Sunday, July 25, 2010

7/24 Return to Town

#1 Curly haired milf with a curvy body. She had great sized tits. The pickup was pretty good. She said she didn't have much time, so i isolated her a few times. Decided to make out with her only to try to go for a venue pull. When she said she had to go to the bathroom...i said "I have to go to" To where then as we're walking, i take her hand and go inside with her to where we try to go to one of the stalls and go for it. If i knew there was much more time and i figured she wouldn't try to leave to go back to her friends, I would've built more sexual tension.

#2 Gay guy with abs and two girls. You learned to be friend the male. Its funny because this one was genuine conversation. The issue at hand was that the girl and her friend talked to themselves. Next time, reduce the time and involve the girl in the conversation.

#3 Gay girl with glasses. Funny set. She was going to help me out. Shame that she wasn't straight otherwise that would've been completely money. Kissed my first lesbian lol.

#4 Black girl with glasses who had big tits. Sadly...she wasn't responding as much. She was with her gay friend. What i should've done is isolate her without worrying if he'd stop me.

Did a few more, but they weren't worth mentioning. Town is better than other places, BUT its not good enough. Its easier to sexually escalate no question BUT logistics are a lot tougher.

Adonis' correlation with girls having to go back to friends and bad logistics go hand in hand. I noticed girls who's logistics were better...weren't on a rush.

But yet again, I went home without a girl or heck wasn't able to successfully fuck. the same time, i'm glad after a long ass time...i did something like this again.

I'll come back to Town in September. Coming up, I have to do Adams Morgan and see if this time things can work out better.

Last night, after getting rejected a few times at the end...i wanted to make them jealous...i wanted to show that they shouldn't. I had that feeling...but I then realized its temporary satisfaction. Rejection hurt, to this times i don't want to experience it at times but its become my strength. I have less to fear, although i did back out for some approaches but its ok. Your human :).

Saturday, July 24, 2010

7/23 Return to Town

#1 Thick girl was a great learning experience, did the run away from the friend thing. But it's funny because this girl here proved that she was a good set. Because she invested by asking me questions, going along with the isolations. Although many of her friends weren't an issue, there was one who didn't.
#2 Tall hot blonde who cockblocked me later on
#3 Group with the cockblocking asian friend, did the run away
#4 Asian girl who was curvy and my physical type but she wasn't attracted to me. Thats disheartening only because i really wanted to tap that.
#5 short glasses dyke, was a 2 faced girl.
#6 Hot girl at the very end i was like fuck it and kissed her.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

7/17 Philadelphia!

#1 Tall Ukranian girl with glasses, found her sexy at club
#2 Small brunette girl whom decided to talk to Prasant lol.
#3 2 black girls, tough logistically
#4 thick blonde who seemed DTF but her friend was all offended i was joking about the word, bitch.
#5 Toned arms girl
#6 Black girl whom i stopped randomly, she was ragging on me a little in a playful way but i plowed through it but then something in her changed lol.

7/16 Town

#1 Hot indian girl, make out
#2 Asian girl, the group were very friendly to me!
#3 Brunette club girl who wasn't convinced i was straight!
#4 Short haired blonde.
#5 middle eastern i girl i isolated but wasn't that invested yet to where things hit the fan.

7/20 Adonis's Q and A Session

I ask two questions and they were related to comfort and girls in big groups. I'll update this later.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

7/18 Comfort Notes

Excellent info by Sinn. So many other gurus in the community make comfort so damn confusing. BUT, Sinn describes it really well here. Its funny, because I do some of this naturally. I just have to realize when I'm doing day do it more.

I also realized that i'm not at a low level...considering I don't have my own place...things can be tough. But you are finding out logistics and pressing things as soon as you can.


1) Building Commonalities. Commonalities can literally save an interaction. I remember
a time I was talking to a girl at a mall in Scottsdale. Nothing was working and she
kept mentioning that she had to go meet her friend. So in frustration I mentioned that
this was worse than bombing on stage at stand up. She lit up… She mentioned that
she loved stand up and we started talking eventually leading to an instant date and a
very solid phone number. It’s very important to remember the “Go First” principle
when it comes to commonalities. You want to volunteer things you are into first and
let the girl agree with you, rather than vice versa.

2) Establishing a conspiracy. Conspiracies are key to all relationships. In addition to
establishing a cooperative dynamic, conspiracies allow you to build a huge amount of
rapport. Conspiracies essentially are inside jokes between you and the girl. You want
to establish an "us against the world" dynamic. Examples of conspiracies range from
role plays and games to simply explaining how the two of you are the coolest people
in the coffee shop.

3) Demonstrating that you understand women and her specifically. Demonstrating that
you understand women is key to building an amazing amount of rapport. I even go so
far as to call it speaking Womanese. When you can convey to a girl that you
understand the way women think, and feel, you will be able to communicate with her
on an entirely different level. It’s also important to show her that you understand her
as a person. This is where cold reading and framing really comes into play. By
knowing some basic truisms about women and relationships, you can demonstrate a
deep understanding of her reality.

4) Making your intentions clear. This is where I differ from almost all major pick up
gurus. I tell girls explicitly that I am hitting on them, trying to get in their pants, etc.
The reason I do this is because it forces a woman to make a choice about how she is
interested in me. I want her to be interested in me as a woman is interested in a man.

Not as a shopping buddy, not as a friend. I want her to know that I am interested in
her in a romantic/sexual nature. To do this we use statements of intent. These can be
as simple as telling a girl you think she’s sexy to telling her you are hitting on her, or
even trying to get in her pants. In comfort you need to make your intentions known so
that the girl can know how you’re going to act around her down the line. In fact if you
can get a girl to accept enough statements of intent it is very easy to sexually escalate.

5) Demonstrating a wide range of emotions. In attraction we need to convey that we are
40 foot tall Alpha Males full of confidence and superior sperm. In comfort we need to
convey that we are a real person with a real life, friends, etc… One of the ways we do
that is by showing the girl a wide range of emotions. By demonstrating that we’re
comfortable being vulnerable or opening up about our families; or talking about
something that makes you really mad, you build comfort. One of the questions a girl
always asks herself when she’s meeting a guy she’s attracted to is “What would it be
like if he was my Boyfriend.” By showing her a wide range of emotions you build

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

7/13 The Rain...

I found out that deep down i was angry at the game. I was frustrated with women's game. I was frustrated with the night game dynamics. But after a talk with my family, I felt better. It all related to that girl friday night. I felt that I was disconnected with the world which ruined my chances and what not. But in reality, if you just want one night stands, you don't have to reveal too much about yourself. Just act the way I am. Just be naturally me. She might've felt a barrier, other women i don't think did. It was just her.

If she was so on guard with Anti-Slut Defense, thats her own issue. I'm going to keep being me. I just be aware of the comfort a girl needs. Just enough, not too much!

I also should not be so hard on myself. I'm doing the best I can and am getting better.

Las Vegas is in 4 and a half weeks! Can't wait!

Finally feel close with my family. Now I got to talk to my dad. Let him know the real me.

I didn't cry when I talked to my parents. I finally let them know that I was closing them off and the beautiful thing is they know about me of things i don't even know about myself. That made me feel relieved.

I notice the rain is pouring heavy, even knowing my family is there...I re-enacted the scene in the Shawshank redemption confirming vow and acknowledging that i did in fact get laid again after 5 and a half years. That I'm getting closer by the day to the success I wanted.

As i looked up at the sky, for that brief moment...I was at peace. I felt no care in the world. I was free. I felt 100% myself. Then after I was done, i noticed Khan's son was smoking a cigarette. He heard me but i told him that i think out loud. He laughs lol.

7/9 Reston Town Center

Reston town center.....quite a few 2 sets. I should bring a wing

Brunette with nice attention to start. She gave her name. I didn't hear it at first. Things started off fine.

At some point..just have regular conversation

Solo girl. I had an opportunity and I blew it. But in reality, I didn't really blow it. She just needed extra comfort. That's it.

Guage a woman's need for comfort. Talk like you normally do.

That's the feedback I needed :)

7/7 Return to Eden

Short thick latina....good screening

Logistics weren't good...she was gonna crash at her friend's place.

Mixed set...held back.

Tall girl...kept holding onto hand

Be super dominant if males are in set

Two set I danced earlier were checking out....3 strikes! Older girl

Last girl I tried twice.....she opened fully and when she declined....I learned something that i should've just talked to her.

NewBalance pulled a girl and fucked her lol. She was by herself.

7/3 UMD Party

A few girls aren't responding much. I don't bother with them. German girl i make out with by lips. But she's ADD and goes back to friends. Nothing else here.

Go to UMD bars, just go full out wolf and go for quick makeouts and dancing and shit. Don't bother with any other form of game.

Salem argues with chick, blows smoke in her face and cusses out her friend.

Go back to party, african guy who friends of house is doing well with German Girl outside. I feel he's going to pull her. I'm jealous and deep down want him to mess up but rooting for him. But he's not calibrated enough to know he had her. I try to go for it but she's not responding to me :(.

Oh well lol. MisterB, PrettyBoy, Faz and others are there.

7/2 Annapolis

Not really that ideal. Me and Prasant had two milfs and they seemed DTF but something changed their minds. They had to wake up early in the morning. Next time, just take milf to the bathroom since she's complying with things. Alright, lets go and have fun!

7/1 Georgetown Waterfront

Good spot. Lots of social groups though.

Good stuff with milf. Her logistics weren't that good. She gave me a fake number. Tried to seed a later meetup but didn't get to happen.

Kiss a tall skinny hot blonde at the start. She was typsy. She's like "Your gay right?! :)" I tell her, "Nope :)" Her mind goes haywire and then feels like a slut now lol.

Held back approaching a hot girl in green who was near a guy. He was then gone. She was giving subtle e/c during that. What is it with girls giving e/c when she's already with a guy? Strange! She was solo after but then talked to these two guys who were having mundane convo. I then decide to go up to her but no go. Truth is, she wasn't that interested to begin with. if she was, she would've been glad i came up to her.

See that same tall blonde at Johnny Rocket's. She comes up to me after i make a funny comment :)

6/30 Eden

Has a magic touch for guys leaving with girls there.

Two black girls. Tough logistics cuz of her friend eventho the friend liked me :)

Prasant scored with this thick milf with nice cleavage, big tits....she was me and Zengame's type.