M1

Aright, have done M1 for the past few weeks and the reactions are shocking. It wasn't as scary in the day time as i thought. Hell, some of the women seem to be more sexually into me cuz of it while others just weren't interested. Also, the women seemed to be much less creeped out surprisingly. Sure, some have been uncomfortable with me being upfront, naturally but i think its only cuz its more of an overwhelming feeling than say a freaked out feeling. That's for day. At night, the women tend to respond in even funnier ways. They comment on how im bold and pretty forward, while 1 girl was seriously offended.

12/29: Lack of Good Targets at Mall

My god...Potomac Mills Mall sucks during the weekday for really good targets. My first was a black girl, tall...pretty cute...but she was taken. The second was a thick blonde woman, who said she was taken. Turns out she was as i saw her bf holding hands with her, i saw her looking at me...but i guess i still have an issue with myself to where i feel if i look at the girl, it'll just satisfy her ego. The third was a pretty dark haired brunette woman, she was only 20(looked about my age, 22). She was taken as well. After those 3, didn't really see anymore that i really wanted to go up to. It was a weekday after all. I guess weekends are mall time! :-)

12/26 & 12/28: Two Days of Mall Game

Aright everyone, firstly i wanted to say that my final night of gaming at Radford was meh. I did some approaches, and i did get to game this hot blonde again. But she had a boyfriend, i tried to kiss her...she declined...but was shocked that i went for it. I told her i was by myself, but she thought i was alone and didn't want me to be by myself, i'm like thinking, "C'mon now! I did this on purpose for god sakes!"

12/26
Aright, i meet up with four other guys. One of them had an insta-date later in the night, one of them got about 4 numbers, and one of them did a few. Now as for me...I did about 8 approaches. The first one went fine, just that i let her go too soon, was this very attractive vietnamese woman with highlights, she looked like she was about to go but she didn't leave when i kept talking to her. I gave up that one too soon. The other 6, the women were either on a rush or they said no thanks. One of the fine ones was a two set walking. I stopped both of them, they were hot girls but too young.haha. The last one, my god was this beautiful Russian Woman. Tall, blonde, and thin...but had a nice rack. My god...near a 9. I went up to her, and she was VERY RECEPTIVE. This one was hard for me to do, cuz she was with 3 guys, BUT then they were friendly too. They were russian as well. I chatted with them for a few minutes and forgot to address the woman and we parted ways. Man she was hot as hell. I should've talked to her for a few minutes and then went for the number. Oh well. I was rusty, im getting use to it.

12/28
Aright, me and Boris wing together today. We arrive at a different mall at 3:00. I forgot how much i did, but the first 5 approaches, i got rejected. I felt a lil down, but then i decided to not give up. Boris told me that i was monotone w/o realizing it for one of the approaches, and that helped me a good deal. The next approach was an iranian woman, whom could speak good english. She was hot, and i wanted her. was receptive but she said her boyfriend was outside. But i kept talking to her and then ejected. I could've just flat out prolly tired to do an instadate with her despite the bf thing but like i said, im still rusty. The next was this girl who from the back had nice tits and good height. Turns out she was 18 and she was cute in the face, just not as hot as i thought she'd be. Talk to her for a few minutes ,get her number but its prolly a flake since i called it and got no answer to check to see if it was real.

But one thing i realized was that i was afraid to use sexy opening. I will do it! Especially with really hot girls whom i def find sexy.

8/28 Final Mall Sarge

Aright today, i managed to do the 20 approaches. I wasn't able to do the drills unfortuantely, but this was the most i've done ever in one day of all i've gamed. Half way into it, i was tired. I had some starbucks and decided to keep on going. There's no need for me to go on the exact specific approaches, but i can just say i got rejected off the bat about 8 times. 7 of the women were taken. 5 More weren't single, to which i went for insta-date attempts but they declined.

This was definitely a good lesson for me as then I knew that i did good sticking through, but also that there is much i can def improve with.

8/27 Penultimate Mall Sarge

Aright this will be short, since this was to get me in the swing of things YET again. I get rusty easy unless i go out day game or night game atleast 2-3 times a week.

Today at the mall, i opened about 8 girls. These are the ones i vaguely remember. I was unprepared and in my own head, and chose last minute to go. I decided to give it a shot.

#1 Was a cute latina. She wore glasses. She was receptive, but she was just visiting her cousins. She was pretty friendly, even telling me how she's inspired by god. I told her that its good that she felt the experience. I told her my experience about faith. So in a sense, i opened up myself. I met her 1st and 2nd cousins. They were friendly, thought her cousin was her mom. Was hilarious. Got her hotmail.

#2 Middle Eastern Girl. Hot as hell. I stopped her, she was 1/2 way about to walk away. But she was hearing me out. This was funny, she said she had to go BUT she didn't leave. She said sorry twice. But from what i could sense, i think there was some interest, if i just was more relaxed today.

#3 A GORGEOUS latina woman with highlights. My god this woman was beautiful. She goes in the store, i stop her. She's smiling but is still somewhat walking. I ask her what she's shopping for and bladdy blah, she says jeans or whatever. I def could've persisted more here, just let her go too fast.

#4 Italian Girl with glasses. Nice Rack. Stopped her. She was shy, but receptive. But she was engaged and was about to meet up with her dad who was looking at sneakers. Was shocked she was italian(Thought she was 1/2 latino), she thought i had some asian in me.haha. She showed me the rock on her finger. She was hot.

#5 Outside of a Mostly woman's store, stopped a woman leaving but she was on a rush

#6 Was a cute asian girl who was on a rush to get back to work. But she was pretty nice. Me, just tryin to get a bit relaxed before school told her that its fine, but she didn't leave after like 3-4 seconds :-)

#7 Was a cute late 20s woman. She was a little on "What do i do?" reaction side. But then i learned a good lesson. I opened up to her about myself to where i can tell she felt a little bit more relaxed and more open. Even gave me advice on jobs lol. Sure it wasn't the most exciting conversation but i don't think it was that bad.

I forgot the last approach.

But today all in all was a good prep for tomorrow, to where i'll be stepping it up. Im gonna go attempt the drills. I'm gonna do 20 approaches. 10 lone and possibly 10 with 2 sets or more. We'll see how it goes :-). One thing i def can improve on is to be a bit more calm when im a lil in my head.

Drills For Day Game

Aright, there are only two more days im gonna go to the mall and one more night of going out.

I would say this month of doing mall game has gotten me almost as relaxed as i was back then during the summer at Radford. Only 6 days left, till i return. I am feeling excited, yet also still having some doubts. I kinda fear that all i've been doing will still not be enough to atleast have some lays in the fall. But the key is to have faith and confidence. There will be alot more girls to choose for than before, and their easier. So i'm gonna have to go full force.

Now the drills im gonna tomorrow out of these are not as much but are to have me officially be as relaxed as i was and a little bit more. PLUS, to then have conversation add with emotions. The drills:

1) Approach 10-20 Women. 10 if not that many targets, 20 if there plenty.

2) BF objection drill. If a woman says she has a bf, ignore it/say "Cool"/"aright"/"Awesome". Keep talking.

3) She walks away drill. If a woman walks away, tell her she's too classy to walk away when someone is talking to her.

OPTIONAL: Rude Response Drill. If a woman acts rudely, like she ignores u or acts in a geuninely bitchy way, "Why are u acting like this? Why can't u just be yourself? Where i'm from...people are real, if ur not gonna be real...i'm gonna walk away"

4) Resistence Drill. Don't give up at the first sign of resistence. Women will sometimes refuse to do what you want them to do. Dont' be fazed by it and don't walk away. Stay in there. Talk a little more. Get to know her and spend a little moretime with her then try again. Next time you feel like walking away, stop for a second, stay an extra minute or two, then give it a shot.

5) Woman in a rush drill. If a woman is in a hurry drill. When she say "Uhmmm, I'm in a hurry, I need to do my shopping" say "That's cool. After we get _______ for five minutes, you can go on with your shopping...and besides, it might only take three minutes..."

6) Go First Drill. For the 1st approach that sticks, instead of asking where she's from...tell her about where ur from. Instead of sayin "How are you?" U say ", you have no idea why"

7) At a blank drill. If i sometimes have no idea what else to talk about, cold read. Assume what kind of woman she is. This is only if i have trouble thinking of what else to say.

8) Emotional Connection Drill-For each approach where the woman is there, do the build familiarty step. If things can develop further, Build substance.


1) Build Familiarity:
Goals and aspirations, Traveling, Passions, Favorite films and music, Ideal vacation
Concerts and theatres, Relationships, Family, Love, Animals, Youth, Fitness, Love, Animals, Art

2) Building Substance:
Solidifies connection between you. Its only something close friends do.
Most things women till u are gold, once u barreled through her persona.

-Active Listening: Rephrase and Feedack.Ask Questions. Summarize what she tells u. Shut up and listen to her
-Finding Her Core Value: Find out the underlying motivator that drives her to do the things she loves to do, once u find them out...relate to them, then reward her for opening up. This encourages her
-Social Learning theory and The Power of Conditioning
-Emotional Connectoin Accelerator: Leading with your passions

9) Sexual Vibe Drill. Do this drill once ur able to do the others.

I'll do most of these drills tomorrow. I'll remember each of these. 8 i'll only try to really do build familiarity first. 9 doesn't have to come for a while.

8/22 The Mall Again. Less attachment to outcome

Aright, the previous day i was supposed to get my tooth extracted, but it turned out the wisdom tooth's roots were jammed in the bone near the gums, the dentist was working on it for 4 1/2 hours with an hour of wait time in between. It sucked as i wanted it over with and what was worse was that he couldn't get it out. Then today i was suppose to get the last of it, but then he recommended me to an oral surgeon. Thank God! They'll just have me be flat out knocked out cold, while they taken it out. But since it wasn't until tomorrow, i decided to be productive...Mall Time.

Aright when i get to the mall, i feeling even more relaxed than last time. I decided, to not lose motivation or get too much of an attachment to outcome, so i decided to just do 10 again.

wat was funny was that these ones went by fast.

#1 Pretty Strawberry Blonde woman pretty receptive but married

#2 Cute girl i stopped, said no thanks

#3 Was a latino girl with dyed white/blonde hair. Declined politely.

#4 Was a hot, thick latina girl with wild light brunette hair. She was very receptive. talked to her for a few minutes, her interest was good...but she was 16 :-(

#5 Was a pretty faced white woman. I then noticed the alpha dog in affect, i focused on her and i could really see her beauty. I go up to her, she's pretty receptive but she's married(Her age, plus she seemed genuine)

#6 Redhead with long hair and freckles. Jackpot! These last 4 approaches were in the same store. She was pretty receptive, even showing some interest. What i noticed was that i talked about myself freely, and was relaxed. I then go for an insta-date attempt and she says she can't as she's taken. I then sensed that she said it in a genuine way, but u can't be too sure.

NOTE: Hmm...i guess in the future i should still try to persist a lil. No harm in it.

#7 Was a stunning black haired, middle eastern/latino woman. I saw her from the floor below, and tried to catch up to her. When she walks in teh store, from behind i tell her "Excuse me..." She notices me, "i tell her...I find you so stunning....i need to talk to u" She then tells me that she's on a rush and i tell her it'll only take a minute and that it took me 5 minutes to catch up to her. She declined again politely. Then i notice as she's going to fitting room, she looks at me a certain way but i didn't really in her eyes back(I thought that if i did, it'd feed her ego), but i should be at the point where i don't care about their ego being filled...i should be that sure of myself as an aspiring playboy.

#8 Was a black haired, pale skinned hot white woman. She was hot! This was in express. I then see where she's going and go direct. She gives the usual laugh as quite a few women do. I then hear she has an accent and i guess that she's Romanian but she says she's polish. I then tell her, "yea..i tend to always guess wrong...but sometimes out of the blue for the weirdest reason i can guess right for certain people" she giggles a little. I then notice some clothes she's looking at, and then i point to one and says it'll be good on her. she agrees saying that they're nice and that she's looking at them. I then tell her its sexy, but i dont' look at her i was looking at the mini skirt, teasing about the length. I then do the "tell me about urself" deal. She smiles a lil and asks what do u want to know, and i say "everything" She cracks up a bit. I then tell her that we can start small and she tells me she was in the states for 6 years,and that she finds that its such a place where people work so much and she says that she misses the fun she had back in Poland.

i tell her that i'd prolly visit europe and russia someday(I plan to) and that it's good to travel. From what im reading out of her, she was looking at clothes but was looking at me at various times. I'd say my face looked calm, relaxed and had a smile. I think she felt comfortable as my presence seemed confident i might add. As we're talking about travel, i then tell her that after she buys what she wants to buy, that we're gonna go over to the starbucks over there...but she decline and is walking away telling me that she's got to go. I tell her it'd only be 5 minutes, but she declines politely.

Here i believe i did fine, just that she wasn't THAT interested eventho there could've been some.

#9 Was a thick brunette with a black dress and a face i was drawn to walking through the hallway, i notice her from like 60 feet away. I then see she's walking toward the direction i'm about to walk at. I stop her, she's receptive but is taken.

#10 Was a pink dressed, thick very cute 1/2 latino girl. She's holding dresses. I go direct. She's excited but tells me that she's definitely on a rush trying some stuff on. I smile and laugh and tell her it'd only be for a minute or two, but she says that her stuff is in the dressing room and that there's a line. Was that same store i did the other approaches.

#11 Cute black girl i saw looking at glasses. She laughs and has a smile on her face, but at the place the manager comes to ask if she needed help, and she was looking for a job there. so i decided not to interrupt.


Aright, today all in all was still a learning experience...

What i improved on...
1) Definitely getting more relaxed, was my sole intention
2) Still going for insta-date attempts
3) Do a time constraint in case she is tied up for time, but its DURING the approach if she appears to somewhat be busy.
4) Did multiple approaches in the same store, and "risked" for myself...that the other girls i had approached before would see me. Still got to work on that tho.
5) less hesitation for approaches
6) My eye contact is def better....im looking people back in the eyes again. The alpha dog def helped me.
7) Less concerned with outcome.

Things that still need work
1) Looking girls in the eyes after i approached them and they rejected or declined talking further for whatever reason. I sometimes didn't as i didn't want to feed their ego that i was still chasing them, but thats bullshit. i am more sure of myself and don't have to have that affect my own ego

2) 2+ sets, hesitate not from fear but committment of diving attention. It seems less effort at night than day, as night i've been use to it for so long and day, i was so focused on lone wolves, that i find that i'd do 2 sets later on in the game during day.

3) Persist a little more if a woman rejects an insta-date invitation. To try again after a few minutes. Prolly just got to do calibration. The ebook: Daytime pickup revealed...i'm gonna reread it again to have it help improve my day game.

4) Still don't think i'm fully relaxed and fearless going in all ladies stores still. But im getting to that point again.

5) If i get rejected, i guess its still hard for me to immediately stop another woman walking by immediately....i'm gonna work on that too.

Today each of the girls were good looking and i believe i got rejected less because my face looked looser and i had a warm, calm expression on my face.

8/19 Hard Work Pays off and Something Unexpected...

Today i decide to go to the mall again to stay consistent and to be more relaxed again. When i arrive there, im feeling tense. Its showing in my face, and my body eventho when i walk slow...its sometimes can be hard to tell as i can appear stiff. When i get there, i don't see too many "hot" targets at first. But I do what i can. I also notice that im feeling a lil self conscious that people may sense my vibe of going there to pickup girls(negative light) but that was complete nonsense. Some people were looking at me most likely, because im a handsome guy and/or i had a yellow polo. Course it'll stick out. But when i made eye contact with women, i didn't have a smile on my face.

I'm gonna work on that again, being flat out comfortable with e/c and smiling with girls walking by.

Today i'll just summarize quick:

First 2 approaches women were gorgeous but were married, 4 approaches the women just walked away after i stopped them, 1 asian girl didn't want to talk further was preoccupied with texting her mom who she was meeting up with.

But then...

7th approach was a thick girl. I liked what i saw, she had big tits, had a few extra pounds but i def liked it. As she's walking ahead of me, i just turn her around and tell her i find her cute and want to talk to her. I can tell she was taken back(I sorta thought she might not had been interested) but as i talked to her more and more, she was opening up more and more. I could tell she was the shy kind at the end. the convo we had, i completey forget but i do remember then telling her we can talk further at starbucks, but she tells me that she's gotta leave in 20. I then tell her its perfect time. So then we arrive there, and i can tell she's still feeling taken back by the situation, even acknowledging that it was random. I then smile and tell her that she'll remember me easier. From getting to know her, i enjoyed talking to her. We had similiar tastes, and everything. She told me that it was good that i kept things going and she said she doesn't usually know what to say sometimes. From what i sensed, there was interest...but she still wasn't fully relaxed. I then go for the number, but she tells me she's very busy and everything, i keep persisting...telling her that it'll be aright...i'll call to see when she's free next week. But then she declines, i then tell her that it was still great chatting with her.

NOTE: I felt a surge of happiness here, because it happened out of the blue. You just don't know what to expect in the game, especially when u feel the day will suck. i wanted to leave again...but i decided to stick through it...and it got me somewhere.


#8 Was the hottest woman i went up to. She's shopping, i go up to her directly feeling more relaxed and happy, and she had a smile on her face. She was pretty receptive. She had a good sense of humor about her, she looked at me a few times, while i got to know her, as she was shopping. I tell her im just chilling at the mall, she then says, "making girls uncomfortable eh?" this was obviously a joke, but i got so caught off guard by it that i actually answered it serioulsy by saying thats not how i roll.hahaha. Course then after i realized she was teasing, it then got out of my mind. After a minute or two, i tell her that we can have coffee at the mall in a few days and i go for the number(I couldn't do an insta-date since she was with her younger cousin)...but she tells me its pretty forward. I tell her "so be it :-)" I persist a lil but then she declines. I then tell her it was still good talking to her tho.

NOTE: this is further proof, the hottest women u approach directly will be the most receptive. Each day, its always the ones im most attracted to who respond the most positive.

The Last approach was tall, slim, redheaded woman. I wanted her! I go up to her while she's in the store getting pants. I tell her that i tried to catch up to her but she walked too fast. She's receptive at first, but her face wasn't as stunning as i thought eventho it was still cute. After a minute or two, she told me it was good meeting me, i didn't care to try to continue as i was tired by that point.

All in all, im glad i still set the 10 approach limit...that really worked out for me to keep going and to keep motivation. Rejection is also affecting me less...so my callace is still strong. Happy I got another day 2/insta-date. Hell it was my first insta-date at the mall, now thats progress!

8/17 When there's doubt, keep going and it'll be out

Aright everyone, today i decided to go to Fair Oaks Mall as i want to switch up between Tysons and it. Let me just say that for this day, my goal was just to get more relaxed as i was when i did campus. But also, i realized that i needed to be familiar with rejection a little bit more. So then i decided, instead of doubting and worrying that i won't have what it takes since im still not through the rustiness, that i'll get it handled.

#1 Woman coming up from the escalater. She looked middle eastern. I do the stop hand motion. She's pretty receptive but she says she's actually meeting up with her boyfriend.

#2 Was a cute short brunette girl. I had to follow her and i approach her from behind while she's walking. She is somewhat receptive, but then since she looked young, i asked her age and she says 16.

#3 Was an indian looking woman with glasses and a baseball cap. She's looking at clothes. I turn her around. She tells me she's married, i thought she'd have an accent of some sort. I then see as i leave, she gives a weird look.

#4 Was a pretty middle eastern woman. She's waiting for something i think. I go up to her with the Stunning opening, and she's like with a confused look "mmm...what?" I then tell her again and she says "pleeease". I then decide to walk away.

NOTE: In the future, don't leave.

#5 A cute tall brunette girl walking out of American Eagle, i see her and tell her to stop from the side. I go direct, she smiles somewhat but says she's gotta go. I'm still talking to her but she ignores it.

#6 Gorgeous Asian Woman. I notice her going up the escalator and i know that i wanted to meet her. So then i tell her to stop from behind. After opening, she declines.

NOTE: I'm feeling a little frustrated, as 5 of the sets were wood. I wanted to go home, as i found it pointless. But then i decided that i'll do my last 4 approaches as i got to push myself. That i won't leave until i fulfill it.

#7 Was in express. Was a cute blonde girl. I open her, and she's very receptive. I was shocked, she was smiling while i said my opening line. Convo was easy with her, plus she had wit. We talked for a few minutes about whatever and turns out she's gonna be a sophmore at JMU. After 5 minutes, i then do an insta-date attempt with her, but she says that she'll ask her friend over there if its ok(was a guy, and i then realized that it was her bf) so then i smiled and said ok. Told her it was good meeting her.

After i see afew more women i want to go up to in the store, but didn't want the previous woman to notice me doing it.

NOTE: This is a belief i got to destroy. Caring what a girl whom nothing could develop and was happy.. cares about if she sees me go approach another girl. Who cares?

#8 The next girl looked young, and i wasn't sure how young. some girls who looked young turned out to be my age. So i decided to go up to her anyhow. I say hi and she's pretty receptive, as im opening her attitude changes(More like she didn't know how to react), i then ask her age and she tells me 13.I'm like "WHAT?!!! no way in hell u look 13" I then leave immediately.haha.

#9 Was a redhead with glasses with big tits, jackpot! Her face was not bad, but her thickness made up for that. I then go up to her, and she's pretty receptive. I have her tell me about herself. Tells me she's looking for clothes and where lives in the area. She too had a wit about her. I go for an insta-date attempt with her too, but then she tells me how she's actually taken and then says in a funny, joking way that she's not that kind of woman(one who'd cheat). I then laugh too.

After this, i then had one fear i wanted to destroy again. Going into an all female store. In the past, it didn't matter to me but lately, i've had that fear. Before going in, i was afraid but then i decided to man up and when i put my foot in there,that fear was no longer there at the moment. Also, wats even more funny is there was a men's section in the store after i stepped foot in there.

while there, one thing that i won't forget for a while. This HB9 Middle Eastern Woman(long jet black hair, very nice sized rack), was giving me eye contact but i thought it was more looking at me just because i was near the female section. What an idiot i was haha. I gotta work on my eye contact and facial expression when walking around looking at random girls.

Most people didn't care i was there. After that, i decided to do one last approach to fulfill the 10.

#10 was a pretty faced thick woman. I liked what i saw. I did the stop hand motion. She was receptive, (I thought she was gonna walk away) but she didn't. We talked for afew minutes, turns out that she was married(I think i saw a ring on her). She was nice.

All in all, im glad i didnt' give up and kept going despite the first 6 approaches being meh. I felt much better as the day was done and my relaxation was coming back to me.

8/15: What is going on with this tenseness?

Aright, it was two weeks since that i had gone to the mall. I had slacked off for two reasons. Firstly, i lost motivation since i believed most women there weren't single and that it would be pointless to go. Secondly, i was a bit afraid that i couldn't handle the fear and nervousness associated with walking around looking for girls.

I decided that i was gonna atleast return to the relaxation that i had. I don't remember the 4 approaches i did, but i do remember that it took me a lil bit to get relaxed. I was even afraid to step inside women's stores. I decided that i'm gonna get some of this tenseness handled. But it was a beast i tell ya

One of the four girls was asian, had a black dress, long hair, cute. Turns out she was taken.

The other one i remember was this hot long haired blonde girl. She was thin and tall. I saw her from the 2nd floor go into a jeans store. All i knew looking at her was that she was for me. I wanted her. I then go to the first floor and go into the store she we into. She was kneeling down looking into jeans. I then tell her that i found her very stunning and that i must talk to her. She was very receptive. I was shocked. She literally stood up and had a big smile on her face and was looking right at me. And when i saw her full front, DAMN! Definitely a 9 atleast. I was happy. From what i remember, i just got some rapport from her, told her to talk about herself. Just typical talk, then i told her that we should have some starbucks nearby. She says that she's gotta buy jeans first, then after that i told her that it'll be after...she tells me her bf works in the jeans store nearby.

NOTE: If she was telling the truth or lying its hard to say.

I believed her and parted ways. If this was the usual relaxed me, i think i would've persisted a lil bit more regardless of her saying she has a bf. Im not gonna analyze further since it was a few days ago.

The other two i still can't remember. I decided to leave early considering that i wasn't getting any more relaxed and i just wanted to go home.

7/31 Mall Game...Discouraging?

Aright, today i went to Fair Oaks Mall and there were a fair amount of targets.

#1 Was a cute blonde mixed girl. I was wondering if i should stop her, considering that she was cute but not too special. So i decide to stop her and go direct. She rejected it by saying "I gotta go".

#2 Was a gorgeous brown complexion indian/middle eastern girl. I go direct on her. She's receptive but at the same time, i could tell she didn't know how to react to the situation. I tell her i'm gonna walk with her. I get to know her a little bit. We talked for about 5-7 minutes, until we're at express. I tell her that i'm gonna look in there too. When we arrive, i tell her that we're gonna have coffee in a few days. She says that this is weird. I could tell it was not common for. I keep persisting, by getting my phone out and tell her to give me her number. She then again says this is weird, and i tell her "So be it :-)". I then am about to dial but then she politely declines. Hey, what can i say? I tried with this.

#3 Was a blonde woman who was looking at clothes in the same store. She was pretty. I go up to her, she is smiling but she also "doesn't know how to handle the situation" and she tells me she's taken but she says it in a genuine way.

#4 Nice cleaveged indian girl i stop. I stop her as she's walking, she's receptive but she tells me she's taken and on a rush.

#5 A middle eastern woman, she's walking and i stop her. I tell her that i saw her and had to make sure i made it in time to meet her and that she's really gorgeous. She's receptive, but her too...she was taken. But then she said she was glad that i went up to her tho.

NOTE: Most women will look you in the eye if they're telling you the truth, or will go into specifics. If they're lying, they won't look at u when they say it or they'll just say they got a boyfriend.

I went up to a few more women but nothing developed out of those.

All in all, i felt a lil disappointed that nothing developed further for the day. I had this feeling of "A woman just wants to shop, she wouldn't want to talk further even if she's receptive" But that is ludacrous. Its a numbers game. The more u approach in one day, more likely the greater the chance of an insta-date happening.

Also, i wore myself out too fast...walking around looking for girls to go up to. Tysons Mall i wasn't as tired, because every where i looked...there were women i could go up to, plus i enjoyed it more :-). That pretty much contributed to wanting to leave.

Next Time i go to the mall, i believe things will be more encouraging. Just one of those days, and the funny thing is...i only got rejected once from the approach, so it wasn't bad...just wanted something more to happen :-)

7/27 Video Blog on Today's Approaches at the Mall

Here's a video of me summarizing my approaches at the mall as a video post rather than text:

http://www.veoh.com/videos/v15355963NwXFNkgK

NOTE: I tried to just embed the video but it was being gay.

7/26 The Mall Today

Aright people, today i went to the mall to get a feel for mall approaches again by just walking around the mall. Before i would leave, im feeling a lil nervousness considering I'm not sure how it will go. But then as i am driving there, im starting to feel some nostalgia of when i first did mall approaches. I could see some of these memories flashing by as I'm driving there.

When i step foot inside the mall, i am shocked at how familiar this was. I was more relaxed than i had thought. As i'm looking around, its mostly hispanic families, almost 90% of the people walking through the mall were hispanic. So...those options were out.

But i did manage while getting use to the mall do 4 approaches.

#1 Was a cute blonde girl looking at frames. As she's about to leave, i tell her to stop. I then tell her find her cute and that im gonna talk to her. She's pretty receptive. Turns out she's an incoming freshman at a nearby university. We talk for two minutes, i meet her mom who's pretty friendly. We then part ways.

Remember, today was "Get a feel for it again" day

#2 Was an attractive midlengthed brunette. I give her a 7. I tell her that i like her and that i want to talk to her. Her reaction is neutral and the way she came off was that she wanted to keep shopping. BUT, i plowed regardless of her reactions. Asked her what she was shopping for, said just stuff, i went into a little how i was getting stuff too. She then says in the same manner, "Well ur not gonna find any in this store" I told her, "Yea..course not :-) Im only here cuz im talking to you" She has a little laugh but that's really it. I ejected since i didn't think anything would come of it just telling her that i'll let her keep shopping, she says thanks.

#3 Was a late 30s latina woman. Its hard to describe her, she had the vibe of a gorgeous woman, but looks she was a 7ish in the face. But yea, i see her walking...kinda not sure if i should at first, then change my mind. Before she walks ahead, i stop her diagonally in front of her. I tell her i find her gorgeous and that i'll talk to her. She says thanks with a polite smile and is still walking. From what i could hear, she couldn't speak english that well...plus she might've been married. Who knows.

#4 Last approach was a cute blonde in express. She was also goin to the UNI i was. Tried to hug her after opening her, but she didn't want to. Talked to her for a few minutes, but i didn't sense interest from her.

All in all, am now 50% relaxed of what i was back on campus, so its not bad.