Alright, last night I went to both Mr. Days and Clarendon Ballroom. Mr. Days did have a decent turn out but too many groups, while the Ballroom had a good deal of cuties and hotties but also too many groups. It seems the logistics for an ONS are hard as hell but Silv was able to find a girl who was DTF. Maybe thats what i should do.
First girl looked like she was from Spain, we danced a bit. Her friend wanted to dance too so i danced with her. Second time i tried dancing with her, she didn't seem as into it.
Second girl was a blonde girl whom we had momentary eye contact. I walk down the steps and tell her, "If you could look at me like that, then you can...talk to me" She reacts well but then things die down quick. Her friend tells me not to take it personal and that she can't speak much english lol.
I'm still feeling a bit rusty. I see Silv again and the DJ which felt cool. But then i saw this one dude yelling at this other guy who was trying to approach these girls. This pissed me off and all of a sudden, I felt a surge of confidence. I missed this feeling and this was missing.
People all around the venue would look at me as if they can feel that confidence I had. It was crazy.
So then I see a girl who's middle or latina but i def wanted her. I then pull her toward me and she reciprocates. The girl next to her tries to cockblock but i'm not phased. It was the most funny thing, I just felt in the moment as if not much could stop me. Turns out the other girl said that she didn't try to dance with me before and seemed to get alittle jealous that i was dancing with her friend(the one i wanted), i talk to them for a couple minutes and i'm able to conversate better. Was funny, i was bummed out days before than i couldn't think of anything to say.
Got rejected a couple times from approaching BUT it didn't phase me.
As I was walking, one girl literally tried to flash her hands in my direction. I walk past it but then come back and pull her with good strength. She's then acting all resistant. Was funny. This one girl who's alright looking then gets my attention and wants to dance and have fun. I am down with this but the issue was that i was about to leave, so it didn't last that long. Oh well lol. i could've seeded for later. Silly me.
Things got even better. For the life of me, i felt a big surge of confidence.
First girl who was short but looked sexy in her dress with black hair. I stop her directly, she is very attracted and I even pull her to me and she goes with it. Her friend's like "the bf is nearby" But I tell her, "I only need one minute with you and let him wait" This got her suprised. We have some good conversation until the male comes to pull her away. Thinking its the bf, i let her hand go. Turns out it wasn't i don't think. But it might've not been worth it anyhow. Maybe I should focus on easier approach logistics. Alot of the girls i approach seem to have tough logistics in general.
Another situation was a black haired girl whom was interested but her cockblocking friend was a fatty. Tried to diffuse it by dancing with her a bit then back to the girl i liked but then she continued the cockblocking. Its like "Why can't females just let other females have fun?" lol.
I still feeling a surge. Try to stop a tall middle eastern chick with blue pants and a pink top but she keeps walking. Another was a hot blonde but she acted as if had better things to do. These didn't phase me and I just laughed.
Another was a light blonde chick who was talking with her sister, I turn her toward me and she's very attracted. She's all up close and we embrace. But again, bad timing, they're about to go. I should've gone for the number here.
The night ends with Silv leaving with a girl and her friends, while me and Preston are with two black chicks. the one Preston with likes him quite a bit but she's a prude and the other girl was pissed that Silv wasn't into her which made things tough since i wanted things to get going with her. :(. We get pizza and thats it.
1) Got the same surge of confident i had months ago.
2) Lasting longer in sets
3) Better at thinking on the fly in regards to conversation. but its mainly cuz of being relaxed and feeling a burst.
4) Need to be aware of certain situations and focus on approaches to where its more likely to get a ONS vs Just doing it for the hell of it.