Showing posts with label approaching. Show all posts
Showing posts with label approaching. Show all posts
Thursday, January 1, 2009
12/29: Lack of Good Targets at Mall
My god...Potomac Mills Mall sucks during the weekday for really good targets. My first was a black girl, tall...pretty cute...but she was taken. The second was a thick blonde woman, who said she was taken. Turns out she was as i saw her bf holding hands with her, i saw her looking at me...but i guess i still have an issue with myself to where i feel if i look at the girl, it'll just satisfy her ego. The third was a pretty dark haired brunette woman, she was only 20(looked about my age, 22). She was taken as well. After those 3, didn't really see anymore that i really wanted to go up to. It was a weekday after all. I guess weekends are mall time! :-)
Sunday, December 28, 2008
12/26 & 12/28: Two Days of Mall Game
Aright everyone, firstly i wanted to say that my final night of gaming at Radford was meh. I did some approaches, and i did get to game this hot blonde again. But she had a boyfriend, i tried to kiss her...she declined...but was shocked that i went for it. I told her i was by myself, but she thought i was alone and didn't want me to be by myself, i'm like thinking, "C'mon now! I did this on purpose for god sakes!"
12/26
Aright, i meet up with four other guys. One of them had an insta-date later in the night, one of them got about 4 numbers, and one of them did a few. Now as for me...I did about 8 approaches. The first one went fine, just that i let her go too soon, was this very attractive vietnamese woman with highlights, she looked like she was about to go but she didn't leave when i kept talking to her. I gave up that one too soon. The other 6, the women were either on a rush or they said no thanks. One of the fine ones was a two set walking. I stopped both of them, they were hot girls but too young.haha. The last one, my god was this beautiful Russian Woman. Tall, blonde, and thin...but had a nice rack. My god...near a 9. I went up to her, and she was VERY RECEPTIVE. This one was hard for me to do, cuz she was with 3 guys, BUT then they were friendly too. They were russian as well. I chatted with them for a few minutes and forgot to address the woman and we parted ways. Man she was hot as hell. I should've talked to her for a few minutes and then went for the number. Oh well. I was rusty, im getting use to it.
12/28
Aright, me and Boris wing together today. We arrive at a different mall at 3:00. I forgot how much i did, but the first 5 approaches, i got rejected. I felt a lil down, but then i decided to not give up. Boris told me that i was monotone w/o realizing it for one of the approaches, and that helped me a good deal. The next approach was an iranian woman, whom could speak good english. She was hot, and i wanted her. was receptive but she said her boyfriend was outside. But i kept talking to her and then ejected. I could've just flat out prolly tired to do an instadate with her despite the bf thing but like i said, im still rusty. The next was this girl who from the back had nice tits and good height. Turns out she was 18 and she was cute in the face, just not as hot as i thought she'd be. Talk to her for a few minutes ,get her number but its prolly a flake since i called it and got no answer to check to see if it was real.
But one thing i realized was that i was afraid to use sexy opening. I will do it! Especially with really hot girls whom i def find sexy.
12/26
Aright, i meet up with four other guys. One of them had an insta-date later in the night, one of them got about 4 numbers, and one of them did a few. Now as for me...I did about 8 approaches. The first one went fine, just that i let her go too soon, was this very attractive vietnamese woman with highlights, she looked like she was about to go but she didn't leave when i kept talking to her. I gave up that one too soon. The other 6, the women were either on a rush or they said no thanks. One of the fine ones was a two set walking. I stopped both of them, they were hot girls but too young.haha. The last one, my god was this beautiful Russian Woman. Tall, blonde, and thin...but had a nice rack. My god...near a 9. I went up to her, and she was VERY RECEPTIVE. This one was hard for me to do, cuz she was with 3 guys, BUT then they were friendly too. They were russian as well. I chatted with them for a few minutes and forgot to address the woman and we parted ways. Man she was hot as hell. I should've talked to her for a few minutes and then went for the number. Oh well. I was rusty, im getting use to it.
12/28
Aright, me and Boris wing together today. We arrive at a different mall at 3:00. I forgot how much i did, but the first 5 approaches, i got rejected. I felt a lil down, but then i decided to not give up. Boris told me that i was monotone w/o realizing it for one of the approaches, and that helped me a good deal. The next approach was an iranian woman, whom could speak good english. She was hot, and i wanted her. was receptive but she said her boyfriend was outside. But i kept talking to her and then ejected. I could've just flat out prolly tired to do an instadate with her despite the bf thing but like i said, im still rusty. The next was this girl who from the back had nice tits and good height. Turns out she was 18 and she was cute in the face, just not as hot as i thought she'd be. Talk to her for a few minutes ,get her number but its prolly a flake since i called it and got no answer to check to see if it was real.
But one thing i realized was that i was afraid to use sexy opening. I will do it! Especially with really hot girls whom i def find sexy.
Sunday, December 14, 2008
12/13 The Makeout Trials at Attitudes: Bar with a dancefloor
Aright everyone, i haven't really done much FRs...as i usually post them in my blog put i'll put some down here for now on....
Aright tonight was pretty funny....one of my acquaintences tells me on campus that in Blacksburg, a.k.a VATEch, Attitudes, a college bar, was gonna be poppin.
When i get there....it sucked. No one was dancing, not that many girls to choose from it blew.
But then when it got better, things started rolling.
#1 Three set of a fatty, an aright looking chick and a short cute southern belle late 20s blonde. I introduce myself going direct, the fatty cockblocks me off the bat, but ignore...the other friend doesn't say anything...while the target girl isn't feeling me much. After a bit, i tell the blonde girl to tell me about herself, to where she says, "I don't want to" I then leave. There were too many other girls to worry about.
#2 Was a 4 set, a pretty faced cute blonde, a cute dark haired brunette, a pretty cute brunette and a dude. I open them by saying, "I find you all cute and i wanted to meet you all :-)"
They're receptive and i introduce myself to all of them. Talk to them for a minute asking them when its usually popping and stuff and they tell me. The one i wanted to, a 7.8 brunette who was slim, midlengthed hair, skinny nose, nice cleavage i gave her more attention. I didn't get cockblocked or anything. I talked to the dude for a few seconds, he was friendly. I asked them all how they know each other. The target girl says that they're all best friends(I knew things were fine now since the dude wasn't dating the brunette girl). So then its just me and her. I tell her, "Tell me about herself'
She tells me she goes to so and so uni, and she had 3 kids. I ask her, "Where's the hubby at?" She tells me, "What are u talking about? He cheated on me and stuff" I was like "ohhh....wait...how old are u?" She tells me, "29 :-)" I say, "shut up :-)"...and give a very exaggeratedly shocked demeanor..."There's no way in HELL ur 29...Shoot me now!" She laughs a bit.
Then i tell her, "Well...we're gonna have some fun tonight...and thats all matters." She says yea. Also tells me she likes American Eagle stuff and says she doesn't like Express when i tell her what i like. I tease her and tell, "What?! U hate express...oh c'mon now...i thought we were cool....well too bad...since we both don't like each others brands...its more meant to be :-P" she giggles again.
after that i try to isolate her to sit down. She doesn't want. I try to persuade her a lil, no go but she there still seems to be some interest. I'd say my kino was good. I touching necklace, ask where it is, touch her arms and stuff, slide my hands down. She wasn't resisting or anything. Then i play with her hair asking about it, she telling me she likes it long......i then tell her, "Oh u shouldn't had cut it....its so not gonna work out :-p" She knew i was flirting and seemed to not mind it. After that i then go for the kiss. She turns her face, with a funny face asking, "Were u trying to smell my hair? =-p"
I tell her, "No :-) I was trying to kiss you" She has a shocked laugh in her face, she was laughing a bit. I tell her, "I so want to kiss those nice lips of urs ;-)" She laughs again. I could tell that she was intrigued a little. But then i talk with her somemore, take her hand...try to take her with me to go dance, but she tells me she's got to be drunk. I tell her, "thats the same excuse all girls have :-p" After that, i can see her attention is waning, so i part ways, try to kiss her again, but then she shakes her saying no.
Lesson learned: More Sexual Tension. I think it was good i attempted to isolate and her stuff, since if a girl isn't willing to just sit down with u, how do u expect her to take her home?
#3 Was another 3 set. Were two sisters, a blonde, a redhead and a dude with a deep guage ear piercing. I go direct on them. They're pretty receptive. I didn't get to see the redhead but my god...she was def hot. She had REALLY NICE cleave, great sized tits. Was funny. They were nice and receptive. The best looking girls i went up to the entire night. The dude is pretty tight, i ask him about his ear piercings and shit and how its cool. He's chill, i talk wiht the girls for a few minutes, playing the guessing game with them. tell the redhead she reminded me of my first ever girlfriend, her being jewish, redhead, and having the name Erica.
They all crack up and tell me that she's irish and not Jewish. then I tell her, "oh thats it....ur coming with me...to dance..." So then i take her hand and pull her with me and we walk to the dance floor. She laughs, looks at her sister with a shocked face. The dude and the blonde come with us and we all dance. It was funny. Me and the redhead are getting into it. After 2 minutes while dancing, i go try to make out with her, but then she shows me her wedding ring. I sensed genuineness...so then i decided to let things go but we part ways in a good note.
#4 Curly haired thick girl on the dance floor with a tatoo on her back. While she's dancing with her friends, i take her hand and pull her toward me. She's pretty excited, we introduce each other. I see a blonde milf, put my hand out for her to shake, she shakes her head no, was funny. I think she was thinking i wanted her to dance with me and stuff, but that wasn't my intention. So then the curly haired girl told me she was guy just so i would know, i smile...tell her..."Lets find out :-)" I then touch both sides of her face, holding her face and go try to make out, but she pulls away...shocked....grabs her friends hands and storm out of the dance foor...everyone saw me...it was pretty hilarous.
Rest of the night just danced the night away really. Made out with a big girl but thats all. Met a thick girl with big tits and glasses. She was a lesbian and the girl she was dating didn't want me to dance with her(the glasses girl told me that her gf gets jealous easy)....oh yea, saw another girl with glasses with nice cleavage on the top of the stage of the dance floor. I was a bit intimidated to go for it at first cuz i thought i would get blown out, but i said, "Fuck it" and go up to them, take her hand, she looks back at me and is like "no hahah" then the fatty and afew other friends get mad and cockblock me, the fatty tells me "that girl and guy over there will punch u in the face" I laugh my ass off so bad. Dance with a couple more girls and call it quits.
Lesson Learned:
-Bring out a bit more sexual tension
-Don't have to try to persuade a girl so much, do it by actions not words :-)
-After i try for the kiss or get the kiss...keep the energy good...act as if it isn't a big deal or that it didn't matter much( A makeout or a kiss is only a preview for whats to come later in the night and to have that sexual tension in her mind)
-I've improved Kiss closing attempts majorily
-I did this all without any alcohol period.
-As always, Direct Style suits me.
Aright tonight was pretty funny....one of my acquaintences tells me on campus that in Blacksburg, a.k.a VATEch, Attitudes, a college bar, was gonna be poppin.
When i get there....it sucked. No one was dancing, not that many girls to choose from it blew.
But then when it got better, things started rolling.
#1 Three set of a fatty, an aright looking chick and a short cute southern belle late 20s blonde. I introduce myself going direct, the fatty cockblocks me off the bat, but ignore...the other friend doesn't say anything...while the target girl isn't feeling me much. After a bit, i tell the blonde girl to tell me about herself, to where she says, "I don't want to" I then leave. There were too many other girls to worry about.
#2 Was a 4 set, a pretty faced cute blonde, a cute dark haired brunette, a pretty cute brunette and a dude. I open them by saying, "I find you all cute and i wanted to meet you all :-)"
They're receptive and i introduce myself to all of them. Talk to them for a minute asking them when its usually popping and stuff and they tell me. The one i wanted to, a 7.8 brunette who was slim, midlengthed hair, skinny nose, nice cleavage i gave her more attention. I didn't get cockblocked or anything. I talked to the dude for a few seconds, he was friendly. I asked them all how they know each other. The target girl says that they're all best friends(I knew things were fine now since the dude wasn't dating the brunette girl). So then its just me and her. I tell her, "Tell me about herself'
She tells me she goes to so and so uni, and she had 3 kids. I ask her, "Where's the hubby at?" She tells me, "What are u talking about? He cheated on me and stuff" I was like "ohhh....wait...how old are u?" She tells me, "29 :-)" I say, "shut up :-)"...and give a very exaggeratedly shocked demeanor..."There's no way in HELL ur 29...Shoot me now!" She laughs a bit.
Then i tell her, "Well...we're gonna have some fun tonight...and thats all matters." She says yea. Also tells me she likes American Eagle stuff and says she doesn't like Express when i tell her what i like. I tease her and tell, "What?! U hate express...oh c'mon now...i thought we were cool....well too bad...since we both don't like each others brands...its more meant to be :-P" she giggles again.
after that i try to isolate her to sit down. She doesn't want. I try to persuade her a lil, no go but she there still seems to be some interest. I'd say my kino was good. I touching necklace, ask where it is, touch her arms and stuff, slide my hands down. She wasn't resisting or anything. Then i play with her hair asking about it, she telling me she likes it long......i then tell her, "Oh u shouldn't had cut it....its so not gonna work out :-p" She knew i was flirting and seemed to not mind it. After that i then go for the kiss. She turns her face, with a funny face asking, "Were u trying to smell my hair? =-p"
I tell her, "No :-) I was trying to kiss you" She has a shocked laugh in her face, she was laughing a bit. I tell her, "I so want to kiss those nice lips of urs ;-)" She laughs again. I could tell that she was intrigued a little. But then i talk with her somemore, take her hand...try to take her with me to go dance, but she tells me she's got to be drunk. I tell her, "thats the same excuse all girls have :-p" After that, i can see her attention is waning, so i part ways, try to kiss her again, but then she shakes her saying no.
Lesson learned: More Sexual Tension. I think it was good i attempted to isolate and her stuff, since if a girl isn't willing to just sit down with u, how do u expect her to take her home?
#3 Was another 3 set. Were two sisters, a blonde, a redhead and a dude with a deep guage ear piercing. I go direct on them. They're pretty receptive. I didn't get to see the redhead but my god...she was def hot. She had REALLY NICE cleave, great sized tits. Was funny. They were nice and receptive. The best looking girls i went up to the entire night. The dude is pretty tight, i ask him about his ear piercings and shit and how its cool. He's chill, i talk wiht the girls for a few minutes, playing the guessing game with them. tell the redhead she reminded me of my first ever girlfriend, her being jewish, redhead, and having the name Erica.
They all crack up and tell me that she's irish and not Jewish. then I tell her, "oh thats it....ur coming with me...to dance..." So then i take her hand and pull her with me and we walk to the dance floor. She laughs, looks at her sister with a shocked face. The dude and the blonde come with us and we all dance. It was funny. Me and the redhead are getting into it. After 2 minutes while dancing, i go try to make out with her, but then she shows me her wedding ring. I sensed genuineness...so then i decided to let things go but we part ways in a good note.
#4 Curly haired thick girl on the dance floor with a tatoo on her back. While she's dancing with her friends, i take her hand and pull her toward me. She's pretty excited, we introduce each other. I see a blonde milf, put my hand out for her to shake, she shakes her head no, was funny. I think she was thinking i wanted her to dance with me and stuff, but that wasn't my intention. So then the curly haired girl told me she was guy just so i would know, i smile...tell her..."Lets find out :-)" I then touch both sides of her face, holding her face and go try to make out, but she pulls away...shocked....grabs her friends hands and storm out of the dance foor...everyone saw me...it was pretty hilarous.
Rest of the night just danced the night away really. Made out with a big girl but thats all. Met a thick girl with big tits and glasses. She was a lesbian and the girl she was dating didn't want me to dance with her(the glasses girl told me that her gf gets jealous easy)....oh yea, saw another girl with glasses with nice cleavage on the top of the stage of the dance floor. I was a bit intimidated to go for it at first cuz i thought i would get blown out, but i said, "Fuck it" and go up to them, take her hand, she looks back at me and is like "no hahah" then the fatty and afew other friends get mad and cockblock me, the fatty tells me "that girl and guy over there will punch u in the face" I laugh my ass off so bad. Dance with a couple more girls and call it quits.
Lesson Learned:
-Bring out a bit more sexual tension
-Don't have to try to persuade a girl so much, do it by actions not words :-)
-After i try for the kiss or get the kiss...keep the energy good...act as if it isn't a big deal or that it didn't matter much( A makeout or a kiss is only a preview for whats to come later in the night and to have that sexual tension in her mind)
-I've improved Kiss closing attempts majorily
-I did this all without any alcohol period.
-As always, Direct Style suits me.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
11/25 Meeting my first ever wing after 2 1/2 years and GMU gaming
Hey everyone, today i visited one of the first two wings i ever had, Alex.
Couldn't recognize him but it seemed like things seem so familiar talking to the guy again. We got along as great as usual. We ate and discussed about game. He was still under the indirect style BUT he's getting day 2s and every thing. I told him about direct, he tried it, didn't do half bad and was liking it. He said that it was eye opening. I was glad :-). He saw me do a few and he noticed how some of the girls reacted as a result, how they really showed interested...even some things i didn't quite see :-). We tried to wing one group but it did ok...lol....
But me and him will absolutely wing in the future.lol.
Oh yea, met this Russian girl outside. She was cute, def attracted to her. Was pretty. We walked around, and i sat with her for 10 minutes....wanted to get her ice cream but she just ate and didn't want any haha....so we just sat down. It was funny she kept stating reasons for her to leave, but she never did. She followed my lead. Was great. But she didn't really have any time for us to meet up...she was always watching kids and every thing. Was thinking of going to GMU to attend, etc. was interesting talking to her. We connected in some levels. It was still good meeting her. I believe i made her day
Couldn't recognize him but it seemed like things seem so familiar talking to the guy again. We got along as great as usual. We ate and discussed about game. He was still under the indirect style BUT he's getting day 2s and every thing. I told him about direct, he tried it, didn't do half bad and was liking it. He said that it was eye opening. I was glad :-). He saw me do a few and he noticed how some of the girls reacted as a result, how they really showed interested...even some things i didn't quite see :-). We tried to wing one group but it did ok...lol....
But me and him will absolutely wing in the future.lol.
Oh yea, met this Russian girl outside. She was cute, def attracted to her. Was pretty. We walked around, and i sat with her for 10 minutes....wanted to get her ice cream but she just ate and didn't want any haha....so we just sat down. It was funny she kept stating reasons for her to leave, but she never did. She followed my lead. Was great. But she didn't really have any time for us to meet up...she was always watching kids and every thing. Was thinking of going to GMU to attend, etc. was interesting talking to her. We connected in some levels. It was still good meeting her. I believe i made her day
11/23: More Gaming at UMW
Aright people, today i did some game at the cafeteria of UMW with Arnaud.
I pretty much went up to four girls, the first seemed caught off guard/shy...had braces...was cute but nothing too special. The second was a cute girl with glasses and black girl, wat i was naturally attracted to...another was a tall brunette with nice cleavage...definitely cute. But thats all for now there.
Def hot girls there, they just a little bit harder to find haha.
I pretty much went up to four girls, the first seemed caught off guard/shy...had braces...was cute but nothing too special. The second was a cute girl with glasses and black girl, wat i was naturally attracted to...another was a tall brunette with nice cleavage...definitely cute. But thats all for now there.
Def hot girls there, they just a little bit harder to find haha.
Sunday, November 23, 2008
11/22 Return to Mary Washington and day 3 with Brunette Girl
Went down to go UMW for a day and stay over night. During the day, i eat with my best friend Arnaud, who also in the game....he just got to learn other ways of gaming, than dancing at night. Saw this cute curly haired girl who's by herself. Man oh man, is she even cuter up close. The approach went great...she had a great sense of humor, we flirted quite a bit. She asked me when im coming down. I told her once a month, she flirted with "I couldn't handle that. Why are u killing me like this?
:-p" Was funny.lol. She asked me how often i go up to girls and i told her that i lost count but that each girl has to be cute. I could tell there was interest. She couldn't believe that i was once shy too. Was funny. Got her number. Will hit her up over christmas break. Me and Arnaud then go to a dance show, i go up to this thick blonde, but her face was meh. She was sitting with other people and stuff. Afew of the dancers tho were gorgeous...that i couldn't believe myself. I wanted to go up to them when the performance was over. But one of them i hesitated and it was ok.
While my friend went to a Rugby Formal Date party, me and the girl i mentioned whom i took to a party a month ago, we watched a movie together in her room but her roommate was there(She was nice but didn't talk much). We talked quite a bit, good convo. It was funny whenever i was next to her(close)...kinoing her...her body was shaking a little bit and she noticed it. Tried to kiss her twice, but she declined. She mentioned she had a bf to me the first time i met her, but i ignored it u could say. After the 2nd time she rejected me trying to kiss her, she mentions him again. She def was telling the truth, because there was a picture frame of her and him. After that, i realized that she was faithful to him. My friend wanted me to party with him instead as i'd have better chances getting a lay, but i wanted to lie loose ends. I wanted to see how far i could get.
After the movie, me and her part ways...and I go pick up my friend, who is drunk as hell..and almost blacked out. I fussed at him cuz he wouldn't shut up and he was being annoying but it was the alcohol...so i couldn't be too mad haha.
But thats all for now :-)
:-p" Was funny.lol. She asked me how often i go up to girls and i told her that i lost count but that each girl has to be cute. I could tell there was interest. She couldn't believe that i was once shy too. Was funny. Got her number. Will hit her up over christmas break. Me and Arnaud then go to a dance show, i go up to this thick blonde, but her face was meh. She was sitting with other people and stuff. Afew of the dancers tho were gorgeous...that i couldn't believe myself. I wanted to go up to them when the performance was over. But one of them i hesitated and it was ok.
While my friend went to a Rugby Formal Date party, me and the girl i mentioned whom i took to a party a month ago, we watched a movie together in her room but her roommate was there(She was nice but didn't talk much). We talked quite a bit, good convo. It was funny whenever i was next to her(close)...kinoing her...her body was shaking a little bit and she noticed it. Tried to kiss her twice, but she declined. She mentioned she had a bf to me the first time i met her, but i ignored it u could say. After the 2nd time she rejected me trying to kiss her, she mentions him again. She def was telling the truth, because there was a picture frame of her and him. After that, i realized that she was faithful to him. My friend wanted me to party with him instead as i'd have better chances getting a lay, but i wanted to lie loose ends. I wanted to see how far i could get.
After the movie, me and her part ways...and I go pick up my friend, who is drunk as hell..and almost blacked out. I fussed at him cuz he wouldn't shut up and he was being annoying but it was the alcohol...so i couldn't be too mad haha.
But thats all for now :-)
11/19-11/21
Aright people, on Wednesday I started to do more 2 set approaches, but I still rusty with that. The big tit girl at the lab from yesterday texted me saying how she would be busy and stuff, which i told her i was glad that she let me know ahead of time. I still think she's def flattered of the idea of meeting up. Called the numbers i had gotten earlier in the week but none of them returned my texts.
Thursday, I stood up all day and got lots of rest. Thursday Night, Went to Rileys again(Haven't gone in a month and was rusty) was an aright night. I had fun, but the rest of the approaches were ok. The problem was that there quite a few girls whom i didn't recognize but that i had gamed already. I've met so many people so its justified.lol. This hot girl i know while i kept dancing and gaming different girls tried to get my attention in obvious ways(covered her hand on my face/tap me on the arm)..(I kinda didn't pay attention, because she was the attention whore/hang around with guys...kind of girl)...but that was it for the night. I think cuz i had alcohol in me, that i didn't give a rats ass about talking much, i just wanted to dance and that was it.
Friday, nothing much happened except i gamed this small hot blonde girl. She was flattered but was taken.
Thats all thus far.
Thursday, I stood up all day and got lots of rest. Thursday Night, Went to Rileys again(Haven't gone in a month and was rusty) was an aright night. I had fun, but the rest of the approaches were ok. The problem was that there quite a few girls whom i didn't recognize but that i had gamed already. I've met so many people so its justified.lol. This hot girl i know while i kept dancing and gaming different girls tried to get my attention in obvious ways(covered her hand on my face/tap me on the arm)..(I kinda didn't pay attention, because she was the attention whore/hang around with guys...kind of girl)...but that was it for the night. I think cuz i had alcohol in me, that i didn't give a rats ass about talking much, i just wanted to dance and that was it.
Friday, nothing much happened except i gamed this small hot blonde girl. She was flattered but was taken.
Thats all thus far.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
11/18 Just Another Day
Aright everyone, today i approached like usual. Took about 30 seconds to approach this girl at starbucks since there were other girls next to her, plus when she looked at me for a sec...i knew i had to go over there. Had a good convo, its 50-50 if anything would even happen, eventho she seemed to have some interest. At work, saw this cute redhead/strawberry blonde think girl. I work at the help desk, helping students with their computers...and once she left the room where my other co-workers were sitting down at(some dudes, a few girls...are college students too)...i then gamed her and got her number, we'll see :-). At the cafeteria, decided to sit next to two girls again for the hell of it, as i know in the last few weeks...im gonna prolly do it a bit more. Also talk to this big tit thick brunette whom is at the lab each week im there...decided to talk to her...she was receptive...setting things up. We'll see :-). Gonna call the numbers i got tomorrow night, and tomorrow...gonna sit with one of the girls in my class. Hopefully...no one will be sitting already there when i arrive 5 min before class starts :-)
Monday, November 17, 2008
11/17 The Rustiness is Dying and Insta-Date
Aright today I woke up not feeling 100%. After i leave a lab, go up to this hot redhead, get her number but i doubt she was genuinely interested. These days i can sense if a girl is interested or is just being polite. She was the latter. I stop another girl who's blonde, she thinks she did something wrong, but then realizes the situation. She then decides to walk with me as im off to walker, but then i decide we eat together first and she accepts. We go and talk for about 15 minutes and get to know each other. I find out she's not looking into dating anyone right now(Perfect, considering i don't want anything serious)...but i hope that she knew i was into her, but she must've considering she said, "Im not use to situations like these" She was cute, had nice sized tits, looked similar to a girl that i remember afew years ago. Was pretty great talking to her. Got her number. We'll see how it goes.
Missed an opportunity with this chick who i def wanted to fuck on first site, she was had a really nice body. But since i was wearing a crappy overlarged shirt and i was eating by myself that i'd be perceived as lower value. But u know what? Fuck all that! That does not matter. I sit by myself and eat because i don't give a shit of trying to contact people to meet up, i just care about going to cafeteria to eat and thats it.lol. So why in the hell should i not go for it? I rest my case. Tomorrow I will step it up. I have to these days.
Missed an opportunity with this chick who i def wanted to fuck on first site, she was had a really nice body. But since i was wearing a crappy overlarged shirt and i was eating by myself that i'd be perceived as lower value. But u know what? Fuck all that! That does not matter. I sit by myself and eat because i don't give a shit of trying to contact people to meet up, i just care about going to cafeteria to eat and thats it.lol. So why in the hell should i not go for it? I rest my case. Tomorrow I will step it up. I have to these days.
Monday, October 20, 2008
University of Mary Washington Weekend PART I
Before the Trip
Aright! Finally to UMW, where my best friend...Arnaud goes to. He told me the girls are easier and are less of a hassle to game. Being frustrated with girls at Radford earlier in the semester(I aint bitter or frustrated anymore since i let it go), i still wanted to see if his words were right.
On the bus there, i sit with this cute girl. She had a nice slim body, i liked her toned rack. I sit next to her, and we talk for hours. This girl's personality i was attracted to her. I really got to know her. She seemed real. She liked outdoors stuff, couldn't stand horror movies(Which was funny), talked about sorts of things i was interested in too. I think her being cute and her personality made me attracted to her much more. I actually got a hard on. When we both went to sleep, my arm was next to hers, and our knees were touching each other's. As when she was talking, i kept looking at her lips and eyes(as Manwhore suggested)...man did it get me horny. Plus she smiled whenever i teased her/joked around, genuinely. It was good talking to her. Got her number...and set up to eat with her.
The First Night
When i get there, we go to a party. It is a smaller party, but the girls were nice there. I was a lil shocked. I was use to girls being different moods at Radford, but at this party...they were having fun. Dancing with many girls. Didn't get to kiss any, BUT i enjoyed myself. I improved my logistic sense by asking the owner of the house, who's off limits. He told me most of the girls are fine, except the one he'll make out with. We both cracked up. Was a very cool guy. Was funny tho, there were about 5-6 girls who went inside the party but he kicked them out becuase he didn't know them. I was shocked, at Radford...girls were automatically allowed in, but here it was equal. If he didn't u were associated with anyone in the party...u weren't allowed. I thought it was fair and equal...the way it should be. First talk to this 1/2 asian, 1/2 white girl. She wasn't bad looking. Talked with her for a little bit. Tried to lead her to the couch, but she didn't want to. But i could tell she still showed interest. Danced with a few more girls. There was one that caught my eye in particular earlier in the night, but Arnaud told me that i shouldn't go in this fast yet to her(He doesn't realize that i have experienced these situations many times before) and he thought i'd scare her off. So i decided, despite holding back IMMENSLEY, to wait...but then after he said it was all good now(I could've done it regardless of if he wanted me to or not so early) so then i danced with the girls. Funny, the girls were into me. I was shocked how more simple it was. Course laying them still would take logistic handling. Arnaud wasn't really having fun as there wasn't THAT much dancing and it wasn't crowded but i def didn't mind.
ARNAUD'S BELIEF: Wait till things settle in, and go up to a girl at a specific time. Hence why he didn't want me approaching yet, but he didn't realize that i have a good deal of experience in the approaching department.
The Next Day
Aright, we go to the cafeteria to eat. The cafeteria isn't as packed as say radford...but it seemed easier to game girls there. The college is 70% girls and 30% guys, a playboy's dream. I saw a cute girl by herself, i was shocked. Arnaud was hesitant for me to go up to her out in the open where people could see and thought i be more subtle about it, not wanting me to go up to her this soon. But this one, i had to decline his wishes. She was shy, but receptive. I can tell it brightened her day. She had a shy smile and she was def a cute girl. Was about 5'7, long brown hair, nice smile and teeth, skinny nose, slim build, nice toned rack. She told me she was an Historic Preservation major. The convo seemed easy and simple. She told me she was bored and had nothing to do except homework. MONEY AND JACKPOT. I get her number to have her come with me to a party later that night. My friend then thought she wasn't that cute, but we had different tastes.
After that, we sit with a blonde science major girl he met. She wasn't bad looking, but i liked what i saw. She had a nice slim body..about 5'6...her face was adorable. I then couldn't stop looking at her lips and eyes, turned me on. I liked how she'd look at me with focus. Was funny. Arnaud hinted that i talked to lots of girls. I could tell she was intrigued by this. I sarcastically playfully said the opposite that i didn't but its obvious i was faking it. We all talked together.
After lunch, me and Arnaud go to watch a rugby game. He tells me i should call the girl i got a number from to invite her to dinner. I do, she answers. I WAS SHOCKED. I invite her to dinner. She said she's bring her friend with her, i was down to it, since my friend could have a girl to talk to. But then when we get there, she's only there. So then me, my friend and her are sitting down. We both are talking to her. I could tell she showed interest still. She told me she had a bf, BUT i didn't not care and she didn't bring it up again. This could def be a sign that getting with her was def possible. She also told me she hasn't gone to a UMW party yet. BINGO. We then spot the blonde girl from earlier, we tell her to sit down with us. She looks at me with curiousity when she finds out that i met her earlier during the day. The brunette girl has to leave, i flirted with her a bit and she laughed and seemed pretty receptive. After she leaves, she finds out that i hit on her and invited her to sit with us. I can def tell the blonde girl was def getting more attracted to me. She looked at me curiously. I teased her naturally and was playful. While i got food, i found out from my friend that she thought i was friendly and nice(But not the chumpish kind) but the "I like him" kind. Arnaud then starts to ask her questions of why girls act flaky, bitchy, dont' return calls, don't try to call us.
She said shyly and unsure, "i dunno" i then say that they expect us to call and that if i was gonna meet up with a girl, i will just tell her to meet with me. I can def tell she liked that part. She then says, "But thats so dominant :-)" I tell her that no need to ask, a girl will let us know if she doesn't want to or not, but other than that...to be assured that she will. So then we hang out with her a lil later. I decided to let him and her talk(Im thinking he's trying to get with her). But then i hear that he's not into her in a non-platonic way, i tell him that i def want to fuck her. So then we try to invite her to the party but she doesn't want to...but still she's seems a chill girl.
Aright! Finally to UMW, where my best friend...Arnaud goes to. He told me the girls are easier and are less of a hassle to game. Being frustrated with girls at Radford earlier in the semester(I aint bitter or frustrated anymore since i let it go), i still wanted to see if his words were right.
On the bus there, i sit with this cute girl. She had a nice slim body, i liked her toned rack. I sit next to her, and we talk for hours. This girl's personality i was attracted to her. I really got to know her. She seemed real. She liked outdoors stuff, couldn't stand horror movies(Which was funny), talked about sorts of things i was interested in too. I think her being cute and her personality made me attracted to her much more. I actually got a hard on. When we both went to sleep, my arm was next to hers, and our knees were touching each other's. As when she was talking, i kept looking at her lips and eyes(as Manwhore suggested)...man did it get me horny. Plus she smiled whenever i teased her/joked around, genuinely. It was good talking to her. Got her number...and set up to eat with her.
The First Night
When i get there, we go to a party. It is a smaller party, but the girls were nice there. I was a lil shocked. I was use to girls being different moods at Radford, but at this party...they were having fun. Dancing with many girls. Didn't get to kiss any, BUT i enjoyed myself. I improved my logistic sense by asking the owner of the house, who's off limits. He told me most of the girls are fine, except the one he'll make out with. We both cracked up. Was a very cool guy. Was funny tho, there were about 5-6 girls who went inside the party but he kicked them out becuase he didn't know them. I was shocked, at Radford...girls were automatically allowed in, but here it was equal. If he didn't u were associated with anyone in the party...u weren't allowed. I thought it was fair and equal...the way it should be. First talk to this 1/2 asian, 1/2 white girl. She wasn't bad looking. Talked with her for a little bit. Tried to lead her to the couch, but she didn't want to. But i could tell she still showed interest. Danced with a few more girls. There was one that caught my eye in particular earlier in the night, but Arnaud told me that i shouldn't go in this fast yet to her(He doesn't realize that i have experienced these situations many times before) and he thought i'd scare her off. So i decided, despite holding back IMMENSLEY, to wait...but then after he said it was all good now(I could've done it regardless of if he wanted me to or not so early) so then i danced with the girls. Funny, the girls were into me. I was shocked how more simple it was. Course laying them still would take logistic handling. Arnaud wasn't really having fun as there wasn't THAT much dancing and it wasn't crowded but i def didn't mind.
ARNAUD'S BELIEF: Wait till things settle in, and go up to a girl at a specific time. Hence why he didn't want me approaching yet, but he didn't realize that i have a good deal of experience in the approaching department.
The Next Day
Aright, we go to the cafeteria to eat. The cafeteria isn't as packed as say radford...but it seemed easier to game girls there. The college is 70% girls and 30% guys, a playboy's dream. I saw a cute girl by herself, i was shocked. Arnaud was hesitant for me to go up to her out in the open where people could see and thought i be more subtle about it, not wanting me to go up to her this soon. But this one, i had to decline his wishes. She was shy, but receptive. I can tell it brightened her day. She had a shy smile and she was def a cute girl. Was about 5'7, long brown hair, nice smile and teeth, skinny nose, slim build, nice toned rack. She told me she was an Historic Preservation major. The convo seemed easy and simple. She told me she was bored and had nothing to do except homework. MONEY AND JACKPOT. I get her number to have her come with me to a party later that night. My friend then thought she wasn't that cute, but we had different tastes.
After that, we sit with a blonde science major girl he met. She wasn't bad looking, but i liked what i saw. She had a nice slim body..about 5'6...her face was adorable. I then couldn't stop looking at her lips and eyes, turned me on. I liked how she'd look at me with focus. Was funny. Arnaud hinted that i talked to lots of girls. I could tell she was intrigued by this. I sarcastically playfully said the opposite that i didn't but its obvious i was faking it. We all talked together.
After lunch, me and Arnaud go to watch a rugby game. He tells me i should call the girl i got a number from to invite her to dinner. I do, she answers. I WAS SHOCKED. I invite her to dinner. She said she's bring her friend with her, i was down to it, since my friend could have a girl to talk to. But then when we get there, she's only there. So then me, my friend and her are sitting down. We both are talking to her. I could tell she showed interest still. She told me she had a bf, BUT i didn't not care and she didn't bring it up again. This could def be a sign that getting with her was def possible. She also told me she hasn't gone to a UMW party yet. BINGO. We then spot the blonde girl from earlier, we tell her to sit down with us. She looks at me with curiousity when she finds out that i met her earlier during the day. The brunette girl has to leave, i flirted with her a bit and she laughed and seemed pretty receptive. After she leaves, she finds out that i hit on her and invited her to sit with us. I can def tell the blonde girl was def getting more attracted to me. She looked at me curiously. I teased her naturally and was playful. While i got food, i found out from my friend that she thought i was friendly and nice(But not the chumpish kind) but the "I like him" kind. Arnaud then starts to ask her questions of why girls act flaky, bitchy, dont' return calls, don't try to call us.
She said shyly and unsure, "i dunno" i then say that they expect us to call and that if i was gonna meet up with a girl, i will just tell her to meet with me. I can def tell she liked that part. She then says, "But thats so dominant :-)" I tell her that no need to ask, a girl will let us know if she doesn't want to or not, but other than that...to be assured that she will. So then we hang out with her a lil later. I decided to let him and her talk(Im thinking he's trying to get with her). But then i hear that he's not into her in a non-platonic way, i tell him that i def want to fuck her. So then we try to invite her to the party but she doesn't want to...but still she's seems a chill girl.
10/16, Gunwitch Extraction?!
Aright today, i did some more approaches as usual...got a few numbers...lost one i think. But the most unexpected thing happened today.
Aright, as i'm leaving the cafeteria, i recognize the tall punk girl with lots of tatoos and peircing whom had a slim body and nice rack. She stops and notices me too. I notice her excited to see her and she seems happy to see me. She tells me she's getting something to eat, i decide to join her. I talk to her about her being bisexual, how her first 3 some was, how sex was with a girl(being more passionate), how kissing her was great, etc. The convo went on for a bit. I was noticing that this was a gunwitch related situation i could take advantage of. CONTINUE WHAT COULD'VE BEEN THE PREVIOUS WEEKEND AT THE PARTY. So then i initiate us talking about music. She tells me she likes Alice and Chains. I tell her that there was this one song i've been dying to hear but can't get the name, i tell her "lets go back to ur room and check it out.
She says, "ok...i got nothing to do" I was like in my head, "ARIGHT! UNBELIEVABLE! It actually worked. Haha" As we walk to her place, we just talking about bullshit. I could sense interest on her part, eventho she was very laid back. I could def tell she was attracted to me. So then when we arrive inside her room, she's on her computer. She tells me the things she'd do to Jessica Alba on the desktop. I tell her, "Oh but u got no idea of the things i'll be doing to u" She looks at me curiously and laughs in disbelief. So then we look it up, i then tell her to show me the rest of her piercing, starting with the tits. She shows them to me and god damn, she had nice sized tits pierced. Really nice. Then she showed me her Crotch tatoo. After that, i then go for the kiss...we start to kiss but then she pulls back with a conflicted smile saying sorry. I then am looking right deep in her eyes, there's def sexual tension going on. We could both feel it. She's looking at me curiously, with a shocked laugh at how confident and persist i was acting.
Then after afew minutes, i go for it again. She starts to recipcrocate kissing again, but then she pulls back again with teh same response. I then am smiling at her, and she's looking at me again...conflicted. She tells me she's had bad experiences with guys these days and wants to do things with girls more often. i tell her im the exception of guys. Then i have her sit on my lap. My dick is def hard at this point. It felt nice. Then i had her lay down on me while on my lap. I then am starting to kiss her back, and notice her tatoos on her back. And then am holding her tits. She's like "What are you doing? :-)" I tell her, "you know what im doing :-)" Im playing with them and then im about to put my hand under top to feel them, but she puts my hand away. Then im still grabbing them from the outside, im touching her legs and then im about to rub the outside of her crotch but then she pulls my hand away saying "Whoa...wait a minute :-)" I could tell she was conflicted. I keep talking in her ear. Then she gets off my lap aftera few minutes, as im trying to kiss her again but she declines, but i can tell she wants to.
Then after a bit, i see that i should lead her to be on her bed but i was hesitant to do it for some reasoon. Then she says she's gonna take a nap. I tell her that we should take one together and nothing more, she declines but not in a "No" manner. So then i go for the kiss one last time but she declines. She def was surprised by my persistence, i tell her im stubborn and persistent as hell. We hug each other and told her we should get high together next week. She agreed.
Afterwards, i felt an adrenaline rush...that getting the lay after 4 years was closer than before. But i had the fear that i'd have a bad player vibe about me which would cause more rejections but it was in my head and i got those thoughts out of my head.
Aright, as i'm leaving the cafeteria, i recognize the tall punk girl with lots of tatoos and peircing whom had a slim body and nice rack. She stops and notices me too. I notice her excited to see her and she seems happy to see me. She tells me she's getting something to eat, i decide to join her. I talk to her about her being bisexual, how her first 3 some was, how sex was with a girl(being more passionate), how kissing her was great, etc. The convo went on for a bit. I was noticing that this was a gunwitch related situation i could take advantage of. CONTINUE WHAT COULD'VE BEEN THE PREVIOUS WEEKEND AT THE PARTY. So then i initiate us talking about music. She tells me she likes Alice and Chains. I tell her that there was this one song i've been dying to hear but can't get the name, i tell her "lets go back to ur room and check it out.
She says, "ok...i got nothing to do" I was like in my head, "ARIGHT! UNBELIEVABLE! It actually worked. Haha" As we walk to her place, we just talking about bullshit. I could sense interest on her part, eventho she was very laid back. I could def tell she was attracted to me. So then when we arrive inside her room, she's on her computer. She tells me the things she'd do to Jessica Alba on the desktop. I tell her, "Oh but u got no idea of the things i'll be doing to u" She looks at me curiously and laughs in disbelief. So then we look it up, i then tell her to show me the rest of her piercing, starting with the tits. She shows them to me and god damn, she had nice sized tits pierced. Really nice. Then she showed me her Crotch tatoo. After that, i then go for the kiss...we start to kiss but then she pulls back with a conflicted smile saying sorry. I then am looking right deep in her eyes, there's def sexual tension going on. We could both feel it. She's looking at me curiously, with a shocked laugh at how confident and persist i was acting.
Then after afew minutes, i go for it again. She starts to recipcrocate kissing again, but then she pulls back again with teh same response. I then am smiling at her, and she's looking at me again...conflicted. She tells me she's had bad experiences with guys these days and wants to do things with girls more often. i tell her im the exception of guys. Then i have her sit on my lap. My dick is def hard at this point. It felt nice. Then i had her lay down on me while on my lap. I then am starting to kiss her back, and notice her tatoos on her back. And then am holding her tits. She's like "What are you doing? :-)" I tell her, "you know what im doing :-)" Im playing with them and then im about to put my hand under top to feel them, but she puts my hand away. Then im still grabbing them from the outside, im touching her legs and then im about to rub the outside of her crotch but then she pulls my hand away saying "Whoa...wait a minute :-)" I could tell she was conflicted. I keep talking in her ear. Then she gets off my lap aftera few minutes, as im trying to kiss her again but she declines, but i can tell she wants to.
Then after a bit, i see that i should lead her to be on her bed but i was hesitant to do it for some reasoon. Then she says she's gonna take a nap. I tell her that we should take one together and nothing more, she declines but not in a "No" manner. So then i go for the kiss one last time but she declines. She def was surprised by my persistence, i tell her im stubborn and persistent as hell. We hug each other and told her we should get high together next week. She agreed.
Afterwards, i felt an adrenaline rush...that getting the lay after 4 years was closer than before. But i had the fear that i'd have a bad player vibe about me which would cause more rejections but it was in my head and i got those thoughts out of my head.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
10/15 Good Gaming Day and Insta-Date almost happened
Aright today for day game, i did pretty well for approaches. Tried Manwhore's suggestion and i got good responses and reactions.
First was a hot blonde girl with glasses. I was pretty attracted to her, she seemed attracted to. She was pretty nice but i could tell there was interested. I could tell she liked it when i went direct with her. She said she was gonna get coffee, i then told her to come with me to starbucks. So then we walked to starbucks, and while we were walking there, we talked and got to know each other. Qualified her so to speak with her personality of how i found it sexy that she had a feisty side, also related to her in the fact of how people should genuinely like u for who u truly are, rather than who they want u to be. We could relate in that regard, and i flirted with her and was playful. Turned out good. When we brought our drinks, as we were about to sit down...her roommate texts her for an emergency situation so it got cut short. But i got her number and will contact her sunday night, to try to do bowling with her :-D.
Did another approach with a girl i met before, just told her that i prolly flirted with her before...she laughed and was smiling. Got her number quick.
Another was this puerto rican girl with nice tits, cute face...thickish body. She was pretty receptive, facing me...smiling. Got to know her for a few minutes. Just being by myself, she seemed relaxed and was talkinga bout herself. Talked for 5-6 minutes. Got her number.
Another girl i went up to, she was hot. Talked to her for about 7 minutes. Stopped her directly. Tried to get her number, but she showed resistence. Put the boyfriend card after saying how she doesn't really know me. But i plowed, she tried the facebook thing at first, but then i told her "Whats ur number...as i was about to enter it in" She's like "I can't just give it to you" haha. I then told her, "Yes u can :-) Then she says she got a bf. I gave up too fast i think with that. So then we'd see each other around. The next time i prolly do, im gonna just talk to her here and there on campus till we set something up. With her i think she wanted to, prolly just really socially conditioned so far...i'll ease it off. When she was in her car, she waved goodbye.
REALIZATION: Sometimes girls don't want to give numbers because they feel they have to know you better. But its our job to let her be free of that conditioning. Next time im in a situation like that, im gonna tell her "Thats what why we're meeting up. So we "Can" get to know each other".
Later on, texting two girls i got numbers from earlier in the week. One of them didn't respond, another one did...and she said she was taken...but i plowed and persisted, it was back and forth texting of me accusing her of playing hard to get, with her trying to change the subject to facebook talk and about if i accept pics on my phone, etc. I then after a bit each time always returned the convo to the meeting up. Then she's like "if i show up" Then i told her i bet she will. Then i flirted with her a little more. Then she accuses me of being dense for when she says she's happily taken, but i reply with im dense when i need to be.haha. I'll prolly text her again next week. This is a good thing for me to try for experience, see if she changes her mind next week. Its not much effort on my part...and i can learn much from this, of how possibly some girls can play hard to get, even if they say they don't want to but still not stop texting u.
First was a hot blonde girl with glasses. I was pretty attracted to her, she seemed attracted to. She was pretty nice but i could tell there was interested. I could tell she liked it when i went direct with her. She said she was gonna get coffee, i then told her to come with me to starbucks. So then we walked to starbucks, and while we were walking there, we talked and got to know each other. Qualified her so to speak with her personality of how i found it sexy that she had a feisty side, also related to her in the fact of how people should genuinely like u for who u truly are, rather than who they want u to be. We could relate in that regard, and i flirted with her and was playful. Turned out good. When we brought our drinks, as we were about to sit down...her roommate texts her for an emergency situation so it got cut short. But i got her number and will contact her sunday night, to try to do bowling with her :-D.
Did another approach with a girl i met before, just told her that i prolly flirted with her before...she laughed and was smiling. Got her number quick.
Another was this puerto rican girl with nice tits, cute face...thickish body. She was pretty receptive, facing me...smiling. Got to know her for a few minutes. Just being by myself, she seemed relaxed and was talkinga bout herself. Talked for 5-6 minutes. Got her number.
Another girl i went up to, she was hot. Talked to her for about 7 minutes. Stopped her directly. Tried to get her number, but she showed resistence. Put the boyfriend card after saying how she doesn't really know me. But i plowed, she tried the facebook thing at first, but then i told her "Whats ur number...as i was about to enter it in" She's like "I can't just give it to you" haha. I then told her, "Yes u can :-) Then she says she got a bf. I gave up too fast i think with that. So then we'd see each other around. The next time i prolly do, im gonna just talk to her here and there on campus till we set something up. With her i think she wanted to, prolly just really socially conditioned so far...i'll ease it off. When she was in her car, she waved goodbye.
REALIZATION: Sometimes girls don't want to give numbers because they feel they have to know you better. But its our job to let her be free of that conditioning. Next time im in a situation like that, im gonna tell her "Thats what why we're meeting up. So we "Can" get to know each other".
Later on, texting two girls i got numbers from earlier in the week. One of them didn't respond, another one did...and she said she was taken...but i plowed and persisted, it was back and forth texting of me accusing her of playing hard to get, with her trying to change the subject to facebook talk and about if i accept pics on my phone, etc. I then after a bit each time always returned the convo to the meeting up. Then she's like "if i show up" Then i told her i bet she will. Then i flirted with her a little more. Then she accuses me of being dense for when she says she's happily taken, but i reply with im dense when i need to be.haha. I'll prolly text her again next week. This is a good thing for me to try for experience, see if she changes her mind next week. Its not much effort on my part...and i can learn much from this, of how possibly some girls can play hard to get, even if they say they don't want to but still not stop texting u.
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
10/11 NIGHT - 10/14, Two Day 2s
Saturday
Aright people, Saturday Night...I went over my friends' apt yet again to drink and game. Of the typical girls who go there, whom aren't into me.... only one was really gameable. They brought her there. I give her a 7. Her body was ok, but she had a cute face nice eyes. Flirting with her, she was into it...but the groupies of the apt tried to pull her away. I was at the balconly and they were talking, i wanted to continue talking to her but i was afraid of being embarrased if one of the girls who didn't like me there, tried to sabotage and something weird would happen. After that particular girl left, i then continued talking to her. But they were leaving, cued her to peck me on the lips, we did and she left.
At another apartment, try to game a few more girls. One of them was a thick brunette. She was cute. Isolated her to the couch but her male protector pulled her away. Surprisingly in the past when this one black dude did it, it pissed me off and i have been bitter about it since. But then recently when a guy does that, i don't care. Guess my inner game has gotten stronger. Another one was a small hot blonde chick.
Improvement: Cockblock prevention
She was with this dark brunette with big tits. I acknowledged both of them, and then tried to get the blonde to dance. The brunette told her to dance with me. They both laughing when i was teasing with them both earlier. The blonde did for a minute but that was the end of that. I could tell she only liked the frat guys who lived in the apt. No big deal.
Later on, saw this really cute brunette. She was cute as anything, sitting down. Tried talking to her and her friends, then isolating her but she didn't want. Then i see they're wanting to talk to the other guy who was talking to them. But then as i saw, he wasn't doing anything. They were just glad to talk about anything. So then after 20 or so minutes, he still hasn't done anything, i decide to sit next to him, and i whisper to him "Make the move". He tells me, "But she has a bf" I tell him, "It doesn't matter...go for it anyways" But he doesn't. I then see one of the groupies of the apt i go to usually to drink. She was there. Her top she had on was nice. I was drunk as hell, but kept flirting with her saying how it was distracting and that she got it going on. Was funny as hell. She was like in a shy manner, "I should my coat back on" hahaha. Later in the night, i saw a guy that i didn't like in the past cuz of his stupidity and flat out ignorance...but then i decided to let it go. Said watsup to him, he was friendlier than i thought. But maybe deep down i still may not like him, but the hate/dislike has pretty much gone.
But all in all, funny night.
Sunday
Just called some numbers. Called the silly/bubbly brunette girl with a pretty face, and nice ass. Invited her to eat with me the next day in the cafeteria(day 2) She said sure. Called a few more numbers, some were wood...called another girl back 6 months ago....she looked up who i was and remembered me. I told her i'd hit her up later in the week.
Monday
Approached a few girls. One of them looked like a southern belle i was pretty attracted to. Found her pretty cute, went direct and she was like "Really? :-o" haha. Was funny. I knew i made her day. Talked for a minute or two. She told me she's not on campus that much. I told her i'd call her, to find out when she's free on campus, when she has a break. Approached a few more girls, were wood.
Saw the nice ass, cute face girl at 7-11. Reminded her 6:30, she said sure glad to see me. I guess this is another day 2. She arrives 15 min late and calls me telling me she's running late, and i see she brought her friend along i met the first time i ate with her. When they arrive there, i feel like she didn't give a rats ass that we were meeting up, eventho she was nice and friendly. I thought they were into their own convos more than me, and that it was just something platonic. I did the best i can to flirt and seduce, but there was only so much i could do. They then decide to leave early, telling me sorry. I told them it was ok. Afterwards, i felt mad...but didn't think i should've been and didn't understand why. I then realized that i was mad cuz i had my expectations too high that she would understand that it was a day 2, but i realized that it was a learning experience and that it can prepare me next time for: EMPHASIZING U AND HER!
Later in the night...i then decided to go to the apt i usually go to. Out of the like 10 girls i tried to hit on, but didn't work out...there was one left whom i gave a certain impression to, my persistence, dominance and fun vibe. I decided to try to give it a shot with her. This would be my last time at the apartment for a while. When i arrive first at the apt, i don't her and think that i never will. But then all of a sudden...I see her, i act playful and to be funny and stuff with "Finally ur here! Bout damn time!" but she tries to act neutral. I thought i failed off the bat and thought about calling it quits with her.
NOTE: If its a higher energy environment, that would not be a thought. I would persist most def easily.
Then i notice she looks at me from time to time, subtley and quickly. I then noticed that she was actually playing hard to get, and she was one of the girls whom like a guy but don't want people to know, to keep a certain image. I then just got drunk the rest of the night.
Tuesday
Approached quite a few girls today, most said they were taken. Saw one who was walking that was in my work. The guys at my work said she had a butter face and that her body was a lil porpotioned but i didn't care. I liked what i saw. She remembered me. She seemed glad to. I go right to the point. She tells me thurs she got a break. I told her i'd hit her up tomorrow.
Meet up with another girl whom we been in contact. I kind of forgot what she looked like but she remembered may face. When i saw her, she looked aright...but it was only cuz she was wearing a sweatshort, jeans and carpenter boots. Now if all that was off and her hair was out, and saw how big her breasts were again...NOICE. So then...she's with her roommate but its fine. Its going well. Im flirting wiht her and her roommate. Getting to know her, making it obvious im into her in a non-platonic manner. Letting her know how i find her twang sexy, tehy both giggling. Hand holding her a little long. Looking at her seductively. It went great. They both down to earth. I tell her that i'll call her again to hang out with her. All in all. it went great.
Aright people, Saturday Night...I went over my friends' apt yet again to drink and game. Of the typical girls who go there, whom aren't into me.... only one was really gameable. They brought her there. I give her a 7. Her body was ok, but she had a cute face nice eyes. Flirting with her, she was into it...but the groupies of the apt tried to pull her away. I was at the balconly and they were talking, i wanted to continue talking to her but i was afraid of being embarrased if one of the girls who didn't like me there, tried to sabotage and something weird would happen. After that particular girl left, i then continued talking to her. But they were leaving, cued her to peck me on the lips, we did and she left.
At another apartment, try to game a few more girls. One of them was a thick brunette. She was cute. Isolated her to the couch but her male protector pulled her away. Surprisingly in the past when this one black dude did it, it pissed me off and i have been bitter about it since. But then recently when a guy does that, i don't care. Guess my inner game has gotten stronger. Another one was a small hot blonde chick.
Improvement: Cockblock prevention
She was with this dark brunette with big tits. I acknowledged both of them, and then tried to get the blonde to dance. The brunette told her to dance with me. They both laughing when i was teasing with them both earlier. The blonde did for a minute but that was the end of that. I could tell she only liked the frat guys who lived in the apt. No big deal.
Later on, saw this really cute brunette. She was cute as anything, sitting down. Tried talking to her and her friends, then isolating her but she didn't want. Then i see they're wanting to talk to the other guy who was talking to them. But then as i saw, he wasn't doing anything. They were just glad to talk about anything. So then after 20 or so minutes, he still hasn't done anything, i decide to sit next to him, and i whisper to him "Make the move". He tells me, "But she has a bf" I tell him, "It doesn't matter...go for it anyways" But he doesn't. I then see one of the groupies of the apt i go to usually to drink. She was there. Her top she had on was nice. I was drunk as hell, but kept flirting with her saying how it was distracting and that she got it going on. Was funny as hell. She was like in a shy manner, "I should my coat back on" hahaha. Later in the night, i saw a guy that i didn't like in the past cuz of his stupidity and flat out ignorance...but then i decided to let it go. Said watsup to him, he was friendlier than i thought. But maybe deep down i still may not like him, but the hate/dislike has pretty much gone.
But all in all, funny night.
Sunday
Just called some numbers. Called the silly/bubbly brunette girl with a pretty face, and nice ass. Invited her to eat with me the next day in the cafeteria(day 2) She said sure. Called a few more numbers, some were wood...called another girl back 6 months ago....she looked up who i was and remembered me. I told her i'd hit her up later in the week.
Monday
Approached a few girls. One of them looked like a southern belle i was pretty attracted to. Found her pretty cute, went direct and she was like "Really? :-o" haha. Was funny. I knew i made her day. Talked for a minute or two. She told me she's not on campus that much. I told her i'd call her, to find out when she's free on campus, when she has a break. Approached a few more girls, were wood.
Saw the nice ass, cute face girl at 7-11. Reminded her 6:30, she said sure glad to see me. I guess this is another day 2. She arrives 15 min late and calls me telling me she's running late, and i see she brought her friend along i met the first time i ate with her. When they arrive there, i feel like she didn't give a rats ass that we were meeting up, eventho she was nice and friendly. I thought they were into their own convos more than me, and that it was just something platonic. I did the best i can to flirt and seduce, but there was only so much i could do. They then decide to leave early, telling me sorry. I told them it was ok. Afterwards, i felt mad...but didn't think i should've been and didn't understand why. I then realized that i was mad cuz i had my expectations too high that she would understand that it was a day 2, but i realized that it was a learning experience and that it can prepare me next time for: EMPHASIZING U AND HER!
Later in the night...i then decided to go to the apt i usually go to. Out of the like 10 girls i tried to hit on, but didn't work out...there was one left whom i gave a certain impression to, my persistence, dominance and fun vibe. I decided to try to give it a shot with her. This would be my last time at the apartment for a while. When i arrive first at the apt, i don't her and think that i never will. But then all of a sudden...I see her, i act playful and to be funny and stuff with "Finally ur here! Bout damn time!" but she tries to act neutral. I thought i failed off the bat and thought about calling it quits with her.
NOTE: If its a higher energy environment, that would not be a thought. I would persist most def easily.
Then i notice she looks at me from time to time, subtley and quickly. I then noticed that she was actually playing hard to get, and she was one of the girls whom like a guy but don't want people to know, to keep a certain image. I then just got drunk the rest of the night.
Tuesday
Approached quite a few girls today, most said they were taken. Saw one who was walking that was in my work. The guys at my work said she had a butter face and that her body was a lil porpotioned but i didn't care. I liked what i saw. She remembered me. She seemed glad to. I go right to the point. She tells me thurs she got a break. I told her i'd hit her up tomorrow.
Meet up with another girl whom we been in contact. I kind of forgot what she looked like but she remembered may face. When i saw her, she looked aright...but it was only cuz she was wearing a sweatshort, jeans and carpenter boots. Now if all that was off and her hair was out, and saw how big her breasts were again...NOICE. So then...she's with her roommate but its fine. Its going well. Im flirting wiht her and her roommate. Getting to know her, making it obvious im into her in a non-platonic manner. Letting her know how i find her twang sexy, tehy both giggling. Hand holding her a little long. Looking at her seductively. It went great. They both down to earth. I tell her that i'll call her again to hang out with her. All in all. it went great.
Friday, September 12, 2008
9/11
Thursday, do even more approaches...tried to set up a day 2 with a girl for friday.
Ok, after doing some cold approaches, finally...i got to go eat with another really cute girl. When i called her and she didn't respond, at first i thought she was avoiding it, but then it turned out that she was just sleeping as she drank too much the previous night. We ate at Chi-Fil-A before she had to go to a sorority interest meeting. I enjoyed talking to her. The way she talks is funny, it didn't bore me. We could relate on some levels, and she knew i was into her. There was some flirting going on and i could tell she liked it.
After the day 2 i had on this day, i felt an adrenaline rush, i looked at girls even more confidentally, i went up this one sexy dressed girl and she showed LOTS of IOIs, she was playing with her hair like CRAZY...but then sadly she waiting for her bf to pick her up for her 20th birthday. She looked at me as i was walking away, and then i saw her bf's car drive up and he picked her up. Approached another girl, hot blonde during the night time on campus, but i think the chances of her responding to my call/text are only 25%.
At Night, went to Riley's again and my fucking god it was so fun, packed, and the girls were having fun and were nice. i think i tried to game like 20. The first one i gamed, was a friend of one of the girls whom i think was into me back in the day but her bf was at Iraq. I whispered in ear, both of ur friends are hot! while blantaly looking at both of the friends while whipsering in the girl's ear. The iraq bf girl told them what i said, and the nose pierce girl who was cute, she was like "I think he's hot too!" So then i have a devilish smile, and i lead her to the dance floor. She is touching me sexually, while i do the same. We then make out for two minutes, BUT her ASD comes into where she asks where Iraq bf girl where she's at, and then she has them come with her. But it was still fun making out with her.
The black girls around see me and are talking about wat i was doing. Was funny.haha. Gave Hi Fives to quite a few people i knew. One girl had a Marilyn Monroe Hairstyle that i met before, was a sorority girl. She hot. I play with it, and i could there was sexual attraction between us. Eventho she leaves, we both spank each other's ass. I dance with other girls, and talk to them, but some try to cockblock while i ignore them but game other girls. One black girl i tried to dance with, commented on my confidence.
Saw another sorority girl i knew, here's where i beleive there's improvement. I notice her rack and say, Oh man... i can't stop looking at that dress....especially since how much its showing ur rack. She is smiling but a little embarrased and she pulls it up. Im laughing and saying, "u know u like me looking at it" She laughs a lil shyly and says that its all she got. I tell her, "hell no...look at ur ass and face" She laughs. I tell her friend to show me her ass, and its nice, tight and toned. They then say how it both works out since one has tits the other ass some ass. haha.
I had afew beers but i wasn't "Drunk" Just barely tyspy, but to be perfectly honest...i don't think the alcohol had much to do with tonight, as other nights i can def tell when it does.
Saw a blonde girl whom we both checked each other out from time to time in the past. We are easily talking, go for the kiss but she rejects it as she says she has a bf and walks away. Another girl im dancing with on a poll. My face is close to hers. Her teeth were really white and she had such a good smile. she was a small pretty cute brunette. I was about to kiss her after i turn her around, but she had to go. lol.
Another small thin, long haired brunette i talk to. She tells me after a few minutes, to give her some space. She then says, "She hates to say that as people thought of her as a bitch for it" I tell her, "oh no...i give u more respect for being honest, i even want my space sometimes" Im still talking to her and dancing. Im playing with her hair, but then i could tell she doesn't like it, i then tell her i was gonna kiss her, and she says she has a bf of 6 years. Believe her or not? hard to say. So then i leave.
The night was good overall, gamed quite a bit...had lots of fun.
Ok, after doing some cold approaches, finally...i got to go eat with another really cute girl. When i called her and she didn't respond, at first i thought she was avoiding it, but then it turned out that she was just sleeping as she drank too much the previous night. We ate at Chi-Fil-A before she had to go to a sorority interest meeting. I enjoyed talking to her. The way she talks is funny, it didn't bore me. We could relate on some levels, and she knew i was into her. There was some flirting going on and i could tell she liked it.
After the day 2 i had on this day, i felt an adrenaline rush, i looked at girls even more confidentally, i went up this one sexy dressed girl and she showed LOTS of IOIs, she was playing with her hair like CRAZY...but then sadly she waiting for her bf to pick her up for her 20th birthday. She looked at me as i was walking away, and then i saw her bf's car drive up and he picked her up. Approached another girl, hot blonde during the night time on campus, but i think the chances of her responding to my call/text are only 25%.
At Night, went to Riley's again and my fucking god it was so fun, packed, and the girls were having fun and were nice. i think i tried to game like 20. The first one i gamed, was a friend of one of the girls whom i think was into me back in the day but her bf was at Iraq. I whispered in ear, both of ur friends are hot! while blantaly looking at both of the friends while whipsering in the girl's ear. The iraq bf girl told them what i said, and the nose pierce girl who was cute, she was like "I think he's hot too!" So then i have a devilish smile, and i lead her to the dance floor. She is touching me sexually, while i do the same. We then make out for two minutes, BUT her ASD comes into where she asks where Iraq bf girl where she's at, and then she has them come with her. But it was still fun making out with her.
The black girls around see me and are talking about wat i was doing. Was funny.haha. Gave Hi Fives to quite a few people i knew. One girl had a Marilyn Monroe Hairstyle that i met before, was a sorority girl. She hot. I play with it, and i could there was sexual attraction between us. Eventho she leaves, we both spank each other's ass. I dance with other girls, and talk to them, but some try to cockblock while i ignore them but game other girls. One black girl i tried to dance with, commented on my confidence.
Saw another sorority girl i knew, here's where i beleive there's improvement. I notice her rack and say, Oh man... i can't stop looking at that dress....especially since how much its showing ur rack. She is smiling but a little embarrased and she pulls it up. Im laughing and saying, "u know u like me looking at it" She laughs a lil shyly and says that its all she got. I tell her, "hell no...look at ur ass and face" She laughs. I tell her friend to show me her ass, and its nice, tight and toned. They then say how it both works out since one has tits the other ass some ass. haha.
I had afew beers but i wasn't "Drunk" Just barely tyspy, but to be perfectly honest...i don't think the alcohol had much to do with tonight, as other nights i can def tell when it does.
Saw a blonde girl whom we both checked each other out from time to time in the past. We are easily talking, go for the kiss but she rejects it as she says she has a bf and walks away. Another girl im dancing with on a poll. My face is close to hers. Her teeth were really white and she had such a good smile. she was a small pretty cute brunette. I was about to kiss her after i turn her around, but she had to go. lol.
Another small thin, long haired brunette i talk to. She tells me after a few minutes, to give her some space. She then says, "She hates to say that as people thought of her as a bitch for it" I tell her, "oh no...i give u more respect for being honest, i even want my space sometimes" Im still talking to her and dancing. Im playing with her hair, but then i could tell she doesn't like it, i then tell her i was gonna kiss her, and she says she has a bf of 6 years. Believe her or not? hard to say. So then i leave.
The night was good overall, gamed quite a bit...had lots of fun.
9/9 and 9/10
Tuesday Night, after the venting from my previous post, i then decided to go out at ladies night at the bar. I had a fun time. Most of the girls i went up to were receptive, just that their friends were cockblocking. Another i tried to do "Amazing Sadness Kiss" but she didn't want to. One girl did the Ethnicity game, we both smacked each other's asses.One girl was pretty receptive at first, but then when i was joking with her that since she had those "loop" earrings, that she liked black guys, she walked away(Afew other girls in the past thought it was pretty funny tho and were still into me), so she was weird. One of the cockblocking girls said "eww" when i touched her shoulder to cue her to let me through so i could get my beer, i ignore her, and i'm thinking, "She's weird...." Then another girl i gamed in the past gave that same look.
But then my last approach was a Tall, Slim beautful brunette, to me a 9. She was shockingly nice. She was nice to most guys there, but i think she had some interest atleast. She and the DJ were drinking and talking together. I still went up to her. She was nice. I told her she was beautiful and that it excited me. She seemed flustered and very flattered. I was leading and being dominant, by having her tell me about herself. I took her by the hand and was about to have her sit down with me, but she said that her drinks were with the DJ. She was smiling all the time i was talking to her. I then wave and say, "Bye :-)" But then she looks back and laughs. But she's staying there, i then say "Aright...u can get ur drink and then we can sit down" We're walking and then i see she goes to the DJ. But i still think it was good game on my part, just wrong timing.
On Wednesday, I do some approaches i forget where. Some were interested i could see, while others were on a rush. One of the girls was the one i had a day 2 with. Wednesday Night, i went to a small party, that only had two girls and most were guys. the Guys were dancing with each other(No homo) just funny shit.
But then my last approach was a Tall, Slim beautful brunette, to me a 9. She was shockingly nice. She was nice to most guys there, but i think she had some interest atleast. She and the DJ were drinking and talking together. I still went up to her. She was nice. I told her she was beautiful and that it excited me. She seemed flustered and very flattered. I was leading and being dominant, by having her tell me about herself. I took her by the hand and was about to have her sit down with me, but she said that her drinks were with the DJ. She was smiling all the time i was talking to her. I then wave and say, "Bye :-)" But then she looks back and laughs. But she's staying there, i then say "Aright...u can get ur drink and then we can sit down" We're walking and then i see she goes to the DJ. But i still think it was good game on my part, just wrong timing.
On Wednesday, I do some approaches i forget where. Some were interested i could see, while others were on a rush. One of the girls was the one i had a day 2 with. Wednesday Night, i went to a small party, that only had two girls and most were guys. the Guys were dancing with each other(No homo) just funny shit.
Monday, September 8, 2008
9/7 and 9/8
SUNDAY
First was a blonde girl on a bench. She was shy, but a little receptive. Chatted with her a few minutes, told her that we can eat on Tuesday at Au Bon Pain, she said sure...told her around 10 AM...wanted to get her number but she didn't want to give it, so then i told her "Will she remember?" She said yea, then i said "But wat if something comes up?" She tells me "Why would it with u? :-P" was kinda funny situation, so we set it up for tuesday at 10Am, but the chances of it happening are small since eventho she said she'd write it down the time, that she didn't seem excited about the idea.
Sunday at the lab, hesistated to approach this hot volleybal girl, but when i did, she was pretty receptive but told me genuinely she had a bf(in the way that it doesn't seem bullshit, plus she's a junior...so why not). At the library, did three approaches. First was a nice body brunette with long hair and got a hippie vibe. I stopped her directly, but she said she was gonna go back to studying.
NOTE: Here, u tell the girl...well thats fine, as it was only gonna take a minute, but i gave it up too fast.
The second approach, which was funny, was a redhaired girl that i went up to during the summer who flaked on me but forgot was her until after the approach. Things went good so far, UNTIL she then remembers me, and she gave me a flake number again. haha. I call it the next day and its her friend's number who gives me her "new" number. i call it, but no response. NEXT.
The third approach, was this hot 1/2 asian cheerleader girl. I approached her directly, but didn't say a direct opening line. She's receptive, i dunno her interest...but i tell her that we're gonna eat during the week. I get her facebook.
MONDAY
Went up to this hot, curly haired dark brunette girl with shades with a russian accent. Sexy. I kinda just start talking to her. I notice her beforehand she notices me, we both have shades, but i think we noticed each other. While talking to her, just the same talk as my other approaches. Then i decide to go set something up for starbucks at 5PM tomorrow, she said sure. I then go for the number but she didn't want to. At the time, im feeling like "If i try to pursue the number too fast, i'll lose something good since i got nothing much yet" Stupid negative thoughts. So then i told her that something could come up but she says she's aright. So then i tell her, three times, "u sure u'll remember" She says yea...lol. So then this one is prolly only 40% chance of happening. We'll see.
Was mad at the cafeteria from the RSD Forums giving advice on how i should do a social circle in college. The thing is, i don't want to do one. I want to cold approach first, as social circles seem too much effort. I don't care for meeting up with friends that much to be honest. I then feel doubt that maybe social circle is the only way that i'd succeed and that cold approaching was worthless. But then i realize, despite all this doubt and negativity in my mind for the past week, that it wasn't worthless and that i keep doing what i do...as i met so many people from just doing game, and how i met so many people on my own without "relying" on connections, course some were from me pledging two frats and being a brother in a third.
So then, i decide on campus to stop two girls around campus, but one of them was late for a meeting and i didn't want to tie her up. Another was a girl whom told me off the bat that she was taken. Did another in the lab, whom i think we had a lil e/c before. When i go up to her, she doesn't seem that interested, but i keep plowing, so then i say "tell me about urself' but then she says she just wants to continue printing stuff off and go home. I decide to leave, i figure persisting with it would be pointless.
Got two things set up for tomorrow, doubt they'll happen but maybe they will. Who knows. Just got to go to them. lol
First was a blonde girl on a bench. She was shy, but a little receptive. Chatted with her a few minutes, told her that we can eat on Tuesday at Au Bon Pain, she said sure...told her around 10 AM...wanted to get her number but she didn't want to give it, so then i told her "Will she remember?" She said yea, then i said "But wat if something comes up?" She tells me "Why would it with u? :-P" was kinda funny situation, so we set it up for tuesday at 10Am, but the chances of it happening are small since eventho she said she'd write it down the time, that she didn't seem excited about the idea.
Sunday at the lab, hesistated to approach this hot volleybal girl, but when i did, she was pretty receptive but told me genuinely she had a bf(in the way that it doesn't seem bullshit, plus she's a junior...so why not). At the library, did three approaches. First was a nice body brunette with long hair and got a hippie vibe. I stopped her directly, but she said she was gonna go back to studying.
NOTE: Here, u tell the girl...well thats fine, as it was only gonna take a minute, but i gave it up too fast.
The second approach, which was funny, was a redhaired girl that i went up to during the summer who flaked on me but forgot was her until after the approach. Things went good so far, UNTIL she then remembers me, and she gave me a flake number again. haha. I call it the next day and its her friend's number who gives me her "new" number. i call it, but no response. NEXT.
The third approach, was this hot 1/2 asian cheerleader girl. I approached her directly, but didn't say a direct opening line. She's receptive, i dunno her interest...but i tell her that we're gonna eat during the week. I get her facebook.
MONDAY
Went up to this hot, curly haired dark brunette girl with shades with a russian accent. Sexy. I kinda just start talking to her. I notice her beforehand she notices me, we both have shades, but i think we noticed each other. While talking to her, just the same talk as my other approaches. Then i decide to go set something up for starbucks at 5PM tomorrow, she said sure. I then go for the number but she didn't want to. At the time, im feeling like "If i try to pursue the number too fast, i'll lose something good since i got nothing much yet" Stupid negative thoughts. So then i told her that something could come up but she says she's aright. So then i tell her, three times, "u sure u'll remember" She says yea...lol. So then this one is prolly only 40% chance of happening. We'll see.
Was mad at the cafeteria from the RSD Forums giving advice on how i should do a social circle in college. The thing is, i don't want to do one. I want to cold approach first, as social circles seem too much effort. I don't care for meeting up with friends that much to be honest. I then feel doubt that maybe social circle is the only way that i'd succeed and that cold approaching was worthless. But then i realize, despite all this doubt and negativity in my mind for the past week, that it wasn't worthless and that i keep doing what i do...as i met so many people from just doing game, and how i met so many people on my own without "relying" on connections, course some were from me pledging two frats and being a brother in a third.
So then, i decide on campus to stop two girls around campus, but one of them was late for a meeting and i didn't want to tie her up. Another was a girl whom told me off the bat that she was taken. Did another in the lab, whom i think we had a lil e/c before. When i go up to her, she doesn't seem that interested, but i keep plowing, so then i say "tell me about urself' but then she says she just wants to continue printing stuff off and go home. I decide to leave, i figure persisting with it would be pointless.
Got two things set up for tomorrow, doubt they'll happen but maybe they will. Who knows. Just got to go to them. lol
Rest of Week 1 of My Final Semester Update(LONG)
Aright guys, for the first week of my final semester….negativity hit me big despite going up to some girls. Lets see…for the next few days, went up to some girls. One girl I messaged, told me she had a steady boyfriend. Another, whom I told her I was gonna come over, asked if she knew where I lived, I didn’t and asked her, got no response. On Friday, messaged her about eating with her. But she tried to say she had a bf, texting her, I decided to not give up and said “my gf wouldn’t like it either, but lets do it anyway :-p” Then I get a missed call from her “boyfriend” but in reality was just a male friend of hers I guess. Said how I “freaked her out” or whatever bullshit and how I prolly am a nice guy. I felt down not cuz of that, but it felt like cold approaching on campus was just too hard. But then I decided to not give up.
Another asian girl I went up to, got her room number but couldn’t visit her since dorm halls are locked at all times now this semester, should’ve gotten her number regardless of resistence. A cute black haired girl I went up to, but turned out she had a bf on facebook. During the next few days, went up to another girl under a tree but she told me genuinely she had a bf and didn’t want me to put so much in and what not. I respected that from her. Gorgeous brunette, kinda didn’t go for the number at lunch…as I kinda let her go…eventho her interest was good I’d say…prolly felt social pressure from her friends. Have done some lab approaches with quite a bit of people around, afew of the girls just wanted to focus on what they’re doing, one had a bf, I forgot the other ones I did there. I notice in the lab I tend to speak much softer and quieter as I feel that I’d be “disturbing” and probably feel a little more self conscious gaming, since these are people I repeatedly see, but why should I give a fuck, ya know? I did a few more but I forgot how they went. Oh yea, seen the girl I went up to at the mall a month ago who is a freshman here and she’s happy to see me.
For parties and night game. Wednesday, I drank with a few buds, felt sad after considering I felt like I didn’t do that well. Thursday, didn’t go to ladies night at Rileys but drank with a few people. Friday, went to their apartment again, gamed a fat chick…whom rejected me kissing her. I’m like “WTF” haha. But then I thought to myself after, “Why in the hell did I go for her?” I should’ve gone for the chick whom was cute and showed IOIs in the past, whom still did. I guess I wanted more of a guranteed lay or something like that. Saturday, went to a frat party I was formerly associated with(as a brother) was mostly guys, some girls…didn’t really game there. Was one girl I saw before, just commented on her dyed hair. She acted unimpressed or like she had attitude. She’s like, “I don’t remember you” in a standoffish way, I tell her, “Well quite frankly…I don’t remember you either :-p” and I turn my back. Passively she says “ok”. I don’t want to deal with attitude like that…plus I wasn’t really trying to flat out seduce her honestly, just made convo for a few minutes. One of the bros kicked me out cuz he knew I didn’t like him, while other brothers didn’t want to have me leave, but realized he was causing WAY TOO MUCH of a ruckus and that I didn’t want the party to be totally over just cuz of one brother’s insecurities. He was a coward for not confronting me directly about it. And its all cuz I hated him/didn’t like him. If someone didn’t like me/hated me at a party I hosted, as long as he didn’t do shit…I wouldn’t care…I wouldn’t acknowledge the bastard unless he did “something”.
After, went to the bar…I didn’t game there either. I just drank and talked to some people. I did game a lil bit with some women, one of them I tried to isolate but she didn’t want to and her friends were like “this is my gf” I told her, “Don’t worry, she’s mine too” they laughed. Another woman earlier in the night I told her she had a good ass. She was pretty drunk. Every few minutes she’d look at me, and to be funny I’d smile or say something, she’d look away then look back again and stuff. I could tell she trying to play hard to get/aloof…but there was attraction between us. She then says she’s engaged, and in a sarcastic manner im like “yea..im engaged too, happened two days ago” she’s like “Nice try” I tell her, “Yea…it was nice of me wasn’t it? :-P” was a funny situation. After that bar, I got to another…guess who I see? The big ass girl from whom I had my first day 2 of the year at, playing pool. I was drunk, man…her ass was really nice and I just couldn’t stop looking at it. Gamed her friend a lil but since I was drunk and in my own head, I only spoke to her for a few minutes and didn’t want to play pool with them. Oh yea, at the first bar did an approach of this hot girl, but then her female friend comes and I can sense that she likes me. She’s just as good looking. She tells me to go to the next bar with them, but then I tell her I’d prolly be over there later. I then go to that same bar later that they were at, I see her and the friend I approached and they’re talking to a few other guys. I prolly should’ve went with them when they left, AS the first bar was dying down. That’s all pretty much for that night.
Another asian girl I went up to, got her room number but couldn’t visit her since dorm halls are locked at all times now this semester, should’ve gotten her number regardless of resistence. A cute black haired girl I went up to, but turned out she had a bf on facebook. During the next few days, went up to another girl under a tree but she told me genuinely she had a bf and didn’t want me to put so much in and what not. I respected that from her. Gorgeous brunette, kinda didn’t go for the number at lunch…as I kinda let her go…eventho her interest was good I’d say…prolly felt social pressure from her friends. Have done some lab approaches with quite a bit of people around, afew of the girls just wanted to focus on what they’re doing, one had a bf, I forgot the other ones I did there. I notice in the lab I tend to speak much softer and quieter as I feel that I’d be “disturbing” and probably feel a little more self conscious gaming, since these are people I repeatedly see, but why should I give a fuck, ya know? I did a few more but I forgot how they went. Oh yea, seen the girl I went up to at the mall a month ago who is a freshman here and she’s happy to see me.
For parties and night game. Wednesday, I drank with a few buds, felt sad after considering I felt like I didn’t do that well. Thursday, didn’t go to ladies night at Rileys but drank with a few people. Friday, went to their apartment again, gamed a fat chick…whom rejected me kissing her. I’m like “WTF” haha. But then I thought to myself after, “Why in the hell did I go for her?” I should’ve gone for the chick whom was cute and showed IOIs in the past, whom still did. I guess I wanted more of a guranteed lay or something like that. Saturday, went to a frat party I was formerly associated with(as a brother) was mostly guys, some girls…didn’t really game there. Was one girl I saw before, just commented on her dyed hair. She acted unimpressed or like she had attitude. She’s like, “I don’t remember you” in a standoffish way, I tell her, “Well quite frankly…I don’t remember you either :-p” and I turn my back. Passively she says “ok”. I don’t want to deal with attitude like that…plus I wasn’t really trying to flat out seduce her honestly, just made convo for a few minutes. One of the bros kicked me out cuz he knew I didn’t like him, while other brothers didn’t want to have me leave, but realized he was causing WAY TOO MUCH of a ruckus and that I didn’t want the party to be totally over just cuz of one brother’s insecurities. He was a coward for not confronting me directly about it. And its all cuz I hated him/didn’t like him. If someone didn’t like me/hated me at a party I hosted, as long as he didn’t do shit…I wouldn’t care…I wouldn’t acknowledge the bastard unless he did “something”.
After, went to the bar…I didn’t game there either. I just drank and talked to some people. I did game a lil bit with some women, one of them I tried to isolate but she didn’t want to and her friends were like “this is my gf” I told her, “Don’t worry, she’s mine too” they laughed. Another woman earlier in the night I told her she had a good ass. She was pretty drunk. Every few minutes she’d look at me, and to be funny I’d smile or say something, she’d look away then look back again and stuff. I could tell she trying to play hard to get/aloof…but there was attraction between us. She then says she’s engaged, and in a sarcastic manner im like “yea..im engaged too, happened two days ago” she’s like “Nice try” I tell her, “Yea…it was nice of me wasn’t it? :-P” was a funny situation. After that bar, I got to another…guess who I see? The big ass girl from whom I had my first day 2 of the year at, playing pool. I was drunk, man…her ass was really nice and I just couldn’t stop looking at it. Gamed her friend a lil but since I was drunk and in my own head, I only spoke to her for a few minutes and didn’t want to play pool with them. Oh yea, at the first bar did an approach of this hot girl, but then her female friend comes and I can sense that she likes me. She’s just as good looking. She tells me to go to the next bar with them, but then I tell her I’d prolly be over there later. I then go to that same bar later that they were at, I see her and the friend I approached and they’re talking to a few other guys. I prolly should’ve went with them when they left, AS the first bar was dying down. That’s all pretty much for that night.
Monday, September 1, 2008
My Final Semester, An Introduction
Hey everyone, this is my final semester here at Radford University. There are many things that i want to do, yet am not sure if they'll happen. Deep down that's my biggest fear, that nothing will happen. That all the approaches i've done, all the frustration i went through, all the tears i cried, that it would be all for nothing at Radford.
But then from the people who supported me, i realized that to keep that faith very strong and that if nothing happens at Radford, then nothing happens, that i got so many more years to go at it. I then realized that its only just the beginning. But with that said, i still will give it my best shot. I know there are still some fears i want to tackle that i'm not at piece with. Like for some people who i use to value as higher value in the past, i'd sometimes get nervous thinking that i'd be judged by them. Recently, i def don't care about that mentally anymore but i still do feel it from time to time, only because i still think deep down i still care what others around me think in terms of gaming during the day in the computer lab. But at night, i don't give a shit. I literally don't most of the time.
Right now, i'm gonna do the best i can with it. No matter what happens or where it takes me by December, i'll accept it and still go at it in the game. I'll never give up.
Aright, Friday I just hung out with my friends and drank at my friends' place. Saturday, i walked around campus, approached a blonde girl who told me i went up to her before(Unintentionally). BUT, the funny thing was that i made a joke of the situation and still a lil bit regaming to where i told her to come with me to a frat party, where she said she was too busy for it. Saturday evening at the cafeteria, i ate wtih a girl with glasses. She seemed reserved but we kept talking. I then invite her to go to a party with me. She seems shy about going but does go. I try to have fun with her there, but she just wanted to check it out and she decided to leave early. So then i saw other freshman girls there, and decided to game them. I just had fun with them, but then their friends took them away as they were leaving.
Sunday, i gamed a blonde and her black friend. They were receptive, i made an improvement to where i let the girl know, if she didn't, that i was into her non-platonically by telling her i liked her. Got her number. Pretty much bullshitted around Sunday. I forget who i went up to, besides her. Got a facebook from this slim cute brunette whom i remember, we had eye contact back a few years ago i think.
Today, i went up to about 8 girls. Got about 4 numbers, sat and ate with two cute girls whom i will prolly be eating with now and then(I kinda was hesitant to let the one i liked most that i was into her not as a friend)...but i take it, just one approach like this won't hurt, and hey...i possibly can hang out with them. Also, in the day, sat and drank with a hot brunette girl after going up to her at starbucks, i still had some doubts about girls whom i approached at first lone who were opening to meeting up, i see them hanging out with friends, to where in my mind i think "oh nothing will happen, they'll just flake or cancel" but all that is bullshit as those assumptions are only in the mind. I don't care how many people she hangs out with, whats important is me and her. And that alone. So things have been coming along.
I'll get rid of these doubts and do things the way i want to :-D.
But then from the people who supported me, i realized that to keep that faith very strong and that if nothing happens at Radford, then nothing happens, that i got so many more years to go at it. I then realized that its only just the beginning. But with that said, i still will give it my best shot. I know there are still some fears i want to tackle that i'm not at piece with. Like for some people who i use to value as higher value in the past, i'd sometimes get nervous thinking that i'd be judged by them. Recently, i def don't care about that mentally anymore but i still do feel it from time to time, only because i still think deep down i still care what others around me think in terms of gaming during the day in the computer lab. But at night, i don't give a shit. I literally don't most of the time.
Right now, i'm gonna do the best i can with it. No matter what happens or where it takes me by December, i'll accept it and still go at it in the game. I'll never give up.
Aright, Friday I just hung out with my friends and drank at my friends' place. Saturday, i walked around campus, approached a blonde girl who told me i went up to her before(Unintentionally). BUT, the funny thing was that i made a joke of the situation and still a lil bit regaming to where i told her to come with me to a frat party, where she said she was too busy for it. Saturday evening at the cafeteria, i ate wtih a girl with glasses. She seemed reserved but we kept talking. I then invite her to go to a party with me. She seems shy about going but does go. I try to have fun with her there, but she just wanted to check it out and she decided to leave early. So then i saw other freshman girls there, and decided to game them. I just had fun with them, but then their friends took them away as they were leaving.
Sunday, i gamed a blonde and her black friend. They were receptive, i made an improvement to where i let the girl know, if she didn't, that i was into her non-platonically by telling her i liked her. Got her number. Pretty much bullshitted around Sunday. I forget who i went up to, besides her. Got a facebook from this slim cute brunette whom i remember, we had eye contact back a few years ago i think.
Today, i went up to about 8 girls. Got about 4 numbers, sat and ate with two cute girls whom i will prolly be eating with now and then(I kinda was hesitant to let the one i liked most that i was into her not as a friend)...but i take it, just one approach like this won't hurt, and hey...i possibly can hang out with them. Also, in the day, sat and drank with a hot brunette girl after going up to her at starbucks, i still had some doubts about girls whom i approached at first lone who were opening to meeting up, i see them hanging out with friends, to where in my mind i think "oh nothing will happen, they'll just flake or cancel" but all that is bullshit as those assumptions are only in the mind. I don't care how many people she hangs out with, whats important is me and her. And that alone. So things have been coming along.
I'll get rid of these doubts and do things the way i want to :-D.
Saturday, August 30, 2008
8/28 Final Mall Sarge
Aright today, i managed to do the 20 approaches. I wasn't able to do the drills unfortuantely, but this was the most i've done ever in one day of all i've gamed. Half way into it, i was tired. I had some starbucks and decided to keep on going. There's no need for me to go on the exact specific approaches, but i can just say i got rejected off the bat about 8 times. 7 of the women were taken. 5 More weren't single, to which i went for insta-date attempts but they declined.
This was definitely a good lesson for me as then I knew that i did good sticking through, but also that there is much i can def improve with.
This was definitely a good lesson for me as then I knew that i did good sticking through, but also that there is much i can def improve with.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
8/27 Penultimate Mall Sarge
Aright this will be short, since this was to get me in the swing of things YET again. I get rusty easy unless i go out day game or night game atleast 2-3 times a week.
Today at the mall, i opened about 8 girls. These are the ones i vaguely remember. I was unprepared and in my own head, and chose last minute to go. I decided to give it a shot.
#1 Was a cute latina. She wore glasses. She was receptive, but she was just visiting her cousins. She was pretty friendly, even telling me how she's inspired by god. I told her that its good that she felt the experience. I told her my experience about faith. So in a sense, i opened up myself. I met her 1st and 2nd cousins. They were friendly, thought her cousin was her mom. Was hilarious. Got her hotmail.
#2 Middle Eastern Girl. Hot as hell. I stopped her, she was 1/2 way about to walk away. But she was hearing me out. This was funny, she said she had to go BUT she didn't leave. She said sorry twice. But from what i could sense, i think there was some interest, if i just was more relaxed today.
#3 A GORGEOUS latina woman with highlights. My god this woman was beautiful. She goes in the store, i stop her. She's smiling but is still somewhat walking. I ask her what she's shopping for and bladdy blah, she says jeans or whatever. I def could've persisted more here, just let her go too fast.
#4 Italian Girl with glasses. Nice Rack. Stopped her. She was shy, but receptive. But she was engaged and was about to meet up with her dad who was looking at sneakers. Was shocked she was italian(Thought she was 1/2 latino), she thought i had some asian in me.haha. She showed me the rock on her finger. She was hot.
#5 Outside of a Mostly woman's store, stopped a woman leaving but she was on a rush
#6 Was a cute asian girl who was on a rush to get back to work. But she was pretty nice. Me, just tryin to get a bit relaxed before school told her that its fine, but she didn't leave after like 3-4 seconds :-)
#7 Was a cute late 20s woman. She was a little on "What do i do?" reaction side. But then i learned a good lesson. I opened up to her about myself to where i can tell she felt a little bit more relaxed and more open. Even gave me advice on jobs lol. Sure it wasn't the most exciting conversation but i don't think it was that bad.
I forgot the last approach.
But today all in all was a good prep for tomorrow, to where i'll be stepping it up. Im gonna go attempt the drills. I'm gonna do 20 approaches. 10 lone and possibly 10 with 2 sets or more. We'll see how it goes :-). One thing i def can improve on is to be a bit more calm when im a lil in my head.
Today at the mall, i opened about 8 girls. These are the ones i vaguely remember. I was unprepared and in my own head, and chose last minute to go. I decided to give it a shot.
#1 Was a cute latina. She wore glasses. She was receptive, but she was just visiting her cousins. She was pretty friendly, even telling me how she's inspired by god. I told her that its good that she felt the experience. I told her my experience about faith. So in a sense, i opened up myself. I met her 1st and 2nd cousins. They were friendly, thought her cousin was her mom. Was hilarious. Got her hotmail.
#2 Middle Eastern Girl. Hot as hell. I stopped her, she was 1/2 way about to walk away. But she was hearing me out. This was funny, she said she had to go BUT she didn't leave. She said sorry twice. But from what i could sense, i think there was some interest, if i just was more relaxed today.
#3 A GORGEOUS latina woman with highlights. My god this woman was beautiful. She goes in the store, i stop her. She's smiling but is still somewhat walking. I ask her what she's shopping for and bladdy blah, she says jeans or whatever. I def could've persisted more here, just let her go too fast.
#4 Italian Girl with glasses. Nice Rack. Stopped her. She was shy, but receptive. But she was engaged and was about to meet up with her dad who was looking at sneakers. Was shocked she was italian(Thought she was 1/2 latino), she thought i had some asian in me.haha. She showed me the rock on her finger. She was hot.
#5 Outside of a Mostly woman's store, stopped a woman leaving but she was on a rush
#6 Was a cute asian girl who was on a rush to get back to work. But she was pretty nice. Me, just tryin to get a bit relaxed before school told her that its fine, but she didn't leave after like 3-4 seconds :-)
#7 Was a cute late 20s woman. She was a little on "What do i do?" reaction side. But then i learned a good lesson. I opened up to her about myself to where i can tell she felt a little bit more relaxed and more open. Even gave me advice on jobs lol. Sure it wasn't the most exciting conversation but i don't think it was that bad.
I forgot the last approach.
But today all in all was a good prep for tomorrow, to where i'll be stepping it up. Im gonna go attempt the drills. I'm gonna do 20 approaches. 10 lone and possibly 10 with 2 sets or more. We'll see how it goes :-). One thing i def can improve on is to be a bit more calm when im a lil in my head.
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