* Travel somewhere where you will never see the girls again
* Will force you to FTC, tell them you're there to make bad decisions
* Make a girl that's just a friend, and talk about pickup indirectly, will help with your inner game
* Do it for the skill

Services

* 1 on 1 coaching
* Daygame
* http://terminateher.com

Sunday, May 30, 2010

5/29 Adams Morgan

Alright, tonight I go out with Quincy and Sonic. We first hit up Grand Central, and go up to a group of girls but logistically, the set was tough plus they were visiting.

Quincy and me then proceeded to dance with these 3 girls.

We then head to Tom Tom's.

I'm dancing with this curly black haired brunette. Her blonde hot friend was a cockblock at first but then started to be more friendly and nice lol. Just danced, sat down, danced again. She then proceeds to ask me for my number. The good thing I did was set the sexual frame. I even told her, "You got no idea of things i plan on doing with you". I couldn't hear of what she said after.

Then was gaming this hispanic woman who i found sexy. What I learned here was that I just kept plowing, teasing and she was starting to show more interest, brought up the BF thing to which i dismissed it/didn't acknowledge it.

Gamed this asian girl with her friends. Her friends were on the watch out with her. They were in protector mode, but that's ok...she was not bad BUT i noticed she wanted to be picked up. But i didn't care so much of what would go on with her. These situations I'm not going try to hard for recovery. I'm not going to invest so much. Friday at Mothers in Federal Hill, the brunette girl group logistics were ideal and didnt have to worry. The truth with her was that i believe she knew where i was coming from, knew if she came with me...something would happen. her objection was "I don't know you".

Saw two girls from Radford again. The one DZ chick with girly hair I found hot and the ASA Latina girl whom i found sexy as well. The first girl said i was vagely familiar while the latina girl didn't remember me, but they reacted the same when they saw me spit game with the other girls as back then.

Spit my game with a few black chicks, but they weren't hooking much.

I felt a bit discouraged plus seeing Sonic leave with a girl(He didn't fuck her) but i thought he did at the time, to where im sitting with Quincy after approaching this black chick dancing. Quincy then tells me that he's learned alot from what I been doing, he's been saying im grabby and that I keep going till girls hook to where he felt he had a bit to think about. Then that raised my spirits to where I then go back to that same black girl with more energy and more assurance to where she talks about how her crazy ex-bf is around, i then tell her we can be more discreet...but then i take it she was playing games to where then i moved on to latina girl to where she was hooked and attracted but was ADD after and shit but i learned of looking at her body, not words and we kissed. I also found out she was carpooling to where that was out.

Only issue with DC is that alot of girls carpool and shit. Its not like New York where the girls can take a cab home themselves. But all in all, i felt disappointed at the end of the night but felt better when i remembered the curly haired girl and how you still had two girls who hooked.

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Places This Summer

Federal Hill College Bar Scene, if I'm going to do it again...i stay in the lower key bar area. Earlier in the night was good but later on, it was bleh.

Bourbon Street(Baltimore)-Did the rave there, but haven't done much bars yet.
Fells Point(Baltimore)-Seems like a promising spot from what I hear.
Canton(Baltimore)-I plan to do this area again at some point.
Old Town Alexandria-Prasant told me about it, we'll see!
Clarendon Ballroom-Going to do more Arlington.
Annapolis-Nutz said it was pretty good, will see!
Reston Town Center-Cougarville, got to do it on a Friday again.
Adams Morgan-Seems like a great pickup spot, will check it out.


Weekend Bar Schedule:
Adams Morgan, tonight...if its great...i'll be doing it once a week on a Saturday.
Reston Town Center. 6/11
Fells Point. 6/12
Annapolis.6/18
Canton.6/25

I'm probably going to do Current Night Club and Lima on the weekdays. Weekend is also reserved for Day 2's.

Leading to the Bedroom break down

1. Manage Logistics

When taking a girl home the same night, your biggest hurdle is going to be logistics. This is something you need to consider BEFORE you even step out of your door.


I've noticed that. Typically MisterB and others have great logistics. Some of the sets i run, the logistics to leave with the girl are tough as nails.


Where are you staying?
Your place:
Is it close to the bars? Do you have easy transportation to your place?

Friend’s Place:
Do you have a key? How are you going to get there? Do you have a room/couch for isolation?

Hotel:
Don’t forget multiple room keys. How do you plan to isolate her if there isn’t a separate room? Make sure your bed is made ;)

These 3 I don't have although a hotel is an option but i dont want to have to do a hotel each time.


2. Have the right mindset

The most CONSISTENT approach is to determine RIGHT OFF THE BAT what your goal is for the night.

For one night stands, a more assertive, “go for broke” style works best. You want to set the frame of “This is going down tonight!” with every girl you meet.


I need to do this a bit more even though I do it quite a bit.


Screen right off the bat to see if it is even possible. Go into every interaction with a hard core screening frame.


For me that means these golden words within the first five minutes…

“So, what are you up to later?”

Bad Responses:
-“Ahh… Well… I’m the designated driver, so I’m just hanging with my friends for a bit then heading home with them.”

-“I’m staying with my brother, just visiting my family for the weekend.”

-“I am showing my friends a good time, then we are all crashing at my place 30 minutes away.”

Yea, typically i've been doing more of this lately. Most girls will say they're going to go home BUT its also good motivation for venue/car pulls.


It doesn’t matter how attractive she is, or how much she loves you. These situations are going to be very hard to work through, so I’ll usually just try and find another girl.

Abundance Mindset!

So very true or what i can do is text her and what not using Quick Kill's texting stategies.


The anomaly to these situations is getting creative and trying to isolate her in a bathroom or a back alley. These make for great stories, but again, aren’t usually the easiest logistically to pull, and we are going for consistency here…
Its funny because I have had a much easier time pulling in a bathroom or a car, than leaving with her.

Good Responses:
-“Looking for a party!”
-“Whatever, what are your plans?”
-“Who knows, we’ll see where the night leads me…”

Obviously these are great answers. Look to lead in these situations and push the interaction as quickly as you can.

Yea, typically...these answers are awesome and almost every time the girl has said it..she was looking for something.

For example. The girl at local 16. Another example, the drunk girl at halloween. Another example, the girl at esl but i was incongruent at the time.


3. Convey yourself as the “sex-worthy” guy

You want to convey PHYSICALLY that you are a man that TAKES WHAT HE WANTS and isn’t held back by social constraints.

Get physical right off the bat and KEEP ESCALATING. Do this until it leads to a SHORT makeout.

WARNING: Don’t become the tacky makeout guy!

Yes! I definitely do this! Girls even note that I am touchy but you just keep going with it and do not stop.


You want to break the makeout first, don’t release the sexual tension!

You need to lead her conversationally also. To lead things in a sexual direction I like using the tried and trusted “push-pull” technique.

“What are you doing to me?! I was just trying to have a good night out with my friends, and you got me all hot and bothered!”

I do this too, but its true...at times where its not a sexual vibe...create it. Talk about sexual things and even if it feels awkward, touch her sensually.


As the night progresses and it looks more and more like she is down to hookup, I’ll escalate to even bolder statements. Here’s an example:

“You don’t even want to know what I’m thinking of doing to you right now.”

I use to do this, but i will again.

This gives you an opportunity to see how receptive she is towards going home with you. Based on her response, you will be able to see if she is ready to leave, or if you need to build more trust and comfort first.
60 Years of Challenge and Badboy say the same thing. Sure, after doing M1 I was afraid of losing girls if i did this but ABUNDANCE! Honestly, you know officially, a girl who wants dick won't dismiss the idea full out, she may resist a little bit or try to act like she hates that stuff but is looking at you with hungry or longing eyes.


4. Prepare for Paydirt

To help mitigate resistance later on, I found it helpful to qualify the girl after we have had a strong connection. Give her reasons for why you like her besides what’s between her legs. Just find three things that you really appreciate about her. Something like:

“You know, you are the first girl tonight that I have actually been able to have a decent conversation with. I’m glad we met.”

I’ll usually say two statements that are specific to the situation, and then the third is always…

“And to tell you the truth, I really want to have sex with you right now.”

I somewhat do this naturally.


Just make sure to reserve anything related to sex to the third qualifier, never the first.

Next, it just comes down to putting your balls on the line and LEADING.

LEADING is key. The circumstances are tenuous, and you can’t show any signs of uncertainty. So it is important to be assertive and decisive.

Absolutely. LiveForever was very spot on with this....not looking back lol.


There are two different techniques for when you leave the venue.

Have a reason for taking her to your house.
“Oh, I have to show you these cool fish/DVDs/youTUBE videos!”

The key here is to OVERSELL IT! “You have to come see the COOLEST FISHTANK IN THE WORLD!! C’mon, it is going to be SO FUN!!!”

The other choice is not to give a reason at all.
“C’mon. Sko’ sko’ sko’. Right now. We are leaving NOW!”

I actually prefer the second option because it is usually obvious that we are going to hookup.

Yessir. Good thing though is that some girls live on their own. I'll be working more on this no doubt!


5. Closing the deal

The last hurdle is getting from the club to the isolation location. It is important to keep the energy UP during this part of the interaction. Again, it’s a tenuous situation where too much lag time will dissipate the sexual tension to a point where neither of you are in the mood. So keep flirting, joking around, messing with the cab driver if in a taxi, and so on. Just keep the energy up until you get to your place.

Great advice! I just have to get to that point first.


Once back at your place, be chill and “cobra-like” walking in the door. Once inside, it’s time for the makeout wall slam of glory. Pin her against the wall and dive into a serious makeout. Then it’s just a matter of picking her up and carrying her to bed.

If you do things right it should lead to a Win/Win situation where both parties are happy. You took all the right steps to prevent any mishaps and resistance, ending in glory. Congratulate yourself… and the girl. :)

It shall happen sometime this year!

How to Lead the Girl from the Bar to the Bedroom

Here is an old article by Brad P from RSD. In the next post, im going to break it down.

1. Manage Logistics

When taking a girl home the same night, your biggest hurdle is going to be logistics. This is something you need to consider BEFORE you even step out of your door.

Where are you staying?
Your place:
Is it close to the bars? Do you have easy transportation to your place?

Friend’s Place:
Do you have a key? How are you going to get there? Do you have a room/couch for isolation?

Hotel:
Don’t forget multiple room keys. How do you plan to isolate her if there isn’t a separate room? Make sure your bed is made ;)


2. Have the right mindset

The most CONSISTENT approach is to determine RIGHT OFF THE BAT what your goal is for the night.

For one night stands, a more assertive, “go for broke” style works best. You want to set the frame of “This is going down tonight!” with every girl you meet.

Screen right off the bat to see if it is even possible. Go into every interaction with a hard core screening frame.

For me that means these golden words within the first five minutes…

“So, what are you up to later?”

Bad Responses:
-“Ahh… Well… I’m the designated driver, so I’m just hanging with my friends for a bit then heading home with them.”

-“I’m staying with my brother, just visiting my family for the weekend.”

-“I am showing my friends a good time, then we are all crashing at my place 30 minutes away.”

It doesn’t matter how attractive she is, or how much she loves you. These situations are going to be very hard to work through, so I’ll usually just try and find another girl.

Abundance Mindset!

The anomaly to these situations is getting creative and trying to isolate her in a bathroom or a back alley. These make for great stories, but again, aren’t usually the easiest logistically to pull, and we are going for consistency here…


Good Responses:
-“Looking for a party!”
-“Whatever, what are your plans?”
-“Who knows, we’ll see where the night leads me…”

Obviously these are great answers. Look to lead in these situations and push the interaction as quickly as you can.


3. Convey yourself as the “sex-worthy” guy


You want to convey PHYSICALLY that you are a man that TAKES WHAT HE WANTS and isn’t held back by social constraints.

Get physical right off the bat and KEEP ESCALATING. Do this until it leads to a SHORT makeout.

WARNING: Don’t become the tacky makeout guy!

You want to break the makeout first, don’t release the sexual tension!

You need to lead her conversationally also. To lead things in a sexual direction I like using the tried and trusted “push-pull” technique.

“What are you doing to me?! I was just trying to have a good night out with my friends, and you got me all hot and bothered!”

As the night progresses and it looks more and more like she is down to hookup, I’ll escalate to even bolder statements. Here’s an example:

“You don’t even want to know what I’m thinking of doing to you right now.”

This gives you an opportunity to see how receptive she is towards going home with you. Based on her response, you will be able to see if she is ready to leave, or if you need to build more trust and comfort first.


4. Prepare for Paydirt

To help mitigate resistance later on, I found it helpful to qualify the girl after we have had a strong connection. Give her reasons for why you like her besides what’s between her legs. Just find three things that you really appreciate about her. Something like:

“You know, you are the first girl tonight that I have actually been able to have a decent conversation with. I’m glad we met.”

I’ll usually say two statements that are specific to the situation, and then the third is always…

“And to tell you the truth, I really want to have sex with you right now.”

Just make sure to reserve anything related to sex to the third qualifier, never the first.

Next, it just comes down to putting your balls on the line and LEADING.

LEADING is key. The circumstances are tenuous, and you can’t show any signs of uncertainty. So it is important to be assertive and decisive.

There are two different techniques for when you leave the venue.

Have a reason for taking her to your house.
“Oh, I have to show you these cool fish/DVDs/youTUBE videos!”

The key here is to OVERSELL IT! “You have to come see the COOLEST FISHTANK IN THE WORLD!! C’mon, it is going to be SO FUN!!!”

The other choice is not to give a reason at all.
“C’mon. Sko’ sko’ sko’. Right now. We are leaving NOW!”

I actually prefer the second option because it is usually obvious that we are going to hookup.


5. Closing the deal


The last hurdle is getting from the club to the isolation location. It is important to keep the energy UP during this part of the interaction. Again, it’s a tenuous situation where too much lag time will dissipate the sexual tension to a point where neither of you are in the mood. So keep flirting, joking around, messing with the cab driver if in a taxi, and so on. Just keep the energy up until you get to your place.


Once back at your place, be chill and “cobra-like” walking in the door. Once inside, it’s time for the makeout wall slam of glory. Pin her against the wall and dive into a serious makeout. Then it’s just a matter of picking her up and carrying her to bed.

If you do things right it should lead to a Win/Win situation where both parties are happy. You took all the right steps to prevent any mishaps and resistance, ending in glory. Congratulate yourself… and the girl. :)

5/28 Federal Hill

Tonight I went to federal hill and it had the same vibe as college park. My best set was the first. She was quite cute and I was doing well but the logistics of it all hit me plus there wasn't an its on moment. Once you get the it's on moment...proceed further. I could've gotten the number close and tried quickkill's shit but she was gone. I did well with the seeding, I just add more sexual tension by touching her more. That's ok though since I didn't care for numbers. The other bars were just tough and that's why I avoid college bars....too logistically hard cuz of groups. I will try felt's point, canton once more and then bourbon st.

Adams morgan is tomorrow night. I'm taking a break from dupont. Arlington ill try again too.

For situations like these in the future:

+Attempt to be more sexual:
HOW? Touch her a bit more, whisper in her ear, look at her sexually in the eyes, caress her legs, caress her hand.
+Make sure to get the number when isolated and when she mentions the friends, mention discretion. But check logistics, considering she was leaving with her roommate, that would've been tough.
+Remember, the car pull idea was great...but it wasn't "On" yet. She was attracted to you, but it wasn't to the point where she was feeling horny. Remember, do this when you can obviously feel the sexual tension. I didn't feel it with her yet. Plus she was still a little closed off.
+Federal Hill wasn't too good in my opinion. Too much stimuli.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

5/26/10 QuickKill Seminar + Street Game and Adams Morgan

Alright, I went to Quick Kill's Seminar and took a good deal of notes. Here they are:


(COMING SOON)


At the end of the program, I asked him about withholding that part for day 2s and he told me not to. That was the answer I needed. Although I'm still hesitant, only because I guess you could say I'm a bit afraid to lose potential meet ups.

Before the seminar I went up to a married woman at dupont, a cute brunette girl in green going to a Stevie Wonder concert, a good looking brunette in a stoplight(she opened up more than the others), a thick girl with big tits, and then a cute black chick.

We went all over Adams Morgan after and spotted a thick black girl dancing behind her friend, there was a tar black dude with a tupe'...thought it maybe the bf but in reality...it was just a random guy. This set went well, eventhough she walked away after I tried to kiss her, before she left...i got her number and texted her after. Going to do my best and see what I can get.

Did some street game, some girls sticked but others didn't. One sexy chick was still walking but that's ok. I just have to have approach a bit stronger. Faz commented on the black dressed woman that the approach I did was weak...but i guess was because subconsciously I was trying to get her to stay. I only did that because I held back since it was quite dark out. One girl in street game that hooked was a tall slim black girl with yellow shoes. She replied to my text and seemed interested. :)

Adams Morgan seems pretty good :). This Saturday I'm going. I'm going to take a break from Dupont for a bit. Tomorrow I'm doing Reston Town Center. Sunday is Baltimore baby!

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Badboy Notes

How to make a woman go wild.

by Badboy


HI,
This post is my Christmas gift for you.

What I am about to share you here , is one of Secret DNA tools we only teach on our DNA events.
This one small piece of DNA and if its done correctly can improve your success with girls significantly!

Its designed primary for getting One-Night-Stands , and I do not recommend it it if you are looking for a girlfriend.

In DNA everything is spinning around 2 Main components.

TCC - Trust-Comfort-Connection
SE - Sexual energy/tension ( escalation)

Every girl you talk to is going to be different, and each one will have different needs for amount of connection / Se. tension she has to have to sleep with a guy.

Your job is to find right balance between 2 elements and deliver it. You going to do that, by looping between those 2 elements.
In each new loop you have to increase Connection she feels with you ( TCC ) and Se. tension.

For example, if you approach girl with powerful Badboy direct opening and you say :
“You are so Damn Sexy and I am going to get to know you, tell me something about yourself.. who are you” ?

You just entered loop from SE Tension side, and by saying “ I am going to get to know you” you are moving to TCC component ( Connection).
And then you spend several minutes building TCC ( creating connection with her), and then you move back to SE. tension, and escalate no new level.
“Baby... you smell so nice ( while smelling her neck), and shift back to TCC (“what type of music do you listen”?)

The rule of thumb is that with normal girls you going to spend 2-5minutes in TCC and 10-20 sec building SE Tension.

You will continue loop by talking more about other topics ( changing topics and going deeper ) while at same time being more and more dirtier building SE Tension.

“If you only know what I am thinking about, you would blush”--Back to TCC
“ You know what you are going to be my new girlfriend”

To achieve desired effect deliver SE escalation lines by whispering to her ear. While in TCC you talk normal voice from normal distance.

“You know what, you have such a nice body..yummy”
“Baby you are so turning me on”
“You know what, I am resisting myself not to kiss you right now”

each new SE loop has to be 20% stronger, 20% dirtier then pervious loop. You can see in this newsletter from top how much I am escalating each SE.

“I so want to take you home”

With girls that came to club to get laid, you can skip TCC part and just loop SE element.

From time to time I get asked, so when does this loop stops? HOnestly : Never. The moment you stop this loop you are losing her. How many times happened to you that you were talking to girl and there was that moment when you had to kiss her, you waited too long to Kiss her, to Escalate, and you lost the girl. Same thing happens in a relationship. The moment you stop escalating, you get sucked into boring routine, and relationship slowly dies.
In a relationship loop is more then obvious. you sleep with a girl, and then you pillow talk, have a breakfast . SE - TCC.
So how to you keep loop in a relationship? you have to regularly introduce new things, such as new positions, new people, toys..
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Jad's Bathroom pull

his happened yesterday. I have done this two times before. TO pull a girl to the bathroom is more right timing and preperation.

KNOW YOUR LOGISTICS!!!

I always tip the security at the bathroom door and get him some drinks (i also know the owner of the club). Guess what??? There is a hidden room in the bathroom to put stuff cleaning stuff. Still you can use the bathroom seat bur Angry DISGUSTING!!.

SO i know my logisitcs.

Now i need the right girl. The right girl always APPEAR to me. When i look at her i feel this instants spark of sexual tension. Take into account girls who are at the club after 2 am are there to fuck.


Last have a CONDOMS . This is key . I can't tell you how many times that shit stopped me!

So we went out at 1:30 am. I was dressed like shit. But i just knew on a GUT LEVEL there is a girl for me now. So i chilled and enjoyed the music. Some asks me for a lighter and my buddy fucks the situation up. God they have to learn NICE doesn't means ATTRACTIVE NICE IS EARNED!!

Anyways at about 2:30 am iam at the club door and a very sexy girl works throught the door. I have saw her before with her 2 girl friends.

hbmetice: Smiley



jad87:" Grin"

hbmetice:" What is your name"

jad87:" SHHHHHHHHH"(Putting my finger on her lip)

Rule: Create tension by being UNLOGICAL and Horny.

...Crazy EC small kiss than makeout.....start eating her neck and ear until she is moaning.....take her by hand ...

hbmetice:" Where are we going?"

jad87:"TO heaven">

KEY: DON"T ever be logical when she is in the horny state just stay playful LET THE TENSION UP!! YEs a logical answer can fuck things up it happened many times with me

SO i lead her next to bathroom. Begin making out and let my hand kind of move her breasts . AS we are making out the Guy at the door knows what to do. I am moving her as we are kissing in to the bathroom then I pull out my dick.

hbmetice:" Not here!! ...blabla"

jad87:(Tkae her hand and put it on it)(She strokes it)

Rule: Girls talk shit get them to act. WHo gives a fuck what she says

So then iam like :" We need some privacy"...she is like "YA"..I open that small room and she had a skirt so it was easy to go for her pussy. We fucked and after that I GOT HER NAME lol!!

I invited her for a drink is this supplication Grin and i met her friends. My friends were like were did you disappear and why s your face sooo red ahaha.

Bathroom pull!!
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Jad's DNA Tips

Well I didn't get any product related to this but this has been my style for a long time. The key to do it well is to truly NOT GIVE A SHIT. I mean it is like a frame of mind where you are in ACTION MODE. You do what you want to do and you do it TOTALLY. You must be out of your head.

The approach in itself should be an escalation and how RECEPTIVE she is to you escalation is her COMFORT ZONE.

I approach a girl i like in the club i immediately go for her ear while touching her face i let my hand pass on her neck . Now i say my opener usually " You are so fucking sexy" (and breath slow air in her ear)...Her Body language will tell me everything (It is best to get a FEELING for it then to logically search for it ..this comes with experience)

Then if she enjoys it I immediately take her hand and isolate (" i want to tell you something crazy...its too loud ") ...When isolation (She accepting isolation from such an approach in itself shows she WANT IT) ...We are walking i may push her on a wall to make out ..or get really close to her and go for it....Ofcours along the process she may TEST a lot..The key is not to even be affected..Would you fight a baby whore(that is your frame)...Now after she gets turned on (Make out should be short coz you don't wnat to give her everything) take her to an isolated place using some lame excuse or even better TAKE her and just GO...

note: There is no rules in this game but GUIDELINES
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Jad's Screening Tips


Well lovesong and biggun I will try to clarify some stuff. Not all girls are up to such an approach . I usually select the girl that i TRULY WANT. Like she makes me feel something special. You can FEEL it when you look her in her eyes or at her like some sort of energy. I like to think of it like my instincts are guiding. Badboy was on point when he said " You feel like kissing then KISS".

Now for the girl the way she is dressed and behaving and when she is at the clube will tell you everything. so it is a why/how/when but i urge you not TO THINK it will come with experiance. But a fast guideline:

1. Who is she with?
2. Is she dressed slutty?
3. Is she drinking more than usual? (An excuse to fuck)
4. What is the time at the club? (If it is 2 in the morening she is there for reasons other than dancing)

When in convo with her:

1. Is she touching me? (After such an approach any touch from her is a huge good sign)
2. Is she logically trying to fuck my game? (If this is happening at the same time of her touching you she is HORNY...like one time a girl touched my cock while at the same time saying she hates me"(post fr soon)
3. Is she telling you how much she HATES her boyfried/husbad? (this is a sign she wants to cheat with you)
4. Does she give you an isolation window (This could be simple as she telling you she love guitar music after you say "I have a guitar home..Be aware of this"


I add some stuff also...
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Enio's Stuff

I did like marius said... I'm working on my inner game... and i'm trying to change word "need" to "want"

i went to the pub yesterday... noting special just have a beer and relax... I wasn't looking for any girls....

Ok so i sit at the bar drinking johny black talking to bartender... When i finish my first glass of johny I had to go to restroom. I told bartender to pour me another one... While going to restroom I saw this brunette... Big eyes, nice lips, nice tits... we had an EC... Yap its going I think...

So when i came back from restroom I went to grab my Johny and went straight to this girl....

- You are so damn sexy and I want to get to know you... who are you?
She told me her name

- I din;t ask you for your name... I want to know who u r as a person...

She started talking about her life... what kind of person she is... what se doesn;'t like in ppl etc fluffy talk...

- I was like: Shhhhh your talking making me horny (hehe I love this phrase badboy... she was stuned)
.... I put my hand in her hair and I pulled it a little... and KC

- She was like: WTF is happening. I could see that from her expression...

I was trying to pull her out from the pub but she said that she is waiting for her friend and she cannot go...
I told her to call her friends that something came up and she have to change her plans....

No go....

So i sat there with her for few minutes talking, and I took her number...

I'm thinking about calling her tonight or tomorrow and ask her out.... maybe i will call her tomorrow during lunch time....

It looks like she wasn't the girl who wanted to get fucked this night... Well anyway I wasn't NEEDing to fuck her.... I go to pubs alone to work on my inner game and don't relay on going to pubs/clubs with friends....