Firstly, i won't be able to game in the DC area for a bit, because i got a speeding ticket which depleted the rest of the graduation money i used for gas to sarge. So now i can only game nearby. But hey, looks like i'll be doing day game again and night game...i guess i can only do it local.
Aright, i haven't updated much as usual because not much in my ability has changed, except for noticing more of my issues and sticking points...
For The Night Time:
1) Pressured the girls too much it looks like, confused this with persistence
2) Was so caught up in isolating a girl, that i forgot that i can do it fine.
3) Revealing my intent more, should be more bold with it though.
4) Didn't go firm ALL THE WAY, would revert back to more safe conversation cuz its what i've done for a while. But i'll stop this but its no problem if it comes up.
5) Pressured the kiss too much, rather than do it with persistence and get both of us turned on.
6) Didn't find out if a girl wanted to hook up. Was so concerned with playing around her social conditioning that i never figured that some were def down to fuck.
7) Going to be more bold again, and not look back.
For Day Time:
1) Revealing my intentions more. I've decided to do this again, and i won't go back. I don't plan on playing it safe anymore, unless its multiple girls where i'll tone it down a bit.
As i've said before, won't post field reports until something awesome happens. But i do notice that when i was more bold back a year and a half ago...things to be working better for me than when i toned it down. Sure i got more meetups when i was less bold, but nothing happened. Looks like i'm returning to doing mode one again lol
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Friday, March 13, 2009
Upcoming Game Plan
Decided to day game ONCE a week and Night game TWICE a week. Day game i do one day a week so i don't get bored nor sicked of it but still stay consistent. Night game i always like.
Short Update
Turns out it was the venues in Georgetown that were giving me trouble, not my game itself. Looks like i just got to find venues that make pickup easier, including logistics. Tonight feel good that i noticed certain things. But i still got ways to go. We'll see :)
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Returning to the Game
Aright, after a month off. I've finally began gaming again. I've done the mall afew times, where i've only number closed a few. The mall feels like a chore right now, so I'm gonna put a hold on it. I'm not afraid,its just i should be excited to go pickup at the mall. It just used up a lot of energy. Night game is more exciting to me for right now. I've done night game for the past 3 weeks(once each week). I plan to do it much more often as time goes on but only when the money comes in.
Been doing Georgetown for the past few weeks. I think im at the same point as I was at Radford, except I haven't really kiss closed yet or flat out isolate the girl. Thats what i got to work on. I think there are more things i can work on. I start out well, but things fizzle a bit. Plus i think i try to force isolation a bit too much at times, BUT its good that I atleast go for it as if the girl literally doesn't want to move 5 feet away from her friends, then how in the world will i fuck her that night? haha.
One thing i'm gonna work on to improve is to try isolating her where its more on a high note, where the resistence isn't that high. With all else, i'll go for it. Another thing is go to my local lair, and they can pinpoint out what i'm doing wrong. But it will just be of the guys who do the direct style, and don't do routines. Cuz their advice will be stupid like "U didn't DHV her" or whatever bullshit.
Im gonna post my Field Reports again on here but really only when i advanced at a point as right now, it'd be the same old stuff.
Been doing Georgetown for the past few weeks. I think im at the same point as I was at Radford, except I haven't really kiss closed yet or flat out isolate the girl. Thats what i got to work on. I think there are more things i can work on. I start out well, but things fizzle a bit. Plus i think i try to force isolation a bit too much at times, BUT its good that I atleast go for it as if the girl literally doesn't want to move 5 feet away from her friends, then how in the world will i fuck her that night? haha.
One thing i'm gonna work on to improve is to try isolating her where its more on a high note, where the resistence isn't that high. With all else, i'll go for it. Another thing is go to my local lair, and they can pinpoint out what i'm doing wrong. But it will just be of the guys who do the direct style, and don't do routines. Cuz their advice will be stupid like "U didn't DHV her" or whatever bullshit.
Im gonna post my Field Reports again on here but really only when i advanced at a point as right now, it'd be the same old stuff.
More on Logistics from SINN
Logistics are really what separates the men from the boys, so to speak.
In your scenario, the odds were already against you.
She's staying at a coworker's house, they have something to do the next morning, and they were tired...
I would not even try to pull a set with those logistics, I'd get a phone number and go try to find another girl with better logistics.
The Magic logistics gathering questions are:
What's on the agenda for later?- This is the equivalent of "wanna fuck?" in modern barspeak. Plus it lets you seed the pull for later. I use this in the first 10 minutes EVERYTIME.
Did you guys meet here or come together?- You have to find out what the travel situation is. Ideally they met at the venue and the girl you're interested in drove herself.
Do you have work tomorrow?- Let's you find out how late she can reasonably stay up.
In your specific situation Steve, you would want to use Captain Jack (www.Masssexualframing.com)'s classic line,
" You guys are leaving already? I'm so not ready for my night to end."
Then I would have asked the girls to drive me to my car and directed them out of the bar's parking lot towards my place. You never want to go to a girl's place if you can avoid it.
Hope that helps,
Til next time,
Sinn
In your scenario, the odds were already against you.
She's staying at a coworker's house, they have something to do the next morning, and they were tired...
I would not even try to pull a set with those logistics, I'd get a phone number and go try to find another girl with better logistics.
The Magic logistics gathering questions are:
What's on the agenda for later?- This is the equivalent of "wanna fuck?" in modern barspeak. Plus it lets you seed the pull for later. I use this in the first 10 minutes EVERYTIME.
Did you guys meet here or come together?- You have to find out what the travel situation is. Ideally they met at the venue and the girl you're interested in drove herself.
Do you have work tomorrow?- Let's you find out how late she can reasonably stay up.
In your specific situation Steve, you would want to use Captain Jack (www.Masssexualframing.com)'s classic line,
" You guys are leaving already? I'm so not ready for my night to end."
Then I would have asked the girls to drive me to my car and directed them out of the bar's parking lot towards my place. You never want to go to a girl's place if you can avoid it.
Hope that helps,
Til next time,
Sinn
Friday, January 2, 2009
Happy New Years and My New Years Resolution
Hi everyone. Its been one year since I've been doing the game at a true consistent rate. I'm proud to say that i've stuck by it this long. I remember back in 2006 summer is where all this started. I wanted to go chase my dream. It was a really good experience and was quite funny how much i changed over the course of 6 semesters(Including a summer session of school). I still got many years ahead in this.
I truly feel alive doing still, even i've repeated myself many times. Its funny, back when i was younger i never pictured i'd do this. Never, haha. I thought i'd be oblivious to the world, whatever fate wanted to give me. Knowing that it was possible to get what i wanted, was one of the best feelings in the entire world. I never thought that it would become a passion and be what made me feel alive.
Sure some guys would say, "There's more to life than women" Ha...u could say the same about any other skill. "There's more to life than bodybuilding" or "There's more to life than Math". This ain't all my life, but it is a big part, because i plan to work hard at it.
2009 will be no different. I got a lot of gaming to do. So much to do also upcoming in the next decade. I now get to game at larger scale places, where I'll more of an advantage to get what i want. But during this, i still plan to also get some lays on college campuses. :-)
I think even after all the clubbing and mall game, i'm gonna def want to go back and finish what i started with it. But without further ado, my goals for 2009:
1)Get Rid of My 4 year Dry Spell
2)Go to the clubs/bars consistently 3 nights a week
3)Do day game consistently 1-2 days a week
4)Go back down to 190lbs, i weight 230 right now
I believe once the game picks up, i'll put the bitter thoughts of doing college game behind me. I won't keep thinking about it. All that matters now is i do the game here. All that matters is i succeed where i need to.
I truly feel alive doing still, even i've repeated myself many times. Its funny, back when i was younger i never pictured i'd do this. Never, haha. I thought i'd be oblivious to the world, whatever fate wanted to give me. Knowing that it was possible to get what i wanted, was one of the best feelings in the entire world. I never thought that it would become a passion and be what made me feel alive.
Sure some guys would say, "There's more to life than women" Ha...u could say the same about any other skill. "There's more to life than bodybuilding" or "There's more to life than Math". This ain't all my life, but it is a big part, because i plan to work hard at it.
2009 will be no different. I got a lot of gaming to do. So much to do also upcoming in the next decade. I now get to game at larger scale places, where I'll more of an advantage to get what i want. But during this, i still plan to also get some lays on college campuses. :-)
I think even after all the clubbing and mall game, i'm gonna def want to go back and finish what i started with it. But without further ado, my goals for 2009:
1)Get Rid of My 4 year Dry Spell
2)Go to the clubs/bars consistently 3 nights a week
3)Do day game consistently 1-2 days a week
4)Go back down to 190lbs, i weight 230 right now
I believe once the game picks up, i'll put the bitter thoughts of doing college game behind me. I won't keep thinking about it. All that matters now is i do the game here. All that matters is i succeed where i need to.
Thursday, January 1, 2009
12/29: Lack of Good Targets at Mall
My god...Potomac Mills Mall sucks during the weekday for really good targets. My first was a black girl, tall...pretty cute...but she was taken. The second was a thick blonde woman, who said she was taken. Turns out she was as i saw her bf holding hands with her, i saw her looking at me...but i guess i still have an issue with myself to where i feel if i look at the girl, it'll just satisfy her ego. The third was a pretty dark haired brunette woman, she was only 20(looked about my age, 22). She was taken as well. After those 3, didn't really see anymore that i really wanted to go up to. It was a weekday after all. I guess weekends are mall time! :-)
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