Changes in the game

Firstly, i won't be able to game in the DC area for a bit, because i got a speeding ticket which depleted the rest of the graduation money i used for gas to sarge. So now i can only game nearby. But hey, looks like i'll be doing day game again and night game...i guess i can only do it local.

Aright, i haven't updated much as usual because not much in my ability has changed, except for noticing more of my issues and sticking points...

For The Night Time:
1) Pressured the girls too much it looks like, confused this with persistence
2) Was so caught up in isolating a girl, that i forgot that i can do it fine.
3) Revealing my intent more, should be more bold with it though.
4) Didn't go firm ALL THE WAY, would revert back to more safe conversation cuz its what i've done for a while. But i'll stop this but its no problem if it comes up.
5) Pressured the kiss too much, rather than do it with persistence and get both of us turned on.
6) Didn't find out if a girl wanted to hook up. Was so concerned with playing around her social conditioning that i never figured that some were def down to fuck.
7) Going to be more bold again, and not look back.

For Day Time:
1) Revealing my intentions more. I've decided to do this again, and i won't go back. I don't plan on playing it safe anymore, unless its multiple girls where i'll tone it down a bit.

As i've said before, won't post field reports until something awesome happens. But i do notice that when i was more bold back a year and a half ago...things to be working better for me than when i toned it down. Sure i got more meetups when i was less bold, but nothing happened. Looks like i'm returning to doing mode one again lol

Returning to the Game

Aright, after a month off. I've finally began gaming again. I've done the mall afew times, where i've only number closed a few. The mall feels like a chore right now, so I'm gonna put a hold on it. I'm not afraid,its just i should be excited to go pickup at the mall. It just used up a lot of energy. Night game is more exciting to me for right now. I've done night game for the past 3 weeks(once each week). I plan to do it much more often as time goes on but only when the money comes in.

Been doing Georgetown for the past few weeks. I think im at the same point as I was at Radford, except I haven't really kiss closed yet or flat out isolate the girl. Thats what i got to work on. I think there are more things i can work on. I start out well, but things fizzle a bit. Plus i think i try to force isolation a bit too much at times, BUT its good that I atleast go for it as if the girl literally doesn't want to move 5 feet away from her friends, then how in the world will i fuck her that night? haha.

One thing i'm gonna work on to improve is to try isolating her where its more on a high note, where the resistence isn't that high. With all else, i'll go for it. Another thing is go to my local lair, and they can pinpoint out what i'm doing wrong. But it will just be of the guys who do the direct style, and don't do routines. Cuz their advice will be stupid like "U didn't DHV her" or whatever bullshit.

Im gonna post my Field Reports again on here but really only when i advanced at a point as right now, it'd be the same old stuff.

More on Logistics from SINN

Logistics are really what separates the men from the boys, so to speak.

In your scenario, the odds were already against you.

She's staying at a coworker's house, they have something to do the next morning, and they were tired...

I would not even try to pull a set with those logistics, I'd get a phone number and go try to find another girl with better logistics.

The Magic logistics gathering questions are:

What's on the agenda for later?- This is the equivalent of "wanna fuck?" in modern barspeak. Plus it lets you seed the pull for later. I use this in the first 10 minutes EVERYTIME.

Did you guys meet here or come together?- You have to find out what the travel situation is. Ideally they met at the venue and the girl you're interested in drove herself.

Do you have work tomorrow?- Let's you find out how late she can reasonably stay up.

In your specific situation Steve, you would want to use Captain Jack (www.Masssexualframing.com)'s classic line,

" You guys are leaving already? I'm so not ready for my night to end."

Then I would have asked the girls to drive me to my car and directed them out of the bar's parking lot towards my place. You never want to go to a girl's place if you can avoid it.

Hope that helps,

Til next time,

Sinn

Happy New Years and My New Years Resolution

Hi everyone. Its been one year since I've been doing the game at a true consistent rate. I'm proud to say that i've stuck by it this long. I remember back in 2006 summer is where all this started. I wanted to go chase my dream. It was a really good experience and was quite funny how much i changed over the course of 6 semesters(Including a summer session of school). I still got many years ahead in this.

I truly feel alive doing still, even i've repeated myself many times. Its funny, back when i was younger i never pictured i'd do this. Never, haha. I thought i'd be oblivious to the world, whatever fate wanted to give me. Knowing that it was possible to get what i wanted, was one of the best feelings in the entire world. I never thought that it would become a passion and be what made me feel alive.

Sure some guys would say, "There's more to life than women" Ha...u could say the same about any other skill. "There's more to life than bodybuilding" or "There's more to life than Math". This ain't all my life, but it is a big part, because i plan to work hard at it.

2009 will be no different. I got a lot of gaming to do. So much to do also upcoming in the next decade. I now get to game at larger scale places, where I'll more of an advantage to get what i want. But during this, i still plan to also get some lays on college campuses. :-)

I think even after all the clubbing and mall game, i'm gonna def want to go back and finish what i started with it. But without further ado, my goals for 2009:

1)Get Rid of My 4 year Dry Spell

2)Go to the clubs/bars consistently 3 nights a week

3)Do day game consistently 1-2 days a week

4)Go back down to 190lbs, i weight 230 right now

I believe once the game picks up, i'll put the bitter thoughts of doing college game behind me. I won't keep thinking about it. All that matters now is i do the game here. All that matters is i succeed where i need to.

12/14 PART III: Final Analysis on Campus Game at Radford University

Aright everyone, looks like day game at Radford University is indeed will be over, since im graduating college in a week. There were many good times i had. I remember back when i was in freshman year of college, wanting to approach...but didnt' had the balls. All it took was what Anthony Robbins calls, "The Breaking Point"...to where i couldn't take it anymore and wanted to do something about it.

Since Summer of 2006, i've been at it...pursuing my dream of becoming a Playboy. I remember the first time i ever flat out approached in the day time. I was so scared, it was hilarious. I asked a girl to help me out with getting a box of chocolates for my sister(Indirect opener) She responded neutral, i was so nervous. Was funny. But i was so proud i did it. That day i felt like i sucked...BUT it was eyeopening. I was more motivated to get this shit handled.

Then that fall, I found myself again and decided to start anew again...working from Social Anxiety up. Sure i still had a good deal of limiting beliefs and managed to get a few day2s, i ultimately was less afraid to approach girls.

The Next Year, I started to approach directly and was shocked that girls responded real well to it but then as i joined a frat, i got lazy.

Then this year of 2008, been consistent with day game on campus for 8 months. Lets just say...its been one hell of a journey. I've met atleast 200 girls by now...and was able to meet up with 17 of them in the form of an insta-date or day 2. That isn't that bad so far i'd say lol.

Being able to go up to a woman u really fancy was what i wanted in life, and i finally am able to do it. My forever goal of laying girls from day game is still my bread and butter dream in this whole thing and I believe it will happen. Just will take more time and experience.

Today in the cafeteria, i decided to do one more approach with this hot big tit and ass brunette girl who was wearing sweatpants...was sitting with a friend. She responded well and was pretty receptive. Meeting was pointless since finals are this week. I only needed that for a farewell...nothing more. I've left my mark here at Radford University. I am proud i decided to game the way i wanted to, rather than feel i could only do it via social circle. Knowing that i no longer am afraid and can go for what i want has given me enlightment, peace and acceptance.

BUT, College Day Game is just starting. I have three other colleges to go for that. Mary Washington, George Mason and University of Maryland. The new chapter of this journey will begin in January. I still got malls in the real world to do as well, i just won't have as much time but i'll practice there as well.

But i have to say that me being able to meet up with girls in a more socially pressured environment whom i randomly went up to is a testament that im on the right track. Sure maybe many of the hotties have flaked on me, BUT i'm def gonna lay quite a few hotties in the future...u can count on that! I'm gonna keep doing what i'm doing. I won't stop till I succeed with this. You can count on that!

Radford might be over with, but not gaming. That will never stop, even when i am settled down someday. This blog will still probably be around by then.

I wonder what awaits in 2009 for Strictly Mall Game, and the Other Uni's? :-)

12/14 PART I: Rang in my mind....

My thoughts at 1:52 AM....

The Past I:

It was 12:00PM My freshman year, 1st semester. I'm with about 6 other of my dormmates sitting down and eating. I then notice...a hot black haired girl tap one of my friends in the shoulder smiling(He was a rugby player and was cambodian), he continued talking. In my mind i was like, "Wow...he's so lucky" I told myself, "If only i could stand a chance...i'd be able to get a girl like that"

The Past II:

It was my semester semester and i sit with two of my dormmates, two black guys. We notice these two HOT blondes sitting down. One of them was atleast a 9. She was hot as hell. My black friend said to one of them, "She's prolly stuck up" I was shocked at how hot she was. "Wow...she's so hot...if only i stood a chance"

The Past III:

Was my sophmore year, was in a tutor session with this HOT blonde with glasses with such NICE tits, blonde hair and red shirt. My god...this girl was super hot. I still get crazy thinking about her. Wats funny is she was nice. After the tutor session was done, She talked to me a minute joking about the class. I laughed with her. "If only i stood a chance" rang in my mind

The Past IV:

Was a party sophmore year. This hot blonde was smiling at me. I wanted to go up to her and talk to her. But i was afraid to. "I don't know what to say to her"" rang in my mind


The Past V:

Was at Attitudes, went with my friend who got some good game. I danced with this curly haired girl who danced fast. I wanted to hook up with her. Didn't know how. My friend, he danced with this girl, hit her up so her and her friend could come over. We went to joe's diner. The girl i liked was on the phone, while he and his girl talked with each other. I tried to talk to her, but she was occupied. "I wish i had game" Rang in my mind...

The Past VI:

Was the Quadfest/Mardy Gras weekend at the uni. Was at a nearby house. This Slim, VERY HOT BIG TIT girl with a cap was drunk and was standing there. She was waiting to be talked to. I couldn't do anything. I couldn't do a damn thing. I didn't know what to say. "If only...." Rang in my mind

The Past VII:

Went to drink coffee with this really cute tall lanky Blonde girl with a panther like face ;-). She was nice and everything, but i couldn't do things. I tried to meet up with her again but she didn't want to. "If only i had game..." Rang in my mind.

The Past VIII:

Was in class for my final exam, saw this brunette cutie sorority girl looking at me....i look back and do a peace hand sign...but was def shy lol..."If only i could game her" rang in my mind....

All of this rang in my mind....would i be doomed forever? Would I forever always regret and always feel like i could never get the success I wanted?

Night Game Notes to help

Listened to the Free Teleseminar by Sinn of Love Systems/Mystery Method. At first, hearing it was of MM, i was skeptical considering MM's reputation of being indirect, considering i'm direct...but he did mention this can help in ALL forms of game, plus Andy, one of my future Potential Wings, recommended it to me. When i listened to it, i can only get half of it. But he gave me the notes:


SINN'S TELESEMINAR Q & A

Rapport:
Best way to get into rapport is to go first
Its offering stuff about your life
Comfortable convo
No pressure
Your both on the same page
You know I’m a writier and because of that it makes me really passionate
But also it makes me arrogant and makes me think everyone should listent o what I have to say
Throw a checkin and make her agree
Harder qualifiers afterwards
Just assuming rapport and talking
And gradually work up to something like “have you ever have something like that happened?”
If you do it for your self, people will be infinitely more opened and helping you do it.


Touching
Touch early, youre a touchy guy
Make It look like she’s touching you, take her hand n put it on your arm
Youre the one ending the touching first
Playful
Hand touching
Arm n arm – qualification
Arm around
Touching
Talk face to face 3-5 mins
You have to prep it


Handling Logistics to get to the bedroom
Ask Questions in beginning to seed for later:
Whats on the agenda for later (short for do you wanan fuck?) very early on
Who she’s hear with
What she has to do tmrw
How she got to the venue
Seed to leave club together!

Good Rules of Thumb for later in the night:
Never take girl out to a diner or a place to eat
Club or house or their house
To Fuck a girl in an alley in 10 mins if u can sense the huge sexual tension:
-“Lets go get something outside”
-“Lets go get something in my car”
-“Its too hot in here”
-“hey lets go over here, lets go eat”
Hey were leaving the more dominance you have in your speech the better!!!


Being Sexual:
SNL is sexualize everything
“We’re not going to get along”
Challenge the girl sexually
I don’t’ know who your ex bf, was but he didn’t spank you enough
Sexualize teasing and attraction game
Start talking about sex
Spill your drink on her, oh you got me wet, yea i kinda have that effect on women
Talk about sexual subjects and make fun of it.



All in all, this def was worth getting information from. This will help my sticking points immensley down the line

Final Summer Analysis

Aright, this summer i definitely learned alot in the game. I made some good improvements, became smarter, and am even more determined to succeed.

What I've learned
1) That the only way to still succeed in the game to keep at it

2) Don't give up. There have been times over the course of the game that i've wanted to give up. I was at my breaking point at times, but thanks to my friends and supporters, i've kept going. I will never give up. Seduction is too important to me, its a part of me.

3) You are a different breed of man. You stand out compared to other guys. You do things most guys are scared shitless to do.

4) Stand up for ur beliefs. I've stood up for my beliefs in the game, and i don't back down. There were some girls who were like, "It shows bad character to approach lots of girls" or "You approached me already" or "You won't win(In reference to their friend that im gaming". But then i learned that despite that, those women couldn't say anything after when i responded to them "It shows good character as i'm going for what i want and there's a risk people will hate me for it...but what matters is what i want to do" or "Yea, i did. So what?" or "There's no winning or losing. I just do my thing"

5) Girls want a playboy still. There were times i doubted that girls want a guy who's good with women and only want a guy who just always likes one girl. But thats far from the truth.

6) Confrontations will happen. If i aint having difficult, in the sense of AMOGs, then something is wrong. I've been confronted as a result of approaching, but i didn't get punched or kicked. Just threats.

7) The girls u desire the most tend to be the ones that desire u too. I've seen it, yet sometimes didn't believe it but it was true.

8) Success will come. As David X says, "As time goes on and u go at it...eventually u'll reach success." It might not be for a week, a month, a year, or hell...even a decade. I don't know. But all i know is that i will keep going. I won't give up my biggest dream, i want to be a playboy. The day that i heard it was possible, i really felt that i didn't have to accept my fate of never loving myself and wanting to be someone else. But, i realized that the possibilities are there. Success will come!

What i've improved
1) I can approach consistently. I have been doing it consistently for 8 months total now.

2) My night game has improved. 9 months ago and before, it sucked. I had trouble keeping conversation. Now a days, im now at the point of kissing despite all the obstacles that i dealt with along the way. Those obstacles don't really happen anymore.

3) My day game has improved. For about 10 months, my direct game was more with just opening. But now i realize the truth reason to go direct and as a result, i got 5 day 2s over the course of the month. More than i have ever gotten in one month than in my entire life.

4) No longer consider people who are very popular to be above me. They are human beings like us. We are equal. From my own standpoint, i don't need LOTS of friends to attract or seduce women. I am enough.

5) I am less self conscious about approaching in front of people. I realized that either people don't give a shit or that if they do, its more of amazement.

6)I don't have to run out of things to say. I can fill that void.

7) Plowing. I'll keep going, even if im exhausted.

8) Women's reactions. Lots of girls are more receptive to me when i approach compared to in the past.

9) Attachment to outcome. My attachment to outcome has gone down. I was so concerned bout laying, that it frustrated me so much. But then i just let alot of it go, and thus im doing better.

10)I consider no girl or woman to be out of my league. Sure i haven't gamed Bartenders or girls who work there, BUT i find that i should game non-hired guns first, as i feel that it'll be easier for me once i can do the other situations first.

11) Can Game Solo. I can go to a night venue solo, which is def not easy. Sometimes when i went there, i wish i had a wing. But nowadays, i could care less. I think its better for me to do it solo anyhow.

12) Less affected by rejection. I def am less affected by rejection. Sure if it happens once in a blue moon, its like "wow" but when it happens now and then, its like "Ah that didn't work out, on to the next"

13) Eye contact and Touch. they have def improved. I no longer look predatorial with it, and my touch is less hesitant. My touch has more purpose now.

What i need to improve

1) Hesitanting in some approaches. Usually if im not confident, i'll wait a lil while. I usually wait till im more mentally able to do it, BUT sometimes opportunities pass you by.

2) Calibration for closing. Still needs improvement

3) Approaching sets. I could do more, as some opportunities passed me by since they were with one other friend. I can do it at night, then why shouldn't i do it during the day?

4) Caring what the girl i just approached who had a good reaction(who says she's taken), will think. Its weird, sometimes i think it makes me look like a snake, that i went to direct to u and then another girl. The key is to not value her opinion of u. If she considers u scum, who cares? She's taken. No need to acknowledge it or her.

5) Afraid to get kicked out of some parties. Its not the kicking out i still am hesitant of. Its how i'd handle it afterward. I will improve that.

6) Caring what others think. I still think i care what some acquaintences think. But recently, i've still taken action.

7) When a girl is walking away after a meh approach, i tend to have the need to speed up my voice to get their attention. But i'll stop that.

8) Still attaching some level of outcome to getting lays this final semester at Radford. Thanks to my friends' support, this attachment has gone down. Thats the only way i'll be able to keep going without feeling complete frustration.

So all in all, Got the final semester to go. Let's rock!

7/28-7/29 Couch Potato and More Thoughts

Aright for Tuesday and Wednesday, i was pretty much a couch potato playing Metal Gear Solid 4 and losing motivation to sarge. I confused this feeling with fear. I thought the reason i didn't want to sarge was fear, that i was afraid to go out there again. But to be honest, now that i think about it...it was just that i didn't feel like going. I didn't have that drive or spark to go. Was feeling like a chore, rather than something to enjoy. Also, on Wednesday...i was suppose to go to a Tap room with a fellow guy in the community, who is a PUA...but me feeling a bit afraid to go there(a unknown place to me), i lied telling him i had to help my mom, but in reality...she didn't need help. That was pussy behavior. I guess i was afraid that i'd look like a chump in front of him if i went out in my unprepared state, afraid to approach.

But that's going to stop. I'll tell the guy the truth, since thats who i really am...rather than a guy who'd lie like that. That shows the lack of credibility i have. Even if he might have a different opinion about me if i tell him the truth, he deserves to know.

Now, on to another edition of Sky's Thoughts

1) Its pretty strange, home doesn't feel that different to me since leaving campus. I actually feel more confident back here.

2) For a bit i've felt mental rustiness with day game, considering each day on campus i'd usually find a girl or two to approach. Not approaching at all for a few days can take its toll.

3) Night game im feeling a lil nervous considering i have no idea whats in store for this month.

4) I don't want day game to be a chore. I want to have fun with it again.

5) I actually believe i know why i've seem to been losing a little motivation, its prolly cuz at the mall...i kinda have this feeling like i won't be able to do an insta-date or get a day2 or whatever. BUT, i'll get that reality back to where i can seduce women at the mall. Then i'll feel that enthusiasm. :-)

6) The assurance of keeping a conversation going is one my mental blocks right now. It might take a few times to where i then am confident i can keep conversation going as long as i can :-)

7) I got one month to improve game even further, first getting much more relaxed at DC Clubs is my first goal. Then of course, which shouldn't be long, kiss closing consistently and extraction attempts is right after that :-)

7/20: Analysis of this Summer

Aright Guys, my semester at Radford its down to its last week. Day Game, i virtually have no idea wat else that'll be for that week. If i find a girl walking around or somewhere else, I go up to her. Nothing more, nothing less. Night game, Thurs and Fri i go out. I'll definitely give it my best shot at those places.

Now on to analyze this Summer at Radford University:

WHAT I IMPROVED ON(Day Game):
1) Aright, for day game...i definitely improved on being more genuine in my approach after opening a girl. I kept the flow of direct better.
2) Got less flakes
3) Realized that some of the women actually had bfs, hence why they didn't want to give their number or was really hesitant.
4) Got 4 Day 2s over the course of 5-6 weeks compared to the Spring where i didn't get a Day 2 at all. Lately i've had them once a week.
5) More relaxed with conversation, don't care what i say these days.
6) Been consistent with it for a while. Even though campus was empty a few times, i still went out there and approached the girls i surprisingly could find while going to and from places.
7) I'm more relaxed and conversation and sometimes dont' care if what i say will cost me attraction. Sometimes yea we should def make sure not to fuck it up.
8) Some of the girls i had to postpone day 2s with, turned out patience did help.
9) Approach Anxiety rarely happens...but when it does...usually i'll be able to get over it.

WHAT I IMPROVED ON(Night Game):
1) I am in tune with the environment. For the longest time, i had the mentality of day game at night, which can come off as boring in high energy environments not only to some of the girls but to myself.
2) I am more sexual. I touch girls more, look them seductively in the eyes
3) I am starting to feel more sexual state especially if i can tell the girl is feeling sexual too. My flirting, talk and everything becomes better.
4) Finally got a few kiss closes
5) Less concerned about pulling. I was so frustrated that i couldn't pull, that the other areas of my game leading to it were lacking. Im glad im getting those taken care of first.
6) My Isolation has DEF Improved!
7) My Convo Game has gone up in night game significantly!
8) I can stand up to Shit Tests much more easily these days.
9) I've gone out consistenly, 3 nights a week for a while. I would definitely say that's good.

WHAT I NEED TO IMPROVE ON(Day Game):
1) Be less afraid to go for the kiss close on the first date. I think part of the reason i'm afraid is because i believe that i might lose the potential of a hookup down the line if i go for it. This is bullshit.
2) Eventually, im gonna go for extractions. Thats one thing I definitely want to do, Gunwitch's Game.
3) Triggering Sexual State in a girl by being in massive sexual state. Im getting better at it, but it could be better.
4) Be less worried of her reactions if i say something provocative
5) In some approaches, invite her over to my apartment if she is feeling that same sexual state.
6) Sometimes my convos could flow a little better.
7) To not believe party girls during insta-dates will bore them. Treat them as any other girl during the day when first meeting them. Girls are girls.

WHAT I NEED TO IMPROVE ON(Night Game):
1)Kiss Closing. I'm getting better, but still i can work on a few things. Like going for it when she's at a high note. When she's really enjoying herself talking to me.
2)Not lose motivation to talk to a girl if she turns away while still talking to her, or if she walks away. I stay unreactive and still assume she's interested.
3)If i say something and a girl isn't respond much but yet still sticking in there, up things physically and then talk as if she's just playing hard to get. Hell, why not for the kiss ;-)
4)Eventually i want to do Bathroom extractions. But on a campus where people see each other, might not be the best idea until I'm in the big city after i graduate.
5)Even if im afraid to kiss close, i still go for it.
6)Do not be afraid to lose the girl if i try too early.
7)Do not be concerned if a girl finds some convo boring, i just switch to whatever topic until one she likes BUT i do not give up. If she says, "Don't be doing that" BUT if she's still there after i go for it, DO NOT give up on her. Keep talking, then try again.
8)During days i only want to dance/grind...still try to do the best u can when talking to them.
9)Try the amazing sadness only if it comes up in ur head, don't try to use it every time.
10)2 Beer Max on days i know that im nervous. But in August i def will not be drinking really at all unless its a night solely i want to drink.

All i know is that im feeling a little nervous about gaming in the clubs in DC, possibly because of them possibly being more difficult, there being more obstacles, rejections and blow outs. BUT, its necessary
:-D.

7/14 Analysis: State

Aright today just did two approaches. The first was a blonde i've seen around all the time. Turns out she was engaged to a dude i know. I hope the best for them. The
2nd was a cute blonde who went to 7'11. I waited in 7'11...i guess i cared what the people around thought if i just opened her while in line(Sometimes im like this for some weird reason)...so i just waited till she left. Then before she's getting in her car, i tell her to stop and that i wanted to meet her. She looks occupied but i still talk about whatever comes in my head, boring stuff pretty much. I then tell her that we can drink some starbucks. She says ok. I tell her to give me her #, she says she doesn't have a phone. I then tell her to put down her email address. Then she says she has to go

NOTE: I should've flat out given my phone to her and told her to put it in as my friend just suggested.

Today i want to talk about the changing of emotional state and my opinion of it.

State in the game tends to most of the time effect how our night or day goes. Usually if we feel good, our night is good. If we feel bad, our night is bad. But sometimes there might be a feeling of "If my state isn't good, then there's no chance is hell i can succeed" I say the true test in the game, is to go through that negative feeling and turn it into positive. I'd give a person more props for sometimes being in a negative state and then getting into a positive state at times than a guy who's always in a good state.

We shouldn't always try to avoid a negative state, as it might get stronger as time goes on. Just like fear, we get through it and over it. How? Asking ourself why we're in that state in the first place? Sure...it might take a lil while to get over naturally, but its better to get rid of it smoothly than trying to quickly force it. Saturday Night my state dropped a lil due to a somewhat bad set. It went away in about 5-10 minutes. Talking to urself internally can def help with this.

Aright for the past two days, day game has been slow. Wednesday i didn't approach, but thursday i did two. The first was at the lab with a hot 1/2 black girl who turned me on when i first looked at her. She noticed me. There was a guy with her working on a project. Since im so use to just gaming lone wolves, i haven't done a group approach in day game in a long time. It took me about 15 minutes to just go up to them. I say to her, "hey i know u guys are working on a project, but i had to tell u...i find u stunning and i have to talk to you" The guy was someone i met before and he was friendly. I just chatted with them about their project. Nothing seduction wise happened after. I kinda was afraid to game her after. But its ok. I'm cutting myself some slack. Next time i see her around, i'll game her flat out.

2nd approach was the gym. Was this cute thin blonde was a nice toned ass. I go up to her directly. She nice and friendly. Just had fluff talk for afew minutes and she told me during the conversation of who she lived with was her fiance' and three dogs. I then decided to cut it short, since i believed her.

Went out again. It wasn't popping that much. There were some girls and some guys. Not really alot to choose from, but the girls still looked good.

1) Was a blonde and a brunette. The blonde was cute and her face looked familiar. Before i go up to anybody, i decided to get two cups of beer to relax me a bit. Also was talking with a friend of mine. After, i notice she looks at me. I then decided that enough waiting. So then i tell her and her friend, "hi" and then that im gonna interrupt their convo for about 20-30 minutes. They're like "20-30 minutes? :-p" I tell them, "nah, just a few minutes. I don't got that much patience :-p" They laugh a little bit. To sum it up, i found out she was a girl i went up to before who's bf worked at the bar. I lost motivation to game her since i remember that. But here's the thing:

DON'T ALWAYS ASSUME! SHE'LL TELL U IF SHE AND HIM ARE STILL DATING!

2) Next was a thick eastern european looking girl. She's with her aright looking friend. I open her by as im about to sit on her lap "Aright...im gonna sit down right here on your lap" She's like "Hey!" haha. So then i introduce myself both to them. I then hear an accident out of her. I then guess to her, "lets see...Russian" She shakes her head, "Ukraine" Shakes it again. I then tell her, am i close? She says Albania. I then tell her, "I would've gotten it in the 20th try". She can't help but to find it a little funny. I then notice her hair and then play with it.

I tell her, "This must've taken you 2 hours to do?" She then looks at her friend and tells her, "He told me that this must've taken two hours to do" lol.
She tells me, "No...10 minutes :S" Then im like, "No shit! Really? How so?" She tells me, "I'm a hair stylist" I ask her, "Can u braid hair?" She says yea. I then tell her, "I could've used a girl like u a few years ago when i had my hair braided" So then i show her my license, and she takes a good look at me and what i use to look like and then she says yea its me. From the whole interaction, initially u'd think she wasn't interested. But i learned through Alex's invisible game that u game her regardless of reactions. That she deep down does have interest. After i play with her hair, i play with her friend's hair saying "Now this must've taken u two hours :-)" then she's like yea. All three of us laugh.

Then afterwards, 2 minute checkout break. I check her rack and then tell her, "I bet my breasts are better than urs >:-)" She says show me. I then tell her, "Well u can feel mine if i can feel urs" So then im about to take her hand, but she's like "No!" (I Think she was thinking that i was trying to grab her breast. haha) Then she and her friend are doing girl code i think, and then she tells me that her bf is right there. The shit testing is now starting. I then am like, "oh when's the wedding?" She give this certain stare or look for about 20 seconds. But i don't back down, and return it without flinching. She asks if i'm playing games. I ignore it and tell her that, "Seriously? When's the wedding? :-p" So then she can't answer it. I'd say my kino was good through this approach. Then i tell her that since she's moving, that we can dance now...and as im taking her hand and about to pull her to the dance floor, she tells me that she doesn't want to dance right now. I tell her, "looks like ur flowing good, i know u want to :-)" She then says that aright. So then after this, i decide that i might not get further in the situation. I decide to leave the set.

I then dance with this redheaded girl and her friend as usual. The albanian girl notices me and is giving me good IOIs. After i dance with the two girls, i talk with more of the guys i knew there sitting down with them. The albanian girl gives me a smile when i raise my eyebrow at her as she's walking. The rule was:

[b]Don't leave a set if u can sense that there is still interest from her[/b]

So then i return to game her somemore, i'd say my kino is good. But yet again, more shit testing. But funny, i kept plowing through. She's like "Your touching me so much" in an offended way. I kinda brushed it off w/o even acknowledging it. I can tell that she wasn't really offended, just conditioning was eating at her. I think she liked how i was gaming her just cared what her friend thought, and of course the friend would try to sabotage me. Sometimes a wingman is needed in situations like these. Oh yea, i think she then told me the bouncer was her bf. It was hilarious. I just wanted her to say, "i'm not interested" or a no. I then invite her and her friend to a cookout i was gonna do the next day. I got her friends number, but the albanian girl kept thinking i was gaming her, which i wasn't anymore hence why i asked for her number.

I decided to just end gaming her. I wasn't going anywhere with it. Didn't try for a kiss close, eventho i mine as well had given it a shot.

3) Was another redhaired girl, whom i met before. She was happy to see me. I just tried to dance with her twice. The mother hen, a tall black girl tried to cockblock me. When i was talking with her. Each time i tried to dance with her, she didn't want to. I kinda felt down cuz i thought i did something wrong. One of those times she mentions a boyfriend. I see her flat out looking for the nearest guy there and she says to him, ur my boyfriend right? Then he looks at her and me, and then says yea. I smile and as im walking away, tell her, "Its aright...u don't got to lie to me" Then she says in a guilted manner, "But he is". I would rather had just say No.

4) A hot nice racked girl whom was in my class junior year and wore glasses was there again. I told you guys about her in another blog. She recognizes me, i give her a hug. Saw her there at Rileys a few times and talked with her each time. I ask where her glasses are. She tells me that she took em off and can't see well. I then tell her, "Yea, but u'll be able to see my face clearly tonight :-p" She laughs. Then i tell her with a laser eye look. Credit Tim. "Its just me and u tonight, just me and u tonight :-)" She asks curiously, "What do you mean? :-)" I tell her, "Me and u are gonna have fun" Here i should've said, "U know what i mean ;-)" After this, she says shyly that she's gonna say hi to a few people she knows. Here i believe that she doesn't want to keep talking to me...and i leave. But this is false.

NOTE: I deserved a punch in the face for this from fellow guys in the game. JUST FUCKING GO WITH HER! SHE JUST GOT THERE! SHE'S GONNA WANNA TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE NATURALLY SINCE SHE JUST ARRIVED THERE.

I the gorgeous brunette, whom i keep seeing around, and her blonde friend arriving at the bar. I talk to them for a few minutes. Couldn't think straight. I was a bit tipsy when they showed up.

Later on, i see she keeps looking at me while she's at a table talking to a few people i know, i didn't want to interrupt one of them gaming her. Then after she was gone from there, one of the guys i knew who i hung out with told me, "She pointed u out. She was talking about u of how friendly and cool u were" He then tells me that im a good guy. I then smile and say thanks to him. I believe this was a good compliment because it shows that the way im gaming girls is going somewhere. That they remember me. Oh yea, while im talking to them, the gorgeous brunette is also sitting with a table of guys and is looking at me a few times. I was almost drunk by this point and couldn't think straight. Oh yea, talk with my friend a bit further and decided to leave.

After i left, i was upset because i thought that i couldn't get any further. That i'd be stuck at this point, not being able to pull. I doubted my ability and actually again, thought that it was too hard for me. But then for the first time in a while, i actually logically thought it was just one night but my emotions wanted to say otherwise. I then was able to think clearly and realized that yea...just another night. And it wasn't as bad as i thought, there weren't enough girls to go around anyhow. Only so much you can do when there's not much to work with.


Analysis:
1) Girls do remember me, from when i game them.
2) I am feeling more sexual when talking to girls
3) I still got to stop assuming they are no longer interested if they're not giving their full 100% attention. Realize the situation.
4) Alcohol is hindering me again. I tend to drink more than i plan. I didn't have as much as say other nights, but still...enough to where it hindered me. So i've decided that for a bit of night game, i'm doing it sober at first. I have to break free of being tense at night game again.
5) Fuck the girls who aren't feeling you. Why care? I know rejection does suck at times, but hey...why pay them any mind? Rejection still is a part of the game.
6) You don't suck. I know u feel that u suck when there's a not so good night, but thats not the reality.
7) The Next Time U Will Go to Rileys, u'll do better
8) No Girl is higher than u, no matter what u think

Things to Improve on:

1) I'm still ejecting too early in some sets.
2) Got to last longer in interactions if there's interest
3) Keep my inner game strong.
4) My persistence is still good. I don't give up that easy anymore.
5) Got to limit cups of beer intake to 1-2 a night, but at first im gonna have to be sober tho.
6) Let the sexual energy flow even more
7) Also watch how much ur touching the girl. Sometimes i have overdone it. Just make sure i don't touch them WAY too much to the point where its like ok...i might have to back off a lil at times if she's uncomfortable
8) Just be confident

Sky's Thoughts on The End of The first part of Summer

Hey everyone, here's another edition of Sky's thoughts!

1) Just recently I've managed to return to the Good Feelings of Direct :-)

2) Its a good thing in the game to when u see a girl u must have, and that u go up to her w/o apology. I tend to hesitate a little to the ones that i don't as much.

3) I'm doing more gym and lab approaches. Which is awesome, considering the fact that those places use to intimidate me in terms of approaching. Got to do the lab when its pretty crowded and aerobics class left and i'd say i can approach almost anywhere at the University. :-)

4) I'm not as frustrated as I use to be, because finally i decided to stop being so attached to outcomes and that success will happen. And i think it will start to show as i was able to meet up with a girl despite it not lasting that long. Thats still progress :-)

5) Girls saying they dont' want to give their number out anymore doesn't bother me, why be concerned with that if they aren't interested? Let them go i say :-)

6) There were afew girls i was getting bent out of shame over at night game for them not being interested when i thought something was there. BUT, then i realized that they aren't anything different than all the other girls i've went up to. They're just 1 of many. Thats def helped me stay motivated.

7) Relistening to badboy and reading up on his material retriggered why i like doing direct, i just really only used it as an opener for a while, somewhat losing that good feeling of why i was doing it.

8) Not having a specific outcome once i approach a girl has gotten me less nervous and less outcome dependent. Things just flow together if they're there and they don't if they aren't there.

9) I use to be hesitant after opening doing "Tell me about urself" But now i decided to do it more often. U say u want to get to know her, so why not get to know her? I think its working better for me. Plus u start with rapport :-)

10) Honestly, i don't feel alive unless im gaming. Even if i took a break, deep down in my soul i must be in the game!

11) The guys who've confronted me and tried to start shit cuz of me gaming a certain girl or whatever, i no longer have a grudge against them. Why? Because i realized who they truly were(someone that i shouldn't even be acknowledging that much) and no need to be bent out of shape over it as im still the better man.

12) When i was younger, i never thought that this was possible. Who would've thought that i can actually get better with girls?

13) Andrew, drewpua.blogspot.com, your doing awesome man with ur sarging and doing Jason's drills! I'm glad we're both doing well. In August, we'll def be sarging together, having drinks together and as always be good pals!

14) Summer Session II will be alot less girls, but i'll do the best i can in finding them.